trust me a real man pays on every date.

You always pay in some form or the other!

on the first few dates yes i agree--after that the girls should cough up once in awhile

Nothing pisses us off more than chicks cash with cob webs all over it

I ain't with a chick to be her daddy...any guy who wants to be a chicks daddy--after awhile that realtionship will not work--u have to say no sometimes...

:thumbsup Sooo true!!

this is a really sensitive issue, everybody has a different opinion on it. For me, I will always offer and say thank you, but if I asked someone on a date I will insist on paying, I asked them, my treat.

by the way, nothing is a bigger turn off then a cheap man.

I've definitely found myself a little weirded out in that sort of situation.. where I was asked out by the girl, and then she insists on paying. Sort of a nice change, but still shocking.

Guess I'm an asshole though, because the last time that happened I left on a business trip a few days later, and never called her again (this was 6 weeks ago). I still owe her a nice dinner (she spent a good $300 on our dinner).

You can be mean to them, be an asshole but make sure you pay on every date.

That is the worst thing you can do is pay your own and make her pay for hers. I have seen it happen many times and I think its so wrong.

Could just be me but I think a lot of people agree with me here on this one.

i pay on every fucking date!

Its the way i was tought,
and its what women expect!

every date

I fuck on first date :Graucho

Back to thread: I pay on every date :2 cents:

50 :glugglug

I almost always pay for everything :)

Occasionally, she tries to pay, but I put up one hell of a fight.

Well, I have to say I have been paying 90% of the time because my bf is out of work right now and low on cash, and we've been going out a lot all the time lately dining out and such... I don't mind though, because I make more than he does, and I know he's having problems right now.

But ideally I would really prefer to pay exactly 50/50. I really don't need anyone to pay for me, and I don't expect anyone to pay for me just because I'm female. I can provide for myself and I really don't need anything from any man. If I have sex with someone, I do so because I choose, not because I got a free meal. If I did, that would make me a hooker. Anyways, once you let a man pay for you all the time, they might get a sense of "entitlement" like you owe them something just because they paid for a lousy meal. In my opinion it's better to keep it mutual so that way the power is equal, because whoever pays gets more power in a weird way. Perhaps that could be a reason why I don't mind paying; because I like power and control.

Sometimes I do feel that sometimes when I pay, in some kind of subconscious way I get more power and get away with things more...

Also, some guys mind if you pay for them in public because they get embarrassed and don't feel "manly" Luckily my guy doesn't have this issue and I don't mind paying...

Also I don't "pretend" to pay just to make a gesture like i know some girls do. I will really go for it and actually freakin' pay. I just see it as a sign of independence. It just means that I can take care of myself and don't need anything from the. They should appreciate that even more and that would prove that I am with them for their companionshop, not a free meal or night out.

"Can I buy you a drink, or do you just want the money??"


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damn, can i have her #? :1orglaugh

I've been on a few dates that felt like very very hard work.. and I don't work if the pay is not there..