If your wife/gf makes more money than you, are you a LOSER? - GoFuckYourself.com

pure energy · 08-10-2004, 04:08 AM

My buddies have a big thing against having to 'depend' on their women financially. What are your thoughts?

AGF · 08-10-2004, 04:10 AM

I would not care if my gf made more money then me.

EviLGuY · 08-10-2004, 04:17 AM

I think it'd be great.. I'd sit home and play computer games and watch tv.

.. actually not too different from now.

hova · 08-10-2004, 04:24 AM

I couldnt care less, be happy for her

Thor · 08-10-2004, 04:26 AM

I think it would be awsome if my wife made more money then me, only stupid people would have a problem with that

s9ann0 · 08-10-2004, 04:29 AM

i think being a loser is about more than just money, you have to work at it

Jer · 08-10-2004, 04:34 AM

No, I would be happy.

Veterans Day · 08-10-2004, 04:36 AM

my wife makes over 400k in real estate Im at home with the baby lovin life

Ar3s · 08-10-2004, 04:41 AM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
I think it'd be great.. I'd sit home and play computer games and watch tv.

.. actually not too different from now.

=^..^= · 08-10-2004, 04:42 AM

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Originally posted by spanno
i think being a loser is about more than just money, you have to work at it

true- there are plenty of people in this world with no money but aren't losers - they kick ass at other stuff

polish_aristocrat · 08-10-2004, 05:17 AM

I cannot imagine earning less than my gf/ wife

RicardoB · 08-10-2004, 06:42 AM

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If your wife/gf makes more money than you, are you a LOSER?

No just a smart picker of GF's

pxxx · 08-10-2004, 06:46 AM

My girlfriend will never make ass much money than i do.

Peaches · 08-10-2004, 06:46 AM

A lot of guys have this problem. I dated a guy who at first was fine with it, then slowly started freaking out. He'd max out his credit cards just to pay for things. Didn't make any sense to me.

polish_aristocrat · 08-10-2004, 06:49 AM

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Originally posted by Peaches
A lot of guys have this problem. I dated a guy who at first was fine with it, then slowly started freaking out. He'd max out his credit cards just to pay for things. Didn't make any sense to me.

note to myself: Peaches is a woman

Basic_man · 08-10-2004, 06:54 AM

Yeah, a serious LOSER !

Pureblack · 08-10-2004, 06:55 AM

Indeed · 08-10-2004, 07:46 AM

Mr Exotic · 08-10-2004, 07:54 AM

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Originally posted by Veterans Day
my wife makes over 400k in real estate Im at home with the baby lovin life

DAMN man thats the fucking life

My wife right now makes about as much as I do, but hopefully I'll be passing her up in the next few months.

Kassidy · 08-10-2004, 07:54 AM

I make more than my husband and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. And besides, it's all 'our' money, not 'mine' and 'his'. When you're building a life, family, and home together, why does it matter where the money comes from? I put in the time and effort building the business and he works a regular job, this way we have the best of both worlds. He has medical and dental benefits and a nice retirement package...plus some extra time on his hands to be my lawn bitch ;)

I think a guy who feels threatened by it has esteem problems

Veterans Day · 08-10-2004, 07:56 AM

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Originally posted by Mr Exotic
DAMN man thats the fucking life

My wife right now makes about as much as I do, but hopefully I'll be passing her up in the next few months.

I put that "ego" shit aside alot of guys have and live life and enjoy it with the wife and child, I got no time for that nonsense.

Veterans Day · 08-10-2004, 07:56 AM

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Originally posted by Kassidy
I make more than my husband and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. And besides, it's all 'our' money, not 'mine' and 'his'. When you're building a life, family, and home together, why does it matter where the money comes from?

I think a guy who feels threatened by it has esteem problems

Goatse · 08-10-2004, 07:57 AM

Just keep your finances separate. She doesn't have to know how much you make, you don't have to know how much she makes.

Gheenz · 08-10-2004, 07:57 AM

When you just sleep all day and play video games and just wait for your girl to bring home a paycheck then you're a fucking loser. If your girl makes more than you but you still work, then no you're not a loser.

KraZ · 08-10-2004, 08:01 AM

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Originally posted by pure energy
My buddies have a big thing against having to 'depend' on their women financially. What are your thoughts?

Women should get the same chance for a career as men and careers sometimes take unusual turns. So I don't see a problem, if you "depend" on your mate for a certain period of time as long as this is something mutually agreed.

jacked · 08-10-2004, 08:08 AM

i wouldn't care if my girl was making more money than me as i would have an income also so we'd be making a lot of money together

iFliPcEss · 08-10-2004, 08:14 AM

I don't think it should be an issue since, you are a couple, you should be great for each one's achievement

directfiesta · 08-10-2004, 08:15 AM

Gunni · 08-10-2004, 08:16 AM

I don't see how if the wife/gf makes more money than me I would "have" to depend on her financially

Unless of course she made like millions a year and wanted to be with me and still life the life of a millionare, then yeah, she would have to support some of that, but in you average relationship you're only a loser if you don't do anything

blazin · 08-10-2004, 08:36 AM

Personally I wouldn't have a problem with it.....

I wouldn't rely on no woman though even if they was filthy rich

Doctor Dre · 08-10-2004, 08:46 AM

Your body is not a pimp then

DarkJedi · 08-10-2004, 08:48 AM

LOSER.

Elli · 08-10-2004, 09:50 AM

What's wrong with a little give and take? One works while the other goes through school, or one stays home with a child, etc etc. The important thing is that both partners contribute to the family, and there are more ways to contribute than monetarily.

Nader · 08-10-2004, 09:54 AM

You might feel like one! But, i think as long as she does'nt throw it in your face it's cool!

TheJimmy · 08-10-2004, 09:56 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
What's wrong with a little give and take? One works while the other goes through school, or one stays home with a child, etc etc. The important thing is that both partners contribute to the family, and there are more ways to contribute than monetarily.

you hit the nail on the head...

been through various cycles over the last 12 years of marraige, I expect more to come...

if you or your partner have security issues then its generally about a few more things than 'just' money...and that should be dealt with...

Sarah_Jayne · 08-10-2004, 10:05 AM

maybe if you live in 1942

Vitasoy · 08-10-2004, 10:07 AM

I could care less if she did, I'd be happy for her.

WiredGuy · 08-10-2004, 10:10 AM

Doesn't bother me one bit, it must be nice to have a sugar mamma!

WG

Sosa · 08-10-2004, 10:10 AM

Wouldn't bother me, most of the money is for family etc so why would it bother?

Odie · 08-10-2004, 10:10 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
What's wrong with a little give and take? One works while the other goes through school, or one stays home with a child, etc etc. The important thing is that both partners contribute to the family, and there are more ways to contribute than monetarily.

I couldn't have said it better than that!

Firehorse · 08-10-2004, 01:53 PM

Kitty and I help each other in many different ways. It's a partnership not a competition!

koreanbbque · 08-10-2004, 02:28 PM

I'd be the happiest man in the world if my GF made more than me.

Then i might be able to get out of debt. LOL

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EviLGuY So Fucking Banned Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: malta Posts: 12,745	I think it'd be great.. I'd sit home and play computer games and watch tv. .. actually not too different from now.

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Thor Confirmed User Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: Does anyhahahaha care ? Posts: 721	I think it would be awsome if my wife made more money then me, only stupid people would have a problem with that

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pxxx First African GFY Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,114	My girlfriend will never make ass much money than i do.

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Peaches Old broad Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Away Posts: 13,933	A lot of guys have this problem. I dated a guy who at first was fine with it, then slowly started freaking out. He'd max out his credit cards just to pay for things. Didn't make any sense to me.

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Kassidy Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Vancouverish... ICQ# 111432084 Posts: 1,219	I make more than my husband and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. And besides, it's all 'our' money, not 'mine' and 'his'. When you're building a life, family, and home together, why does it matter where the money comes from? I put in the time and effort building the business and he works a regular job, this way we have the best of both worlds. He has medical and dental benefits and a nice retirement package...plus some extra time on his hands to be my lawn bitch ;) I think a guy who feels threatened by it has esteem problems __________________ The ORIGINAL micro niche program- All Original and exclusive content. Paying 60% recurring through CCBill, FHG, free content & gallery templates Well researched niches with on-target content. SUBSTANCE SELLS! Last edited by Kassidy; 08-10-2004 at 07:56 AM..

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Goatse Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,086	Just keep your finances separate. She doesn't have to know how much you make, you don't have to know how much she makes.

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Gheenz Here's Your Sign Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: MT, USA Posts: 2,410	When you just sleep all day and play video games and just wait for your girl to bring home a paycheck then you're a fucking loser. If your girl makes more than you but you still work, then no you're not a loser. __________________ Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities. -Voltaire

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iFliPcEss Registered User Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 3,087	I don't think it should be an issue since, you are a couple, you should be great for each one's achievement

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Gunni Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Barcelona Posts: 2,385	I don't see how if the wife/gf makes more money than me I would "have" to depend on her financially Unless of course she made like millions a year and wanted to be with me and still life the life of a millionare, then yeah, she would have to support some of that, but in you average relationship you're only a loser if you don't do anything

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