DEAR ABBY: My husband has been viewing gay pornography on the internet every day - GoFuckYourself.com

Fred Quimby · 09-28-2004, 06:05 AM

DEAR ABBY: My husband, "George," and I have been married a year and are expecting a baby. I recently discovered that he has been viewing gay pornography every day for months on our home computer. I have tracked it using the history file, and finally confronted him.

George says it is just curiosity and that he is not gay or bisexual. He says he has never been with a man, nor would he want to. George did admit he has been viewing those sites for about three years.

This has left me feeling betrayed and questioning my husband's sexuality. How can a churchgoing, married man who's expecting a baby, who appears normal and heterosexual, be viewing gay pornography Web sites daily? -- TRUSTING IN TEXAS

DEAR TRUSTING: Because he finds them interesting and exciting and is getting something out of it. Bear in mind that being gay does not prevent a person from being religious, married, virile (or fertile), or "normal" in appearance. Your husband may be so deeply closeted that he hasn't even admitted to himself that he's gay. Your next move should be to insist that you and your husband consult a marriage counselor.

How come she didn't ask if the husband if jerked off to the gay porn?

LasseKongos · 09-28-2004, 06:11 AM

He´s a gaypornwebmaster

Satan · 09-28-2004, 06:15 AM

The interweb is EVIL!

mardigras · 09-28-2004, 08:06 AM

Often in cases like that there are tons of clues that the women live in denial around. I would bet this woman suspected something and wasn't just browsing his computer history out of boredom

Screaming · 09-28-2004, 08:10 AM

damn man how bad would that suck!

wyldblyss · 09-28-2004, 08:13 AM

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Originally posted by mardigras
Often in cases like that there are tons of clues that the women live in denial around. I would bet this woman suspected something and wasn't just browsing his computer history out of boredom

You hit the nail on the head. She knew something was up, that is why she went snooping

Loch · 09-28-2004, 08:26 AM

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Originally posted by LasseKongos
He´s a gaypornwebmaster

THAT was my first thought

Manowar · 09-28-2004, 02:47 PM

fris · 09-28-2004, 02:49 PM

link?

stocktrader23 · 09-28-2004, 02:50 PM

It's ok. I told her I just sell it and don't get off to it and she forgave me.

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Fred Quimby Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Long Island, NY Posts: 5,430	DEAR ABBY: My husband has been viewing gay pornography on the internet every day DEAR ABBY: My husband, "George," and I have been married a year and are expecting a baby. I recently discovered that he has been viewing gay pornography every day for months on our home computer. I have tracked it using the history file, and finally confronted him. George says it is just curiosity and that he is not gay or bisexual. He says he has never been with a man, nor would he want to. George did admit he has been viewing those sites for about three years. This has left me feeling betrayed and questioning my husband's sexuality. How can a churchgoing, married man who's expecting a baby, who appears normal and heterosexual, be viewing gay pornography Web sites daily? -- TRUSTING IN TEXAS DEAR TRUSTING: Because he finds them interesting and exciting and is getting something out of it. Bear in mind that being gay does not prevent a person from being religious, married, virile (or fertile), or "normal" in appearance. Your husband may be so deeply closeted that he hasn't even admitted to himself that he's gay. Your next move should be to insist that you and your husband consult a marriage counselor. How come she didn't ask if the husband if jerked off to the gay porn? __________________

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