![]() |
![]() |
![]() |
||||
Welcome to the GoFuckYourself.com - Adult Webmaster Forum forums. You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact us. |
![]() ![]() |
|
Discuss what's fucking going on, and which programs are best and worst. One-time "program" announcements from "established" webmasters are allowed. |
|
Thread Tools |
![]() |
#1 |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
ladies, have you ever dated someone younger than you?
if you have dated a guy younger than you, how big was the age differnce? and did it work it?
i have girlfriend (thats 24) and shes dating a 21 yr old and shes having alot of problems with him. she feels like shes "schooling" him. any advice you would give to someone dating a younger guy? ![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#2 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: NC
Posts: 8,323
|
G'morning sweet thang...
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#3 |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
hey you! ;)
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#4 |
Confirmed User
Industry Role:
Join Date: Sep 2003
Location: (Still) One Touch Cockie
Posts: 3,821
|
haha, i did once. only 1 year difference and he was mature so it worked nicely. typicallly i like them a little older as guys mature at a much differrent rate then woman do.
__________________
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#5 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
ya i agree |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#6 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: indianapolis
Posts: 877
|
I married one 5.5 years younger than me. He's quite the challenge.
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#7 |
Spread The Pink!
Join Date: Nov 2004
Location: pinktown!
Posts: 8,229
|
i think between 21 and 24 is a bigger difference in maturity levels, goals, etc. than say between 31 and 34. the only time i ever dated a younger boy he was 16 and i was um 21..SHHH! needless to say it was entirely for a good romp and not at all for a serious relationship, didn't last too long!
![]() ![]()
__________________
tassy*PINK * ICQ ~ 318*097*066 * |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#8 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
thats one of the biggest problems my friend is having. |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#9 | |
Too lazy to set a custom title
Join Date: Jul 2002
Posts: 40,377
|
Quote:
![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#10 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: 1123,6536,5231
Posts: 3,397
|
Hey I am not THAT much younger. Are you upset with me?
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#11 |
Confirmed User
Industry Role:
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Upstate, New York
Posts: 8,187
|
I was involved with someone younger last year when I was 24... I was 4 years older. It didn't work out but not because of the age difference. People are mature and immature at all different ages... so you really can't force anyone to be what you want them to be. If she's hoping he will be "more like her" or something like that, it's a waste of time. It's best that people mature/evolve/change on their own, because if you try to force someone to do something, they will grow to resent you. And if she's trying to get a serious relationship out of someone who isn't ready for one, she's wasting her time on that as well. It sounds like they just aren't compatible if she feels the need to "correct" the way he is. I don't know enough about them or their relationship, but she can't act like his 'mommy' all the time by 'schooling him'... she has to be his peer or it's a disaster waiting to happen.
__________________
Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue ![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#12 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Philadelphia
Posts: 1,625
|
My boyfriend is 10 years younger i am 35 he is 25. Lots of differences. But he makes me feel younger and more alive and I help him be a better man!!!
It is not easy. We are quite opposite so we learn lots of different things from eachother. But you must have patience!
__________________
SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#13 | |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: indianapolis
Posts: 877
|
Quote:
He might feel like I'm his mom because we are similiar in certain ways, but I don't think I'm motherly. He's been very mature and has had a good head on his shoulders his whole life. Don't think he knew what he was getting into when he married me but after 5 years of marriage it's just become somewhat normal. He probably has regrets that he didn't go out and fuck more girls and have more fun. |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#14 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
i think thats one of the problems her man is having. hes starting to disappear more lately, no answering his cell phone....i told her it sounds like hes cheating on her. and for him to just have turned 21, and her already knowing what 21 felt like, she should know what he is/wants to be doing. however, theres always guys that are an exception...the guys that are truly faithful and truly dont wanna go out and party all the time. (although, in her case, thats not what her boyfriend is) thanks for all the replies ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#15 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
![]() ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#16 |
Too lazy to set a custom title
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Buffalo, NY
Posts: 35,218
|
i was 22 and dated a 36 year old it was a sexual thing
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#17 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
noicceeeeeee ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#18 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Scottsdale
Posts: 1,584
|
In college I dated someone 2 years younger. Boy could you tell.
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#19 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: ICQ 341530034
Posts: 1,593
|
I have ONLY dated younger men. I've tried to date older men, but I felt this need to be 'mature' or to try to act my age, whatever that means. I'm 28 and the last guy that I dated (lived with) was 21. When I was 27 I dated a guy over a year who was 22, and when I was 25 my bf was 19. I'm slowly dating men closer to my age. I find that the younger men offer me what I need. I like sex, I like adventure, I like to go out, have fun, don't want a lot of responsibility at this point, so men closer to my age or older tend to make me feel smothered, pushed in the mom/wife direction. I just dated a guy who was 27 and it was aweful, he wanted like the bestfriend, bf-gf relationship, but was completely content to not have sex. VERY frustrating, the young ones are always ready, willing, and able... I've yet to meet a guy 21 who will turn down a romp in the park. However, if he's older, mature, and established, its to be expected he doesn't want to do things that could reflect poorly on his career, etc.
Advice, boys are boys, they want fun, adventure, sex, and nothing that resembles a future longer than next weekend. When you date a guy who's younger, don't bring up a concert at the end of summer you'd like to go to with him, focus on what you're doing this week and this coming weekend, because most of them will run as soon as they see themselves in a situation that resembles committment and exclusiveness ;) The art of dating younger men, is making them think that you're doing THEM a favor, they should be lucky to attain your time, cause after all, your an older, educated, & more experienced woman! ![]() ![]()
__________________
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#21 | |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: indianapolis
Posts: 877
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#22 |
Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 24
|
I'm 23 and like my chicks 18 ;)
P.S. I'm very mature in some ways and like a 12 year old in other ways. |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#23 | |
Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 24
|
Quote:
You are so right. I HATE, yes hate, people that act like they had a slow week if they didn't hit the club 1 time in a 7 day period lol. |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#24 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
![]() ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#25 |
The one and only!
Industry Role:
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Atlanta, GA
Posts: 17,761
|
when i was senior in high school i dated a freshman. so that was a 2-3 year difference in age.
but ever since that, all my boyfriends have been older.
__________________
Mandy's Playhouse Her First Fat Girl If you're interested in promoting my sites, ICQ me! 178411921 |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#26 |
Grrrrrrrrr
Industry Role:
Join Date: Oct 2002
Location: Dreamland
Posts: 4,974
|
Younger guys are good for fucking and having fun...but not much else (in my opinion). As far as a "meaningful" relationship with a mature, intelligent (and fun) guy...I'd stay closer to my own age. My boyfriend is just year younger than me...but I think is stuck at about 23 years old mentally...still wants to go clubbing, and to raves and all that junk, which I'm pretty much past.
So my final answer is...fuck em and chuck em. =) |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#27 |
Too lazy to set a custom title
Join Date: Mar 2004
Posts: 10,579
|
thats a pretty big age difference in her case..
__________________
![]()
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#28 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: PANAMA
Posts: 454
|
you can date a guy of 20 that is very mentally mature that will depends on the person!!!
__________________
![]() [email protected] This is as simple as it gets!!! 30+ products to promote....All webmasters accepted....All traffic accepted....Downloadable executables....and much more!!! |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#29 | |
I AM WEB 2.0
Industry Role:
Join Date: Jan 2003
Posts: 28,682
|
Quote:
lol i have to disagree with u there, guys who date women much younger than them at that age do it because they are losers and know they cant get women their own age. its the entire "wow he is 24" type deal. Like Tassy said there is a big diff between 21 and 24 from 31 to 34. each to their own i guess. ![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#30 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Nov 2004
Posts: 3,162
|
I'm married to one. He's younger then me for only a few months though.
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#31 |
Registered User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Posts: 39
|
my girlfriend is one year older then me. I am 18 shes 19 and we get along pretty well, I dun know dating for 1 year now, I dont think age really has anything to do with it, because if someone is mature at the age of 18 someone can act like a 12 year old at the age of 24 or older so i guess it depends on the person.
__________________
http://www.splitinfinity.com |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#32 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Dec 2004
Posts: 187
|
I became involved with someone much younger. Did it work out? Well, we will be married for 7 years come April, and still going strong. We compliment each other.
__________________
![]() Professional design, development, and "grunt work" for webmasters and sponsors at reasonable prices. NOT OFFSHORED. ICQ: 312068826 ::: AIM: CoreAdult :: Check us out |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#33 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: XXXBigRed@Twitter
Posts: 9,586
|
![]() You ladies feeling the Demi Moore syndrome or what. The majority of women I dated were older ,I learned from them now its kinda switching like I'm dating younger girls and giving them some life experience. Its all good I figure keep it light keep it fun .
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#34 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Nov 2004
Posts: 3,162
|
Props to Demi Moore
![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#35 |
ICQ 1 6 7 8 5 3 4 9 2
Join Date: Feb 2003
Posts: 13,098
|
women always like the younger guys from my experience
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#36 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 991
|
I'm not a lady but I've dated women older then myself. Not by more then a few years but older still. I personally enjoyed it moreso then dating girls younger or the same age, they seemed to be more goal oriented and capable of working through issues imho.
__________________
who | grep -i blonde | date; cd ~; unzip; touch; strip; finger; mount; gasp; yes; uptime; umount; sleep |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#37 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: Riverside,CA
Posts: 583
|
My boyfriend is 1 year and 3 months younger then me.
why do I have an exact date?? because he "fibbed" to me for a year and I thought we origionaly had only a 3 month age difference.. He told me he never found the time to tell me the truth. I found out the truth when his father blurted something out around his birthday this year. Now I have to wait even longer for him to be 21 |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#38 |
Confirmed User
Industry Role:
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 3,574
|
If she's as cute as you, Babagirls - I'm single
![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#39 |
Confirmed User
Industry Role:
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 3,574
|
And I can cook :D
![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#40 | |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Southern California
Posts: 1,616
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#41 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: NY
Posts: 9,507
|
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#42 | |
Text Writer
Join Date: Feb 2001
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 18,812
|
Quote:
![]() |
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#43 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: ICQ 241-656-086
Posts: 384
|
A friend of mine who's 24 is MARRIED (Yes, MARRIED!) to a 48 year old woman!!!
![]() |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#44 |
Too lazy to set a custom title
Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Jesusland
Posts: 10,017
|
This thread has inspired me. I'm going to start cruising the high schools and community college.
__________________
War National Damn Champions Eagle |
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#45 | |
Too lazy to set a custom title
Join Date: Jul 2002
Posts: 40,377
|
Quote:
|
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#46 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: if i told you, then THEY'D know
Posts: 934
|
I dated a guy that was 6 years younger then me, we dated for 3 years... as long as he's not more then 8 years older or younger i'm cool...
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
![]() |
#47 |
Confirmed User
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Dirty 3rd
Posts: 4,216
|
Who wants some hot freshly squeezed hydro?
|
![]() |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |