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  • RogerV
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    • Jul 2002
    • 12591

    #1

    How many people can you be in love with at once

    do you think there is only one person you can be in love with or can you be in love with mutiple people? is there only one soulmate for everyone.

    I think you can be in love with many people but society makes you choose one to settle with

    or maybe I have never really been in love
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    • Jun 2003
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    #2
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    • sherie
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      • Feb 2002
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      #3
      Lust many, no need to love anyone! lol
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      • Der Schleicher
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        • Jan 2005
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        #4
        Love can occupy two space at the same time.
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        • NinjaSteve
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          • Dec 2003
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          #5
          Everybody has more than one soulmate. If you are with your 'soulmate' and find a better 'soulmate' then that first person is no longer your true soulmate.

          The Model assumes people fall in love because the total benefit of being in love outweighs the total cost of being in love. So the probability of falling in love is related to your perception of the probability of net benefit resulting from being in love. Mathematically, the Model is written as:

          Probability of Love = Probability of ( Net Benefit of Being in Love, Emotional Availability, Past Love Experiences )
          ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
          Net Benefit = Total Benefit - Total Cost
          ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
          Total Benefit = friendship + fulfillment of sexual needs
          friendship = fulfillment of ( emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs - sexual needs)
          Total Benefit = fulfillment of (emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs)
          emotional needs = esteem needs + social needs + spiritual needs + safety needs
          materialistic needs = primary needs + sexual needs + materialistic desires
          ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
          Total Cost = cost of (search + rejection + research + maintenance + opportunity) + breakup risk
          search cost = your attractiveness + social networking skills + time cost + financial cost
          rejection cost = -(your self-esteem + frequency of past rejections)
          research cost = knowledge of self + diagnostic abilities + proximity
          maintenance cost = emotional cost +
          time cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs +
          financial cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs
          breakup risk = risk of being dumped + your breakup cost
          ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
          Commitment = future net benefit - future net benefit from another love + current breakup cost
          ...

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          • thefool
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            • Jan 2005
            • 1593

            #6
            I used to think that it was only possible to love one at a time. You can put feelings aside for someone, when you meet someone else & fall in love with that person, but the other persons feelings dont dissipate, if its truely love. Sometimes you can find yourself drawn to 2 very different types of people, you love certain things about each of them, and theres no right or wrong about the things that seperate the two, and it can be very confusing. I've never loved more than 2 people at once, but I'm sure its possible, look at those Poly marriages, with 4 or 5 wives, and they ALL seem to be IN LOVE with each other? Who knows, the heart has only the limits in which you try your best to impose.

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            • xclusive
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              • Apr 2004
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              #7
              you can love as many as your heart has room for

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              • KaliC
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                • Jan 2005
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                #8
                I still love my wife (seperated) but I love my girlfriend too...oh ya and my dog
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                • RogerV
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                  • Jul 2002
                  • 12591

                  #9
                  love always ends up my downfall or should i say woman.

                  Fuck love

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                  • Frank Giroldi
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                    • Oct 2004
                    • 78

                    #10
                    i used to think only with one, untill i fall in love with another girl... so my answer is multiple ppl
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                    • Holly
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                      • Jun 2003
                      • 10017

                      #11
                      I guess everyone is different. For me, just one.

                      I can't even handle dating more than one person at once, let alone trying to love that many.
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                      • mal
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                        • Dec 2003
                        • 1899

                        #12
                        depends on how drunk i am

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                        • sweetME
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                          • Nov 2004
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                          #13
                          You can love as many as you can take, but you can be IN love only with one person.


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                          • paxton
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                            • May 2002
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                            #14
                            Sorry to disagree with the majority...

                            ...but if it is true love, there can be only one.
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                            • Babagirls
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                              • Feb 2001
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                              #15
                              i've been in love with 2 men at the same time before.
                              its very confusing (and very mentally draining) trying to figure out WHY but sometimes, it just happens.




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                              • PerfectionGirls
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                                • Oct 2002
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by RogerV
                                love always ends up my downfall or should i say woman.

                                Fuck love

                                Agreed Roger
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                                • Snake Doctor
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                                  • Mar 2001
                                  • 13449

                                  #17
                                  So Roger you must have received replies from two girls on myspace.com?

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                                  • split-joel
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                                    • Jan 2005
                                    • 39

                                    #18
                                    hmm thats a good question, wish i could anserw but I am in love, and it scares the crap out of me LOL. it would be horrible to love more then my girlfriend LOL it would get to me lol
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                                    • LA Mike
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                                      • Jul 2001
                                      • 3056

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by NinjaSteve
                                      Everybody has more than one soulmate. If you are with your 'soulmate' and find a better 'soulmate' then that first person is no longer your true soulmate.

                                      The Model assumes people fall in love because the total benefit of being in love outweighs the total cost of being in love. So the probability of falling in love is related to your perception of the probability of net benefit resulting from being in love. Mathematically, the Model is written as:

                                      Probability of Love = Probability of ( Net Benefit of Being in Love, Emotional Availability, Past Love Experiences )
                                      ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
                                      Net Benefit = Total Benefit - Total Cost
                                      ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
                                      Total Benefit = friendship + fulfillment of sexual needs
                                      friendship = fulfillment of ( emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs - sexual needs)
                                      Total Benefit = fulfillment of (emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs)
                                      emotional needs = esteem needs + social needs + spiritual needs + safety needs
                                      materialistic needs = primary needs + sexual needs + materialistic desires
                                      ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
                                      Total Cost = cost of (search + rejection + research + maintenance + opportunity) + breakup risk
                                      search cost = your attractiveness + social networking skills + time cost + financial cost
                                      rejection cost = -(your self-esteem + frequency of past rejections)
                                      research cost = knowledge of self + diagnostic abilities + proximity
                                      maintenance cost = emotional cost +
                                      time cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs +
                                      financial cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs
                                      breakup risk = risk of being dumped + your breakup cost
                                      ---------------------------------------:---------------------------------------
                                      Commitment = future net benefit - future net benefit from another love + current breakup cost


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                                      • MandyBlake
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                                        • Nov 2002
                                        • 17761

                                        #20
                                        i think you can only be in real love with one person at a time.
                                        now you can be in love and also in lust and infatuated with others though.
                                        but real love is a one at a time thing i feel.
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                                        • DaddysGirl
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                                          • Dec 2004
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                                          #21
                                          I think there are many types of love, for your mom, your dog, your significant other..I think people often mistake Love for what is really Lust, Infatuation, Stability..or just because you know they love you...I think you can only be IN LOVE with one person at a time. But you can love many in other ways....as for soumates, thats a hard one. I have personally only had one so far, and its sad to think I wont have another
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                                          • Pornkings
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                                            • Oct 2002
                                            • 5334

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by paxton
                                            Sorry to disagree with the majority...

                                            ...but if it is true love, there can be only one.
                                            But everytime I fly into another city or country I fall in Love.
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                                            • Pornkings
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                                              • Oct 2002
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                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Lenny2
                                              So Roger you must have received replies from two girls on myspace.com?

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                                              • cherrylula
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                                                • Jan 2002
                                                • 15969

                                                #24
                                                just one. unless you're a manwhore or something. ;)

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                                                • sweetME
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                                                  • Nov 2004
                                                  • 3162

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by paxton
                                                  Sorry to disagree with the majority...

                                                  ...but if it is true love, there can be only one.
                                                  Totally agree


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                                                  • MetaMan
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                                                    • Jan 2003
                                                    • 28682

                                                    #26
                                                    you can only TRULY love one person, but i still have love for some of my long term ex' and i will always, the feeling is mutual across the board with them also, how can you stop loving someone that was a great expierience in your life? you cant, doesnt mean you will go back to them though.

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                                                    • AnaNicole
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                                                      • Sep 2004
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                                                      #27
                                                      only one 4 me!!!

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                                                      • Timbo
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                                                        • Dec 2001
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by RogerV
                                                        do you think there is only one person you can be in love with or can you be in love with mutiple people? is there only one soulmate for everyone.

                                                        I think you can be in love with many people but society makes you choose one to settle with

                                                        or maybe I have never really been in love
                                                        Roger, what kinda trouble have you gotten yourself into now?

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                                                        • axelcat
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                                                          • Jun 2002
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                                                          #29
                                                          I think you can only be truly in love with one person at a time, you could lust over many at the same time but true love is only one

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                                                          • Hank_Heartland
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                                                            #30
                                                            Roger, I'll straighten your ass out next time I see you
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                                                            • Scootermuze
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                                                              • Dec 2001
                                                              • 4513

                                                              #31
                                                              You can love many people on many different levels...

                                                              But you can be 'in love' with only one person, in that being in love means total devotion and dedication...

                                                              You can't give 'total' devotion to more than one person...

                                                              Think about it.............

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