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iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:20 AM

Alright here is the problem. My girlfriend wants to tag along to Vegas to the show, wants to hang out by the pool, drink, gamble, dance...that sort of thing.

I never have, never would cheat, that is not the issue why I wouldn't bring her. But in reality I do the same thing for this company I am working with now, that I have done for the last 19 companies I have taken public.

We have a very healthy relationship, 7 months (I've known her for almost 2 years though), she rocks, knows I'm an investment banker/financer officer, shes 24, just perfect in every way, and thinks im the best think since chocolate chips.

I am concerned that she will have a little shell shock from what these shows are like (I used to go to ComDex due to other companies I was subcontracted for, and the Internext show was always the week before or after).

What would you do? Take her? Take her but don't let her "in"? help here

Theo · 12-29-2004, 12:22 AM

i would

j/k take her

shima · 12-29-2004, 12:25 AM

You better take her with you, and take her in. This is your world and she deserves to get into it.

azguy · 12-29-2004, 12:25 AM

take her

sean416 · 12-29-2004, 12:27 AM

if she means so much to you, its always best to be open about ALL of you, nto just the parts she wants to see.

WebTitan · 12-29-2004, 12:27 AM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

...We have a very healthy relationship...

if so, then why do you even have to question to take her?

BuckLover · 12-29-2004, 12:27 AM

Take her along!.....I'll keep her company by the pool

jennym · 12-29-2004, 12:28 AM

As long as she already knows it is adult, I would take her. She will probably imagine much worse than it is if you go without her. It may make her very insecure in the relationship.

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by WebTitan

if so, then why do you even have to question to take her?

Because there is a difference between having a healthy relationship and having her know I am taking a porn co. public, and going to a show where it is blasted in your face, might make her wonder.....

martyVP · 12-29-2004, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

Alright here is the problem. My girlfriend wants to tag along to Vegas to the show, wants to hang out by the pool, drink, gamble, dance...that sort of thing.

I never have, never would cheat, that is not the issue why I wouldn't bring her. But in reality I do the same thing for this company I am working with now, that I have done for the last 19 companies I have taken public.

We have a very healthy relationship, 7 months (I've known her for almost 2 years though), she rocks, knows I'm an investment banker/financer officer, shes 24, just perfect in every way, and thinks im the best think since chocolate chips.

I am concerned that she will have a little shell shock from what these shows are like (I used to go to ComDex due to other companies I was subcontracted for, and the Internext show was always the week before or after).

What would you do? Take her? Take her but don't let her "in"? help here

Take her but explain the consiquences and the type of industry you are dealing with before hand.

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by BuckLover

Take her along!.....I'll keep her company by the pool

lol....what an offer...

emthree · 12-29-2004, 12:31 AM

Tell her it will be too busy, and it's best she stays home.
Buisness and chicks do not mix well. (no matter how good or understanding she is)

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by jennym

As long as she already knows it is adult, I would take her. She will probably imagine much worse than it is if you go without her. It may make her very insecure in the relationship.

Now that is good advice, thanks.

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by emthree

Tell her it will be too busy, and it's best she stays home.
Buisness and chicks do not mix well. (no matter how good or understanding she is)

Well business and chicks is cool, no problem there, I seem to date very outgoing smart women that can carry their own in a conversation. She is one of them. She could only complement me from that standpoint.

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by martyVP

Take her but explain the consiquences and the type of industry you are dealing with before hand.

You taking the wife Marty?

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

You taking the wife Marty?

If so maybe we could give them a couple grand and send them shopping together?

jennym · 12-29-2004, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

Now that is good advice, thanks.

Anytime. Just have a shot of tequila for me!

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by jennym

Anytime. Just have a shot of tequila for me!

Yuk....how bout whisky? ;)

BlueWire · 12-29-2004, 12:50 AM

I sent ya an icq...

jennym · 12-29-2004, 12:52 AM

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Originally Posted by iBanker

Yuk....how bout whisky? ;)

whatever floats your boat. Enjoy!

reynold · 12-29-2004, 12:59 AM

take her

SleazyDream · 12-29-2004, 01:04 AM

got any pics?

DesignWise · 12-29-2004, 01:08 AM

take her!

iBanker · 12-29-2004, 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

got any pics?

Yup, but I don't think I could ever sleep with her again knowing that you had seen her naked. She is far too good for that.

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iBanker Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: San Diego, moving to Portland. Posts: 2,758	HELP! Need some advice here. Alright here is the problem. My girlfriend wants to tag along to Vegas to the show, wants to hang out by the pool, drink, gamble, dance...that sort of thing. I never have, never would cheat, that is not the issue why I wouldn't bring her. But in reality I do the same thing for this company I am working with now, that I have done for the last 19 companies I have taken public. We have a very healthy relationship, 7 months (I've known her for almost 2 years though), she rocks, knows I'm an investment banker/financer officer, shes 24, just perfect in every way, and thinks im the best think since chocolate chips. I am concerned that she will have a little shell shock from what these shows are like (I used to go to ComDex due to other companies I was subcontracted for, and the Internext show was always the week before or after). What would you do? Take her? Take her but don't let her "in"? help here __________________ www.JasonandAlex.com Christopher's ICQ: 268-843-170

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jennym Confirmed User Join Date: May 2003 Location: the south Posts: 1,622	As long as she already knows it is adult, I would take her. She will probably imagine much worse than it is if you go without her. It may make her very insecure in the relationship.

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