Guys with girls: How do you respond to another guy who does this to your girl... - GoFuckYourself.com

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:13 PM

who turns around and loudly says "DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!" very noticably as you just walk past them?

Does it (or would it) make you angry? or would it not bother you in the slightest and/or make you feel proud?

Personally, I can't fucking stand that shit - keep your fucking comments to yourself.

freeadultcontent · 02-09-2005, 03:17 PM

Be dickish and start a confrontation, or just be content with knowing your girl is that hot. If you wish to avoid it, switch to ugly girls.

To me it is rude yet I do not get upset.

Harmon · 02-09-2005, 03:18 PM

I would stop and turn around and stare the fucker down. If he stopped I'd say YOU GOT HEAT BITCH? If he approached me I'd smash my fist so far through to the back of his fuckin head, he would be tasting the cheese from under my finger nails for a month

sweetME · 02-09-2005, 03:18 PM

My husband throws a punch. I'm taking him to a srink every Monday and Wednesday to learn to control his temper.

MetaMan · 02-09-2005, 03:19 PM

if i am standing next to her while this happens and he noticably makes a rude remark i will knock his ass to the ground without hesitation, people need to learn respect, some need to be taught it the hard way.

sickkittens · 02-09-2005, 03:20 PM

I'd kindof laugh at him for saying "DAYYYYYUUUMMMMMMM"

Taboo · 02-09-2005, 03:20 PM

usually my girlfriend gives them the finger... or I tell them:

"Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..."

and then we walk away.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:21 PM

well it happened to me once and i did give just a stern stair while walking away - it was a group of black dudes although i do have a temper issue myself so if they continued it on i would have easily ran at them, go insane, play with their blood, etc...

mortenb · 02-09-2005, 03:22 PM

I tell them to go fuck themselves.. Usually people back down I talk shit.. Muscle helps a bit too..

Monique Niccole · 02-09-2005, 03:22 PM

I'm a girl...but I think you should just give a look over your shoulder to acknowledge that you heard it and ain't punking out, but it's not getting under your skin. If you go up to confront the guy and get in his face, then your girl starts to think you're an out of control, violent, nutbag.

MandyBlake · 02-09-2005, 03:22 PM

i honestly think tony would think it was cool

and so would i

Martin · 02-09-2005, 03:22 PM

Yeah man that fucking stupid.. If I was bigger then the guy and think I could take him I'd tell him to shut his hole.. Chances are I would anyway because I keep a shank on me most times anyway..

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taboo

usually my girlfriend gives them the finger... or I tell them:

"Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..."

and then we walk away.

i've tried emailing you like 2 or 3 times about your fitness domains because you mentioned the possibility of setting some things up... and i never got a response.

MetaMan · 02-09-2005, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Martin

Yeah man that fucking stupid.. If I was bigger then the guy and think I could take him I'd tell him to shut his hole.. Chance are I would anyway because I keep a shank on my most times anyway..

lol at shank

iwantchixx · 02-09-2005, 03:25 PM

big deal, did he touch her or make a degrading comment? if not, don't be a jealous fool and just keep walking.

Tom_PM · 02-09-2005, 03:25 PM

Thats pretty rude. Guessing he was young and NOT wearing a suit? lol..

Next time say, "It's called a WOMAN."

blazin · 02-09-2005, 03:28 PM

Never happened to me. I wouldn't do it to anyone else either it would be disrepectful.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iwantchixx

big deal, did he touch her or make a degrading comment? if not, don't be a jealous fool and just keep walking.

what does that have to do with jealousy?

it has to do with the fact that some fool is blatantly disrespecting you and your girl. jealousy isn't in the equation, at all.

sweetME · 02-09-2005, 03:30 PM

What do I do about my husband's temper, besides taking him to a shrink every Monday and Wednesday.

Icon · 02-09-2005, 03:33 PM

I take it out on my grilfriend. J/K!

it's a buzz, i get to see her nekked, they make wise ass remarks

videopass-chick · 02-09-2005, 03:34 PM

If the guy is much bigger than you, than just give him a bad stair and walk away. If you can take him on than tell him i would trade her to fuck you mama. And good luck with the rest.

videopass-chick · 02-09-2005, 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweetME

What do I do about my husband's temper, besides taking him to a shrink every Monday and Wednesday.

Tell him picture a very relaxing place in his mind, he also needs to take deep breaths and picture how nice it it to not be in the back of a police car, if he decides to get funky with someone. That usually stops them.

Taboo · 02-09-2005, 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by galleryseek

i've tried emailing you like 2 or 3 times about your fitness domains because you mentioned the possibility of setting some things up... and i never got a response.

put GFY in the subject.

100,000 emails a day that's why.

you'll love the fitness one I'm buying today, in escrow right now!
[email protected]

If you ever need to get my attention, I'm always in my domain sales tracker thread or my building blog empire thread. just post in those...

.

liquidmoe · 02-09-2005, 03:43 PM

A nice hard stare should be enough. If the dude persists afterwards and really gets out of hand showing a complete lack of respect then by all means confront him, but otherwise, there's just no point in being hot headed and trying to show off to your girl how tough you are.

Also, dayuum, isnt really that disrespectful, its more complimentary, I mean if he said something like "I'd fuck that bitch" or some kind of cursing then its a different story.

Anyway, just

Pornopat · 02-09-2005, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taboo

usually my girlfriend gives them the finger... or I tell them:

"Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..."

and then we walk away.

Yep...My response has been the same so far.

Some months ago We were walking down the street and I heard somebody whistling. I was ready to make my usual comment and then I saw...It was a chick really whistling at me!

Loryn · 02-09-2005, 03:44 PM

If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!!

I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class. Turning around and saying something funny and/or acknowledging his cat call with a smile, then kissing me or grabbing my ass and winking at him, or anything like that, would be funny and would make the situation light. Also he would turn it around and gain control of the situation and come out on top. Mentally telling someone to fuck off without saying the words fuck off, and having a smile as you do it, is classy and funny. Nine times out of ten the dumbass that makes cat calls at a girl who is with her man has a child mentality, so they usually don't get the fact that they have been told to fuck off until after the guy and girl have left. Then they really feel stupid and immature. Much deeper effect that way!!!

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Taboo

put GFY in the subject.

100,000 emails a day that's why.

you'll love the fitness one I'm buying today, in escrow right now!
[email protected]

If you ever need to get my attention, I'm always in my domain sales tracker thread or my building blog empire thread. just post in those...

.

sent..... ;)

Tom_PM · 02-09-2005, 03:48 PM

Good answer I think, Loryn.

Pornwolf · 02-09-2005, 03:49 PM

What's wrong with you guys? Everytime that happens to me I just look at them with a sly smirk like, "Yep, this is my chick. She's a bad motherfucker and I know it. Life sucks for you doesn't it."

I love it. That's a perk of dating hot women. Enjoy it. If you had an ugly women, which some of you do, you get an opposite reaction like grimaces on other people's faces and stuff. What do you do then?

CrazyNakedChick · 02-09-2005, 03:50 PM

(for something that benign) as the chick i'd ignore the remark, just plain pretend i didn't even hear it.....

....but i would reach over and squeeze my guy's cute ass, pull him tight and kiss his cheek ever so sweetly and keep on walkin'.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Loryn-Adult.com

If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!!

I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class. Turning around and saying something funny and/or acknowledging his cat call with a smile, then kissing me or grabbing my ass and winking at him, or anything like that, would be funny and would make the situation light. Also he would turn it around and gain control of the situation and come out on top. Mentally telling someone to fuck off without saying the words fuck off, and having a smile as you do it, is classy and funny. Nine times out of ten the dumbass that makes cat calls at a girl who is with her man has a child mentality, so they usually don't get the fact that they have been told to fuck off until after the guy and girl have left. Then they really feel stupid and immature. Much deeper effect that way!!!

yeah, i'm not saying deck the guy or act overly defensive.

rollinOn20s · 02-09-2005, 03:50 PM

I'd love to see half of you guys throw a punch. More like a sissy slap!

el_greco · 02-09-2005, 03:50 PM

That happens to my wife and I a lot. I generally just grab her ass/look behind me and smile.

TheMob · 02-09-2005, 03:51 PM

That's why I choose to live in this country, where an honest man can carry a gun.

Gabriel · 02-09-2005, 03:52 PM

This thread is funny.

Its all about respect. Respect given and respect shown.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pornwolf

What's wrong with you guys? Everytime that happens to me I just look at them with a sly smirk like, "Yep, this is my chick. She's a bad motherfucker and I know it. Life sucks for you doesn't it."

I love it. That's a perk of dating hot women. Enjoy it. If you had an ugly women, which some of you do, you get an opposite reaction like grimaces on other people's faces and stuff. What do you do then?

but what if you love her? this is someone you'd die for - the very last thing i want on my mind is a uncontrollable mental image of some skinny black dude porking my girlfriend (because I know that's his intentions).

and mainly, those who make those comments make them in the first place just to get a reaction out of the guy - pure disrespect. there is nothing but negativity associated from the action - which will breed a negative reaction. i couldn't ever feel peachy/positive from shit like that.

Tony Montana · 02-09-2005, 03:55 PM

Id stab him in the face with a sodering iron then cut off his legs with a chain saw

ssp · 02-09-2005, 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PR_Tom

Thats pretty rude. Guessing he was young and NOT wearing a suit? lol..

Next time say, "It's called a WOMAN."

"IT"??????

hahaha talk about rudeness. no sex for you tonight.

ArkansasDave · 02-09-2005, 04:01 PM

I dont think thats a big deal. I would take it as a compliment if your gals hot. If shes ugly then I would be pissed at myself.

ronaldo · 02-09-2005, 04:02 PM

If my wife thought he was an ugly mofo, then I'd start making out with her...just for jealousy purposes.

If she thought he was good looking, I'd throw a nice high price at him and start negotiations.

Bling Bling

Tom_PM · 02-09-2005, 04:02 PM

LOL, well if you said "She's called a woman" then the dude would look at you and scratch his head.. he clearly doesnt know what it is! right?? hehe ;)

I love and repect women, dont pick on me

Kimmykim · 02-09-2005, 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Loryn-Adult.com

If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!!

I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class.

Amen sistah ;)

Men that can control themselves and act like they aren't fools are few and far between.

Sean · 02-09-2005, 04:06 PM

your walking by someone who objectifies a woman that you
care about and love, or she might just be your companion
for the evening. your reaction in the situation is important.
its important that you do not further objectify her. reacting
based on your insecurities, versus acting with respect for her,
is objecting her once again. she is not an object that belongs
to you. ask her how she feels about the situation, how
she wanted to react, and what role she wants you to play.

that is respecting her, because making it about you, is turning
her into a possession instead of a partner.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 04:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Pimp

your walking by someone who objectifies a woman that you
care about and love, or she might just be your companion
for the evening. your reaction in the situation is important.
its important that you do not further objectify her. reacting
based on your insecurities, versus acting with respect for her,
is objecting her once again. she is not an object that belongs
to you. ask her how she feels about the situation, how
she wanted to react, and what role she wants you to play.

that is respecting her, because making it about you, is turning
her into a possession instead of a partner.

hahaha. i'm sorry but that doctor phil shit doesn't work in real world situations.

Sean · 02-09-2005, 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by galleryseek

hahaha. i'm sorry but that doctor phil shit doesn't work in real world situations.

yes it does. but i dont know who doctor phil is. i need to watch tv more and be on the internet less

respect comes in different forms. ask her how she feels about it

tASSy · 02-09-2005, 04:13 PM

as a woman i also find it a bit obnoxious when a guy says something like that as i walk by, but when you're in a bar and a guy stares or something, i'm a little flattered. it's even hotter when my man notices things like that and looks at me proudly. when dealing with the obnoxious types we just look at each other and laugh at how pathetic that guy is, because he's never going to have something like this with cat calls like that.

Deepai · 02-09-2005, 04:15 PM

I think you have no choice but to get violent.

galleryseek · 02-09-2005, 04:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tASSy

as a woman i also find it a bit obnoxious when a guy says something like that as i walk by, but when you're in a bar and a guy stares or something, i'm a little flattered. it's even hotter when my man notices things like that and looks at me proudly. when dealing with the obnoxious types we just look at each other and laugh at how pathetic that guy is, because he's never going to have something like this with cat calls like that.

eh i dunno, i always look at my girl proudly - the last thing on my mind when someone makes a disrespectful remark is joining him in the experience...

Loryn · 02-09-2005, 04:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Pimp

yes it does. but i dont know who doctor phil is. i need to watch tv more and be on the internet less

respect comes in different forms. ask her how she feels about it

You are very right!!!

CrazyNakedChick · 02-09-2005, 04:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Pimp

....because making it about you, is turning
her into a possession instead of a partner.

exactly.

territorial pissing is not impressive nor is it healthy.

loryn has some great points as well.

02-09-2005, 03:13 PM	#1
galleryseek Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 8,234	Guys with girls: How do you respond to another guy who does this to your girl... who turns around and loudly says "DAAAYYYYYUUUMMMMN!" very noticably as you just walk past them? Does it (or would it) make you angry? or would it not bother you in the slightest and/or make you feel proud? Personally, I can't fucking stand that shit - keep your fucking comments to yourself.

02-09-2005, 03:17 PM	#2
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02-09-2005, 03:18 PM	#3
Harmon ( ͡ʘ╭͜ʖ╮͡ʘ) Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 20,010	I would stop and turn around and stare the fucker down. If he stopped I'd say YOU GOT HEAT BITCH? If he approached me I'd smash my fist so far through to the back of his fuckin head, he would be tasting the cheese from under my finger nails for a month __________________ [email protected]

02-09-2005, 03:18 PM	#4
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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	if i am standing next to her while this happens and he noticably makes a rude remark i will knock his ass to the ground without hesitation, people need to learn respect, some need to be taught it the hard way.

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Taboo Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: I'd rather be networking than not working. Posts: 3,700	usually my girlfriend gives them the finger... or I tell them: "Sorry man, I'm not into that... I like girls..." and then we walk away.

02-09-2005, 03:21 PM	#8
galleryseek Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 8,234	well it happened to me once and i did give just a stern stair while walking away - it was a group of black dudes although i do have a temper issue myself so if they continued it on i would have easily ran at them, go insane, play with their blood, etc...

02-09-2005, 03:22 PM	#9
mortenb Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Denmark ICQ: 7880009 Posts: 2,203	I tell them to go fuck themselves.. Usually people back down I talk shit.. Muscle helps a bit too..

02-09-2005, 03:22 PM	#10
Monique Niccole Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: San Francisco Posts: 5,653	I'm a girl...but I think you should just give a look over your shoulder to acknowledge that you heard it and ain't punking out, but it's not getting under your skin. If you go up to confront the guy and get in his face, then your girl starts to think you're an out of control, violent, nutbag.

02-09-2005, 03:22 PM	#11
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02-09-2005, 03:22 PM	#12
Martin "Assassins" Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: At home Posts: 17,277	Yeah man that fucking stupid.. If I was bigger then the guy and think I could take him I'd tell him to shut his hole.. Chances are I would anyway because I keep a shank on me most times anyway.. __________________

02-09-2005, 03:25 PM	#15
iwantchixx Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: The Boonies Posts: 12,860	big deal, did he touch her or make a degrading comment? if not, don't be a jealous fool and just keep walking.

02-09-2005, 03:25 PM	#16
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02-09-2005, 03:30 PM	#19
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02-09-2005, 03:33 PM	#20
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02-09-2005, 03:34 PM	#21
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02-09-2005, 03:43 PM	#24
liquidmoe Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 4,994	A nice hard stare should be enough. If the dude persists afterwards and really gets out of hand showing a complete lack of respect then by all means confront him, but otherwise, there's just no point in being hot headed and trying to show off to your girl how tough you are. Also, dayuum, isnt really that disrespectful, its more complimentary, I mean if he said something like "I'd fuck that bitch" or some kind of cursing then its a different story. Anyway, just __________________ Take Luck!

02-09-2005, 03:44 PM	#26
Loryn Super Connector Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 12,853	If any man walking with me ever reacted like a hoodlum and hit anyone for that, I would wait until we got home and I would knock his ass out and tell him to hit the curb. If you have to hit someone for cat calling your girlfriend then I think you need to think about your relationship with your girlfriend. Maybe you don't trust her as much as you think!!! I want to be with an adult who is a gentlemen with class. Turning around and saying something funny and/or acknowledging his cat call with a smile, then kissing me or grabbing my ass and winking at him, or anything like that, would be funny and would make the situation light. Also he would turn it around and gain control of the situation and come out on top. Mentally telling someone to fuck off without saying the words fuck off, and having a smile as you do it, is classy and funny. Nine times out of ten the dumbass that makes cat calls at a girl who is with her man has a child mentality, so they usually don't get the fact that they have been told to fuck off until after the guy and girl have left. Then they really feel stupid and immature. Much deeper effect that way!!! __________________ ~ loryn@loryntaylor . com ~ RIP TD

02-09-2005, 03:48 PM	#28
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02-09-2005, 04:06 PM	#43
Sean revolutionforce.com Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: i moved from an ICQ box to a Skype box. left the skype box for a telegram box Posts: 2,909	your walking by someone who objectifies a woman that you care about and love, or she might just be your companion for the evening. your reaction in the situation is important. its important that you do not further objectify her. reacting based on your insecurities, versus acting with respect for her, is objecting her once again. she is not an object that belongs to you. ask her how she feels about the situation, how she wanted to react, and what role she wants you to play. that is respecting her, because making it about you, is turning her into a possession instead of a partner. __________________ -sean skype: sean.a.christian sean @ revolutionforce.com

02-09-2005, 04:13 PM	#46
tASSy Spread The Pink! Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: pinktown! Posts: 8,229	as a woman i also find it a bit obnoxious when a guy says something like that as i walk by, but when you're in a bar and a guy stares or something, i'm a little flattered. it's even hotter when my man notices things like that and looks at me proudly. when dealing with the obnoxious types we just look at each other and laugh at how pathetic that guy is, because he's never going to have something like this with cat calls like that. __________________ tassyPINK ICQ ~ 318097066 *

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