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xenigo · 11-08-2004, 11:05 PM

Just got a phone call from a girl that I was totally digging. I gues we've gone out maybe 10 times now, and we've had a lot of fun together. I asked her what she's been up to tonight, and she said "Just got back from dinner with Jack". So I ask, who's Jack? She told me it's a new guy she's seeing.

This really, really fucking sucks.

jawanda · 11-08-2004, 11:06 PM

GiantGnome · 11-08-2004, 11:06 PM

tough break. im sorry to hear that but youll meet someone new in no time.

Illicit · 11-08-2004, 11:06 PM

Simple solution, shoot the bitch

Edit: ok ok dont shoot the bitch, fuck her mom

TheEbonyFelony · 11-08-2004, 11:07 PM

JACKS BETTER LOOKING AND HAS A BIGGER DICK

VeriSexy · 11-08-2004, 11:10 PM

Stop being such a nice guy and just fuck her already

Clicky_Bucks · 11-08-2004, 11:11 PM

She sucked Jack's cock tonight.

trogdor · 11-08-2004, 11:12 PM

shes giving jack a nice deep bj

SinSational · 11-08-2004, 11:12 PM

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Originally posted by TheEbonyFelony
JACKS BETTER LOOKING AND HAS A BIGGER DICK

Sosa · 11-08-2004, 11:12 PM

damn that sucks man, when you find the one you like you let her know...

hydro · 11-08-2004, 11:15 PM

don't call her anymore, start seeing some other girls and only respond to 1/2 of her calls. Make the conversations short and simple then hang up saying you gotta get going somewhere or something. She'll be all over you

pussyluver · 11-08-2004, 11:28 PM

Don't talk to her again, just hang up if she calls and move on with your life. She's a bitch to pull that kinda crap.

pussyluver · 11-08-2004, 11:29 PM

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Originally posted by hydro
don't call her anymore, start seeing some other girls and only respond to 1/2 of her calls. Make the conversations short and simple then hang up saying you gotta get going somewhere or something. She'll be all over you

Forget that shit. Who needs to paly those kinda head games.

ytcracker · 11-08-2004, 11:30 PM

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Originally posted by pussyluver
Forget that shit. Who needs to paly those kinda head games.

pimps players hustlers and macks that show a bitch who the boss is

SpaceAce · 11-09-2004, 12:11 AM

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Originally posted by hydro
don't call her anymore, start seeing some other girls and only respond to 1/2 of her calls. Make the conversations short and simple then hang up saying you gotta get going somewhere or something. She'll be all over you

Bingo. She didn't just happen to mention that she was out with Jack. She is playing a stupid little bitch game with you. Start blowing her off and she'll be leaving three messages per day inside a week.

SpaceAce

Persius · 11-09-2004, 12:14 AM

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Originally posted by SpaceAce
Bingo. She didn't just happen to mention that she was out with Jack. She is playing a stupid little bitch game with you. Start blowing her off and she'll be leaving three messages per day inside a week.

SpaceAce

yah!

ThunderBalls · 11-09-2004, 12:16 AM

Fuck man, at least she was honest about it. She didnt have to tell you, now at least you know where you stand and can move on and not wonder.

Vitasoy · 11-09-2004, 12:24 AM

Time to move on, girls like that

xenophobic · 11-09-2004, 12:25 AM

REDRUM.

Bake · 11-09-2004, 12:31 AM

Go see her and be upfront and tell her your not prepared to play those sorts of games. Then put it behind you and move on. If you do anything eles it will only be worse for you if its not finalized.
If only sucks.

xenigo · 11-09-2004, 12:40 AM

xenigo: that kinda makes me sad that you're seeing someone new

girl: I'm sorry....that probably wasn't the best way to tell you... but you and I were never very serious and.... I don't know I met him and there was just a great connection

xenigo: brb one sec

xenigo: k I'm back

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

xenigo: yeah I'll be alright

girl: k

xenigo: did you meet him online?

girl: yeah

xenigo: I see

girl : time for bed..talk to ya soon

xenigo: nite

SuckOnThis · 11-09-2004, 12:49 AM

Here's the best way to handle this. Tell her you love her so damn much all you're concerned is for her happiness. Then tell her you would like to go to dinner with her so you can get some closure. She will think how great you are and agree. Take her to a very expensive restaurant and after eating the most expensive thing on the menu and having a half dozen drinks excuse yourself to go to the john. Sneak out the door jump in your car and take off. Once you're a few miles down the road call her on her cell and tell her thanks for allowing you to get the closure you so badly needed and that you feel much better.

Persius · 11-09-2004, 12:51 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

FUCK!.....

thats all i gotta say.. the dreadfull friends shit... we all hate that.. sorry man

Melvin the Dude · 11-09-2004, 12:52 AM

hey, whatver happend to that chick that was falling for the Nigerian scam ?

Oh, that I agree with the advice here - put that bitch on ignore!

KMR Stitch · 11-09-2004, 12:52 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
xenigo: that kinda makes me sad that you're seeing someone new

girl: I'm sorry....that probably wasn't the best way to tell you... but you and I were never very serious and.... I don't know I met him and there was just a great connection

xenigo: brb one sec

xenigo: k I'm back

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

xenigo: yeah I'll be alright

girl: k

xenigo: did you meet him online?

girl: yeah

xenigo: I see

girl : time for bed..talk to ya soon

xenigo: nite

Good start.

Now the response ratio was 1:1 about make it

1:2

one response you : 2 of hers

BoNgHiTtA · 11-09-2004, 12:56 AM

You got the friend treatment, your done.

Hang it up and move on. Friend territory = never getting laid (unless by chance and thats just too rare to fuck with)

Gynecologist · 11-09-2004, 12:57 AM

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Originally posted by BoNgHiTtA
You got the friend treatment, your done.

Hang it up and move on. Friend territory = never getting laid (unless by chance and thats just too rare to fuck with)

Exactly.

ModelPerfect · 11-09-2004, 12:59 AM

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Originally posted by xenophobic
REDRUM.

SilverTab · 11-09-2004, 12:59 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

ding ding ding...

silent moan · 11-09-2004, 01:03 AM

ask her whats the real score...

getfreeze · 11-09-2004, 01:08 AM

sad thing, just fuck her and go ahead for new target. At least she told u the truth and dint cheated u....mabe....

ThunderBalls · 11-09-2004, 01:10 AM

All in all its just another brick in the wall.

NiTe-HaWk · 11-09-2004, 01:13 AM

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Just got a phone call from a girl that I was totally digging. I gues we've gone out maybe 10 times now, and we've had a lot of fun together. I asked her what she's been up to tonight, and she said "Just got back from dinner with Jack". So I ask, who's Jack? She told me it's a new guy she's seeing.

And you are in an exclusive relationship or something after 10 dates? lol Why are you not also seeing other people at the same time? Never put all your time into one girl.

Apache_A · 11-09-2004, 01:15 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

OUCH

jewcash · 11-09-2004, 01:15 AM

i just dont understand the conept of you like a girl a girl likes a guy..the two people enjoy each other and who gives a fuck about the outsiders

xenigo · 11-09-2004, 01:17 AM

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Originally posted by NiTe-HaWk
And you are in an exclusive relationship or something after 10 dates? lol Why are you not also seeing other people at the same time? Never put all your time into one girl.

We never really talked about exclusivity. I never wanted to bring it up because I figured she'd mention it if that's what she wanted. I didn't want to seem too forward. Now I'm wondering if being too casual is what led to this.

NiTe-HaWk · 11-09-2004, 01:34 AM

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We never really talked about exclusivity. I never wanted to bring it up because I figured she'd mention it if that's what she wanted. I didn't want to seem too forward. Now I'm wondering if being too casual is what led to this.

Your thinking is messed up. You should not be thinking like this because she went on a date with another guy. It sounds to me you are what girls think of as the nice guy

That is very bad for you. Go on a bunch of dates with other girls. And stop thinking that one girl is what you want. You want a bunch so your thinking becomes who cares if she goes out with another guy. I have tons more waiting for me. If I have time I will let her come with me sometime.

nofx · 11-09-2004, 01:38 AM

it's simple, you have to kill jack to get the girl back.

OWNED · 11-09-2004, 01:40 AM

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Originally posted by TheEbonyFelony
JACKS BETTER LOOKING AND HAS A BIGGER DICK

Word.

And you're a looer if you girl tells you shit like that to the face.
Sucks to be you.

xenigo · 11-09-2004, 01:40 AM

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Originally posted by NiTe-HaWk
Your thinking is messed up. You should not be thinking like this because she went on a date with another guy. It sounds to me you are what girls think of as the nice guy That is very bad for you. Go on a bunch of dates with other girls. And stop thinking that one girl is what you want. You want a bunch so your thinking becomes who cares if she goes out with another guy. I have tons more waiting for me. If I have time I will let her come with me sometime.

Yeah, that's what I need to do. I had some great fun this weekend, Dean and I picked up two hotties at a bar and brought them back to his place. We're going to do it again this weekend. Hopefully we'll have similar luck. It was a good feeling.

nofx · 11-09-2004, 01:42 AM

You have to kill Jack to the get girl back !

xenigo · 11-09-2004, 01:44 AM

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Originally posted by nofx
You have to kill Jack to the get girl back !

A little louder please? I can't hear you.

CET · 11-09-2004, 01:46 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
xenigo: that kinda makes me sad that you're seeing someone new

girl: I'm sorry....that probably wasn't the best way to tell you... but you and I were never very serious and.... I don't know I met him and there was just a great connection

xenigo: brb one sec

xenigo: k I'm back

girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok

xenigo: yeah I'll be alright

girl: k

xenigo: did you meet him online?

girl: yeah

xenigo: I see

girl : time for bed..talk to ya soon

xenigo: nite

This explains everything. If you went out with her 3 times, let alone 10, and didn't fuck her, then you're not going to fuck her. You're safe. She sees you as one of the girls, only with more testosterone in your blood. When Jack pisses her off, she'll come to you crying about it, but then go back to Jack's place that night and fuck the shit out of him.

Women walk all over nice guys. If you want to bag the girl, then you have to be a little bit of an asshole. Not a big asshole, just a little bit. Just enough so that you don't answer all your calls. Don't take calls from girls on the weekend, starting Friday night. If you don't fuck her by the 3rd date, dump that bitch. She's not going to put out and she's using you for a free meal. This is the same sort of womanly charm shit that gets men at nudey bars to cough up over $100 in one night on what amounts to nothing. Hell, less then nothing, because now you go home with and empty wallet AND blue balls.

CET · 11-09-2004, 01:50 AM

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Originally posted by xenigo
We never really talked about exclusivity. I never wanted to bring it up because I figured she'd mention it if that's what she wanted. I didn't want to seem too forward. Now I'm wondering if being too casual is what led to this.

When a girl first meets you, she knows within 10 seconds whether or not you have any chance of doin her. If you don't do her by the 3rd date, then there's a 90% chance that you're not ever going to do her.

xenigo · 11-09-2004, 01:53 AM

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Originally posted by CET
When a girl first meets you, she knows within 10 seconds whether or not you have any chance of doin her. If you don't do her by the 3rd date, then there's a 90% chance that you're not ever going to do her.

Yes, I'm aware of this. I try my hardest to live by it. By the third date I had spent some time making out with her on my bed, but you're right I didn't get laid. I guess I let feelings get in the way of what really matters.

mrthumbs · 11-09-2004, 01:53 AM

"I gues we've gone out maybe 10 times now, and we've had a lot of fun together"

Even without jack that would have been enough information.

Talking about a waste of resources!!!!

NiTe-HaWk · 11-09-2004, 01:55 AM

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This explains everything. If you went out with her 3 times, let alone 10, and didn't fuck her, then you're not going to fuck her. You're safe. She sees you as one of the girls, only with more testosterone in your blood. When Jack pisses her off, she'll come to you crying about it, but then go back to Jack's place that night and fuck the shit out of him.

He is right about that. I used to be like that too. Took a while to learn what the hell was going on.

You don't really have to be an asshole though. Teasing girls is the best thing you can do to them

wes · 11-09-2004, 01:55 AM

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Originally posted by hydro
don't call her anymore, start seeing some other girls and only respond to 1/2 of her calls. Make the conversations short and simple then hang up saying you gotta get going somewhere or something. She'll be all over you

Awesome strategy that works.

wes · 11-09-2004, 01:57 AM

xenigo man I know it hirts a lil but it will be alright. Forget that bitch man move on.

SmutGiant · 11-09-2004, 02:00 AM

50 bitches

11-08-2004, 11:05 PM	#1
xenigo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oakland, CA Posts: 8,067	the girl I'm seeing is seeing someone new Just got a phone call from a girl that I was totally digging. I gues we've gone out maybe 10 times now, and we've had a lot of fun together. I asked her what she's been up to tonight, and she said "Just got back from dinner with Jack". So I ask, who's Jack? She told me it's a new guy she's seeing. This really, really fucking sucks.

11-08-2004, 11:06 PM	#3
GiantGnome Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Nebraska Posts: 4,344	tough break. im sorry to hear that but youll meet someone new in no time. __________________ NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-Darth Vader

11-08-2004, 11:06 PM	#4
Illicit wtf ? Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: GFY Posts: 11,895	Simple solution, shoot the bitch Edit: ok ok dont shoot the bitch, fuck her mom __________________ Insert Sig Here Last edited by ajpiii; 11-08-2004 at 11:07 PM..

11-08-2004, 11:07 PM	#5
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11-08-2004, 11:12 PM	#8
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11-08-2004, 11:12 PM	#10
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11-08-2004, 11:15 PM	#11
hydro Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Dirty 3rd Posts: 4,216	don't call her anymore, start seeing some other girls and only respond to 1/2 of her calls. Make the conversations short and simple then hang up saying you gotta get going somewhere or something. She'll be all over you

11-08-2004, 11:28 PM	#12
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	Don't talk to her again, just hang up if she calls and move on with your life. She's a bitch to pull that kinda crap.

11-09-2004, 12:16 AM	#17
ThunderBalls So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Mesosphere Posts: 2,926	Fuck man, at least she was honest about it. She didnt have to tell you, now at least you know where you stand and can move on and not wonder.

11-09-2004, 12:24 AM	#18
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11-09-2004, 12:25 AM	#19
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11-09-2004, 12:31 AM	#20
Bake Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Outback of bumfuck Aussie Posts: 5,273	Go see her and be upfront and tell her your not prepared to play those sorts of games. Then put it behind you and move on. If you do anything eles it will only be worse for you if its not finalized. If only sucks. __________________ Buy great domains from drunken burned out old webmaster CHEAP bullseyeporn.com art-met.com and more. Learn how to make a easy extra $500 per week

11-09-2004, 12:40 AM	#21
xenigo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oakland, CA Posts: 8,067	xenigo: that kinda makes me sad that you're seeing someone new girl: I'm sorry....that probably wasn't the best way to tell you... but you and I were never very serious and.... I don't know I met him and there was just a great connection xenigo: brb one sec xenigo: k I'm back girl: You are one of the very few men I trust and I care about you a lot..... I count you as one of my closest friends.... Hope this is ok xenigo: yeah I'll be alright girl: k xenigo: did you meet him online? girl: yeah xenigo: I see girl : time for bed..talk to ya soon xenigo: nite

11-09-2004, 12:49 AM	#22
SuckOnThis So Fucking Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: In my head Posts: 6,844	Here's the best way to handle this. Tell her you love her so damn much all you're concerned is for her happiness. Then tell her you would like to go to dinner with her so you can get some closure. She will think how great you are and agree. Take her to a very expensive restaurant and after eating the most expensive thing on the menu and having a half dozen drinks excuse yourself to go to the john. Sneak out the door jump in your car and take off. Once you're a few miles down the road call her on her cell and tell her thanks for allowing you to get the closure you so badly needed and that you feel much better.

11-09-2004, 12:52 AM	#24
Melvin the Dude Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 844	hey, whatver happend to that chick that was falling for the Nigerian scam ? Oh, that I agree with the advice here - put that bitch on ignore!

11-09-2004, 12:56 AM	#26
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11-09-2004, 01:03 AM	#30
silent moan Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 1,908	ask her whats the real score...

11-09-2004, 01:08 AM	#31
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11-09-2004, 01:10 AM	#32
ThunderBalls So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Mesosphere Posts: 2,926	All in all its just another brick in the wall.

11-09-2004, 01:15 AM	#35
jewcash So Fucking Banned Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,571	i just dont understand the conept of you like a girl a girl likes a guy..the two people enjoy each other and who gives a fuck about the outsiders

11-09-2004, 01:38 AM	#38
nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	it's simple, you have to kill jack to get the girl back. __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

11-09-2004, 01:42 AM	#41
nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	You have to kill Jack to the get girl back ! __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

11-09-2004, 01:53 AM	#46
mrthumbs salad tossing sig guy Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: mrthumbs*gmail.com Posts: 11,702	"I gues we've gone out maybe 10 times now, and we've had a lot of fun together" Even without jack that would have been enough information. Talking about a waste of resources!!!!

11-09-2004, 01:57 AM	#49
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11-09-2004, 02:00 AM	#50
SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	50 bitches