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DWB · 02-04-2005, 03:48 PM

Do you find yourself trying to help your less fortunate or struggling friends out, and always fucking yourself over in the process? I do. Too much.

Whether it be money or time or a combination of the two, I always end up shorting myself to help out those close to me. It seems there is always someone who is chipping away at my valuable time, and in the end I am behind because I tried to help this person. 9 out of 10 times, these people are beyond help anyways and never get a head in life no matter what. Take, take, take... I'm sure you know the kind.

Today I had an epiphany. No more.

Jayo · 02-04-2005, 03:56 PM

Yea thats good of you to help a friend, but sometimes people really need to help themselves. You can only help so much, a person has to want help for it to work

blazin · 02-04-2005, 04:36 PM

Mannnnnn............ I have to say I know exactly what you are going thru..

...having faced a simililar situation recently...

... the more you help someone the more they expect from you.

The Sultan Of Smut · 02-04-2005, 04:38 PM

I think everyone has the one friend that's sort of useless.

Doc911 · 02-04-2005, 05:00 PM

Dude you help those around you because you derive a certain pleasure from it.

Treat it as a hobby instead of a curse. If your "Hobby" gets to expensive or time consuming adjust it as you would any passtime endeavor. If its pleasing and enjoyable then spend as much time or money as you are comfortable with and don't worry about it.

Otherwise take up building model planes or spend your money on something you enjoy more.

just my

02-04-2005, 03:48 PM	#1
DWB Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Encrypted. Access denied. Posts: 31,779	Fucking yourself over... Do you find yourself trying to help your less fortunate or struggling friends out, and always fucking yourself over in the process? I do. Too much. Whether it be money or time or a combination of the two, I always end up shorting myself to help out those close to me. It seems there is always someone who is chipping away at my valuable time, and in the end I am behind because I tried to help this person. 9 out of 10 times, these people are beyond help anyways and never get a head in life no matter what. Take, take, take... I'm sure you know the kind. Today I had an epiphany. No more.

02-04-2005, 03:56 PM	#2
Jayo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 854	Yea thats good of you to help a friend, but sometimes people really need to help themselves. You can only help so much, a person has to want help for it to work __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60. Let me repeat... A 120 x 60 button and no more that 3 lines of DEFAULT SIZE AND COLOR text.

02-04-2005, 04:36 PM	#3
blazin Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 2,781	Mannnnnn............ I have to say I know exactly what you are going thru.. ...having faced a simililar situation recently... ... the more you help someone the more they expect from you. __________________ I don't endorse a god damn thing......

02-04-2005, 05:00 PM	#5
Doc911 Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: If i was up your ass you'd know Posts: 3,695	Dude you help those around you because you derive a certain pleasure from it. Treat it as a hobby instead of a curse. If your "Hobby" gets to expensive or time consuming adjust it as you would any passtime endeavor. If its pleasing and enjoyable then spend as much time or money as you are comfortable with and don't worry about it. Otherwise take up building model planes or spend your money on something you enjoy more. just my __________________ For PHP/MySQL scripts ICQ 161480555 or email [email protected]

02-04-2005, 04:38 PM	#4
The Sultan Of Smut Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Vancouver Posts: 4,325	I think everyone has the one friend that's sort of useless.