Nope, you are right, I don't. I ADID, however, try it twice, and I didn't like it either time. But I think he knows I gave it my best effort and I did at least try, I didn't shut him down on it at all without trying it first.

Be blunt all you want, I am the same way. LOL
I can't sit here and say I have been the perfect wife, or that he's been the perfect husband, you can't be together this long and not have faced many many issues.......... but we have always loved and trusted each other enough to get thru the hard shit. Our keys are communication, trust and honesty..... and most of all love for each other lol

I KNEW there were still a lot of great men left in the world.. I just knew it. This is great.
:thumbsup

I wondered when someone would catch that one. This is like a double edged sword, if you don't respond you get slapped, and if you do and respond honestly, you get slapped. LMAO

I avoid temptation by avoiding marriage . . . I know I am no good at it.

I salute you for such honesty..

As the warden in Cool Hand Luke said, "a man has got to know his limitations." I know mine.

Sounds like me and my wife. I have free reign to do what I want, when I want, and for as long as I want. She never complains. I've never had the urge to cheat nor do I intend to.

Oohhh Tam Tam Tam...

I dont mean to be the asshole here...and you know me girlie.

but goddam girl..what a bitch we are arent we?
A man is faithful and good to you for that long...and ya just HAVE to find some way to make it not good enuff...

I couldnt beleive what im readin.

Sit down..shut the fuck up..give him a dam good blowjob and tell him how much you appreciate him being faithful...might give him an excuse to be faithful another 22 years.


Loves ya anyways baby...

Tell Jimmy I said hey hey!!

men are men, sometimes we do things that were not intended. like what will you do if some hot chicks tease or seduce you? get my point?

Ok and just where in the hell do you see I was being a bitch? And where did you see that I said this wasn't good enough for me? I am confused about this so please tell me where you see that I said anything about not being happy with him and where was I being a bitch? I think you need to go back and re-read this thread...... it was ................... nevermind, it's too early for this and I am not ruining my thread by having it turn ugly. It's been a lighthearted and fun thread til this and I'm not playing this game.

I was just bein an ass dawlin..dont take it to heart.

Still love me?

Yeah, I know that, and I have seen it happen too many times.... men not being able to withstand the temptations, and women too.. it happens both ways. But I have been in clubs with him when he's been playing and watched women literally throw themselves at his feet, and he just goes along with what he is doing....... he turns red as a beet, and is flattered, but he's never acted on it. Will power, I guess........ LOL

McPheer... yup, that has a lot to do with it, very much so. I think nagging on either side, man or woman, just makes a marriage, or ANY relationship stress out and become weakened by the nagging. So we just don't do it... he doesn't try and "control me" and doesn't make me feel like I have to bow down and kiss his ass because he's the man, and so on.......... we just molded well together and don't push buttons to make things nasty. lol

Of course I do, you know that, just confused me is all.... and it's too damn early, I am supposed to still be sleeping.

I have been faithful for almost 3.5 years of marriage and dating. And I don't see that changing. I'm just too damned ugly ;)

17 years and still faithful.