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  • GTS Mark
    Vrume Mark
    • Jan 2001
    • 20912

    #1

    The Biggest Secret In Making Money (Newbies Listen Up!)

    Lesson #1

    Keep your fucking mouth shut!!!

    I learned this lesson hard today.... Went in to see my hair stylist, who is a buddy of mine and also a real estate investor. A couple of months ago I was in there to get my hair cut and we always shoot the shit about the properties we have and what we are looking at buying.

    I had an awesome chance at buying a huge lot with a massive commercial building right in the middle of town. The lot was almost an acre in the downtown core! Long story short the building was in distress and needed a considerable amount of work done to it ($75k plus in renos to start) But the rental income was over $7000 a month.

    I saw the longterm money in this deal and decided to lowball the seller on the price so I could put the money I saved into renovations to fix up the building. My investors would not agree to this deal due to the amount of work involved and the deal fell apart.

    I went and to get my hair cut and told my hairstylist guy about this great deal on this awesome property and I was trying to get it worked out. A few weeks later I teamed up with another investor buddy of mine and we decided to go after the same building. Then as we went to re-open negotiations I find out the building sold?? It's been up on the market for over a year and a half and no buyers the whole time??!!

    Long story short, my "friend" the hairstylist went behind my back 1 day afterwards got some investors together and bought this property. The deal closed the day we got our shit together for another offer....

    Just goes to show you to always keep your mouth shut when you have a good deal... This property could have made me millions in the long term but oh well I only have myself to blame.

    I hope this post will at least encourage some of you to keep your mouth shut if you have a good thing going. Please learn from my lesson.

    DH
  • European Lee
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2002
    • 7133

    #2
    Lesson #2

    Sig Spot

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    • JakeR
      Confirmed User
      • May 2001
      • 1760

      #3
      Lesson #3

      get local hairdressers on payroll
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      • wdsguy
        Ryde or Die
        • Dec 2002
        • 19568

        #4
        damn that really sux bro but yea can't trust anyone nowdays

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        • kaliboy2g
          So Fucking Banned (YEA!!)
          • Jun 2004
          • 10963

          #5
          Thats fucked up.

          You think someone is your friend but for money they would stab you in the back..


          You know him long?
          Care about me?
          Who?
          Me!
          Who?

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          • GTS Mark
            Vrume Mark
            • Jan 2001
            • 20912

            #6
            Originally posted by JakeR
            Lesson #3

            get local hairdressers on payroll
            LOL! No Shit!!

            The Wealthy Barber is wealthy for a reason!!!

            DH

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            • Headless
              Registered User
              • Jan 2001
              • 26727

              #7
              Originally posted by European Lee
              Lesson #2

              Sig Spot

              Regards,

              Lee

              Lesson #4

              Put the idiot Lee on ignore.

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              • jwerd
                Confirmed User
                • Jun 2003
                • 1953

                #8
                sorry to hear that man. thanks very much for the advice
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                • GTS Mark
                  Vrume Mark
                  • Jan 2001
                  • 20912

                  #9
                  Originally posted by kaliboy2g
                  Thats fucked up.

                  You think someone is your friend but for money they would stab you in the back..


                  You know him long?
                  I have not known him for long (less than 2 years) but he is a neighbour of mine. I own an office building close to his hairstyling salon and he wants to buy me out of it ;)

                  DH

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                  • stevecore
                    Confirmed User
                    • May 2003
                    • 6130

                    #10
                    yes a very good lesson. i was taught a long time ago that if youre doing good, dont show it. whenever someone asks how things are going, the only thing to say is "things are going alright". if things are great, the nosy ones will try and get in on your business to see whats making you money and if anything try and get a piece for themselves.

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                    • BigWebRev
                      Confirmed User
                      • Aug 2004
                      • 1631

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Headless
                      Lesson #4

                      Put the idiot Lee on ignore.
                      ROFL

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                      • European Lee
                        Confirmed User
                        • Dec 2002
                        • 7133

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Headless
                        Lesson #4

                        Put the idiot Lee on ignore.
                        You do see the irony in quoting my post in that reply right?

                        Regards,

                        Lee
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                        • GTS Mark
                          Vrume Mark
                          • Jan 2001
                          • 20912

                          #13
                          Originally posted by stevecore
                          yes a very good lesson. i was taught a long time ago that if youre doing good, dont show it. whenever someone asks how things are going, the only thing to say is "things are going alright". if things are great, the nosy ones will try and get in on your business to see whats making you money and if anything try and get a piece for themselves.
                          Very true Steve, success breeds jealousy, which sometimes breeds hate...

                          DH

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                          • MichaelP
                            Registered User
                            • Aug 2003
                            • 7123

                            #14
                            YEah Mark. this sucks big time

                            Better luck with your next project buddy

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                            • DatingGold
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                              • Feb 2003
                              • 13185

                              #15
                              sometimes the less you say the better :-)
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                              • chowda
                                Confirmed User
                                • Jun 2003
                                • 9527

                                #16
                                tip

                                know 1 bank rep from each bank around the area u want to purchase.

                                best way of finding private deals.
                                Someone finds you...
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                                • GTS Mark
                                  Vrume Mark
                                  • Jan 2001
                                  • 20912

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by DatingGold
                                  sometimes the less you say the better :-)
                                  Yep absolutely! I agree!

                                  DH

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                                  • Tala
                                    Fucked if I know
                                    • Dec 2002
                                    • 23368

                                    #18
                                    Nice "friend" you got there.

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                                    • GTS Mark
                                      Vrume Mark
                                      • Jan 2001
                                      • 20912

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by chowda
                                      tip

                                      know 1 bank rep from each bank around the area u want to purchase.

                                      best way of finding private deals.
                                      I have a kickass mortgage broker he makes bank lenders look like schmucks... Those lenders have to make sure you fit in their particular formula before they lend you money....

                                      DH

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                                      • GTS Mark
                                        Vrume Mark
                                        • Jan 2001
                                        • 20912

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by Tala
                                        Nice "friend" you got there.
                                        Yeah tell me about it!

                                        DH

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                                        • Ray@TastyDollars
                                          • May 2002
                                          • 6797

                                          #21
                                          Or it could turn out to be a money pit and buyer will lose a fortune.

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                                          • evildick

                                            #22
                                            Just pray that when he starts renovating he discovers it's loaded with asbestos and shitty aluminum wiring.

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                                            • TheJimmy
                                              ICQ- five seven 0 2 5 5 0
                                              • Jan 2001
                                              • 10747

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by stevecore
                                              yes a very good lesson. i was taught a long time ago that if youre doing good, dont show it. whenever someone asks how things are going, the only thing to say is "things are going alright". if things are great, the nosy ones will try and get in on your business to see whats making you money and if anything try and get a piece for themselves.

                                              sad but very very true :/


                                              sucks to find that out about your hair person though...I like being able to shoot the shit with them as well...
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                                              • Sunny Leone
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Dec 2002
                                                • 1616

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by wdsguy
                                                damn that really sux bro but yea can't trust anyone nowdays
                                                That is true. You cant trust anyone. Well everything happens for a reason my friend!

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                                                • GTS Mark
                                                  Vrume Mark
                                                  • Jan 2001
                                                  • 20912

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by Ray
                                                  Or it could turn out to be a money pit and buyer will lose a fortune.
                                                  Well I doubt he will be able to secure insurance by closing date. But we will see...

                                                  DH

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                                                  • WiredGuy
                                                    Pounding Googlebot
                                                    • Aug 2002
                                                    • 34512

                                                    #26
                                                    I hope he gave you the haircut for free at least.
                                                    WG
                                                    I play with Google.

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                                                    • GTS Mark
                                                      Vrume Mark
                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                      • 20912

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                      I hope he gave you the haircut for free at least.
                                                      WG
                                                      Dude he owes me ALOT of free haircuts! LOL!

                                                      DH

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                                                      • AdultNex
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Feb 2003
                                                        • 8985

                                                        #28
                                                        Macroeconomics 101:

                                                        People act on their own self-interest.

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                                                        • WiredGuy
                                                          Pounding Googlebot
                                                          • Aug 2002
                                                          • 34512

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by DrinkingHard
                                                          Dude he owes me ALOT of free haircuts! LOL!

                                                          DH
                                                          Did he at least apologize or offer to give you a cut for finding the property? I wouldn't go back to him if he didn't at least thank you appropriately.

                                                          WG
                                                          I play with Google.

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                                                          • WiredGuy
                                                            Pounding Googlebot
                                                            • Aug 2002
                                                            • 34512

                                                            #30
                                                            After reading this story, this reminds me of the book the wealthy barber

                                                            hehe
                                                            WG
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                                                            • GTS Mark
                                                              Vrume Mark
                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                              • 20912

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by WiredGuy
                                                              Did he at least apologize or offer to give you a cut for finding the property? I wouldn't go back to him if he didn't at least thank you appropriately.

                                                              WG
                                                              LOL! No thanks not even a free haircut!!

                                                              DH

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                                                              • PornGeneral
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Sep 2004
                                                                • 564

                                                                #32
                                                                Set him up with another "awesome" deal. This time make it one of your properties and take him to the bank..

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                                                                Last edited by PornGeneral; 09-20-2004, 05:30 PM.
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                                                                • gornyhuy
                                                                  Chafed.
                                                                  • May 2002
                                                                  • 18041

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Its a tough call because giving little tidbits to friends and business partners has often led to me getting in on equally or more lucrative opportunities...

                                                                  often you get burned, but just as often you might get a golden nugget.

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                                                                  • BrainDead
                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                    • Dec 2003
                                                                    • 1536

                                                                    #34
                                                                    thanks for sharing man!

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                                                                    • xlogger
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                                      • 9507

                                                                      #35
                                                                      <--- always keeps mouth shut ... well i have to im only 1 1/2 month old in the adult biz, its not like anyone will listen to me anyways.

                                                                      But i dont think i am doing that bad, 1st month i made 1k
                                                                      Last edited by xlogger; 09-20-2004, 06:41 PM.

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                                                                      • NinjaSteve
                                                                        Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                        • Dec 2003
                                                                        • 11089

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by DrinkingHard
                                                                        Dude he owes me ALOT of free haircuts! LOL!

                                                                        DH
                                                                        I think he owes you a lifetime of free haircuts. But the question is... now that he's done this... can you trust him to cut your hair?
                                                                        ...

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                                                                        • pornguy
                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                          • Mar 2003
                                                                          • 62910

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Note to self:

                                                                          Make sure tricky hairdresser ends up face down in a river.
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                                                                          • Jimatcohf
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                                                                            • Jan 2004
                                                                            • 277

                                                                            #38
                                                                            where the fuck is he mark, ill nut all over his face and kick his ass
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                                                                            • The Heron
                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                                              • 4496

                                                                              #39
                                                                              I never talk when I get my hair cut, I let em do their job and I fucking leave!

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                                                                              • sake
                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                • Apr 2002
                                                                                • 2648

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by stevecore
                                                                                yes a very good lesson. i was taught a long time ago that if youre doing good, dont show it. whenever someone asks how things are going, the only thing to say is "things are going alright". if things are great, the nosy ones will try and get in on your business to see whats making you money and if anything try and get a piece for themselves.
                                                                                so true, learned that lesson this summer

                                                                                and i learned to keep my mouth shut from now on

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                                                                                • sake
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Apr 2002
                                                                                  • 2648

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by DrinkingHard
                                                                                  LOL! No thanks not even a free haircut!!

                                                                                  DH
                                                                                  i would not go back to that barbershop if i was you..

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                                                                                  • huey
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Apr 2003
                                                                                    • 3955

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Whats with a dude hair stylist. Huge mistake rite there.
                                                                                    If you had an old barber guy or a chick that would have never happened.
                                                                                    opinions are like assholes.................


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