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Babagirls · 10-27-2001, 09:19 AM

well guys, its tougher than what I thought it would be...we lasted longer than my mom's marriage and my sisters marriage LOL

I feel like I am getting a divorce. Last night, he came home to talk with me. Went through everything that went wrong in the relationsip. Me not having a "real" job (only porn) pissed him off cause it didnt bring enough money in. *sigh*

Good news is that he spent the night here WOO HOO!

He originally wasnt going to live here for 2 weeks until I moved out. Maybe he'll stay now. I'm so confused......

CDSmith · 10-27-2001, 09:53 AM

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Originally posted by [Labret]:
The fact of the matter is, my view of women is in the majority. Your view of women as equals is in the minority, throughout history and presently.

I've never been one to run with the crowd.

You also put words in my mouth. I never said I view women as equals. That phrase is much too vague and general. Physically they simply aren't, except for some rare exceptions. But as people, yes they are just as much human as you Rat, they deserve friendship and love and support every bit as much as anyone. Respect is a biggie too, do you know what that is rat? Speaking of equals, did you know that there are women running online businesses right now that make more money than you and I put together Rat? (and then some). Since you seem to measure a person's worth in dollar figures, what does this say about women being less than men?

Babagirls -- it's going to get even more confusing, of that I have no doubt. I hope things work out for you for the best.
___________
CD

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Jer · 10-27-2001, 11:01 AM

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Originally posted by CDSmith:

Babagirls -- it's going to get even more confusing, of that I have no doubt. I hope things work out for you for the best.

CDSmith said it all. I wish you the best, babagirls. Relationships are confuse, because people are confuse too. Hope you and him have the right decision, good for both.

I'm with my girl for more than 4 years, and she lives in another state. We have very very bad times, but we work with it.

Singer · 10-27-2001, 11:48 AM

Baba:

Did you have sex with him last night? just curious

Babagirls · 10-27-2001, 12:58 PM

No, I did not have sex with him last night.

Actually, he did something that hurt me today;

I called him at work to see what his plans for the day were . When he answered the phone he was happy, when he found out it was me, he got really shady and said "what?"

Then he said he was going to his familys Halloween Party; the same party he told me that we couldnt go to (but now that I'm not going with him, hes going.)

Also, I asked him if he is going to spend the night here tonight. He said "I dunno..." I said "Well, you need to let me know." He said he might be spending the night over KEVINS house..KEVIN is the REASON we broke up! He is ALWAYS with him, doing shit with him, spending nights with him, etc.

All of that hurt me! SO, when he gets home in an hour, I'm going to tell him "Pack your shit for 2 weeks and leave!" Cause I am NOT going to spend the next 2 weeks living in his shit!

Jer · 10-27-2001, 01:36 PM

tenletters · 10-27-2001, 03:10 PM

Don't blame Kevin... he wouldn't be able to break you two apart without a problem that already exists between you and your man.

I doubt this is all your man's fault either. It sounds like he wants a way out and you are refusing to let him go.

You might want to look inside yourself and find out what issues, of yours, may be causing you to be with people that wind up being sick of you.

When half the world doesn't want to be around you, it might not be half the world with a problem.

I do hope you find what you're looking for.

Babagirls · 10-30-2001, 11:03 AM

UPDATE:

The past couple days with my (now) ex has been wonderful! We're laughing, going out to "our" resturant to eat, kissing, saying "I Love you" , joking with each other, etc.

This isnt a "break-up"...we're looking at this as a "seperation". We're still gonna fly to see each other, talk on the phone, say "I Love You" to each other, not date anyone, and then try to get back together in a year or less. But we need to get our lives on track first.

Just wanted to update ya'll .

I'm still moving on Nov. 7th.

tenletters · 10-30-2001, 01:44 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tenletters:
They'll be fucking again before Halloween.

I told ya so!

Babagirls · 10-30-2001, 02:01 PM

LOL

Yep! You were right!

Cheshire · 11-01-2001, 04:17 PM

Sounds familiar.

Cheshire · 11-01-2001, 04:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Babagirls:
UPDATE:
laughing, going out to "our" resturant to eat, kissing, saying "I Love you" , joking with each other, etc.

This isnt a "break-up"...we're looking at this as a "seperation". We're still gonna see each other, talk on the phone, say "I Love You" to each other, not date anyone, and then try to get back together.

I'm still moving

kmanrox · 11-01-2001, 04:22 PM

all men are evil, get out now while you still can!!!

Cheshire · 11-01-2001, 04:34 PM

Kmanrox ~ does that theory have anything to do with your site being rawpussy.com?

YoYoBean · 11-01-2001, 04:51 PM

Another weak ass female to add to the list of other pathetic weak females there are in this world.

Cheshire · 11-01-2001, 04:59 PM

Mmmmmm baby!

You available YoYo?

10-27-2001, 09:19 AM	#51
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	well guys, its tougher than what I thought it would be...we lasted longer than my mom's marriage and my sisters marriage LOL I feel like I am getting a divorce. Last night, he came home to talk with me. Went through everything that went wrong in the relationsip. Me not having a "real" job (only porn) pissed him off cause it didnt bring enough money in. sigh Good news is that he spent the night here WOO HOO! He originally wasnt going to live here for 2 weeks until I moved out. Maybe he'll stay now. I'm so confused......

10-27-2001, 11:48 AM	#54
Singer Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Penn State University Main Campus Posts: 437	Baba: Did you have sex with him last night? just curious

10-27-2001, 12:58 PM	#55
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	No, I did not have sex with him last night. Actually, he did something that hurt me today; I called him at work to see what his plans for the day were . When he answered the phone he was happy, when he found out it was me, he got really shady and said "what?" Then he said he was going to his familys Halloween Party; the same party he told me that we couldnt go to (but now that I'm not going with him, hes going.) Also, I asked him if he is going to spend the night here tonight. He said "I dunno..." I said "Well, you need to let me know." He said he might be spending the night over KEVINS house..KEVIN is the REASON we broke up! He is ALWAYS with him, doing shit with him, spending nights with him, etc. All of that hurt me! SO, when he gets home in an hour, I'm going to tell him "Pack your shit for 2 weeks and leave!" Cause I am NOT going to spend the next 2 weeks living in his shit!

10-27-2001, 01:36 PM	#56
Jer God is Brazilian Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Brazil Posts: 10,601

10-27-2001, 03:10 PM	#57
tenletters Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: the deep south Posts: 2,079	Don't blame Kevin... he wouldn't be able to break you two apart without a problem that already exists between you and your man. I doubt this is all your man's fault either. It sounds like he wants a way out and you are refusing to let him go. You might want to look inside yourself and find out what issues, of yours, may be causing you to be with people that wind up being sick of you. When half the world doesn't want to be around you, it might not be half the world with a problem. I do hope you find what you're looking for.

10-30-2001, 11:03 AM	#58
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	UPDATE: The past couple days with my (now) ex has been wonderful! We're laughing, going out to "our" resturant to eat, kissing, saying "I Love you" , joking with each other, etc. This isnt a "break-up"...we're looking at this as a "seperation". We're still gonna fly to see each other, talk on the phone, say "I Love You" to each other, not date anyone, and then try to get back together in a year or less. But we need to get our lives on track first. Just wanted to update ya'll . I'm still moving on Nov. 7th.

10-30-2001, 02:01 PM	#60
Babagirls Text Writer Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 18,812	LOL Yep! You were right!

11-01-2001, 04:17 PM	#61
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	Sounds familiar.

11-01-2001, 04:22 PM	#63
kmanrox aka K-Man Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: The Gutter Posts: 29,292	all men are evil, get out now while you still can!!!

11-01-2001, 04:34 PM	#64
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	Kmanrox ~ does that theory have anything to do with your site being rawpussy.com?

11-01-2001, 04:51 PM	#65
YoYoBean Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: The Back Shed Where Kermit, Elmo and Big Bird Get Stoned! Posts: 429	Another weak ass female to add to the list of other pathetic weak females there are in this world.

11-01-2001, 04:59 PM	#66
Cheshire Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Rosen-Villin Posts: 5,738	Mmmmmm baby! You available YoYo?