Betty.... I know your pics are already on the web on your own site, but....

What if, after being single again, your new boyfriend posted your pics on a message board without you knowing about it first?

Would you kill him or just cripple him so you could play cat & mouse with his pee pee?

Inquiring minds and all that.




Edit: 50 disrespecting idiots.

Ok CD I can accept the fact that my english is not ok and this fact can cause some missunderstanding.
BUt I think its you who doesn't understand this situation
This is not about my personal standarts and limits.Its all about that you are not able to accept that some1 else can have different limits or even oppinion.
you know what is the way of my thinking for example?
I think I would hurt my girlfriend feelings if I thought that she would be pissed off just because of this funny issue.I know she would never be as I know her well

BTW looks like you need to call the people retards when you end up with arguing
I am sorry for my english but I think you understand.Anyway I am able to speak several lenguages and haven't heard about you till now - just english as 92% of america population?

not nescessarly a professional thing to do, but he said he was dating her for seven years..

Nydahl, I live in Quebec, which is a very open society, and very European influenced. I have Polish roots as well. I still think it's disrespectful.

To say your girlfriend is the type of girl who's ok with it is one thing. To say your entire country is fine with it is a different story.

Nydahl, your many side-points and other arguments are neither relevant nor worth discussing. The issue is simple....

is it right to post pics of someone you supposedly care about without their knowledge or consent?

I say it isn't. And I'm right.

You say it is. And you're wrong.


You can debate it all week, you will still be wrong.

Oh, and Nydahl, I speak a little French and a little Spanish. I also know a few words in Cree.

Anything else?

Ok I tried to say that its no big deal for any girl here - thats the way of thinking here.Ok naked pic without hidden face , nobody knows its me + you are posting that pic in webmasters community which is like club to me.
I don't say its not ok for every1 here - but I Am sure its no big deal for close to evry1 here.We are ok and happy people

Would you please post nude pics of your wife or gf (if you have one), thanks. Don't tell her, just post them.

Since, you know, it's okay and all.

maybe a clothed pic on a non-adult board is alright, but not on a board of pornographers.

No, I don't think it's cool and I would never do that.

Its great and it makes you living 3 times (we say it this way here)

anyway when Juicy is posting some nasty pic or photoshoped pic (Aaron fucking another guy in the ass) - is it ok - without Aarons permision?
Yes it is - Juicy knows that Aaron is ok with this and he needs no permisson from Aaron as they know each other well and thats it.
The same for me and my GF - we are kidding about nothing

Anyway thanks for making my sig visible today - just got some small order - I owe you commission:glugglug

Both my girlfriend and I post here regularly and have been in this business for a while. We've also been together for 4 years.

Neither of us would ever post a picture of the other, clothed or nude, without the other's consent.

It's simply a matter of respect.

Most here are adult webmasters. We make our living showing nude pictures of woman (or men or trannies). It shows no disrespect to post a picture of you girlfriend or wife provided she agrees to it.

I would gladly post a picture of my girfriend of 10 years here, in fact I enjoy showing her off. She pefers I don't so I won't. She has her reasons which I understand. If she choose to share her image, I'm all for it.

We did a small website a long time ago and had fun with it. My g/f also reads gfy from time to time. Post without permission and you run the risk of getting caught and get what you deserve.

Something seems wrong with the notion of posting nude pictures of other woamn, but think it is wrong if your wife or g/f does the same thing.

Do you all think less of Ellie because she has posted her pics? Just using her as an example. I have high regards for Elli and many others that post pics.

Having read both threads.... geeze!!!! I know the story changed with time. Maybe it was a language thing, don't know.

That's my :2 cents: which I earned by reading it all. No ill aginst anyone that posted, just my feelings on the subject.

I give it up

ok I am an asshole and I go to remove the pics bitches

And that, my dear people.... says it all.


It truly is a matter of respect.

Your last sentence is the key part.

Nydahl's girlfriend hadn't consented to it and she was, in fact, unaware of it.

If you feel you have a valid point, don't just throw in the towel and give up!!! Stick to what you believe is right!

OK, I will leave the insults out and try to make some sense here to see if we can understand each other.

If you ever have the chance to visit this country, you will immediately notice that the attitude about things that are considered innapropriate in other parts of the world, is different here.

People is more open and light about sex , conventionalisms and relationships in general.

Many girls, normal girls, students, etc perform as nude models to supplement their income or help themslves through high school, universyty, etc..

We have TV programs, the normal kind of 9:00 evening shows that you have at home, but featuring full nudes and sex simulations. It's not pay per view, or cable exclusive, its an open TV program for all to view.

I've seen friends there, one of neighboor who is a lawyer just a few weeks ago discussing his sexual preferences. No big deal.

My point is, you have to consider the context to make an accusation of disrespect. Nydahl already explained the background of his relationship and why it is not such a big issue to post her picture here.

It is probaly not correct to do it, but give the context and the specifics of the situation, I do not think anybody should see him as a heartless jerk.

Elli's pictures are posted with her knowledge and consent. I would hazard a guess that if she were to find out her boyfriend was posting her pics around the web without her knowledge or consent she would be less than thrilled by it.

This guy posted his gf's pics without her prior consent or knowledge, something he himself admitted. If you cannot see the difference in the two scenarios, there is something wrong with your thinking as well.

People can respect those with a different point of view here! Well sorta. Well some. :1orglaugh :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Yep, I read the threads and understand. My post wasn't aimed at you. It just gets my goat when adult webmasters have a double standard or the surfers come by and call the models whores....

On track with your point, no problem. Saw your frustration

Do you have any idea how many people from Czeck Republic and Slovakia and surrounding nations are living here in Winnipeg?

Answer: tons.


I have known many of them over the years, they all were very proud but very private and traditional people. Don't try rationalizing Nydahl's poor judgement to me because there is no way to justify what he did without coming out looking completely stupid.

Naw, not taking that side on this one. Oh, I'm made myself look stupid more than once on this board, so it would not be a biggie though!!

Being half Sloviak myself (grandparents came over on the boat), I can't throw stones.

Hmh thats good you say that.As I posted in those threads above (and I hope you read that )I called her and she told me its ok.So I was right as I knew she is ok with this.

My problem is english and alcohol to keep it running

I like the part where she wants him to go home now..... But don't want to pick on the guy either. He gave ya a good gfy argument. Also think that if he believes he has a valid point of view, why not argue the point.

He has enough posts to count, hope he sticks around.

Why do you keep saying nobody can recognize her?? The first picture you posted was a shot of her face and body. Is she okay with it because you told her nobody would recognize her, or did you tell her that you posted a nude pic, and a pic of her face?

I don't care how long you have known her. I don't care if you THOUGHT she would be okay with it. It is ABSOLUTELY disrespectful to post her pics without her permission, no matter where she is from. Personally, I would totally kick your ass!!

Understand both - been there - and english is my first language. But look at my spelling.....

Good point. First Pic ID'd her

IDs her for second completaly different pics from behind?
Ok people you are loosing your minds.
I told you she will be ok with posting her pisc - she is and its still not enought for you.
Who the hell give you the right to tell its not ok.SHE is the only 1 who could say that and she is absolutely ok so what.

Some idiot told me that I am stupid of the moth just because I said that every guy is proud to have nice girl - whats wrong with you people - its true
I am very dissapointed of you puritans.
I made lot of good things for people I even don't know - whole my life.Talking about charity , helping friends in time , I even help that girl from GFY some time ago to send some money and I even don't know her.
I am trying to help people during whole my life and you fuckers are trying to show me as some fucker trying to bring some problem to GF by posting some pic without her permission.
FUck you all - I have no reason why bring her any problem and that reason is that I fucking don't care about bringing somebody (even my GF) to troubles.My life-motto was always making good .
I know my limits and I knew that its ok for her (and she confirmed that)
YOU honest perfect bitches go fuckyourself

Uuhhhh YES!!! If she were my neighbor, grocer, bank teller, child's teacher I would know EXACTLY who she was because YOU POSTED A PICTURE OF HER FACE!!!!!! Is it really that hard to understand, or are you that stupid/drunk.

It also does not matter if she says it is ok now....the point is you did not have HER permission to post HER pics (especially nude) on the internet!!! :321GFY

both - stupid and drunk you perfect.

Your GF said it was ok..? Let see the pic Nydahl..

No way I would post any pics without her consent. Possibly a normal pic but never a naked pic.

well maybe not a regular pic, but for sure a naked one

Don't get your panties all in a bunch. You might be the greatest guy in the world for all I know. BUT, when someone suggested that maybe you shouldn't do things like that, then maybe you should just re-think the situation. I see you have taken the "face" pic down, and I think that was a wise decision. The only reason you were catching so much grief is because you refused to acknowledge there was a problem.

You claim to have called her, but that was long after you had already posted the pictures.

sure she said its ok but doesn't matter now
I am the only monster on this board full of honest people following great life principals.So I can't post any pic even its ok for her.

Stop crying.

ok next try
I posted pic - non nude
then I posted PHOTOSHOPED pic - naked from behind
you said - its no good that she doesn't know about that naked pic from behind
I said - she is ok I know her for 13 years
you said - no its not ok
I called her and asked - is it ok?
she said - yes it is

So I was right as I know her and you don't but its still not enought.You are talking about timing "you should ask before ".
I say I don't need to ask her as I know what is wrong and what is good (and I am right as she told me).
anyway I am still stupid for you

lol.. who cares what others think.. If you know your GF is an exibitionist and though she wouldnt mind.. thats between you and your GF... People don't know your GF's personality...

Funny how nobody complained when AC posted a pic of his GF sucking his dick..

don't you feel some ironic touch in my post?
Nothing personal but you must be really boring partner for drinking in the bar - maybe for living a life with.One day your GF or wife will tell you "I loved your honest principals but now I want to feel somethng exciting.Bye dear honest CD"
:2 cents:

I think I used this sentence for 7 times today

Dear brainiac, the question here isn't "Is Nydahl wrong?"

The question is "Do you think it's right to post pictures of your gf without her knowledge or consent?"

Keywords; do "YOU" think it's right?

You're telling me you would have no problem upping nude pics of your gf or wife without first telling her about it?

So, because I have some respect for my woman I must be boring somehow?

Uh, okay then.

back off - you know I am right and you are trying to show me here as some cheap bitch acting to insult my GF.
I would love to know who do you think I am and also I would love to know who you are :glugglug
Maybe you are great man , excellent presonality maybe you are not - who knows

no I think you are boring as you can't make some fun - and this was the opportunity to make some funny replay.You unfortunately choosed another very seriouse and clever replay.Just to show me that your ego is somewhere alse then mine
You prefer your honest ego instead of some fun

"everyman must die 1 day but not everyman really lived" - I think it was Braveheart movie - don't remmeber exactly + spelling is probably shitty

Brainiac... ? lol.. Put that ego under control would you.. your are not smarter than the average idiot here.. but boy do you think otherwise...

My post wasn't an answer to the thread title but to the attacks directed at Nidhal..... You seem easily confused..

You can feel that ego fixing too?
Ok YOU can call me idiot - I can accept it from you :glugglug

I am greedy with my girl friend, i dont like to share.:BangBang: