I just don't dig the fat ladies, sorry

That's fine at leat you werent rude about it. I appreciate that :)

People are taught to hate. No one is like that when they are born. It is society and how things are portrayed. But there is also a problem with lots of things alcoholism, drug addiction and the list goes on and on...Your comment was still somewhat rude even though.. Ahh fuck it..

Yes punkexactly thats the basis of my arguement. If you dont like em then dont. Just dont be rude and hate. It's not right.

You talk about everyone hates fatties like you and you hate gay people? You are a super hyprocrite super fatty. I bet this thread made you so upset you had to eat some fatty foods.
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Actually people are born to know fatties are un-natural and unhealthy. It's obvious you shouldn't be with someone who will die soon of a heart attack and must use a wiping stick.
:helpme wipe.

:glugglug :glugglug :glugglug :1orglaugh

Let me start out by saying that I am female, and I'm not fat. I am 5'7" and I weight anywhere from about 98 to 110 pounds. I have never been over 115 pounds. I do yo-yo between the 98 and 110 marks alot because I eat what I feel like. Personally, I'm not hungry often, but sometimes I get REALLY hungry for several days (PMS maybe?) and I eat alot. Most of the time I don't gain any weight during this time, but occasionally I do. I don't exercise much. About three or four times a month I go swimming for an hour or so. Not for exercise, but because I like to. Besides shopping, that's about the extent of my exercise! I guess I'm just lucky. It doesn't run in my family because my mother is a little plump, my aunt is plump and my other aunt is very big, and my cousin is very, very overweight. I just lucked out.

That said, I don't EVER make fun of overweight people. As I mentioned, I have alot of overweight family members. One of them, my cousin, has been plump since her early teens but she's gotten very big since she had kids. Her health is better than mine. Her cholesterol is lower, her BP is lower and she can actually walk further without getting out of breath than I can. Plus, she's just a darned nice person. I would never make fun of someone for their physical appearance. I was brought up better than that. I thank goodness that I had parents who had enough sense to teach me to be a human being.

I don't fault anyone for not being attracted to heavy people. I find myself attracted to all types of people, big and small, but I can totally understand why some people wouldn't find certain body types attractive. That's fine. What I can't stand are these snotty, self-righteous people who think that all overweight people are lazy or smelly or gluttons. Some of these same people are drug addicts, alcoholics, smokers, etc. Food can be an addition that is just as hard to break as smoking or drinking or snorting coke. And of course, there are people who are overweight for medical reasons. To judge someone just because they're fat or thin, ugly or cute, black or white... it's ridiculous. We are not our appearances. That's why the internet is so great. Until we post our pictures... on the internet, we all look the same. It's our personalities that make us here. And I've seen a few today that are hideously ugly to me.

Once I met this guy on the internet. He was sweet, friendly, smart... we had alot in common. We'd been talking for a few months, and he'd even told me he thought he was falling for me. I was very close to ready to meet him and possibly have a relationship with. Then he said something a couple of weeks before he was set to come down here to meet me. He was making fun of a fat girl. I asked him how he would feel if I got fat if we had a baby together and he said, "That's fine, but we'd just exercise together and get you back in shape." He went on to say that he wouldn't be able to deal with me being overweight for long and that we'd have to "do something about it."

That was it right there. End of story. Game over. I don't want to be with someone that loves me for my weight, by body, my appearance. I want someone that loves me for me. I may be thin and beautiful now (not saying I AM beautiful, but maybe, heh) but I'll age. I may gain weight, and I'll sag, get wrinkles, lose my youth and figure... but will he still be there? If he won't, then I won't. I never spoke to him again.

For those of you who are making fun of fat girls, I guarantee you that I could find SOMETHING to make fun of YOU for. You might be ugly, have pimples, have a small dick, have a big nose, a low I.Q., or just be rude. Oops! I think I just found it! You're rude and rude people are UGLY. There, I said it. :1orglaugh

By the way, MissMina, you're a lovely girl! Thanks for sharing the pics! :thumbsup

Is that supposed to be images of you drinking 3 milkshakes per hour?

:thumbsup you sound like a person that would be a joy to know.

Damn i think this is the longest thread i ever started. Anyway nothing gets my dick harder then a girl with some meat on her bones

I take walks and play tennis. :) You're confusing being overweight with being inactive. There are just as many inactive "thin" people as there are fat people. :)

holy shit those are fucking huge nipples.

I never could get the hang of tennis, and the last time I played, i ended up taking a shot to the face and a black eye from it. No thanks.

But volleyball, frisbee, dodgeball, pool...I'm in there. :thumbsup

That was a fantastic post. A truly enjoyable read. I really enjoyed reading that and it summed up everything. Thank you for your comments :) Feel free to contact me anytime if you'd like to chat. You seem like a very down to earth person and someone I'd really like to get to know and be good friends with :) cheers

Nope don't like milkshakes :glugglug Guess again troll

I just got finished with a little big ass action of my own. Going out with some friends for the night, I'll give you all the juicy details tomorrow Mina :thumbsup

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How can you not like milkshakes?! :helpme There is nothing - and I do mean nothing - in life even nearly as good as an extra large chocolate milkshake after a hard day of biking.
I mean, it even beats drinking beer, eating pizza and having sex all at the same time :glugglug

Yeah I agree with you peaches. My boyfriend who isnt primarily into big chicks loves to be able to go out to a restaurant with me anc actualy have me eat a meal instead of just picking at something or eating a salad.

Originally posted by digi
sorry, but I rather have a girlfriend that I can take walks with or play tennis with than someone who only has enough energy to walk to the grocery store and back.

and saying healthy looking chubby people is just fooling yourself, aint nothing healthy about being overweight.

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Just because someone is bigger it doesnt mean they have limited mobility or energy. Yes a good deal do, But personaly I am not one of them.

I love to swim, I dont own a car so I walk everywhere. I dont like stairs,not because I get winded from being heavy but because when I was a kid I fell down a flight of stairs and messed up my knee/hip/thighbone(bad injury).
There for I take them slow as not to re-injur my leg(clumbsy). Um.. I love to dance and can easily dance for long periods of time.(intense dancing simular to arerobics, But I cant describe it unless you have ever been to an industrial/ebm club in so cal). I can run for short distances(once again with the leg issue) I am very flexable (hehe good for certain..activities.)

And yes i do know some girls that are bigger and even some that are 100-200 lbs smaller then me that get tired walking,ect. So I can understand the whole thing of thinking bigger people are slower, but that is not always the case.

Weight doesnt always have to do with mobility. There can be other health factors involved.

<<,perky goth, hehe :banana

Very true... I'm still losing my weight from baby... I walk several miles each day, I run up and down the stairs in my house, I do more physical activity than some athletes I swear. I'm now taking kickboxing, will be taking karate and more... I'm sure some people would be happy to judge based on looks, but nobody knows the real story behind things. I have always been active and healthy, but I also spent 7 months of pregnancy on bedrest, and had a c-section (my third). I'm sure not perfect now (baby just turned 5 months, 3 of that I was recovering from the surgery), and I bet there are people who would make assumptions about me too. I find the people who are quickest to judge based solely on looks are generally the one who aren't worth knowing anyways.

An actual rivethead on GFY? :glugglug

Oh yeah. Leme tell you I am one of the few fat rivetheads you will ever find. And I can kick your ass dancing.

Last night i went to Das Bunker.(ever heard of it?) Its all Industrial/heavy Ebm, with a noize room downstairs.

hey Tala, I have wholesale accounts ya know...:Graucho
Anyway...great thread. I have made a mental note not to do business with those of you who have shown your lack of intelligence and common sense/common courtesy. If you don't like the way a fat chick looks, find something else to look at. Big damn deal.

One of the few female rivetheads, too. It always seems like the goth scene is completely dominated by women, while in the rivet scene the exact opposite is the case.


I actually have heard of Das Bunker... which is pretty odd, since I live on the other side of the world :1orglaugh

Hi fat, average and underweight viewers,

Saw this post earlier and thought it was another fatty competition and stay away.

I am 5?8? and weigh about 127 lbs. A good friend of mine had a crisis today and asked if I would intervene. I told her she could handle it and she replied I am fat they don?t take me seriously. I said, you just don?t stand up for yourself but, whatever, and give me the number.

Moral to my post, if you are comfortable with your weight it should not make a difference but if you have a problem with your weight do something about it.


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Fat chicks need lovin too.. They just have to pay for it.l

Ah, has anyone told you that you're really stupid? You think attractiveness on a whole is based on what we are 'taught'? Boy, you really need to pick up a book or too, because you are quite a way off.

Kudos to everyone who had the maturity to just state their opinion and preference without all the insults.

To those who felt the need to put down others... I noticed several of you appear to be anon nicks (typical), and I'm going to hazard a guess most of the haters have small dicks. That's okay... there are a few women out there who don't mind a guy with a small dick.

I take no pleasure in your misfortune. :1orglaugh

Big girls need lovin too!

Just becasue they might be big doesnt mean that they want to be with someone that is fat.

I love that guy. Wish there were more new episodes of family guy.

No one really cares if they don't want to BE with a fat person. That's not the issue. Obviously everyone has their own tastes and that's okay. The real issue is people that want to bash fat people, put them down just because they are fat. That's wrong, just like it's wrong to bash someone because they're of a different race from you. And what is REALLY bad is when someone of a particular race bashes people of their own race. Look how angry people got at Bill Cosby. :Graucho

Fat people bashing fat people for being fat is just wrong on so many levels.

Firstly, and this is not bashing (as I realise a minority of people can't help their obesity), being overweight is a problem for everyone (not just fat people). Some 50% of Americans are now reportedly overweight, and in nations such as Australia (in which the trend is following that of America, and we have a free health system) it is a huge epidemic. Shall we equally respect those people who vandalise public property and thus cause millions and billions of dollars worth of damage? No.

Similarly, overweight people who have the ability to loose weight are a burden to society as a whole, and not just themselves. You are obviously ignorant, and brainwashed though (that much is surely true), as you failed to cite the millions of self-hating Whites, yet bought attention to one man who went against the 'Black pride' motto and told it as he saw it. Perhaps there is not much hope for you though (as you seem both mentally and physically challenged), but to those people who have the ability to fix their physical condition, they really have little room to complain.

I dunno bout that. My mom is a fat evil bitch.

Firstly, YOU are obviously the one who is ignorant since you plainly haven't read the entire thread. I wasn't speaking to you, anyway, so I don't know why you took offense to my post unless you're a basher yourself.

I am NOT overweight. I am 5'7" and swing between about 98 and 110 pounds. I have never been over 115. But I was taught to be a HUMAN BEING, and part of being a human being is accepting and caring about your fellow man. And for what it's worth, I DO care about people who vandalize public property. Why? Because they're human being just like everyone else and in fact, they might be the ones who need our care more than others. People who vandalize and steal and overeat and drink and smoke and do drugs... they're weak. They use their addicitons as an escape and they deserve to be cared about as humans. I actually feel sorry for people like you, people who can't feel sympathy for their fellow man. It's sad, really.

I used the "one black man" who went against the "Back pride" motto, as you say, because it was recently in the news and something people would recognize. Do you really expect me to site every single group on the face of the planet that has a few individuals that self-hate? Please.

Yes, perhaps overweight folks are a burden on the healthcare system. But so are drug addicts and alcoholics and smokers. Maybe you bash them, too, but something that you have to realize is that food addiction is EXTREMELY difficult to get over. I know, because I have several overweight family members that have struggled with it for many years. AND, in many cases, food addiction starts in childhood as a result of family environment. I was brought up in such an environment and it's only by sheer luck that the addiction escaped me. Imagine having cocaine or alcohol or cigarettes shoved down you regularly as a reward from the time you were a child and THEN try to break that addiction now!

Again, in case you missed it the first two times, (and I'll say this slowly so perhaps you can understand) I.... am.... not.... fat... So calling me "mentally and physically challenged" is really telling as to what type of person you are.

140 sounds about right for 5'8 F. pics!

I'm glad someone finally brought this point up...Addiction to food is extremely difficult to break, and not only for the reasons you listed but because a body needs food to survive. Its not like any other addiction out there....

An alcholic breaks their addiction by not drinking, drug users by not doing the drugs, and smokers by not smoking. And just how successful do you think their quit would be if every single day they had to ingest the substance they were addicted to in order to survive?

Food IS a part of your life from the beginning, and if in the beginning you are taught that is a cure all, a reward, and a drug that can work to stuff your feelings down before you are old enough to make conscious choices about what role food should play in your life it is extremely difficult to change that.

I would never say that it is impossible, or that it excuses any self destructive behavior once you get to a point where you recognize it for what it is, but I do definitely have to say that it is something I would not wish on anyone....EVER.

I, too, feel sorry for the people who are so high up on their pedestals of perfection that they have lost touch with human-ness, and feel justified in hurling insults and degrading those who they don't feel measure up. I learned a long time ago that you never ever know what it is like to stand in someone else's shoes until you are there, and I can only hope that if you ever get there you are met by someone who understands. God forbid any of the rude people on here ever end up with diabetes, or problems with their metabolism, or ever have to take a medication such as steroids or hormones that would make them gain an ounce over their ideal weight.

Wholesale? <perk>

mindcrime AT gmail.com

Let's talk shopping!! :thumbsup

That is so cool, where are you from?

The other main industrial/emb/goth clubs here is called Perversion. Its been open for about 8 years now and is one of the longest running and largest industrial clubs in the world.

I would say the boy girl ratio at bunker is 60/40 and at perversion 50/50.

Southern california club scene is alot more rivet then goth.. at least at the places I attend.. heh.

lets see out here we have helter skelter(goth),vamp(old school goth),clockwork orange(80's) Velvet(cheesy shit) Dungeon(industrial Ebm/goth with fetish shows,ive actualy performed with my sub here) Perversion(industrial/emb/goth..same djs as dungeon but no shows) Blue mondays(80's) Empire(on hiatus,industrial/ebm,80's..used to be known as metro for about 7 years untill that venue closed.) And then there is Das Bunker( industrial/harsh ebm/noize)

This is definitly the place to go if your looking for a good club every night of the week except tues/wends. The only thing that sucks about most California clubs is that they close at 2 am. Das Bunker is open till 3 though.

And unlike alot of areas this scene is very friendly.

:Graucho :Graucho

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Oh,another thing you might find funny is that I am mostly (95%)rivethead while my boyfriend is about 60%goth 30% rivet head and 10% oldschool goth punk.

haha.

Hmm... I'm from the Netherlands myself, one of the worst places in the world to like industrial/goth/ebm/noise. We have about a dozen goth/industrial/ebm "clubs" in this country, but none of those are actually clubs... they're monthly events only visited by a few dozen teenybopper goths.
And there are no, and I do mean no, rivet women in this entire country. There are goths, but they're mostly just teen girls that like to put on velvet dresses and pretend they're witches.

The saddest part though is that the music is just about impossible to get here. Even in the most alternative record shops names like Covenant, Front Line Assembly, Funker Vogt, Wumpscut or even Apoptygma Berzerk, Front 242 or VNV Nation only get you blank stares. Trying to find stuff like Whitehouse or Sutcliffe Jugend is, ofcourse, an utterly hopeless effort :1orglaugh

Ah well, at least we have tons of clubs that are open til 6-8am. :glugglug

Yeah did I ever say you were stupid? You don't even know me so why say it. Fuck off..

I like them chubby

Because you made an idiotic statement, which is totally false and ignorant. Can you follow that? Or should I make little pictures in photoshop to explain what just happened to you?

Sooo... would you deny that upbrining plays a large role in what one will consider attractive later in life?

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Because you made an idiotic statement, which is totally false and ignorant. Can you follow that? Or should I make little pictures in photoshop to explain what just happened to you?

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I dont give a flying fuck what you do to be perfectly honest. You dont hurt my feelings or scare me one bit at all. So do what u must. I;m done feeding little troll biutches like yourself... Have a nice day and dont forget to go fuck yourself since you probably cant get any ass anyway.

Wow thats surprising. I hear alot of people say that the "underground" shit here. Is on pop radio in euroupe sometimes. I wonder why its not like that where you are.

I could understand alot of the groups but apoptygma is from the neatherlands you think people would know of them.

Oh, And on the rivet thing.. too bad im a poor little thing or I would come over and shock the little witch girls. I wonder what people would think of the rivet look when they have never seen it before.

Not in the sense of being fat or thin, no. There is a reason most people aren't attracted to those who are overweight, and it is not upbringing.