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Tam · 11-23-2004, 11:02 AM

How many have you have been faithful to your wives? I mean, NO sex with anyone BUT her. I am especially wanting to hear from those who have been married for a LONG time.

My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long... like he has broken some record somewhere.. and I wanna prove his ass wrong and chop that ego down a notch or two. So PLEASE tell me he isn't the only one that's been faithful this long.

Tell me if you have been faithful to your wives and for how long you have been.

Tam · 11-23-2004, 11:03 AM

And don't lie to me... if you haven't been faithful and don't want that spouse to know? Don't respond..... if you do, then you have done so at your own risk.. LMAO

ItBurnsWhenIpee · 11-23-2004, 11:04 AM

Hopefully thou doesn't protest too much...

ytcracker · 11-23-2004, 11:05 AM

im going through nastyness right now

Tam · 11-23-2004, 11:06 AM

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Originally posted by ItBurnsWhenIpee
Hopefully thou doesn't protest too much...

Nahhh, I ain't protesting, I am quite proud of him. I just think there are more faithful men..... or at least I want to think so.

BVF · 11-23-2004, 11:06 AM

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Originally posted by Tam
My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long...

Yeah but the thing is that he could be lying to you.

If he went 22 years without even letting some slut suck him off then check his palms for nail marks.

jt420 · 11-23-2004, 11:08 AM

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Originally posted by ytcracker
im going through nastyness right now

hope everything works out for the best, i took the time to read your post about it all and its really depressing. I can tell you love the hell out of your daughter so i hope everything is ok! good luck bro

Tam · 11-23-2004, 11:10 AM

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Originally posted by BVF
Yeah but the thing is that he could be lying to you.

If he went 22 years without even letting some slut suck him off then check his palms for nail marks.

Nope, I know he has been.. I have absolutely zero doubt about that. He's a good boy. Maybe because I have given him reign where he can go to the strip clubs and he can go hang out with the boys and shit, I even promote this idea. But he isn't a drinker, partier or anything, he's very much a homebody type, and he adores his family. I won't say he hasn't been tempted, and he even admits this, but he hasn't ever acted on this. He's told me when he gets tempted. He's just honest like that.

LadyMischief · 11-23-2004, 11:11 AM

My Aunt Lydia and Uncle Gust were married for 65 years, and they were only ever with each other. I found this out by overhearing a conversation he had with his brother where he admitted she was the only woman he'd ever been with (they got married when she was 16)

ItBurnsWhenIpee · 11-23-2004, 11:14 AM

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Originally posted by Tam
Nahhh, I ain't protesting, I am quite proud of him. I just think there are more faithful men..... or at least I want to think so.

Actually I meant him

Seems funny he's so adamant that every man cheats except him.

Tam · 11-23-2004, 11:19 AM

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Originally posted by ItBurnsWhenIpee
Actually I meant him Seems funny he's so adamant that every man cheats except him.

He was playing with me. you know how guys are, trying to tell ya they are the best? This is a joke between me and him. He knows there are more, but tries to tell me there isn't and I told him I was gonna prove him wrong once and for all.. that's why I was laughing when I made this post. LOL

You know how you can play and tell people they are lucky they know you and blah, blah, blah? That's all it is. nothing heavy. lol

LM, that is so awesome.....

Stephen · 11-23-2004, 11:49 AM

I've been faithful to my wife of four years - except that time in Vegas when I honked some booth bunny's tit - but that doesn't count, now does it?

Veterans Day · 11-23-2004, 11:49 AM

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slapass · 11-23-2004, 11:55 AM

I aksed around. it is only him. He deserves a reward. Get someone hot to join you guys tonight. Not cheating just an invited third person.

Wiggles · 11-23-2004, 12:25 PM

i have been faithful, but its only been 4 months of marriage so i guess my vote don't count.

Techie Media · 11-23-2004, 12:37 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
How many have you have been faithful to your wives? I mean, NO sex with anyone BUT her. I am especially wanting to hear from those who have been married for a LONG time.

My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long... like he has broken some record somewhere.. and I wanna prove his ass wrong and chop that ego down a notch or two. So PLEASE tell me he isn't the only one that's been faithful this long.

Tell me if you have been faithful to your wives and for how long you have been.

Tam tell Jimmie he is not alone, Amy and I will be married 18 years this January, and yes I have been 100% faithful (as hard as it's been..haha) for the entire time.

But YOU are still my Bitch for life

Peaches · 11-23-2004, 12:43 PM

Tam and Lighting's wife are very lucky people

Then again, the gals must be something they don't want to cheat on.

Congrats to both long marriages - not easy to do in this day and time!

martin_simpletraffic · 11-23-2004, 03:23 PM

I have been married 3 times , however i have never been faithful, I like to play too much, and love variety in my menus. I congratulate your Hubbie for the 22 years of faithfulness...... But I got to say... I don't beleive it's true,.... Maybe and I'm judging him wrong.. for your marriage sake , I hope I am...

BVF · 11-23-2004, 03:27 PM

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Originally posted by martin_simpletraffic
But I got to say... I don't beleive it's true

Me neither. When a woman wants to believe the sky is red, you can tell her it's blue. You can have others tell her it's blue. You can even have her look herself and see the blue sky. But I GUARANTEE you that she'll still say it's red.

gornyhuy · 11-23-2004, 03:30 PM

7 years married, faithful.

... before that we dated for about 9 years - mostly faithful, except when we were "dating other people" during college.

Marcus Aurelius · 11-23-2004, 03:33 PM

Well I have only been married 8 years, but together 10, and my wife is the only woman I have had sex with. now she and I had a threesome a few times with one of her female friends, but that was kind of like, consentual cheating, but I have never actively pursued a woman other than her during our marriage and I never would. I would not want to break her heart like that. She is too good of a person.

Bigjohn · 11-23-2004, 03:40 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
How many have you have been faithful to your wives? I mean, NO sex with anyone BUT her. I am especially wanting to hear from those who have been married for a LONG time.

My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long... like he has broken some record somewhere.. and I wanna prove his ass wrong and chop that ego down a notch or two. So PLEASE tell me he isn't the only one that's been faithful this long.

Tell me if you have been faithful to your wives and for how long you have been.

My wife and I have been married for 25 years and I've never cheated on her. My philosophy is that if I have to go somewhere else, then why bother being married at all.

William-Xfactor · 11-23-2004, 03:48 PM

I would never hurt my wife like that. Cheating is just a pathetic act of betrayal.

Tam · 11-23-2004, 03:55 PM

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Originally posted by Bigjohn
My wife and I have been married for 25 years and I've never cheated on her. My philosophy is that if I have to go somewhere else, then why bother being married at all.

This is the same way he is. He takes his vows very seriously and he'd divorce me before he'd cheat on me. This is not to say he's never been tempted, he's human, of course he has..... but he's never cheated on me and I'd stake my life and everything I hold dear on it.. He was n a band for many many years and he'd have friends bring him girls, but he never laid a hand on even one of them.

THANK you for posting this, I think people have problems believing that people can be happily married and faithful this long. LOL

martin and BVF, I see where you are coming from, honestly, I do.... but I am not that simple, I know he's been turned on by other girls, I am not that crazy, he's even told me as much, but he's never acted on it once. I think maybe a lot of it is his upbringing by his mom and her instilling the value of commitments. This and I am not a nagging, bitchy wife, I am in 100% support of his male bonding and I don't think I have to be there in his face every second of every single day. We have a great relationship and I would literally bet my life on his faithfullness.

Bigjohn, I can't wait to show him this.. He thinks he still has all guys beat because Lightning only has 18 years.... rotfl

Lightning, I'll always be your bitch, we can be married all we want, but I am always gonna be your bitch.

baddog · 11-23-2004, 03:56 PM

my parents have been married almost 53 years, pretty sure no cheating went on there based on comments other women made to me about my dad after I was an adult

dennisthemenace · 11-23-2004, 03:58 PM

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Originally posted by Veterans Day
raises hand

ditto.

kristin · 11-23-2004, 03:58 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
Nope, I know he has been.. I have absolutely zero doubt about that. He's a good boy. Maybe because I have given him reign where he can go to the strip clubs and he can go hang out with the boys and shit, I even promote this idea. But he isn't a drinker, partier or anything, he's very much a homebody type, and he adores his family. I won't say he hasn't been tempted, and he even admits this, but he hasn't ever acted on this. He's told me when he gets tempted. He's just honest like that.

I think you've found the perfect mix Tam. : ) Letting your significant other have freedom without 20 questions makes marriage a lot easier. : )

My husband has been 100% faithful to me, but it's only been a year ... and RocHard was after him awhile ago! Hehe.

latinasojourn · 11-23-2004, 03:58 PM

a question like this cannot be asked in a vacuum.

much depends on how the wife takes care of the man.

if a wife is smart she will take care of her guy so well that he has no desire to seek sex outside his marriage.

quality hot sex is only one component of a successful marriage ---and the longer you are married the less important it is.

i will make a blanket statement with re: to sex and marriage.

if the wife is an enthusiastic swallower she has a very good chance of keeping her man forever.

sorry to be blunt, but that is the truth.

wtfent · 11-23-2004, 04:02 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
How many have you have been faithful to your wives? I mean, NO sex with anyone BUT her. I am especially wanting to hear from those who have been married for a LONG time.

My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long... like he has broken some record somewhere.. and I wanna prove his ass wrong and chop that ego down a notch or two. So PLEASE tell me he isn't the only one that's been faithful this long.

Tell me if you have been faithful to your wives and for how long you have been.

There is a 75% chance he is not telling the truth.

Plugin Feeds K · 11-23-2004, 04:03 PM

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Originally posted by latinasojourn
if the wife is an enthusiastic swallower she has a very good chance of keeping her man forever.

Sadly, it probably is true.

wtfent · 11-23-2004, 04:04 PM

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Originally posted by mdcq
Well I have only been married 8 years, but together 10, and my wife is the only woman I have had sex with. now she and I had a threesome a few times with one of her female friends, but that was kind of like, consentual cheating, but I have never actively pursued a woman other than her during our marriage and I never would. I would not want to break her heart like that. She is too good of a person.

Sounds a lot like me and my wife.

ronaldo · 11-23-2004, 04:05 PM

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Originally posted by mdcq
Well I have only been married 8 years, but together 10, and my wife is the only woman I have had sex with. now she and I had a threesome a few times with one of her female friends, but that was kind of like, consentual cheating, but I have never actively pursued a woman other than her

That's not cheating man, that's a mutual agreement.

Did she know about it? Did she consent to it?

On THAT note, I haven't "Cheated" on MY wife of 14 years, for the 16 years we've been together and it hasn't been hard in the least.

Fred Quimby · 11-23-2004, 04:08 PM

we just celebrated our 10th anniversay and I've never cheated.

Probably b/c we do it a minimum 2x a day.

baddog · 11-23-2004, 04:08 PM

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Originally posted by latinasojourn
if the wife is an enthusiastic swallower she has a very good chance of keeping her man forever.

Tam doesn't swallow

William-Xfactor · 11-23-2004, 04:10 PM

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Originally posted by latinasojourn
a question like this cannot be asked in a vacuum.

much depends on how the wife takes care of the man.

if a wife is smart she will take care of her guy so well that he has no desire to seek sex outside his marriage.

quality hot sex is only one component of a successful marriage ---and the longer you are married the less important it is.

i will make a blanket statement with re: to sex and marriage.

if the wife is an enthusiastic swallower she has a very good chance of keeping her man forever.

sorry to be blunt, but that is the truth.

What a load of shit
It?s about character of individuals
A decent person who has respect for his or her partner would not cheat no matter what happens in the bedroom.
Cheaters are low life gutless, selfish, weak individuals if the marriage is not working,
Face it and end it, after all if your going to cheat the marriage is doomed anyway

11-23-2004, 04:11 PM

I've been with my gf (now fiance) for over 4 years. I've never cheated. I'm not married, but thats a significant amount of time.

Goatse · 11-23-2004, 04:13 PM

I've been faithful to my right hand for years and years. My parents have been together for nearly 34 years without cheating on each other. I wouldn't say they love each other, but neither of them could ever get laid with anyone else.

Scootermuze · 11-23-2004, 04:21 PM

Reminds me of a joke I heard some time ago...

An elderly couple sitting on the porch swing...
The wife turns and slaps the Hell out of the hubby... He says, "What was that for?" She says, "For 40 years of bad sex!" ..
He sits for a minute, then turns and slaps the Hell out of the Mrs. .. She says, "What did ya do that for?
He says, "For knowin' the difference!" ..

Don't know that the hubster is the 'only one' .. But he's probably within a group consisting of but a few..

AWW - Kevin · 11-23-2004, 04:27 PM

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... if you haven't been faithful and don't want that spouse to know? Don't respond.....

40.000 members here, say 30.000 Men
sofar only a few replies...should tell you something

baddog · 11-23-2004, 04:30 PM

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Originally posted by AWW - Kevin
40.000 members here, say 30.000 Men
sofar only a few replies...should tell you something

and probably a lot more than 30k men

Tam · 11-23-2004, 04:34 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
Tam doesn't swallow

Nope, you are right, I don't. I ADID, however, try it twice, and I didn't like it either time. But I think he knows I gave it my best effort and I did at least try, I didn't shut him down on it at all without trying it first.

Be blunt all you want, I am the same way. LOL
I can't sit here and say I have been the perfect wife, or that he's been the perfect husband, you can't be together this long and not have faced many many issues.......... but we have always loved and trusted each other enough to get thru the hard shit. Our keys are communication, trust and honesty..... and most of all love for each other lol

I KNEW there were still a lot of great men left in the world.. I just knew it. This is great.

Tam · 11-23-2004, 04:37 PM

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Originally posted by AWW - Kevin
40.000 members here, say 30.000 Men
sofar only a few replies...should tell you something

I wondered when someone would catch that one. This is like a double edged sword, if you don't respond you get slapped, and if you do and respond honestly, you get slapped. LMAO

baddog · 11-23-2004, 04:38 PM

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Originally posted by Tam

I KNEW there were still a lot of great men left in the world.. I just knew it. This is great.

I avoid temptation by avoiding marriage . . . I know I am no good at it.

Scootermuze · 11-23-2004, 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
I avoid temptation by avoiding marriage . . . I know I am no good at it.

I salute you for such honesty..

baddog · 11-23-2004, 05:24 PM

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Originally posted by Scootermuze
I salute you for such honesty..

As the warden in Cool Hand Luke said, "a man has got to know his limitations." I know mine.

Mr Pheer · 11-23-2004, 06:40 PM

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Originally posted by Tam
Maybe because I have given him reign where he can go to the strip clubs and he can go hang out with the boys and shit, I even promote this idea. But he isn't a drinker, partier or anything, he's very much a homebody type, and he adores his family.

Sounds like me and my wife. I have free reign to do what I want, when I want, and for as long as I want. She never complains. I've never had the urge to cheat nor do I intend to.

Humbolt · 11-24-2004, 12:01 AM

Oohhh Tam Tam Tam...

I dont mean to be the asshole here...and you know me girlie.

but goddam girl..what a bitch we are arent we?
A man is faithful and good to you for that long...and ya just HAVE to find some way to make it not good enuff...

I couldnt beleive what im readin.

Sit down..shut the fuck up..give him a dam good blowjob and tell him how much you appreciate him being faithful...might give him an excuse to be faithful another 22 years.

Loves ya anyways baby...

Tell Jimmy I said hey hey!!

SpikeHeel · 11-24-2004, 12:07 AM

men are men, sometimes we do things that were not intended. like what will you do if some hot chicks tease or seduce you? get my point?

Tam · 11-24-2004, 06:36 AM

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Originally posted by Humbolt
but goddam girl..what a bitch we are arent we?
A man is faithful and good to you for that long...and ya just HAVE to find some way to make it not good enuff...

Ok and just where in the hell do you see I was being a bitch? And where did you see that I said this wasn't good enough for me? I am confused about this so please tell me where you see that I said anything about not being happy with him and where was I being a bitch? I think you need to go back and re-read this thread...... it was ................... nevermind, it's too early for this and I am not ruining my thread by having it turn ugly. It's been a lighthearted and fun thread til this and I'm not playing this game.

Humbolt · 11-24-2004, 06:43 AM

I was just bein an ass dawlin..dont take it to heart.

Still love me?

11-23-2004, 11:02 AM	#1
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Question for you married men out there How many have you have been faithful to your wives? I mean, NO sex with anyone BUT her. I am especially wanting to hear from those who have been married for a LONG time. My husband of almost 22 years is trying to tell me he is the ONLY man who's ever been faithful that long... like he has broken some record somewhere.. and I wanna prove his ass wrong and chop that ego down a notch or two. So PLEASE tell me he isn't the only one that's been faithful this long. Tell me if you have been faithful to your wives and for how long you have been.

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11-23-2004, 11:11 AM	#9
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11-23-2004, 11:49 AM	#13
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11-23-2004, 12:25 PM	#15
Wiggles Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 14,423	i have been faithful, but its only been 4 months of marriage so i guess my vote don't count. __________________ no sig

11-23-2004, 11:03 AM	#2
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	And don't lie to me... if you haven't been faithful and don't want that spouse to know? Don't respond..... if you do, then you have done so at your own risk.. LMAO

11-23-2004, 11:04 AM	#3
ItBurnsWhenIpee Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: The Beach, SoCal Posts: 1,288	Hopefully thou doesn't protest too much...

11-23-2004, 11:49 AM	#12
Stephen Consigliere Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 1,771	I've been faithful to my wife of four years - except that time in Vegas when I honked some booth bunny's tit - but that doesn't count, now does it?

11-23-2004, 11:55 AM	#14
slapass Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Earth Posts: 14,622	I aksed around. it is only him. He deserves a reward. Get someone hot to join you guys tonight. Not cheating just an invited third person.

11-23-2004, 12:43 PM	#17
Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	Tam and Lighting's wife are very lucky people Then again, the gals must be something they don't want to cheat on. Congrats to both long marriages - not easy to do in this day and time!

11-23-2004, 03:23 PM	#18
martin_simpletraffic Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: the world of making money Posts: 216	I have been married 3 times , however i have never been faithful, I like to play too much, and love variety in my menus. I congratulate your Hubbie for the 22 years of faithfulness...... But I got to say... I don't beleive it's true,.... Maybe and I'm judging him wrong.. for your marriage sake , I hope I am... __________________ [email protected] This is as simple as it gets!!! 30+ products to promote....All webmasters accepted....All traffic accepted....Downloadable executables....and much more!!!

11-23-2004, 03:30 PM	#20
gornyhuy Chafed. Join Date: May 2002 Location: Face Down in Pussy Posts: 18,041	7 years married, faithful. ... before that we dated for about 9 years - mostly faithful, except when we were "dating other people" during college. __________________ icq:159548293

11-23-2004, 03:33 PM	#21
Marcus Aurelius No Refunds Issued. Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 14,809	Well I have only been married 8 years, but together 10, and my wife is the only woman I have had sex with. now she and I had a threesome a few times with one of her female friends, but that was kind of like, consentual cheating, but I have never actively pursued a woman other than her during our marriage and I never would. I would not want to break her heart like that. She is too good of a person.

11-23-2004, 03:48 PM	#23
William-Xfactor Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Melbourne Posts: 299	I would never hurt my wife like that. Cheating is just a pathetic act of betrayal.

11-23-2004, 03:56 PM	#25
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	my parents have been married almost 53 years, pretty sure no cheating went on there based on comments other women made to me about my dad after I was an adult

11-23-2004, 03:58 PM	#28
latinasojourn Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 3,191	a question like this cannot be asked in a vacuum. much depends on how the wife takes care of the man. if a wife is smart she will take care of her guy so well that he has no desire to seek sex outside his marriage. quality hot sex is only one component of a successful marriage ---and the longer you are married the less important it is. i will make a blanket statement with re: to sex and marriage. if the wife is an enthusiastic swallower she has a very good chance of keeping her man forever. sorry to be blunt, but that is the truth.

11-23-2004, 04:08 PM	#33
Fred Quimby Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,430	we just celebrated our 10th anniversay and I've never cheated. Probably b/c we do it a minimum 2x a day. __________________

11-23-2004, 04:11 PM	#36
shermo Guest Posts: n/a	I've been with my gf (now fiance) for over 4 years. I've never cheated. I'm not married, but thats a significant amount of time.

11-23-2004, 04:13 PM	#37
Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	I've been faithful to my right hand for years and years. My parents have been together for nearly 34 years without cheating on each other. I wouldn't say they love each other, but neither of them could ever get laid with anyone else.

11-23-2004, 04:21 PM	#38
Scootermuze Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 4,513	Reminds me of a joke I heard some time ago... An elderly couple sitting on the porch swing... The wife turns and slaps the Hell out of the hubby... He says, "What was that for?" She says, "For 40 years of bad sex!" .. He sits for a minute, then turns and slaps the Hell out of the Mrs. .. She says, "What did ya do that for? He says, "For knowin' the difference!" .. Don't know that the hubster is the 'only one' .. But he's probably within a group consisting of but a few..

11-24-2004, 12:01 AM	#47
Humbolt Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Got a rubber I can borrow? Posts: 218	Oohhh Tam Tam Tam... I dont mean to be the asshole here...and you know me girlie. but goddam girl..what a bitch we are arent we? A man is faithful and good to you for that long...and ya just HAVE to find some way to make it not good enuff... I couldnt beleive what im readin. Sit down..shut the fuck up..give him a dam good blowjob and tell him how much you appreciate him being faithful...might give him an excuse to be faithful another 22 years. Loves ya anyways baby... Tell Jimmy I said hey hey!!

11-24-2004, 12:07 AM	#48
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11-24-2004, 06:43 AM	#50
Humbolt Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Got a rubber I can borrow? Posts: 218	I was just bein an ass dawlin..dont take it to heart. Still love me?