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Ironhorse · 09-16-2004, 08:13 PM

We've been married for 14 years, separated for the last 2 years but we've spent pretty much all last summer together but now all of sudden she flipped out and says having sex with me is too emotionally painful because she keeps getting the hope we will get back together and then she is reminded of our incompatibility: she just became a school teacher and I obviously work in porn, and this just scratches the surface really.

We're still in love with each other, it's a bit of a tragedy actually but I was hoping we could re-invent our relationship. We've been talking about divorce for some time, I don't really want to, and she hasn't made a move but now this. WTF are all women like this? I've been with her since 19 and faithful throughout, despite tempation but damn, this makes my head spin..

I understand I moved out etc, so she wasn't very happy about that but I couldn't live with her, even academiccally I think women and men should live separately, anyway flame away..

Life's a bitch - Motorhead rocks

Ice · 09-16-2004, 08:16 PM

sorry to hear man.....

brand0n · 09-16-2004, 08:16 PM

she got any hot friends?

Ironhorse · 09-16-2004, 08:19 PM

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Originally posted by brand0n
she got any hot friends?

Yeah earlier this summer we had agreed on fuckbuddy status, that's what makes this so confusing. I guess I was hoping to get around a little and she has my permission to experiment, but we're a really good match, good friends, good lovers.. I really don't want anybody else, if I think about it.

BrainDead · 09-16-2004, 08:22 PM

just give her a time. it's good to hear you were together last summer.you should have known each other well for 14yrs. i hope you'll work on your relationship.

Sosa · 09-16-2004, 08:23 PM

that sucks ass bro, hope everything works out for the better.

Ironhorse · 09-16-2004, 08:30 PM

I forgot to mention we also have 2 kids so no doubt they're puzzled as fuck..

Screaming · 09-16-2004, 08:32 PM

dude i dont know what to tell you except that it might be better for both and easier to split and start different lives

Ironhorse · 09-16-2004, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by Screaming
dude i dont know what to tell you except that it might be better for both and easier to split and start different lives

Yeah we tried that but we're best friends and having the kids there's no way to be apart really.

qwe · 09-16-2004, 08:38 PM

why'd you move out in a first place ? since you like each other why not live together ?

Pipecrew · 09-16-2004, 08:40 PM

19 years faithful?. that's awesome, 1.9 weeks is hard for me.

SexuallyDriven · 09-16-2004, 08:44 PM

Wow, hopefully everything will work out for you two. Maybe you can talk more about the problems you are both facing and see if you can work it out. Especially since you have two kids. You don't want them growing up with divorced parents. Also the fact that you are so compatiable with your wife makes it all the reason to try to work everything out. If all else fails then ....

Good Luck.

09-16-2004, 08:45 PM

Wow.. We have opposite problems. My GF won't sleep with me until we get married. She cut me off because I'm taking too long.

Rochard · 09-16-2004, 09:10 PM

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Originally posted by shermsshack
Wow.. We have opposite problems. My GF won't sleep with me until we get married. She cut me off because I'm taking too long.

Thank God you have thumbs, right?

Sly · 09-16-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by Ironhorse
Yeah earlier this summer we had agreed on fuckbuddy status, that's what makes this so confusing. I guess I was hoping to get around a little and she has my permission to experiment, but we're a really good match, good friends, good lovers.. I really don't want anybody else, if I think about it.

Here you're saying you're a great match, but above you're saying how incompatible you are. Are you confused?

VeriSexy · 09-16-2004, 09:20 PM

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Originally posted by shermsshack
Wow.. We have opposite problems. My GF won't sleep with me until we get married. She cut me off because I'm taking too long.

At least you know she will never cheat on you

09-16-2004, 09:23 PM

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Originally posted by RocHard
Thank God you have thumbs, right?

Thats the only think saving me Rochard!

pussyluver · 09-16-2004, 09:33 PM

You said that you're in love with her and that you have to children. That equals marriage counseling I suspect. Problem is find the right doctor.

GFY isn't the answer other than to show others care about you. So it wasn't not wrong to post the problem no matter what the hatters say.

Best of luck to ya!

neewwman · 09-16-2004, 09:39 PM

It sounds like there's something there to be salvaged. You owe it to the kids to get marriage counseling.

chaze · 09-16-2004, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by neewwman
It sounds like there's something there to be salvaged. You owe it to the kids to get marriage counseling.

Is that denise richards in your sig? I dig her

Dude let her go you can't shoplift the putty from a single mom.

AaronM · 09-16-2004, 09:59 PM

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Originally posted by Ironhorse
We've been married for 14 years, separated for the last 2 years but we've spent pretty much all last summer together but now all of sudden she flipped out and says having sex with me is too emotionally painful because she keeps getting the hope we will get back together and then she is reminded of our incompatibility: she just became a school teacher and I obviously work in porn, and this just scratches the surface really.

We're still in love with each other, it's a bit of a tragedy actually but I was hoping we could re-invent our relationship. We've been talking about divorce for some time, I don't really want to, and she hasn't made a move but now this. WTF are all women like this? I've been with her since 19 and faithful throughout, despite tempation but damn, this makes my head spin..

I understand I moved out etc, so she wasn't very happy about that but I couldn't live with her, even academiccally I think women and men should live separately, anyway flame away..

Life's a bitch - Motorhead rocks

Follow these 6 basic steps.

1: NEVER post your personal shit on GFY.

2: Drop the bitch.

3: Walk the fuck away.

4: Pack your shit.

5: Leave town.

6: Never look back.

Loryn · 09-16-2004, 10:02 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
Follow these 6 basic steps.

1: NEVER post your personal shit on GFY.

2: Drop the bitch.

3: Walk the fuck away.

4: Pack your shit.

5: Leave town.

6: Never look back.

Gee, where have I heard that before???

pure energy · 09-16-2004, 10:04 PM

Wow you doubled the 7-year itch bro. I guess you both need space. Give her time to think about and assess the relationship. Parting ways is not always the solution, all you need to do is reflect and ask yourselves if you still love each other.

AaronM · 09-16-2004, 10:08 PM

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Originally posted by Loryn-Adult.com
Gee, where have I heard that before???

Probably from some asshole who was handing out free advice to a person in need.

09-16-2004, 08:13 PM	#1
Ironhorse Pixel Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,094	My wife won't fuck until we divorce We've been married for 14 years, separated for the last 2 years but we've spent pretty much all last summer together but now all of sudden she flipped out and says having sex with me is too emotionally painful because she keeps getting the hope we will get back together and then she is reminded of our incompatibility: she just became a school teacher and I obviously work in porn, and this just scratches the surface really. We're still in love with each other, it's a bit of a tragedy actually but I was hoping we could re-invent our relationship. We've been talking about divorce for some time, I don't really want to, and she hasn't made a move but now this. WTF are all women like this? I've been with her since 19 and faithful throughout, despite tempation but damn, this makes my head spin.. I understand I moved out etc, so she wasn't very happy about that but I couldn't live with her, even academiccally I think women and men should live separately, anyway flame away.. Life's a bitch - Motorhead rocks __________________ [email protected]

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Ironhorse Pixel Pusher Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 7,094	I forgot to mention we also have 2 kids so no doubt they're puzzled as fuck.. __________________ [email protected]

09-16-2004, 08:32 PM	#8
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09-16-2004, 08:22 PM	#5
BrainDead So Fucking Banned Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 1,536	just give her a time. it's good to hear you were together last summer.you should have known each other well for 14yrs. i hope you'll work on your relationship.

09-16-2004, 08:23 PM	#6
Sosa In Tushy Land Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Nebraska Posts: 40,149	that sucks ass bro, hope everything works out for the better.

09-16-2004, 08:38 PM	#10
qwe Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 2,109	why'd you move out in a first place ? since you like each other why not live together ?

09-16-2004, 08:40 PM	#11
Pipecrew Master of Gfy.com Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 14,887	19 years faithful?. that's awesome, 1.9 weeks is hard for me.

09-16-2004, 08:44 PM	#12
SexuallyDriven Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 275	Wow, hopefully everything will work out for you two. Maybe you can talk more about the problems you are both facing and see if you can work it out. Especially since you have two kids. You don't want them growing up with divorced parents. Also the fact that you are so compatiable with your wife makes it all the reason to try to work everything out. If all else fails then .... Good Luck.

09-16-2004, 08:45 PM	#13
shermo Guest Posts: n/a	Wow.. We have opposite problems. My GF won't sleep with me until we get married. She cut me off because I'm taking too long.

09-16-2004, 09:33 PM	#18
pussyluver Clueless OleMan Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ICQ - 169903487 Posts: 11,009	You said that you're in love with her and that you have to children. That equals marriage counseling I suspect. Problem is find the right doctor. GFY isn't the answer other than to show others care about you. So it wasn't not wrong to post the problem no matter what the hatters say. Best of luck to ya!

09-16-2004, 09:39 PM	#19
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09-16-2004, 10:04 PM	#23
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