My ex husband decided not to pay for his car anymore... - GoFuckYourself.com

RRRED · 12-28-2004, 09:29 PM

So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible...

And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

Hustlin Entertainment · 12-28-2004, 09:30 PM

www.lexingtonlawfirm.com

MrIzzz · 12-28-2004, 09:30 PM

buy my airfare and give me his address. situation solved

xlogger · 12-28-2004, 09:30 PM

will your creadit go bad because of this?

Hustlin Entertainment · 12-28-2004, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

buy my airfare and give me his address. situation solved

im sure he will be very very skwared

NaughtyRob · 12-28-2004, 09:31 PM

That really really sux.

iBanker · 12-28-2004, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible...

And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

I'll discuss how to handle this over ICQ....hit me up

S P A N N O W · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

We'll talk RRRed....

sickkittens · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

Call Jackie Chiles.

Hustlin Entertainment · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible...

And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

get a lawyer take yourself off as a cosigner and use LLF to repair any errors you might have on your report because of him.

Twe Russ · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

buy my airfare and give me his address. situation solved

werd that should work.

xclusive · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

You have got to get to a lawyer right away. It's your only option.

Veterans Day · 12-28-2004, 09:32 PM

whats the divorce decree say, it stands the test of time in any court

MrIzzz · 12-28-2004, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Hustlin Entertainment

im sure he will be very very skwared

i'm gangsta

RRRED · 12-28-2004, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by xlogger

will your creadit go bad because of this?

Yeah that's what sucks!! All of this is on my credit report apparently. I don't have any outstanding credit at all.. no credit cards, nothing... but I guess now I have shitty credit anyway cuz of whatever I had my name on.

ARGH... we just started getting along again too.. not after he hears my voicemail though.

Shit he took every damn thing we owned, enough already!

S P A N N O W · 12-28-2004, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

Yeah that's what sucks!! All of this is on my credit report apparently. I don't have any outstanding credit at all.. no credit cards, nothing... but I guess now I have shitty credit anyway cuz of whatever I had my name on.

ARGH... we just started getting along again too.. not after he hears my voicemail though.

Shit he took every damn thing we owned, enough already!

Goddammit RRRed, don't MAKE me marry you!!!

RRRED · 12-28-2004, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by spannow

We'll talk RRRed....

I know, why don't we get married in vegas then YOU can be responsible for half of my half? haha

RRRED · 12-28-2004, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by spannow

Goddammit RRRed, don't MAKE me marry you!!!

HAHAHA oh GOD.. roflmao great minds think alike!

Quickdraw · 12-28-2004, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible...

And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

Went through a similar situation, except they came after me after they repossessed it. (I still wonder to this day why they never found a way to get a hold of me until after it was repossessed and auctioned

)

If I would have known I would have taken the car myself then continued the payments or sold it. I just got stuck with a 8k bill and no car to show for it.

At any rate, I suggest you do what is best for you. If your name is on the contract and you want to maintain decent credit....

Oh, and ask your lawyer

RRRED · 12-28-2004, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Hustlin Entertainment

get a lawyer take yourself off as a cosigner and use LLF to repair any errors you might have on your report because of him.

What's LLF? I have a couple things that I know of already that I need to get cleaned off of there... things that shouldn't be there in the first place.

Persius · 12-28-2004, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Hustlin Entertainment

get a lawyer take yourself off as a cosigner and use LLF to repair any errors you might have on your report because of him.

basically

Peaches · 12-28-2004, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Veterans Day

whats the divorce decree say, it stands the test of time in any court

Not in GA it doesn't.

My decree says my ex was supposed to pay all the bills that were in both our names. He didn't. They came after me. My attorney told me I was responsible for them. I didn't believe him, went to court and lost.

I can take him BACK to court to the get the money I had to pay, but the divorce decree is between the two of us, not him and the bill collectors. Probably the same with RRRED. And yes, it also destroyed my credit.

It will be very difficult, if not impossible for her to get off the loan w/o him refinancing it - and you can bet he's not going to be keen on THAT.

RRRED, contact your attorney and see if you can sell the car.

reynold · 12-28-2004, 10:16 PM

burn his body.

Anthony · 12-28-2004, 10:18 PM

Damn, I'm sorry to hear this chica.

KRL · 12-28-2004, 10:32 PM

Legally if the debt transaction was engaged by both of you during your marriage they can still pursue you. This is one of the unfortunate sides of mingling your finances when you get married to someone, and something most couples are too stupid in love to even think about.

When you get married you're forming a legal partnership. Choose your partners wisely my friends, one fuckup can fuck you up royally.

I fucked up once in my 20's when a girl I was just living with I ordered my AMEX card with her name on it. Big mistake. When we broke up she went to town on it to the tune of $60,000. I got the bill and was livid cause she had told me she had ripped up my card and would no longer charge on it after we ended after relationship. I called AMEX and complained like crazy that non of these purchases were authorized by me and that she had told me the card had been destroyed and I had no way of knowing she was doing this till the statement came. I went all the way up the supervisor ladder and stood firm refusing to accept her charges and they ended up cancelling my account I'm sure cause I got a bit caustic with this one woman on the phone and even when I caved in and said fine whatever I'll pay her charges, just reinstate my card they refused to. So look at that. Not even married and I got fucked cause of this sneaky girl.

Snake Doctor · 12-28-2004, 11:00 PM

You shouldn't marry someone that you wouldn't go into business with....if they're irresponsible with money don't think for a second that being married to you is going to change that.

Divorce is the number 2 cause of bankruptcy and bad credit...right behind medical bills.

Sorry for ya RRRED.....It sucks

Snake Doctor · 12-28-2004, 11:02 PM

I forgot....something you can do is write a letter to the credit bureau explaining the situation, that it was him who refused to pay in a timely manner AFTER you were divorced.

The blemish will still be on your credit and affect your score, but lenders will look at that and still consider you a good risk for credit. (Assuming all your other accounts are in order)

sextoyking · 12-28-2004, 11:10 PM

Sorry to hear that Rrred.

Damm the times I met your X, I thought he was pretty cool, but shit to leave you hanging like that sucks!!!!

baddog · 12-28-2004, 11:11 PM

Are you divorced or just legally separated? What state? CA? It was a marriage and not just boyfriend/girlfriend, right?

n3in · 12-28-2004, 11:12 PM

that sounds pretty shitty, hope you get it all worked out

uno · 12-28-2004, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Hustlin Entertainment

im sure he will be very very skwared

Izzy is part of the Long Island Latvian Mafia. shhh.

uno · 12-28-2004, 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

i'm gangsta

See! Told ya.

brand0n · 12-28-2004, 11:16 PM

ive got a friend.. louie the wrench, you might wanna give him a call.

r3ap3r · 12-28-2004, 11:18 PM

Take it to court. Take him on Judge Judy. She'll straighten up real fast.

D Flower · 12-28-2004, 11:18 PM

What an awful situation!! I'm really sorry to hear about it. Karma always seems to have a way of getting back to a person though, so I'm sure your ex will be in for a big surprise down the road when it hits him.

Sosa · 12-28-2004, 11:21 PM

what kind of car?

baddog · 12-28-2004, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by baddog

was a marriage and not just boyfriend/girlfriend, right?

Never mind, just read the title again.

If this was a CA divorce, feel free to contact me as I am quite familiar with CA Family Law

VeriSexy · 12-28-2004, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MrIzzz

i'm gangsta

MikeHawk · 12-28-2004, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by RRRED

So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible...

And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

RRRED....who is he?
Is he still in the biz, if so let everyone know who he is!
Will he be in Las Vegas, maybe Mr Izzz and I can help you solve your problem quickly!

Makes me mad when I know there are children involved.....

SykkBoy · 12-28-2004, 11:35 PM

I'll point my gay uncle to this thread as a reason he doesn't REALLy want to legally marry his boyfriend of 20 years...

12-28-2004, 09:29 PM	#1
RRRED Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: WA Posts: 6,754	My ex husband decided not to pay for his car anymore... So they're coming after me! I told them no way in hell I'm paying over 600 a month for the car I have, I'm not paying his too! But they said regardless of what my court papers say, I'm just as much responsible... And get this... he's been over 30 days late 22 times since I moved out over 3 years ago. And over 60 days late 2 times. Now he's over 90... wtf do I do??

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12-28-2004, 11:02 PM	#27
Snake Doctor I'm Lenny2 Bitch Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: On top of my soapbox Posts: 13,449	I forgot....something you can do is write a letter to the credit bureau explaining the situation, that it was him who refused to pay in a timely manner AFTER you were divorced. The blemish will still be on your credit and affect your score, but lenders will look at that and still consider you a good risk for credit. (Assuming all your other accounts are in order) __________________ sig too big

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