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  • UltraSonic
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2004
    • 1728

    #1

    I'm forced to get out of this biz - People i am working with, please read.

    About a week ago i posted this thread:

    http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...ght=UltraSonic

    At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
    Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

    About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
    When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

    So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

    To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

    For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

    I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
    Your Blend, Your Product

  • aaron
    Confirmed User
    • Mar 2003
    • 4452

    #2
    fuck.

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    • DIH
      Confirmed User
      • Jul 2004
      • 263

      #3
      damn thats fugged up..

      note to self... dont get married
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      • shermo

        #4
        Damn man. I hate hearing stories like this. I wish you the best of luck and I hope the the damage done can be pieced back together.

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        • Babagirls
          Text Writer
          • Feb 2001
          • 18812

          #5
          well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

          as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

          good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!




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          • jwerd
            Confirmed User
            • Jun 2003
            • 1953

            #6
            damn man, that definately sucks
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            • UltraSonic
              Confirmed User
              • Jul 2004
              • 1728

              #7
              Originally posted by Babagirls
              well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

              as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

              good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!
              I will FIGHT, what doesn't kill me only makes me stronger.
              Your Blend, Your Product

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              • roly
                Confirmed User
                • Aug 2002
                • 1844

                #8
                thanks for letting me know, and the best of luck for the future.

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                • hova
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                  • Jan 2002
                  • 22430

                  #9
                  Thats fucked up! Good luck in the future
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                  • wyldblyss
                    Confirmed User
                    • Nov 2003
                    • 5779

                    #10
                    Good luck with the future. I know it seems like your world is crashing down on you, but take it one step at a time. Things will work out in the end.

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                    • pxxx
                      First African GFY Member
                      • Mar 2004
                      • 12114

                      #11
                      Originally posted by lamerhooD
                      damn man, that definately sucks

                      I agreee, good luck with everything man.

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                      • Preacher
                        Confirmed User
                        • Feb 2003
                        • 2970

                        #12
                        Damn, that sucks
                        Fight back and good luck for the future

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                        • Natasha
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                          • Nov 2001
                          • 300

                          #13
                          That's awful!
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                          • $tandaman
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                            • Jun 2001
                            • 3530

                            #14
                            stay strong...

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                            • RobD
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                              • Feb 2003
                              • 687

                              #15
                              damm that sucks man, good luck with your kids
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                              • {fusion}
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                                • Sep 2003
                                • 1650

                                #16
                                i hope things work out for you.

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                                • NY_TIM
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                                  • May 2004
                                  • 2975

                                  #17
                                  good luck bro!!!!
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                                  • cool1
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                                    • Sep 2001
                                    • 24939

                                    #18
                                    Bummers good luck on everything.
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                                    • Odie
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Apr 2003
                                      • 7040

                                      #19
                                      good luck..sorry about your horrible ex..but u'r doing the right thing by getting out of the biz if u plan on fighting for those kids..just remember what's best for the kids is the most important. People lose sight of that when they start fighting for custody. It becomes a war and it's ugly, and they forget that they're fighting over kids not property.
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                                      • iFliPcEss
                                        Registered User
                                        • Dec 2003
                                        • 3087

                                        #20
                                        Im sorry to hear that... just be strong and do what you think is right, justice will prevail.

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                                        • SykkBoy2
                                          Jesus loves bacon
                                          • Feb 2001
                                          • 19969

                                          #21
                                          I don't know you, but always hate to here stuff like this.

                                          It's always toughest on the children. Make sue that you fight the good fight and if at all possible, try to avoid any confrontation or negative words in front of the kids. Try to avoid talking ill of their mother if you have the kids, no matter how you feel about her.

                                          It's a good idea to keep an arm's length from the industry while fighting as well. It can be damaging to be associated with this industry in child custody fights.

                                          Best of luck to you.
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                                          • Enema
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • May 2004
                                            • 599

                                            #22
                                            How much money did she get away with?

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                                            • Marcus Aurelius
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                                              • Apr 2003
                                              • 14809

                                              #23
                                              best of luck to you, like you said what doesnt kill you will make you stronger, keep your wits about you and you will come out on top of the situation.

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                                              • Jamdin
                                                Registered User
                                                • Jan 2001
                                                • 3560

                                                #24
                                                Bummer but good luck, UltraSonic

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                                                • Va2k
                                                  I’m still alive barley.
                                                  • Oct 2001
                                                  • 10060

                                                  #25
                                                  Dude Don't fucking quit, shit I have custody of my two babies last month lost my house and a lot of other bad shit happened way worse and im hanging in!! I've always been told what you lose only makes you stronger!! Just start over start with simple shit like galleries or anything.. FUCK if you need hosting or anything to help out hit me up...



                                                  Reason I am so strong about this is cause it happened to me and im bouncing back but this time a lot stronger...


                                                  Peace and good luck bro
                                                  TOM

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                                                  • C-Bass
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                                                    • Apr 2003
                                                    • 3153

                                                    #26
                                                    damn dude...sorry to hear
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                                                    • chase
                                                      Confirmed User
                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                      • 6019

                                                      #27
                                                      We managed to get custody from my husband's ex-wife, so it isn't impossible. We just had a more stable, safe home.
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                                                      • xlogger
                                                        Confirmed User
                                                        • Jul 2004
                                                        • 9507

                                                        #28
                                                        This is creazy dude! I mean 1st with the cops then your wife! I would sue the cops, but i would give a shit about the wife. I think marriage is stupid, and will always fail. So my advice, never get married. EVER (seriously, i wont).

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                                                        • Vitasoy
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                                                          • Oct 2003
                                                          • 58202

                                                          #29
                                                          damn... sorry to hear. Best of luck!


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                                                          • HammerALL
                                                            Confirmed User
                                                            • Apr 2004
                                                            • 3506

                                                            #30
                                                            That is absolutely awful man - all I can say is keep your wits about you and don't give up - Karma has a funny way about it - and your ex - will definitely get hers in the end. Either way man - good luck - I hope the best for you.
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                                                            • loverboy
                                                              When it rains, it pours
                                                              • May 2003
                                                              • 20609

                                                              #31
                                                              thanks for sharing, this will sure be a learning experience who ever reads this thread! goodluck

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                                                              • Lucy
                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                • Mar 2004
                                                                • 3969

                                                                #32
                                                                I know that it has to be hard time for you now, but remeber "all wrong for something good", hope you will feel better and thing will clered up as soon as possible.

                                                                wish you the best and good luck with all and now, cheer up

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                                                                • UltraSonic
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Jul 2004
                                                                  • 1728

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Thank you all for the kind words.

                                                                  I'm at an internetcafé right now, thought i'd check what's going on outhere.
                                                                  Your Blend, Your Product

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                                                                  • UltraSonic
                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                    • Jul 2004
                                                                    • 1728

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by roly
                                                                    thanks for letting me know, and the best of luck for the future.
                                                                    I hope we can still get our stuff going once i get back into the biz, i liked working with you.
                                                                    Your Blend, Your Product

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                                                                    • UltraSonic
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Jul 2004
                                                                      • 1728

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by va2k
                                                                      Dude Don't fucking quit, shit I have custody of my two babies last month lost my house and a lot of other bad shit happened way worse and im hanging in!! I've always been told what you lose only makes you stronger!! Just start over start with simple shit like galleries or anything.. FUCK if you need hosting or anything to help out hit me up...



                                                                      Reason I am so strong about this is cause it happened to me and im bouncing back but this time a lot stronger...


                                                                      Peace and good luck bro
                                                                      TOM
                                                                      I can't bro........ i need every dime i have. I just don't have anything left to spend on hosting/content/etc........

                                                                      I wouldn't mind starting out with galleries......... hell, i can do that 12 hours a day, i don't mind but the thing is, i lost everything... 3 computers wich i eventually will get back but that doesn't help me now and like i told before, i'm not gonna spend the last i have buying a pc/etc.... i'm keeping it all to put up a fight for my kids.
                                                                      Your Blend, Your Product

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                                                                      • TheMob?
                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                        • Jan 2003
                                                                        • 8584

                                                                        #36
                                                                        God that's fucked up. Women are strange sometimes, she might just crawl back in a few weeks.. don't let her though. Do your thing.

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                                                                        • UltraSonic
                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                          • Jul 2004
                                                                          • 1728

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by TheMob?
                                                                          God that's fucked up. Women are strange sometimes, she might just crawl back in a few weeks.. don't let her though. Do your thing.
                                                                          She won't get back into my life, never again. I'll just do as you say, do my thing. I'll crawl out of my pit and come back twice as hard, i can tell you that
                                                                          I've always been a fighter...... fall down, crawl back up, don't look back and move on.... that's my moto.
                                                                          Your Blend, Your Product

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                                                                          • Aquarius
                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                            • May 2004
                                                                            • 4754

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Best of luck bro.

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                                                                            • 12clicks
                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                              • 19813

                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by UltraSonic
                                                                              About a week ago i posted this thread:

                                                                              http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...ght=UltraSonic

                                                                              At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
                                                                              Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

                                                                              About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
                                                                              When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

                                                                              So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

                                                                              To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

                                                                              For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

                                                                              I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
                                                                              dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
                                                                              I'm not a dinosaur, I'm a crocodile. I've seen dinosaurs come and go and I'm left unimpressed.

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                                                                              • pornpf69
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                                                                                • Jun 2004
                                                                                • 15782

                                                                                #40
                                                                                good luck!

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                                                                                • BVF
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                                                                                  • Jan 2002
                                                                                  • 13975

                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  sorry to hear that man. I went through a big custody/divorce fight last year. All I know that if it wasn't for porn, I wouldn't have been able to outlast the bitch with lawyers fees

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                                                                                  • mrthumbs
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                                                                                    • Apr 2002
                                                                                    • 11702

                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by 12clicks
                                                                                    dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.

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                                                                                    • Doctor Dre
                                                                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                      • Jan 2001
                                                                                      • 51692

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by Babagirls
                                                                                      well, i know that the court ALWAYS favors the mother for full or the majority of custody so, just be VERY prepared for that long hard road and FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT!!!!!!!!!

                                                                                      as for your (now) ex, - if she didnt have the fuckin guts to tell you her wants & needs and what she felt, then thats HER problem, not yours!

                                                                                      good luck with everything else, im sure that will be all cleared up soon. time is the answer. so chill for now, and let shit work itself out and focus on those kids!
                                                                                      But a mother that empty the bank account of the guy ???
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                                                                                      • sirrobin
                                                                                        Confirmed User
                                                                                        • Jun 2003
                                                                                        • 453

                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        moral of story :
                                                                                        1) bank offshore
                                                                                        2) backup offsite
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                                                                                        • 12clicks
                                                                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                          • Jan 2001
                                                                                          • 19813

                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by UltraSonic
                                                                                          About a week ago i posted this thread:

                                                                                          http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showth...ght=UltraSonic

                                                                                          At that time i thought i could solve the problems i have but by now i don't see any way out.
                                                                                          Let me explain myself (i think i owe it to some people) and give you a heads up on my situation.

                                                                                          About a week ago i was working at my office and the police came in with a warrant to take my 3 computers because they where investigating somekind of tax scam. They also took all my info and books at my accountants office. My lawyer made some calls and it seems that they don't have a case and will drop all charges, logical because i don't and never will have any tax scam in any way. But by now the harm is done.
                                                                                          When i came home that same day my wife and kids (daughter and son) where gone. No note, no call, nothing. It took my 4 hours to find out she is involved with another guy and i got to speak to her on the phone late in the evening that same day. She claims i was never there for her and was working to much, wich i do, about 12 to 16 hours a day. Come to think of it, maybe i was away to much but i never heard her complain when she went shopping with her friends with a big smile on her face about 3 days a week. <--- This is to you babe, enjoy it. Because all of the comotion i didn't think about the practical stuff untill the day after. I went ot the bank in fear and it seemed she gladly withdraw our whole account (wich i worked for 12 to 16 hours a day). Well, my bet, i should have put something on the side and play it safe. We where not married, went ot my lawyer again and he informed me she won't get away with it but it might take some time to get back what's mine. 2 Days after that BS the firm i rent the office from throw me out because i was a bad "face" for the building, with the police comming and all. Fuck them, again my lawyer, again same BS...... all problems can be solved but it takes some time but that is what i don't have - TIME.

                                                                                          So to make a long story short, i'm getting out of the biz, not because i want to but because i have to, i don't see any other way. I have to start from scratch again, so back to regular life, regular work and put everything on hold for a long time. I loved doing this biz.

                                                                                          To all the people i have worked with thank for using my services and i hope you all do some great adult bizzing in the future.

                                                                                          For those who ask themselves "what about the kids?" - I'm gonna fight for them, if it's the last thing i do - THAT she WON'T take away from me, she might try to take my biz, my money but not the kids. By the way, i think it's her who put up this fake "tax scam" bullshit.

                                                                                          I'm gonna be here for another 2 to three hours so if if you have questions, fire away.
                                                                                          dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
                                                                                          I'm not a dinosaur, I'm a crocodile. I've seen dinosaurs come and go and I'm left unimpressed.

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                                                                                          • UltraSonic
                                                                                            Confirmed User
                                                                                            • Jul 2004
                                                                                            • 1728

                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Originally posted by 12clicks
                                                                                            dude, no need for elaborate lies, just go. no one cares.
                                                                                            I was wondering when i was gonna get those replies...... think of it what you want.
                                                                                            I'm not here to ask for any favours or anything...... i just think it's fair for those i was working with that they get a heads up on things.
                                                                                            Your Blend, Your Product

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                                                                                            • 12clicks
                                                                                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                                                              • Jan 2001
                                                                                              • 19813

                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by UltraSonic
                                                                                              I was wondering when i was gonna get those replies...... think of it what you want.
                                                                                              I'm not here to ask for any favours or anything...... i just think it's fair for those i was working with that they get a heads up on things.
                                                                                              its no different than when you told your boss you couldn't work the fry-0-lator an more because you lost your dog.

                                                                                              save the sob story. you don't quit your job because your wife leaves you.
                                                                                              I'm not a dinosaur, I'm a crocodile. I've seen dinosaurs come and go and I'm left unimpressed.

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