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12-20-2004, 11:20 AM

I was spouting off about how I think it's foolish to delete photos of ex's and such, after you're no longer together, and happened to throw in that I have a bunch of naked pics of my ex girlfriend on my computer. I think it was the 3rd date that I mentioned this. I told her I have them, and they're memories of my life, and why would I want to get rid of memories? Good or bad, they're a way to reflect. That was my point, anyway.

So we've been together for a month now, and last night I mentioned something about this neck pain I've been having ever since I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago, and all of a sudden she bursts into tears and says "you keep talking about her! I want you to delete all the photos of her off your computer!" It took over an hour to calm her down. So I went and backed them up... for better security, and better safe keeping.

I don't want anything to do with my ex girlfriend now, because what's done is done, and she's a nut now. But why do women think that having a photo in one's posession is somehow a prerequsite to getting back together with an ex? It doesn't make much sense. It's just a record of my life. That's all.
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12-20-2004, 11:23 AM

She's a psycho.

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12-20-2004, 11:27 AM

Originally posted by xenigo
I was spouting off about how I think it's foolish to delete photos of ex's and such, after you're no longer together, and happened to throw in that I have a bunch of naked pics of my ex girlfriend on my computer. I think it was the 3rd date that I mentioned this. I told her I have them, and they're memories of my life, and why would I want to get rid of memories? Good or bad, they're a way to reflect. That was my point, anyway.

So we've been together for a month now, and last night I mentioned something about this neck pain I've been having ever since I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago, and all of a sudden she bursts into tears and says "you keep talking about her! I want you to delete all the photos of her off your computer!" It took over an hour to calm her down. So I went and backed them up... for better security, and better safe keeping.

I don't want anything to do with my ex girlfriend now, because what's done is done, and she's a nut now. But why do women think that having a photo in one's posession is somehow a prerequsite to getting back together with an ex? It doesn't make much sense. It's just a record of my life. That's all.

I feel for ya. Most women are psycho jealous. Insecurities, most likely due to things that happened long before you ever came into her life, and making her even more irrational than most women are anyway.
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12-20-2004, 11:34 AM

Ask her to pose nude to overwrite the old pictures with. then post them here.
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12-20-2004, 11:37 AM

I dont get the point of keeping pics of old girlfriends and I think shes right for being upset.. That said fuck that bitch..

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12-20-2004, 11:37 AM

women........ sheesh

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12-20-2004, 11:37 AM

Originally posted by Manowar
Ask her to pose nude to overwrite the old pictures with. then post them here.

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12-20-2004, 11:39 AM

i'm jealous sometimes.. although I try hard not to be.

I do find alot of jealous men out there.. so what it boils down to is the jealous persons insecurities in their relationship.
I can see her point.. but you guys have only been going out for a month.. if this were a long time realtionship..then yes, she would have a bit of reason to worry why you would even want naked pics of an ex.

What if she kept naked pics of her ex and wouldnt get rid of them...have you put the shoe on the other foot? that sometimes helps t o understand.
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12-20-2004, 11:40 AM

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12-20-2004, 11:46 AM

Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday
What if she kept naked pics of her ex and wouldnt get rid of them...have you put the shoe on the other foot? that sometimes helps t o understand.

I've thought about that, and I can kind of see her point... but I'm still firm in my believe that memories shouldn't be deleted. I like to reflect at times. Let's me remember where I was back then, and what I was going through. I think it helps me more clearly see where I'm going in life.
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12-20-2004, 11:49 AM

you are stupid for having photos NUDE of your ex, i dont want my girl to have some pics of some dudes dong,

you are stupid for telling her you have NUDE photos of your ex,

and why the hell are you at all talking about your ex? if whats done is done you should never have to bring her up.

yes women are crazy but watch what u say switch possitions and you would think she was a slut.
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12-20-2004, 11:55 AM

If you can't deal with her issues now, they aren't likely to get better down the road. You can't tell somebody, "Don't be jealous." Either they are or they aren't, and nothing's going to change that.

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12-20-2004, 12:02 PM

Originally posted by xenigo
So we've been together for a month now, and last night I mentioned something about this neck pain I've been having ever since I was lying on top of my ex a few months ago, and all of a sudden she bursts into tears and says "you keep talking about her! I want you to delete all the photos of her off your computer!" It took over an hour to calm her down.

Sounds to me like you're more interested in your ex than your current girl.

Probably does to her too.
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12-20-2004, 12:03 PM

I think the right thing would have been to back them up, stuff them away, and not mention it to your new gf.
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12-20-2004, 12:13 PM

Originally posted by Dcat
I think the right thing would have been to back them up, stuff them away, and not mention it to your new gf.

Yeah, you're right. Oh well, she's much better today. She wacked me off this morning.
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