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  • p1mpdogg
    Too lazy to set a custom title
    • Nov 2002
    • 16714

    #1

    ok serious post.. dating question! ladies help!

    ok ok.. I golf about 3 times a week locally. there is this girl that works at the course that is simply amazing. beautiful, blonde, great body, great sense of humor, natural beauty(no makeup or very very ilight) and i love that about her. nice rack too, but that doesnt matter to me.

    anyways let me lay it out for you.
    i have had a crush on her for atleast 3 months, but she has a idiot boyfriend, but i am not one to get in the way of love, so i keep my distance. its getting ahrder and harder to stay away.

    today my buddy put me on the spot cause he knows i like her a ton and said some shit infront of her and i told him to stop, that i dont need him to speak for me and it was embarassing and i made a joke out of it to not look stupid. she laughed a bit and a second later said 'well maybe he just hasnt found a girl worth going after' while she was looking right at me and was smiling.

    WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

    i know she is bored with her current dumbass boyfriend.. so thats a plus, and i always treat her well and am very polite to her, but she knows i party and get wasted and have a good time etc...
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  • MetaMan
    I AM WEB 2.0
    • Jan 2003
    • 28682

    #2
    she knows u go golfing 3 times a week, probly buy a few beers each time u pass her which equals she knows u got money, and r probly influenced by good looking girls.

    stay away and fucking chill fooo

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    • p1mpdogg
      Too lazy to set a custom title
      • Nov 2002
      • 16714

      #3
      Originally posted by MetaMan
      she knows u go golfing 3 times a week, probly buy a few beers each time u pass her which equals she knows u got money, and r probly influenced by good looking girls.

      stay away and fucking chill fooo
      man thats the last thing i want to hear!
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      • BradM
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        • Dec 2003
        • 3397

        #4
        meta is right. tap it and leave the tire biter at home.

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        • AVM
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          • Feb 2004
          • 1890

          #5
          How cute. Go for it!

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          • WiredGuy
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            • Aug 2002
            • 34512

            #6
            Find a situation where you can take her out, maybe not just you and her, invite her for drinks or something after a round of golf (I assume there's a bar at the golf place), and just have her drop by. Won't be that awkward for her since its not just you two and you can lay down the pimp hand.

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            • kmanrox
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              • Oct 2001
              • 29295

              #7
              play it cool, you'll hit it... she'll go nuts wondering what itd be like to be with ya
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              • p1mpdogg
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                • Nov 2002
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                #8
                Originally posted by WiredGuy
                Find a situation where you can take her out, maybe not just you and her, invite her for drinks or something after a round of golf (I assume there's a bar at the golf place), and just have her drop by. Won't be that awkward for her since its not just you two and you can lay down the pimp hand.

                WG
                actually no bar, they are remodeling it.. no bar for 5 months lol.. the bar now consistes of a counter and a glass rack with drinks and shit.. pretty ghetto
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                • p1mpdogg
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                  • Nov 2002
                  • 16714

                  #9
                  Originally posted by kmanrox
                  play it cool, you'll hit it... she'll go nuts wondering what itd be like to be with ya
                  thats what im thinking, i just wish i could read her mind...
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                  • aSStig
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                    • Apr 2004
                    • 1102

                    #10
                    i guess she's a flirt . . . . .

                    drop her out of ya mind . . . .. .

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                    • kelly
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                      • Jul 2002
                      • 901

                      #11
                      Time your game to finish around the time that her shift ends and tell her that you're going for drinks/pizza/cocktails - why doesn't she come along. To make things lighter why not invite another girl on her shift and your golfing buddy?
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                      • WiredGuy
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                        • Aug 2002
                        • 34512

                        #12
                        Originally posted by p1mpdogg
                        actually no bar, they are remodeling it.. no bar for 5 months lol.. the bar now consistes of a counter and a glass rack with drinks and shit.. pretty ghetto
                        Well you get the idea, try to find a situation where she can come out with you and a couple of other people to start so she's not pressured to feel like its a date. That way you can swindle your way in there why you're better than the other guy.

                        WG
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                        • pine
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                          • Oct 2002
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                          #13
                          Dude, you run a fucking program. Get a grip. You have no time for golf OR babes. Get back to work.
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                          • candyflip
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                            • Jul 2002
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                            #14
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                            • p1mpdogg
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                              • Nov 2002
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by pine
                              Dude, you run a fucking program. Get a grip. You have no time for golf OR babes. Get back to work.
                              lol

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                              • kak_azn
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                                • May 2004
                                • 3055

                                #16
                                Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!

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                                • p1mpdogg
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                                  • Nov 2002
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by kak_azn
                                  Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!
                                  that has to be the smartest thing i think you have ever said
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                                  • Monkey Babe
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                                    • Aug 2004
                                    • 6

                                    #18
                                    Does she golf or just work there? If she golfs, invite her to play (maybe at a diffferent course) and that'll give you a good 4 hours to get the scoop about her and the boyfriend. By the 18th hole you'll know whether there's opportunity or if she's just a flirt. If there seems to be a possibility, THEN as her out. But just start with a casual "round of golf" and use it to gather info and scope her situation. You may even find her totally irritating by the end of the round and your crush gone.

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                                    • DarkJedi
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                                      • Feb 2001
                                      • 28301

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by p1mpdogg
                                      WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

                                      she wants you to put your penis into her vagina

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                                      • TheGoldenChild
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                                        • May 2002
                                        • 6940

                                        #20
                                        Ask her next time if she is available to come out and help you wash your balls-

                                        It should definitely provoke some reaction-

                                        If that doesn't work...tell her you'd like to " birdie her hole"

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                                        • fr8
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                                          • Mar 2003
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                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by p1mpdogg
                                          that has to be the smartest thing i think you have ever said
                                          I was thinking the same thing. lol
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                                          • stocktrader23
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                                            • Jan 2003
                                            • 18781

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by DarkJedi
                                            she wants you to put your penis into her vagina
                                            Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

                                            Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.


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                                            • tical
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                                              • Feb 2002
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                                              #23
                                              1. bring her and her friend to vegas
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                                              • cherrylula
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                                                • Jan 2002
                                                • 15969

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by p1mpdogg

                                                WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?
                                                It means now she knows you have a thing for her, but she has a boyfriend that you are aware of, and she knows this too.

                                                So either she is a total slut and wants to cheat on her man with you, or she is just being a hahahaha and smiling at you cause she likes the attention and will now use that to her advantage somehow regardless.

                                                But if you are getting signals though at this point, plan on being a rebound guy. Or her back door man.

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                                                • p1mpdogg
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                                                  • Nov 2002
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                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by cherrylula
                                                  It means now she knows you have a thing for her, but she has a boyfriend that you are aware of, and she knows this too.

                                                  So either she is a total slut and wants to cheat on her man with you, or she is just being a hahahaha and smiling at you cause she likes the attention and will now use that to her advantage somehow regardless.

                                                  But if you are getting signals though at this point, plan on being a rebound guy. Or her back door man.
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                                                  • Steen2
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                                                    • Feb 2004
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by p1mpdogg
                                                    ok ok.. I golf about 3 times a week locally. there is this girl that works at the course that is simply amazing. beautiful, blonde, great body, great sense of humor, natural beauty(no makeup or very very ilight) and i love that about her. nice rack too, but that doesnt matter to me.

                                                    anyways let me lay it out for you.
                                                    i have had a crush on her for atleast 3 months, but she has a idiot boyfriend, but i am not one to get in the way of love, so i keep my distance. its getting ahrder and harder to stay away.

                                                    today my buddy put me on the spot cause he knows i like her a ton and said some shit infront of her and i told him to stop, that i dont need him to speak for me and it was embarassing and i made a joke out of it to not look stupid. she laughed a bit and a second later said 'well maybe he just hasnt found a girl worth going after' while she was looking right at me and was smiling.

                                                    WHAT THE FUCK DOES THIS MEAN LADIES?!!?!?!?!?!!?

                                                    i know she is bored with her current dumbass boyfriend.. so thats a plus, and i always treat her well and am very polite to her, but she knows i party and get wasted and have a good time etc...
                                                    She felt uncomfortable with your buddy's comment and came up with a sweet thing to say.

                                                    How do you know her boyfriend?
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                                                      #27
                                                      Good luck with that.
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                                                      • chase
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                                                        • Jul 2004
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                                                        #28
                                                        Well, she has a man....so you'll want to watch how she deals with this situation carefully, because if she takes you on the side, even if she "plans on" leaving him, she'd do it to you too if things cool off between you.
                                                        That said, I would take her aside, and CALMLY tell her that you respect her relationship, but that you would really like to get to know her better if the opportunity ever arose...she'll either take it as, when/if she is single again, in which case, you know she's an honest girl who is worth waiting for (not saying don't get your groove on in the meantime, that's not necessary....I'm sure she's getting some while she's with the dude so there's no reason you shouldn't get some ass, too) or she'll think you mean on the side, and in that case, ride it as long as it lasts, but don't plan on anything else because she cheats.
                                                        If she's not interested, it shouldn't make things weird b/c you didn't exactly ask her out, ya know.
                                                        It's nice to see you sound so sincere about a chick...I hope she's worth it!
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                                                        • graphicsbytia
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                                                          • Sep 2003
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                                                          #29
                                                          if you do go after this girl.. just remember, you'll be in the position of being the next dumbass boyfriend standing there while she flirts with the next guy

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                                                          • DarkJedi
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                                                            • Feb 2001
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by stocktrader23
                                                            Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

                                                            Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.
                                                            I like this plan.

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                                                            • chase
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                                                              • Jul 2004
                                                              • 6019

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by graphicsbytia
                                                              if you do go after this girl.. just remember, you'll be in the position of being the next dumbass boyfriend standing there while she flirts with the next guy
                                                              It doesn't sound to me like she's crossing the line..if she was being blatantly slutty he wouldn't need advice on what to do because he would know she wanted to bang him.
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                                                              • graphicsbytia
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                                                                • Sep 2003
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by chase
                                                                It doesn't sound to me like she's crossing the line..if she was being blatantly slutty he wouldn't need advice on what to do because he would know she wanted to bang him.
                                                                She wasn't crossing the line.. not at all.. that's the worst kind of flirt in my opinion, one that does it in a subtle way.. she was flirting with him all right.. he asked the ladies what it meant.. well.. that's what it means in my book

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                                                                • chase
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by graphicsbytia
                                                                  She wasn't crossing the line.. not at all.. that's the worst kind of flirt in my opinion, one that does it in a subtle way.. she was flirting with him all right.. he asked the ladies what it meant.. well.. that's what it means in my book
                                                                  Hmmm, I see your point.
                                                                  I personally think that it's acceptable to be subtle...it's harmless, in itself. But, it is the gate into more significant transgressions, so I do have to acknowledge your point, lol.
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                                                                  • misterme
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                                                                    #34
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                                                                    • pussyluver
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                                                                      • Mar 2003
                                                                      • 11009

                                                                      #35
                                                                      In the end, she'll break your heart! Date older woman that have their feet on the ground.

                                                                      You're in too deep to treat this as just a sex thing...

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                                                                      • beergood
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                                                                        #36
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                                                                        • Tom_PMs
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                                                                          • Jun 2004
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          How about you be truthful about your feelings. No I'm not BS'ing you or being a dick.

                                                                          Just tell her that you're not sure if it's appropriate or not, and you dont know how she'll feel about it, but would she like to get together sometime for a drink or a meal?

                                                                          A woman will spot a line you didn't even know was a line man..

                                                                          Just lay it out there like it really is, and do it when you're capable of hearing a yes *or* a no. Good luck.

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                                                                          • Screaming
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                                                                            • Feb 2004
                                                                            • 18972

                                                                            #38
                                                                            invite her to a social event like a party or such and see if she comes and then go from there

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                                                                            • p1mpdogg
                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                              • Nov 2002
                                                                              • 16714

                                                                              #39
                                                                              tomorrow i should know how she really feels cause her friends are gonna tell me after they talk to her and feel her out

                                                                              no way in hell am i putting my ass out on a line risking the chance of being shot down. i like to go in prepared knowing the outcome of certian sitations. this is one of them...

                                                                              so asking her out isnt gonna happen till i can confirm she is interested.. if she isnt, then this was alla huge waste and i feel like a total idiot lol
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                                                                              • Spunky
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Ask her if she needs her feet rubbed...chicks dig that

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                                                                                • pushpills
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                                                                                  • Jan 2004
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  kill her and put her in the freezer. thaw her out as needed.

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                                                                                  • Face (o_0)
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                                                                                    • May 2004
                                                                                    • 2617

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by kak_azn
                                                                                    Just ask her out! one of 2 things will happen 50/50 chance yes or no! if she says no then become friends with her bf then you will be around her get him and her all wasted get some of your buddys to kick it with him and get him drunk then find a nice quit place and fuck the shit out of her!
                                                                                    worst plan EVAR

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                                                                                    • PurrrsianPussyKat
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Hot chick working in a place rich men hang out = 98% chance of her being a gold digger.
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                                                                                      • p1mpdogg
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                                                                                        • Nov 2002
                                                                                        • 16714

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Originally posted by PurrrsianPussyKat
                                                                                        Hot chick working in a place rich men hang out = 98% chance of her being a gold digger.
                                                                                        you got a point
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                                                                                        • pxxx
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                                                                                          • Mar 2004
                                                                                          • 12114

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          I think that you should just give her some attention but not a lot. Let her know that you are digging her, but at the same time, make her understand that she is expandable. Girls love guys that don't try to hard, or try to get shady with things. I don't think having her friends with her is a good idea, but thats me. I understand you don't want to put yourself on the line but if she finds out about the whole friend thing, it will lower the way she looks at you.

                                                                                          There are many ways you can handle this, but either way you choose, good luck p1mp.

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                                                                                          • Tam
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                                                                                            • Jan 2001
                                                                                            • 8533

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by stocktrader23
                                                                                            Just tell her friends you have the biggest crush on her but you aren't one to get in the way of somebody's relationship. Tell them that if she ever breaks up with her current boyfriend to let you know so you can tell her how you feel and leave your phone number with them.

                                                                                            Wait on them to blab immediately and find out how she feels.
                                                                                            There you go... ANYONE who knows girls, knows they are going to talk.. and they are going to talk fast. BUT, be nice to the girls so they will like you enough to talk you up if she ever does dump the guy....... IF you piss off the girls, you are dead in the water before you even get your foot in it.

                                                                                            I AM a girl..... yeah, so I know damn well how this works and it WILL, if she isn't interested in him anymore, and is interested in you, chances are, she may be waiting for an opening to see where you are on it. She isn't going to dump this guy and have nothing, she'll wait and see if she has a chance with you first.... IF she is interested in you, that is. But telling her friends/co-workers is the best way to get it to her..... but be casual about it. LOL
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