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Old 12-05-2004, 11:11 PM   #1
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Do you think its better to be nice or to be an asshole

What do you think? If you're nice to everyone you get fucked over, if you're an asshole then everyone thinks you're an asshole? Which do you think is better?
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:12 PM   #2
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What do you think? If you're nice to everyone you get fucked over, if you're an asshole then everyone thinks you're an asshole? Which do you think is better?
You always need to use your judgement and think who deserves to see and experience your good side.

Some people are not worth it.

Now shut the fuck up and go away.













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Old 12-05-2004, 11:13 PM   #3
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:13 PM   #4
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being an asshole comes natural to me...
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:13 PM   #5
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:17 PM   #6
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:30 PM   #7
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Very true.
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:32 PM   #8
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im an asshole and i dont really mind. if someone else doesnt like it... fuck em!
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:36 PM   #9
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nice sometimes and asshole. this is good combination.
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Old 12-05-2004, 11:38 PM   #10
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You have to definitely mix it up a bit. Let people know that you cannot be taken advantage of.
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:00 AM   #11
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there's a difference between being nice and being stupid

I'm very nice to people, and treat them like I want to be treated

I've been taken advantage of a very few times in this business.. maybe a couple the whole time I've been doing this.. not bad considering how long I've been doing it

but I'm not one you want to screw over either. There are always ways to deal with people that try to do this, and I've become very good at using these ways to make things right.

You asked which is better, being an asshole or being nice.. I think it's better to be nice and smart.. becoming untouchable is the ultimate goal. Not easy to do, but worth the effort for sure.
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:03 AM   #12
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FUCK OFF!!!!!
































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Men in biz hunt for weaknesses in nice guys biz & do biz with other assholes.
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:16 AM   #13
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FUCK OFF!!!!!

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Just kidding... let's be friends!

Hot girls fuck over nice guys and dream about asshole bad boys

Men in biz hunt for weaknesses in nice guys biz & do biz with other assholes.


Sad but true...

Unless You're happy about getting fucked over now and then...
This means it's necessary to have an asshole-side, but not to ONLY be an asshole...

Like a few others have pointed out already... being selective is the way.
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:20 AM   #14
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i think outwardly and publicly you should be pleasant and affable but behind the scenes you should be as ruthless as possible...
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:20 AM   #15
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Got to be both at the right times
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:26 AM   #16
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:27 AM   #17
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Nice always. But if someone fucks me over or trys to fuck with me, hurts someone I care about, does an injustice or makes a false accusation towards me, then I become absolutely full on lethal.
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:30 AM   #18
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Be nice to bigger guys, but as soon as you earn more be an asshole

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Old 12-06-2004, 12:37 AM   #19
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Old 12-06-2004, 12:42 AM   #20
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i think outwardly and publicly you should be pleasant and affable but behind the scenes you should be as ruthless as possible...
could not have said it better myself

sometimes (as in this case of GFY) you have to be an asshole, even if you really aren't one
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Old 12-06-2004, 01:06 AM   #21
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What do you think? If you're nice to everyone you get fucked over, if you're an asshole then everyone thinks you're an asshole? Which do you think is better?
False dichotamy: Why does it HAVE to be one extreme or the other? Why not a nice guy who is skeptical?
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