i'd be worried man, shes only 21 and not putting out...who else is she seeing is what i'd be thinking?

Thats mostly because her opinion is a load of BS. :)

This reminds me of when my token jew friend called me up one night and told me the following story....

"Hey Kahloz, so I was with that chick I told you about and we where fucking around and ummm... she got really mad at me."

"Why's that Token Jew Friend?"

"Well I was playing with her ass and put one finger in, then a second and she seemed to really like it... <pauses>"

"Yeah? And??"

"Well... we where fooling around some more and I went to put a finger in her pussy and she kicked me off of her and started screaming at me."

"Holy shit dude, did you fart?"

"No, she started yelling something about a yiest infection and if it was the same finger in her ass and... She got really mad, went to the bathroom for ten minutes then took off."

"<laughing hysterically>"

"What? What'd I do?"

(end scene)

Yeah, that was a funny night :thumbsup

maybe you should talk about it

Is she on some type of anti-depressant? If so, then it's totally understandable. They completely sap your sex drive.

you have to ask if she can tell you what has happened to your sex lives... just be open and honest...

and be prepared if she tells you the truth :)

more attention! :thumbsup
Give her a warm bath, some champagne, Massage with some oil, give her quality oral sex.... AMEN = PARTY :thumbsup

Next time just eat her out. Do not penetrate her (go jerk off alone a few minutes later to "release"). If she doesn't want to do it again a few days later...well, then you're not a lucky guy.

Gotta get her in the mood, make her dinner and watch a lame chick flick, pay her some attention and you'll get the sex.

leave her

just tell her oyu need a break

Some girls are simply not horny, and don't need sex at all. Nothing for me...

Sit down and talk to her! :thumbsup

dude she';s fucking someone else

The first thought I had was that she's fucking someone else. The second is she's bored with you. It's hard to say. It would be best if you talked to her about this...

It could be that the birth-control pills that she takes are cousing it.
Ask you gf to talk with her doctor about it.

i think you got the wrong place to ask, but if i where you and em deeply inlove, well i just have to make some nice move..:glugglug

1. Maybe medication, many from the pill, mild anti-depresants, and even herbal stuff kills libedo.
2. You have let the fire dwindle to a small spark. You are in your 3 year area and if you do not make her feel special, do romantic jesters, or have slowed down on the initial spontanaity or mushy stuff. She very well is just not in that mood much anymore.
3. It is damn hot, find out if she just is not a summer/heat person.
4. She could be feeling non sexy, or undesirable (see 2)
5. Find out if anything is bothering her or whatever.
6. After that long, she may see this as not serious if she is still just the GF. She may have been hoping for marriage, engagement etc.
7. Possibly you are not filling her needs, rarely is this sexual though and is ussually emotional.
8. Talk with her, you are in a long term relationship.
9. Do not go talking about your love life to strangers, never know who is watching.
10. Take little to no addvice from GFY.

Your couple is experiencing severe communication issues if your only hope is getting an advice on GFY about your problem.

Tell her how you feel about the situation. There is no other way.

have you tried playing a little hard to get? Yeah so what you have been together for a few years. Pull away a little bit. Go out with the boys a little more. Try going down on her in the middle of the afternoon for a little lunch snack and then walk away and leave and go somewhere. Sometimes women can feel like they are just getting groped all the time. Not saying you are all over her. But if you are always trying to get it it will just make her push you away more. Try fliping the situation on her and make her want it.

Dude ,if i was u i would go out hunting for some hot ass girls.

As harsh as this sounds it may be true. I know my ex complained that I never had sex w/ him. We were together for 6 yrs and you know why I never had sex with him? I didn't like him that's why. He ended up cheating on me. Oh well. Better luck to you. :)

When was the last time you told her she was beautiful and you loved her?
That might be the problem.

Samething with an ex of mine. She not only lost her sex drive she started to gain wieght. She got the sex drive back but took her forever to lose the wieght. They siad it was common.

What up Mikey!!

I would have stayed up later last night if I would have known you were gonna show up.

We were back to our daily humping selves by the time we went to Orlando, we've just never been all huggy-kissy and all that shit. She doesn't need my affection in public to show others that she is loved...like some ladies do.

:glugglug

be nice with her...
do something nice to her...
start kiss her.. when your alone etc.. then i hope you will get some :thumbsup

u should asked this shit u posted to her instead of all these ppl...

u are feeling unsecure, just ask her wtf!

thats all, comunication is the shit!

:thumbsup

is it possible its not you and its her?

mabey she is not comfortable with herself?

mabey she thinks shes fat, it could many things.

either way if shes just a girl and sex matters a lot to you find a new one.. but if she is someone you love or at least right now you think you love .. try working it out.. just get the question out there talk to her.. im sure she will tell you whats up!

Women who aren't happy aren't horny.

Women who aren't into you anymore don't want it with you, usually.

Women who have chemical mbalances for one reason or another don't want it, period.

But if you don't FUCKING ASK, you'll be miserable and never know which it is. Get the info, figure out a response, deal with it.

Simple simple.

maybe she's getting her fill someplace else
dump her and get a real doll

it's a phase. deal with it for a few weeks and she'll want you more than ever.

i think you should talk to her about it and see whats up

I've talked to her many times about this. She feels real bad about the whole situation.

I tell her how hot she is every day and how much I lov her. She is on BC and some anti depressants but she was on all that shit when we started dating.

I'm going to try the reverse shit..just wait for her.. But I have a bad feeling I'll be not getting any for a few months.lol

she gain weight recently?

Nothing serious.. maybe up and down 5-10lbs..but shes still hot as ever.

post pics :Graucho

yeah, i don't think so.

5-10 is alot for some women
that with the meds shes on is probably making her confidence go down the toilet

Marry her and all will be well :thumbsup