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Tam · 09-30-2004, 04:25 PM

I am on a rant like I haven't been on in a very long time!!!

Have you ever been around people or done business with people that absolutely REFUSE to take any blame for any damn thing and go to any extreme to blame it on someone else? I get SOOOO FUCKING SICK of this bullshit!!! I realize, as I am so sure others do, thet we are HUMANS and humans make mistakes, happens every single day..... but I am one of these people that can handle the truth. If you fuck up, SAY it, and OWN it and apologize, fix it and move on. This horseshit about fucking up and then going to great measures to bury it is just plain fucked up and unprofessional as all hell!!!!

If you trip over a cord and unplug my server, SAY it....... if you ran over my dog, SAY it...... if you fuck up just own it people, how damn hard is this? It isn't like I think you are bad as a human being because you made a mistake, not at all, and in fact, I have a greater level of respect for those that have the courage to say they fucked up than I do those that try and bury it or blame someone else!!!!

Ok, my rant is done for the moment...... could get worse before it gets better, but for now I feel a little better!!!

The Other Steve · 09-30-2004, 04:27 PM

Amen sister

BradM · 09-30-2004, 04:27 PM

I uhh.. ran over your dog. Sorry. But it was Ted's fault.

dropped9 · 09-30-2004, 04:28 PM

Amen!!!!!

The worst kind of ppl are the ones that fuck up then put the blame on you!!!!!

They need to eat shit and die.

Tam · 09-30-2004, 04:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Headless
Amen!!!!!

The worst kind of ppl are the ones that fuck up then put the blame on you!!!!!

They need to eat shit and die.

I couldn't FUCKING agree more... and I am so damn sick of hearing, "musta been something YOU did" when I know damn well and so does the other party that it isn't me at all........ I judge more in the way people handle the bad than how they handle the good. ANYONE can be nice and cheery, but it takes a big person to admit they made mistakes!!! Do me right in the bad times, and I'll be your friend for life. LOL

YOU didn't run over my dog..... I FUCKING ran over my own dog..... even though I was sleeping, I still di it!!!

ronaldo · 09-30-2004, 04:33 PM

That's my biggest pet peeve about society today, is that noone is willing to take responsiblity for their actions.

Of course, with the inundation of bullshit psychologists today, what can you expect?

They'll tell you it's your parent's fault, or society's fault, or you're acting the way you do because your dog died when you were ten years old. They'll tell you anything to make YOU feel better about yourself, instead of dealing with the real issues-which include the fact that you MAY just be a fuckup!

crockett · 09-30-2004, 04:39 PM

I'm really sorry but it was all Juicy's fault.

jade_dragon · 09-30-2004, 04:39 PM

Yeah I hate that, one of the reasons I do not go to Cali to much. The people out there tend to want to blame everything on everyone else, you can see it in the court cases out there.

Tam · 09-30-2004, 04:53 PM

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Originally posted by crockett
I'm really sorry but it was all Juicy's fault.

Well THAT I believe... LMAO

jade. god, you have no idea. Live around a bunch of idiot rednecks. This is not what has me so pissy, but they are world renowned for blaming... LOL

mary34d · 09-30-2004, 05:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by crockett
I'm really sorry but it was all Juicy's fault.

No it was mine, I made him do it.

John_Doe · 09-30-2004, 05:50 PM

Amen.

NoCarrier · 09-30-2004, 05:55 PM

I AGREE ALSO!!!!

Sorry, I didn't read the first post..

TurboAngel · 09-30-2004, 06:20 PM

You hit the nail on the head girlfriend!

Tam · 09-30-2004, 06:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by NoCarrier
I AGREE ALSO!!!!

Sorry, I didn't read the first post..

And just WHO do you blame for the fact that you didn't read it? Lensman? rotfl

09-30-2004, 04:25 PM	#1
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	If you fuck up, OWN it, dammit!!!! I am on a rant like I haven't been on in a very long time!!! Have you ever been around people or done business with people that absolutely REFUSE to take any blame for any damn thing and go to any extreme to blame it on someone else? I get SOOOO FUCKING SICK of this bullshit!!! I realize, as I am so sure others do, thet we are HUMANS and humans make mistakes, happens every single day..... but I am one of these people that can handle the truth. If you fuck up, SAY it, and OWN it and apologize, fix it and move on. This horseshit about fucking up and then going to great measures to bury it is just plain fucked up and unprofessional as all hell!!!! If you trip over a cord and unplug my server, SAY it....... if you ran over my dog, SAY it...... if you fuck up just own it people, how damn hard is this? It isn't like I think you are bad as a human being because you made a mistake, not at all, and in fact, I have a greater level of respect for those that have the courage to say they fucked up than I do those that try and bury it or blame someone else!!!! Ok, my rant is done for the moment...... could get worse before it gets better, but for now I feel a little better!!!

09-30-2004, 04:27 PM	#2
The Other Steve Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Sunny Queensland - perfect one day and better the next. Posts: 2,106	Amen sister __________________ Left intentionally blank ... just like my brain

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dropped9 Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Your moms box Posts: 26,727	Amen!!!!! The worst kind of ppl are the ones that fuck up then put the blame on you!!!!! They need to eat shit and die.

09-30-2004, 04:33 PM	#6
ronaldo Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ#: 272000271 Posts: 5,475	That's my biggest pet peeve about society today, is that noone is willing to take responsiblity for their actions. Of course, with the inundation of bullshit psychologists today, what can you expect? They'll tell you it's your parent's fault, or society's fault, or you're acting the way you do because your dog died when you were ten years old. They'll tell you anything to make YOU feel better about yourself, instead of dealing with the real issues-which include the fact that you MAY just be a fuckup!

09-30-2004, 05:55 PM	#12
NoCarrier We need more free porn Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Montreal Posts: 16,356	I AGREE ALSO!!!! Sorry, I didn't read the first post.. __________________

09-30-2004, 06:20 PM	#13
TurboAngel H.B.I.C. Industry Role: Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 30,122	You hit the nail on the head girlfriend!