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thefool 02-06-2005 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by bdld
might have to do with the fact that women who are with men who dont use condoms are usually in longer more meaningful relationships and thus would be less depressed.


You're probably right, because I was thinking the same thing. Of the guys that I've had sex with the only ones that I don't use condoms with are guys that I've dated a long time & been in love with, trusted, etc. The sex was far more arousing, exciting, and fulfilling, than the few guys that were condom wearing casual partners. Those times I'm a lil more self conscious, a little more uptight, not breaking out the toys, raunchy talk, etc. I wouldnt say I'm depressed more with them, but after sometimes I'm much less pleased with myself, because I had sex with someone that I really didnt care about, for the sake of having sex, and not for the bond that comes with it, when you're in a rewarding relationship. When I am in love, I SOOOO love to give oral, and theres really nothing that I wouldnt do to please my partner, and knowing he's finishing inside is a HUGE boost of confidence! If he has to pull out and jerk himself off to come, that could be a real ego crusher lol Maybe thats why those woman are suicidal, they're worried they cant make men cum! ;) who knows, good article though! :thumbsup

S P A N N O W 02-06-2005 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by thefool
You're probably right, because I was thinking the same thing. Of the guys that I've had sex with the only ones that I don't use condoms with are guys that I've dated a long time & been in love with, trusted, etc. The sex was far more arousing, exciting, and fulfilling, than the few guys that were condom wearing casual partners. Those times I'm a lil more self conscious, a little more uptight, not breaking out the toys, raunchy talk, etc. I wouldnt say I'm depressed more with them, but after sometimes I'm much less pleased with myself, because I had sex with someone that I really didnt care about, for the sake of having sex, and not for the bond that comes with it, when you're in a rewarding relationship. When I am in love, I SOOOO love to give oral, and theres really nothing that I wouldnt do to please my partner, and knowing he's finishing inside is a HUGE boost of confidence! If he has to pull out and jerk himself off to come, that could be a real ego crusher lol Maybe thats why those woman are suicidal, they're worried they cant make men cum! ;) who knows, good article though! :thumbsup

Indeed! It's great to get a female perspective on this... :)

The Sultan Of Smut 02-06-2005 10:23 PM

Oooooo, I'm sending it to my gf right now!

thefool 02-06-2005 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by The Sultan Of Smut
Oooooo, I'm sending it to my gf right now!

this thread? or happy juice?? (Houston we need clarification please) :winkwink:

MrJackMeHoff 02-06-2005 10:42 PM

WAIT WAIT WAIT!

This study is stupid. Maybe the people who always use condoms are more "uptight" thus not as free and happy.. Also the people who use condoms dont enjoy sex as much, thus are more sad.. Very simple...

S P A N N O W 02-06-2005 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by MrJackMeHoff
[size=10]...Maybe the people who always use condoms are more "uptight" thus not as free and happy.. Also the people who use condoms dont enjoy sex as much, thus are more sad.. Very simple...

* See "thefools" post! :thumbsup

fatal attraction 02-06-2005 11:06 PM

I've been depressed lately......hmmmm????? Maybe this is the answer! :winkwink:

S P A N N O W 02-06-2005 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by fatal attraction
I've been depressed lately......hmmmm????? Maybe this is the answer! :winkwink:

Hmmm.... http://www.profuzion.com/callme.gif

sonofsam 02-13-2005 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by fatal attraction
I've been depressed lately......hmmmm????? Maybe this is the answer! :winkwink:

if you're a girl.... ummm i kinda feel bad for you... i guess i'll let you suck my dick and bust on your face.... you know... just to help you out and everything..

tASSy 02-13-2005 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by S P A N N O W
Semen acts as an anti-depressant
19:00 26 June 2002
Exclusive from New Scientist Print Edition
Raj Persaud
http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn2457

Semen makes you happy. That's the remarkable conclusion of a study comparing women whose partners wear condoms with those whose partners don't.

The study, which is bound to provoke controversy, showed that the women who were directly exposed to semen were less depressed. The researchers think this is because mood-altering hormones in semen are absorbed through the vagina. They say they have ruled out other explanations.

"I want to make it clear that we are not advocating that people abstain from using condoms," says Gordon Gallup, the psychologist at the State University of New York who led the team. "Clearly an unwanted pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease would more than offset any advantageous psychological effects of semen."

Suicide attempts
His team divided 293 female students into groups depending on how often their partners wore condoms, and assessed their happiness using the Beck Depression Inventory, a standard questionnaire for assessing mood. People who score over 17 are considered moderately depressed.

The team found that women whose partners never used condoms scored 8 on average, those who sometimes used them scored 10.5, those who usually used them scored 15 and those who always used them scored 11.3. Women who weren't having sex at all scored 13.5.

What's more, the longer the interval since they last had sex, the more depressed the women who never or sometimes used condoms got. But the time since the last sexual encounter made no difference to the mood of women who usually or always used condoms.

The team also found that depressive symptoms and suicide attempts were more common among women who used condoms regularly compared with those who didn't. The results will appear in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior.

And Gallup told New Scientist that his team already has unpublished data from a larger group of 700 women confirming these findings. In this study, the always-use-condoms group were more depressed than the usually-use-condoms group, suggesting the discrepancy in the smaller study was a sampling error, he says.

Alternative explanations
But is it really the semen that affects women's mood? The researchers say they looked at alternative explanations such as whether women who seldom use condoms took oral contraceptives, how often they had sex, the strength of relationships, and the possibility that having a certain type of personality influenced the decision to use condoms. But none of these factors can explain their findings, they say.

In fact, the results aren't a complete surprise because semen does contain several mood-altering hormones, including testosterone, oestrogen, follicle-stimulating hormone, luteinising hormone, prolactin and several different prostaglandins. Some of these have been detected in a women's blood within hours of exposure to semen.

The question many people will ask is whether oral sex could have the same mood-enhancing effects. "Since the steroids in birth control pills survive the digestion process, I would assume that the same holds true for at least some of the chemicals in semen," Gallup says.

"I understand that among some gay males who have anal intercourse, it is not uncommon to attempt to retain the semen for extended periods of time," he adds. "Suggesting, of course, that there may be psychological effects." But further research will be needed to confirm whether exposure to semen through oral or anal sex really does affect mood in heterosexual or homosexual partners.

But why should semen have such an effect? "It makes no sense to me for this phenomenon to have evolved," says Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist at the Indiana University of Pennsylvania. But Gallup counters that men whose semen promotes long-term mood enhancement might have more chances to indulge in sexual activity.

i've been saying this for YEARS! finally they're listening! :winkwink:

woj 02-13-2005 04:19 PM

50...........

S P A N N O W 02-13-2005 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by tASSy
i've been saying this for YEARS! finally they're listening! :winkwink:

You're a good lass tASSy and a smart one too! :thumbsup

tungsten 02-13-2005 04:30 PM

what were they thinking when they released this.. oh boy

chupacabra 02-13-2005 04:34 PM

my wife prefers jewelry from Tiffany's above all else, but that is par for the course for any true "kogal princess"... she absorbs plenty of semen orally and anally though, so she *better* not act depressed..!

Pete 02-13-2005 04:37 PM

So thats why my wife laughs uncontrolably.

S P A N N O W 02-13-2005 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by tungsten
what were they thinking when they released this.. oh boy

Should they not have released their findings?

sonofsam 06-05-2005 12:58 AM

:1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

BuggyG 06-05-2005 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by rollinOn20s
Awesome, so let me strart putting smiles on peoples faces!

heheh agree with ya.. sounds like another reason we can use! :thumbsup

sicone 06-05-2005 02:01 AM

Any ladies get depressed in San Diego, dont worry, i will be there the make your day better

Paraskass 06-05-2005 02:12 AM

old fucking news.

NTSS 06-05-2005 02:17 AM

I thinks that study is pretty far fetched. Almost ridiculous

taibo 06-05-2005 04:09 AM

:GFYBand

S P A N N O W 06-05-2005 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by sicone
Any ladies get depressed in San Diego, dont worry, i will be there the make your day better

Make sure you bring back pics of that bro! :winkwink:

College Downtime 06-05-2005 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by rickholio
Which is why this chick is grinning like a mental patient, I guess:

http://www.dirtymofo.com/3011/images/16.jpg

:winkwink:

must be...

reynold 06-05-2005 08:20 PM

That is why I am advocating a condom free intercourse guys!


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