ProjectPat

I'M changing my whole lifestyle around as of today

I'M getting hired by my buddy's dad for a manual labor job

I'M getting my G.E.D. this week

and her?

"I'm not ready to be a mother"

It's not a choice, she IS a mother and it's time to step up like I AM

"If I can't do it my mom and stepdad will raise it for me"

Her mom is HAPPY about this! Her fucking mom is twisted! this is the worst possible time to be babying your daughter you stupid fucking hahahaha

My stomach is turning so badly, not because I'm worried about taking resposibility, but because of my fear of getting shut out of my child's life

For just once I'd like the GFY community to realize that I'm actually an intelligent and good person, regardless of the immature things I've displayed in the past. Posts on GFY don't make who a person is, I'm actually a good man with great morals belive it or not

I'm not looking for pitty, I'm not looking for drama

and because our parents are flipping out too much to be logical I'm asking older members of the board who have been through this situation to give me some advice on what to do during a custody battle when shit hits the fan



thanks for reading, sorry about spelling errors

Fletch XXX

just to let you know i didnt read your post, but wanted to say, you should kill your girlfriend.

do it Sharon tate style man.

__________________

Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site?

Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me

LukieD

sig spot

NoCarrier

If it's not true..

Go Fuck Yourself..

If it is...

You are sooooooooooooo fucked.

__________________

klik

damn.. he beat me to it

ProjectPat

beyond fucked*

NoCarrier

WTF?!?! Don't kill the mother now! The foetus taste better around the 3rd month...

__________________

Roald

you are obviously not THAT intelligent

__________________

pxxx

Damn man, how did you manage to get yourself in such a position? A child is a HUGE move in life.



Good luck with everything.

s9ann0

that doesn't sound like a good situation can't she get an abortion?

ProjectPat

her parents won't allow it, i forgot to mention that

NoCarrier

Well you have 2 choices.


Choice # 1



Choice # 2

__________________

dropped9

This threads never stop...

alexg

you should talk to KMR Stitch

I think he went through something similar

__________________

Find fuck buddies in your area!

PerfectionGirls

Just another irresponsible teenage fuck!

Fucking asshole kids with no eduaction, bringing kids into the world.

Go get your GED.. get a job and to the right thing. You will fail though. Not because you want to, but for the same reasons you didnt make sure she didnt get prago in the first place.

Well add another kid to the wellfair rolls.

I know... Im being harsh, but after 17 years teaching HS and seeing the results of this day in and day out it just really pisses me off. Pour kid does not have a fighting chance.

__________________
SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.

LukieD

I think we all know how he did!

fuzebox

tony286

to start having babies at 16 and 1/2 is crazy.

brizzad

I was a dad at age 17, at first i hated the idea and wouldve done anything to get out of it..


now, i love my daughter more than anything, and would do everyting exactly the same as before if i could start over

.:St Ides:.

As an older member of GFY, (in age) I can offer one solid piece of advice.

Face (o_0)

word

freeadultcontent

33.3% of income for next 18-26 years POOF!

__________________

Exclusive Ethnic & Microniche Sites

Oracle Porn

no shit

__________________

brizzad

that's a pretty ignorant thing to say, i had a kid before i was 18, i still ended up getting a highschool diploma, and a college degree, and im working on a second one

no welfare, no food stamps

NoCarrier

Blame the fucking schools and the fucking clueless right Christians extremists who believe that NOT promoting condoms and contraception will stop teenagers from having sex.

__________________

Monique Niccole

"Project Pat" is an appropriate nick because that shit is mad ghetto.

You're fucked. She should get an abortion.

Oracle Porn

Children today are too fucking stupid to do that....they can't "kill" their baby...morons.

__________________

TheMob

i swear that's the worst thing i've ever heard.

ProjectPat

fuck you man, you don't even know me

i'm not going to fail shit, i swear to everything holy i'm going to dedicate my entire existance to making sure my child has a flawless life

NoCarrier

Well, it's universal I think.. Once you're a dad you are a dad and you love your kid.

But we all know that 17 is way too young. I'm pretty sure you think the same way.

__________________

Oracle Porn

__________________

Oracle Porn

you already faild....
NEXT!

__________________

NoCarrier

__________________

jade_dragon

never had this happen but know plenty of people who have


Make all the money you can, do not spend it on anything, the kid is going to consume a lot of money in big chunks, you will have a little time to recover between the periods, your money belongs to the kid if you want a good healthy physical and mental life for the child

Put any BS you have with the mother aside, that will do no one any good.

Learn how to manage your anger if you can, remember she may be trying to trap you by pissing you off, you life is for the kid now so remember this when she starts acting stupid

Push her to get into as many programs as possible so she can learn about health and nutrician, tape record her lying about going or saying she will not, it will show her being an unfit mother and will speak volumes in court, get one of the pocket tape recorders, it is a man's best friend. If she goes then you are golden because your kid will be well planned for at this point, if not then you own her in court.

Start asking others for donations of old baby stuff, your kid does not need to be in brand new everything, they grow fast and all the gifts will be damn near brand new because of it. This will save you LOADS of money but you still will get drained by the kid.

You do not have to give in to her demands, you need to be in a supportive role and keep her mentally happy for the kid but you are not her slave and show her you know the differance between manilulative wants and actual needs, once again tape record these arguments and own her in court if you need to.

Work on ending all your bad habits now, womanizing, drinking, smoking, bad work habits, you are living for the kid not yourself now, this will be that way for the next 22 years or so probably.

This is the stuff I can say from what i have seen and been told, it is great to see you are stepping up, looks like there may be one less kid I have to look over my shoulder for when at the ATM if you keep up your mentality.

__________________
even ADULTS need TOYS
icq: 3 6 3 2 6 6 6 7 | aim: conglomorateman
open for business, affiliates and friendships

TheMob

ok, i take back what i said in my last post. i didn't get this far.

you're on a fucking roll

s9ann0

oh but can they stop it legally? I mean if she doesn't want it how can they make her? maybe you should just take her to wherever and get it done

Huggles

Owned?

__________________
https://3-veo.com/
The best AI video maker portal.

Dagwolf

As MY mother-in-law said when my wife asked her how she could be happy about her pregnancy... "It's the only sane reaction!".

What is she supposed to do, act like her daughter is a complete screw-up and a slut? Make her feel like shit, make her resent her pregnancy even more?

Her mom is smart enough to know that a baby SHOULD never be regarded as a catastrophe, but as an unavoidable fact; any damage done is outweighed by the value of the child's life.

Babies are a huge responsibility for a teenager, and a pain in the ass; they can cause you to lose a lot of sleep, which is probably the most stressful part. Despite all of that, they're wonderful and should never be regretted.

__________________
Sleep well, and dream of large women.

Doctor Dre

Actually if the guy could start working into pornography and make good money that would be his chance.

__________________

cherrylula

If her parents are forcing her to have the kid, let them raise it.

16 years old is so young to be having a child in today's world.

doober

alexg

kill the baby along with the possibility of killing the ability to make more babies (later)

I'm not against abortions, but I believe people should think BEFORE.

they're both fucked now anyway you look at it

__________________

Find fuck buddies in your area!

Peaches

Put the baby up for adoption. Neither of you are ready to raise a child. 16 and 18 are WAY too young, no matter how mature and "old" you feel Do what's right for the baby, don't be selfish and let someone wanting a child adopt it.

And you both need some counseling to deal with it.

ProjectPat

you just made this a successful thread to me, you are a good logical person and just gave me some very very helpful advice

thank you very very much

but anyway im not posting in this anymore, im going over there to talk with her family and probably get my face beat in by her military dad

to the people that cared and tried to give helpful advice to a stressed out kid, you are genunaly good people and i love you for it

to the people that joked about this situation, gfy

Huggles

So true... sooooo true.

__________________
https://3-veo.com/
The best AI video maker portal.

tungsten

oh boy

KMR Stitch

Project Pat = 187 = Creative = Pad

pxxx

There you go, schools should start educating students about condoms more and more. The HS that i went to only taught us it senior year, it was like an only senior class. Every other grade below just had normal old health. Some people think it will stop sex, if they didn't speak of it at all, but they are making it worse.

Oracle Porn

dude shut the fuck up.
1) the guy is 18 and doesn't have a dollar to his name
2) the girl is 16 and I bet she doesn't have a dollar either.

don't forget the fact that they are both mentally are not ready to have a kid....

get a fucking abortion, it's your only way out from that trailer.

__________________

NoCarrier

No, there is another option, they can put the baby in adoption. Killing a human being isn't always the way out.

__________________