Do you wish you had more time to build your business? - GoFuckYourself.com

PornHero · 03-04-2005, 07:48 AM

Over my years in this business I've tried many a time to help out my friends and teach them what I know.

After spending countless conversations and hours training them they finally knew enough to get started in this business.

But I found out I can lead a horse to water but I can't make the bitch drink.

The biggest complaint I heard from alot of them was:

"I wish I had more time!"

Well, don't we all?

Now I have it pretty good when it comes to my ability to take advantage of opportunities in this business. I am young, healthy, single and live on my own.

I don't have an office job, a wife nagging me, kids to feed, a lawn to mow, I can spend the majority of my time building my business if I want. And I do.

But if you have alot more responsibilities that demand your time and attention and you have that feeling of "Fuck! I know I can make alot of money in this business, if only I had more time!" then here is my advice to you.

1. Schedule.

2. Work.

3. Don't Hate. Appreciate.

Let's go through each of them.

1. Schedule:
Refers to the fact you need to sit down and figure out exactly how much time you can devote to your business. Map out the schedule of your regular week. Work 9 to 5? Block that time out. Have to make supper and help the kids with their homework each night? that's at least 2 hours an evening. Figure out exactly how much time you have free to work on this business whether it be 4 hours a week or 40. You need to figure the exact number of hours out and have the number in your head.

Already know the number? Good, you are ahead of alot of people already.

2. Work:
Ok, once you've figured out how much time you have and you have the number in your head its time to go to work. By that I mean when that free time comes up in your schedule dont spend most of it in Fucking Around & Program Discussion on GFY. Concentrate on building your business. You are in the real estate business and every page you build, every site you submit is adding to your real estate on the internet. Too tired that night to build an entire freesite? OK then just concentrate on building ONE page. Link to it from one of your sites then go to bed. One page is better than writing off the night and spending it posting in useless threads.

To succeed in this business, just like any other, requires you to form productive habits. And if you make it a habit to be as productive as you can then you will start seeing the difference it makes with the money in your mailbox. Every time you upload a page to the internet and it gets linked whether from your sites or someone else's you are being productive. And don't forget, the Google monster will find it ;)

3. Don't Hate. Appreciate:
Still with me? Great. You've gone further than most people that will click on this thread. Congratulations. You have what it takes to make it in this biz. Now lets talk about the responsibilities that demand your time. Do you have a wife, 2 kids, a volunteer position and a house that requires your attention? Appreciate them all.

If your wife/husband is calling you from upstairs, the kids are fighting in the basement, the phone is ringing and you resent them all at that moment because you just want some peace and quiet to figure out why the damn image you just uploaded is not showing up on your page then stop and take a breather.

Love your wife/husband, they will be there for you when the people in this business aren't. Appreciate your kids. I wish I had some

Be glad of your friends, house and any other things in your life that requires your time.

This business is going to be around for a long time, and people who arent even in it yet are going to become financially independent from it. You dont need to feel that sense of urgency and regret of not having as much time as you wish to learn/do more. Be grateful you know about this business! It gives you hope of escaping the rat race. Many people dont have that hope and are destined to a life of working for the man.

Just schedule your time, be productive when you can and be appreciative of what you have been blessed with and one day you'll be making posts like this too.

PornHero out.

Herb Kornfield · 03-04-2005, 07:56 AM

Good Post - My business Mainstream business has been under a MAJOR change that has proven to be one of the most profitable ones I have been a part of in the past few years.

Mainstream internet is nothing short of a goldmine anymore

Optic · 03-04-2005, 08:05 AM

Good post.

Aslo getting a habit of managing your own time it becomes easier to lead other people. The distributing of responsibility is of very importance too.

SomeCreep · 03-04-2005, 08:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PornHero

here is my advice to you.

1. Schedule.

2. Work.

3. Don't Hate. Appreciate.

PornHero out.

4. Procreate, lactate, and masturbate.

SomeCreep out.

BVF · 03-04-2005, 09:01 AM

good post, however, unless you've ACTUALLY had a nagging wife and kids, you really can't give advice about that part.

Pete-KT · 03-04-2005, 09:03 AM

good post but doesnt apply to me thank you though

thaifan99 · 03-04-2005, 09:05 AM

yep.more time....more $$....more people to help!

E.Kant · 03-04-2005, 09:06 AM

good advices , found myself in such situations many times but did exactly waht you wrote and it helped !

Violetta · 03-04-2005, 09:06 AM

I have a gf, an offlinejob and school! So I would say YES I wish I had more time for this buiz

jt420 · 03-04-2005, 09:11 AM

excellent post.

woj · 03-04-2005, 09:13 AM

good advice...

Tala · 03-04-2005, 09:14 AM

Good post. Bookmarked.

PornHero · 03-04-2005, 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BVF

good post, however, unless you've ACTUALLY had a nagging wife and kids, you really can't give advice about that part.

Hey BVF, what up man!

lol, well, I did have a nagging 5-year girlfriend when I started out... its the principle though, everyone's got shit to deal with, my basic message is to just learn to chillax.

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JFPdude · 03-04-2005, 09:34 AM

Great Post again man.

I have the nagging wife (hope she don't read that), 3kids, horses, chickens. I have found I have to spend time with all of them everyday.

I used to get bogged down in this industry, take on more work than I can handle, and get all stressed out and became very unproductive.

Since I have returned I now ask for help on my own sites when I take on to much outside work.

I also make sure to get away from the computer more and take rides on my motorcycle or horses to ease the stress.

P.S. your posts this week are the best I have seen on GFY in a long long time.

PornHero · 03-04-2005, 09:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JFPdude

Great Post again man.

I have the nagging wife (hope she don't read that), 3kids, horses, chickens. I have found I have to spend time with all of them everyday.

I used to get bogged down in this industry, take on more work than I can handle, and get all stressed out and became very unproductive.

Since I have returned I now ask for help on my own sites when I take on to much outside work.

I also make sure to get away from the computer more and take rides on my motorcycle or horses to ease the stress.

P.S. your posts this week are the best I have seen on GFY in a long long time.

Thanks JFPdude!

Its nice to know people can recognize the value of these posts. Make sure to pay attention whenever I mention anything about "building" cuz those are the little secrets that have made me reach this level.

For example in my post above, one of my secrets I gave away is to build something and make sure its linked somehow everyday that I possible can. Its amazing how it adds up.

I have alot more information to give so look for my posts.

Manowar · 03-04-2005, 10:08 AM

Very good post.

Basic_man · 03-04-2005, 10:12 AM

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Aquarius · 03-04-2005, 10:16 AM

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03-04-2005, 07:48 AM	#1
PornHero Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Posts: 1,381	Do you wish you had more time to build your business? Over my years in this business I've tried many a time to help out my friends and teach them what I know. After spending countless conversations and hours training them they finally knew enough to get started in this business. But I found out I can lead a horse to water but I can't make the bitch drink. The biggest complaint I heard from alot of them was: "I wish I had more time!" Well, don't we all? Now I have it pretty good when it comes to my ability to take advantage of opportunities in this business. I am young, healthy, single and live on my own. I don't have an office job, a wife nagging me, kids to feed, a lawn to mow, I can spend the majority of my time building my business if I want. And I do. But if you have alot more responsibilities that demand your time and attention and you have that feeling of "Fuck! I know I can make alot of money in this business, if only I had more time!" then here is my advice to you. 1. Schedule. 2. Work. 3. Don't Hate. Appreciate. Let's go through each of them. 1. Schedule: Refers to the fact you need to sit down and figure out exactly how much time you can devote to your business. Map out the schedule of your regular week. Work 9 to 5? Block that time out. Have to make supper and help the kids with their homework each night? that's at least 2 hours an evening. Figure out exactly how much time you have free to work on this business whether it be 4 hours a week or 40. You need to figure the exact number of hours out and have the number in your head. Already know the number? Good, you are ahead of alot of people already. 2. Work: Ok, once you've figured out how much time you have and you have the number in your head its time to go to work. By that I mean when that free time comes up in your schedule dont spend most of it in Fucking Around & Program Discussion on GFY. Concentrate on building your business. You are in the real estate business and every page you build, every site you submit is adding to your real estate on the internet. Too tired that night to build an entire freesite? OK then just concentrate on building ONE page. Link to it from one of your sites then go to bed. One page is better than writing off the night and spending it posting in useless threads. To succeed in this business, just like any other, requires you to form productive habits. And if you make it a habit to be as productive as you can then you will start seeing the difference it makes with the money in your mailbox. Every time you upload a page to the internet and it gets linked whether from your sites or someone else's you are being productive. And don't forget, the Google monster will find it ;) 3. Don't Hate. Appreciate: Still with me? Great. You've gone further than most people that will click on this thread. Congratulations. You have what it takes to make it in this biz. Now lets talk about the responsibilities that demand your time. Do you have a wife, 2 kids, a volunteer position and a house that requires your attention? Appreciate them all. If your wife/husband is calling you from upstairs, the kids are fighting in the basement, the phone is ringing and you resent them all at that moment because you just want some peace and quiet to figure out why the damn image you just uploaded is not showing up on your page then stop and take a breather. Love your wife/husband, they will be there for you when the people in this business aren't. Appreciate your kids. I wish I had some Be glad of your friends, house and any other things in your life that requires your time. This business is going to be around for a long time, and people who arent even in it yet are going to become financially independent from it. You dont need to feel that sense of urgency and regret of not having as much time as you wish to learn/do more. Be grateful you know about this business! It gives you hope of escaping the rat race. Many people dont have that hope and are destined to a life of working for the man. Just schedule your time, be productive when you can and be appreciative of what you have been blessed with and one day you'll be making posts like this too. PornHero out. __________________ PornHero.com

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JFPdude Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Mountains of Western North Carolina. Posts: 4,027	Great Post again man. I have the nagging wife (hope she don't read that), 3kids, horses, chickens. I have found I have to spend time with all of them everyday. I used to get bogged down in this industry, take on more work than I can handle, and get all stressed out and became very unproductive. Since I have returned I now ask for help on my own sites when I take on to much outside work. I also make sure to get away from the computer more and take rides on my motorcycle or horses to ease the stress. P.S. your posts this week are the best I have seen on GFY in a long long time.

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