I prefer the mind over the body. MOST of the time the guys with the hot bodies are so consumed with themselves that they can't think of much else.... I want one that can think past his own nose..... LMAO
I'll go even further and say I'd rather have a brainy funny guy who was downright ugly than a good looking idiot with no personality
And I've made that choice MANY times and never lived to regret it
However, I did marry a funny genius who was also great looking with a killer bod and hung like a horse and I'm glad I did so I had a cute kid. But even he was still an asshole (husband, not the kid ) I should have stuck with the ugly guys
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90% of women preffer being with a smart guy with average looks than a "stud" with the iq of a chimp. If you want some proof go to americansingles.com and take a look at how they rate intelligence compared to how they rate looks.
Originally posted by hydro 90% of women preffer being with a smart guy with average looks than a "stud" with the iq of a chimp. If you want some proof go to americansingles.com and take a look at how they rate intelligence compared to how they rate looks.
Now compare that with who they will fuck on the first date or use as a bootycall.
I would pick the one who was 100% completely faithful.
They can be dumb as long as they are faithful, or not that good-looking as long as they are faithful, if they aren't then nothing else matters. I don't care of they are a genius, or look like Brad Pitt, if they are going to cheat on me then there is no point!!
I would even be with someone not great looking and not the smartest who is even poor, as long as they are faithful.. that is the only thing that matters to me.
Originally posted by sweetums I don't discount the importance of sexual attraction, but at the end of the day it's I think the brain is still the most powerful sex organ
Throw wit into the mix and I'm a goner ;)
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It's a good question, but unfortunately not one that people can truthfully or accurately answer themselves. It's a fact that people will not want to make themselves look like superficial idiots, and therefore will give the answer they think will make themselves look better.
I've seen some interesting psychology studies videotaped, in my days as a psychology student. One of which was where they put an average looking lady on the side of the road, with the hood on her car up, during rush hour traffic. Not one soul stopped to help her. If you asked those people if they'd stop for an average looking lady who needed help, do you think they'd say no?
Just as you might guess, they followed that segment with an extremely attractive lady in the same situation. In contrast, she had DOSENS of men lining up in their cars, behind hers. They were WALKING to fill up gas cans, and even after explaining other guys were already getting gas, MORE men went to get gas for her. By the time the tape was over, 3 or 4 men had brought her gas.
Looks are most definitely not everything. Ever meet someone for the first time and your first thought is that they're not very visually appealing? Then you start hanging with them a bit more and next thing you know you're dating. Three months down the road you think he's the sexiest man you've ever met.
Luckily I'm currently dating someone with both looks and brains. Now I just have to teach him English and I'll be all set.
mind over body...I cannot stand a man that has no common sense..I dont give a fuck how great they thing they look..plus who wants a man that is better looking than them...
Originally posted by Tam I prefer the mind over the body. MOST of the time the guys with the hot bodies are so consumed with themselves that they can't think of much else.... I want one that can think past his own nose..... LMAO
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Originally posted by sweetums I don't discount the importance of sexual attraction, but at the end of the day it's I think the brain is still the most powerful sex organ
Throw wit into the mix and I'm a goner ;)
That's about how I feel. A guy can be so mentally stimulating, but if he's ugly, you can't get past a lack of physical attraction. Another thing that's sexy is talent. There's nothing hotter than a musician.
In a crowd, the attraction is to the regular guy that exudes intelligence. I've never been one to go for the hotties & very rarely will comment on a guys 'good looks'. Beauty is skin deep - if the beauty is gone, what's there to look forward to?
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