Fuck, that's sad !

Very nicely put....:thumbsup

Yep, she was man.

It's time to head down to the clinic and get an STD test before you hit the open market...

The SWAB will surely lift your spirits.

Sorry 'bout the luck.

-P

As was once said to me...

If you love someone enough set them free.

If they dont come back hunt them down and kill them...

nah but seriously dude move on...plenty more fish in the sea.:2 cents:

Amen

Thecooze,

My ex boyfriend went out with a new girl 2 DAYS after we broke up, she was his dental assistant and he met her already while we were going out, but he "claimed" that he wasn't interested in her until we broke up. I think it's bullshit because he was already "eyeing" her. Anyways, I had no self-respect and very bad self-esteem, I would cry and bawl and beg to him over the phone and ask him how he could do this to me after so many years and begged him back. I was very pathetic and acted like a crazy "psycho" and asked him what her name was, how she looked like, what movie the went to go see, what she did for a living, if they fucked yet, and who was better in bed.... lol

So my advice is, DON'T BE LIKE ME! I lost absolutely all self-respect and had nothing left, not even my pride! I asked him why he would do this so fucken soon, it was only 2 days! And he was like "Wtf, there's no rule that says you have to wait a certain amount of time. Your the past and she's the future"...
That was fuckin' cold! But I went through the same shit, and the worst was losing my dignity, it was so bad that I didn't even have that left at the end.. I can't believe someone could bring me down that low and make me so crazy!

I'm a bit of weirdo tho, it took me over a year to get over him.. Even after a year I would still cry at night all the time and get mad over old shit from the past... But it does pass....

the fucked up thing is this bitch is a dental assistant

and i feel ya with the pathetic shit

i broke up with her and i wasnt ready to see her another guy yet
so i was just like what the fuck myself

The other guy had a better rap than you did. Straight up.

The number one rule for life as a man is this: Always keep you game tight.

Players are everywhere homing in on your babe, talking all kinds of smooth shit to get in their pants. If you game is truly tight at all times, she has no reason to shop around for a new dick since her man has it going on.

Examine your game for where you are lacking grasshopper.

If you show that this upset you she will get a big ego boost. If you ignore it she will wonder why you're not upset and it will burn her up. Act like it's no big deal and like you don't care and it will be the best way to get under her skin.

There's a reason she took that guy to the bar you hang out at. She wanted to upset you. Think. She could easily have gone somewhere else where you wouldn't be and avoid any problems. She didn't do that. She went out of her way to piss you off. And it worked.

Right now she has power over you. Ignore this and you take the power back. Simple.

And stop being such a fucking pussy.

you know what guys... what "thecooze" feel at this point of time is very normal and quite understandable... he is going through hell rite now... and its quite normal. Don't rush things... you'll get over in time... crying & sulking is normal but you have to know that crying & sulking must stop! you gotta bounce back into lifes mainstream... dont blame yourself if she found someone new... it wasn't your fault! remember this... you can never be the caused of someone else actions what she did is her fault not yours. just take it one step at a time... and before you know it... DENG! your healed!:thumbsup

As the MOM of the board... my son think of it this way...


He was probably her gay friend-boy. All women have one. They are usually wickedly handsome and extremely affectionate. He was just trying to make her feel better since you dumped her.

Now, I can tell you are young... so move on. Give it, maybe 10-15 minutes of sadness and move on.



oh, and the worst part of all this is you can count on it happening several more times in your life. Just learn from it and your recovery time ...next time... will be shorter.

done that and it really piss's them off.

best 2 fuck her friends before you break up. :Graucho

fuck her then, I've fucked some of my girlfriends mom's. Fucked one of my ex-wives mother's also.

very good advice :thumbsup

My cousin did that AND video'd it :1orglaugh

His wife's mom was a crackhead and easily enticed


btw. he's divorced now :)

It's hard right now, but you should be happy you're rid of her. Obviously, if after a relationship which lasted for years she finds someone new within a week, she's nothing but a pathetic whore who didn't give a shit about you in the first place.

Lesson of the day - Don't post personal shit on a board thats populated with 200lb 15 year olds that have never been 20 feet from a woman.

Just move on dude. She's not "yours" and you're not "hers". Break up your routine, rearrange your house, do something that pry's you out of that old comfort zone. Does a lot of good :thumbsup

Agreed. Been there done that

:1orglaugh

So fucking true

here's some advice:

NEXT!

Yup.

This is important for anyone who broke up after along term relationship.

The only true test of a relationship is when it's over. Meaning if she dates after a week then she is not a relationship type of girl and sorry but most likely cheated on you. Keep in mind most girls are like this.

For the minority of women that deeply care about who they are with and are loyal they will take at least a month but more like 3 month to years before getting back on the saddle.

This is a fact unfortunately.

i suggest fastsize

She probably doesnt appreciate being referred to as a bitch.

just remember, the guy she was with has a bigger penis than you

U're so WRONG! I was with my man 4 about 3 years and we're about 2 get married but then I got invitation from a very good University 2 study there 4 free during one year. It was quite long way from him. Yeah, we broke up cuz he found another girl while I was away. I thought that such love can never be broken by anyone....

Just wanna say that afterall I don't think that all the men are bustards.....they just can't wait!

Forget it and move on......Finally u'll end up with a very good girl.

Gud luck 2 u!!!:)

end with another girl for sureeeee Fuck the bitch...

Kick that bitch to the curb and leave her...What comes
aroung goes around..get yourself a new girl.

Unknown variables and reactions make up life. The best thing you can do is try to figure them out for yourself, and I don't mean specifically anything.

Best of luck.

Matt

months :) or longer!

Yeah dude. She probably came home and kissed you 15 minutes after taking a big load in the mouth.

Whats funny is shes probably telling her friends "I just ran into my loser ex-boyfriend".

You broke up, so whatever she does now is none of your concern.

:1orglaugh

that sucks man, but at least she's not getting engaged with a good friend of yours like in my case :thumbsup

Do you still love and care for her bro? If your answer is yes win her back. It's good to realize it early than regretting afterwards.

She is your ex-bitch, meaning she lives her life, and you live your life. Let that shit go, has nothing to do with you.

Hell, next month she will be having sex with 5 guys daily, what business is it of yours, unless you guys are now friends. But if you're not, then shouldn't even be bothering you.

man, she left you, ok. move on, get another girl. but this time, be wise.

Hell yeah, girls that have turned out to have some SERIOUS issues.
My last girl ended up with another guy pretty quick and I was GLAD. Mean she can stay the fuck away from me :winkwink: