How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!

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  • fatal attraction
    Confirmed User
    • Feb 2003
    • 6522
    #1

    How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!

    How do you deal with a goodbye....without any closure???? Help!
    An icq end after almost a year and a half sucks!!! Time to move on.....especially when they continue to say things just to hurt you. You try to support them....Sometimes people just suck!!!!!! How do you get the closure to end things in your mind???? Because you will never have a way to end it in person....they won't give you that, EVER! Can't deal with reality, I guess???
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    • strobi
      Confirmed User
      • Nov 2002
      • 7383
      #2
      just give it some time....

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        • Lace
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          • Mar 2004
          • 16116
          #3
          time heals all wounds.
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            • beemk
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              • Jan 2002
              • 20829
              #4
              time
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                • baddog
                  So Fucking Banned
                  • Apr 2001
                  • 107089
                  #5
                  who needs closure? that must be a chick thing

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                    • SleazyDream
                      I'm here for SPORT
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 41470
                      #6
                      smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.
                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                      Now read without the word dog.

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                        • ArikaAmes
                          Confirmed User
                          • Dec 2003
                          • 3081
                          #7
                          I agree with you sometimes people do suck

                          Find someone much better!

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                            • nofx
                              Too lazy to set a custom title
                              • Nov 2002
                              • 16826
                              #8
                              Originally posted by Lace
                              time heals all wounds.

                              Often times I wonder why
                              There's love and hate, theres live or die.
                              When sickness comes I must decide:
                              When feelings go, theres suicide.

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                                • MikeHawk
                                  Confirmed User
                                  • Jan 2004
                                  • 6683
                                  #9
                                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                  smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.
                                  Got to agree with Sleazy.....

                                  Just do some praying and move on.... its the best thing.....learn. grow and go.....
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                                    • SleazyDream
                                      I'm here for SPORT
                                      • Jul 2001
                                      • 41470
                                      #10
                                      this is reality.

                                      nobody OWES you anything in this life.

                                      That's real life and what each and what every one of us has to deal with OURSELVES. You cannot ask someone else for YOUR closure, that has to come from within YOU.
                                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                      Now read without the word dog.

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                                        • WickedVenus
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Aug 2004
                                          • 3877
                                          #11
                                          Find a hobby, I know it sounds bad, but if you find something to do, it will keep your mind off of things.

                                          Or for a faster way REBOUND
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                                            • SleazyDream
                                              I'm here for SPORT
                                              • Jul 2001
                                              • 41470
                                              #12
                                              Originally posted by WickedVenus
                                              Find a hobby, I know it sounds bad, but if you find something to do, it will keep your mind off of things.

                                              Or for a faster way REBOUND
                                              there's sooo much more sex in a rebound - DEF the way to go....
                                              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                              Now read without the word dog.

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                                                • graphicsbytia
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • Sep 2003
                                                  • 2618
                                                  #13
                                                  have some pride for god's sake

                                                  that's what'll save you in the end

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                                                    • Holly
                                                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                      • Jun 2003
                                                      • 10017
                                                      #14
                                                      Don't listen to any of these people.


                                                      Pay someone to have him killed.
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                                                        • baddog
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Apr 2001
                                                          • 107089
                                                          #15
                                                          Originally posted by Holly
                                                          Don't listen to any of these people.


                                                          Pay someone to have him killed.

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                                                            • fatal attraction
                                                              Confirmed User
                                                              • Feb 2003
                                                              • 6522
                                                              #16
                                                              Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                              smart people don't take personal issues to the boards.
                                                              I guess I'm another idiot, whatever

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                                                                • Vitasoy
                                                                  GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!!
                                                                  • Oct 2003
                                                                  • 58202
                                                                  #17
                                                                  Clear your mind, and be a monk.


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                                                                    • fatal attraction
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • Feb 2003
                                                                      • 6522
                                                                      #18
                                                                      Originally posted by Holly
                                                                      Don't listen to any of these people.


                                                                      Pay someone to have him killed.
                                                                      Fuck all these idiots in this thread...that's perfect!!! Yeah, like a fucking man knows anything??? LOL

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                                                                        • NaughtyINC
                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                          • Jul 2004
                                                                          • 1288
                                                                          #19
                                                                          last month has been hell for myself personally... hope things work out for ya though
                                                                          meh

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                                                                            • baddog
                                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                                              • Apr 2001
                                                                              • 107089
                                                                              #20
                                                                              Originally posted by fatal attraction
                                                                              Fuck all these idiots in this thread...that's perfect!!! Yeah, like a fucking man knows anything??? LOL
                                                                              Well, you could cry and mope if you think that will make you feel better, but I have my doubts that it will

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                                                                                • Goatse
                                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                                  • Sep 2003
                                                                                  • 2086
                                                                                  #21
                                                                                  Don't stay attached to feelings and dreams that no longer exist. You must pretend that it never happened and that you're just living another normal day. As your daily routine takes your mind off more painful situations, you will be able to slowly remove yourself from what you once felt for that person. The worst you can do is to cling on and refuse to let it go. It will be hell for a few weeks, maybe months, but you will once again breathe normally and enjoy life the way you once did.

                                                                                  Or maybe you should kill yourself.

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                                                                                    • lb_vee
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • May 2004
                                                                                      • 886
                                                                                      #22
                                                                                      Originally posted by Lace
                                                                                      time heals all wounds.
                                                                                      pretty much.

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                                                                                        • Mr Dickovitch
                                                                                          Confirmed User
                                                                                          • Jul 2004
                                                                                          • 1070
                                                                                          #23
                                                                                          One thing that always helped me in a situation like this is stabbing myself in the face. You should try it. It really works.

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                                                                                            • Nanda
                                                                                              Confirmed User
                                                                                              • Jul 2003
                                                                                              • 5310
                                                                                              #24
                                                                                              Originally posted by Lace
                                                                                              time heals all wounds.


                                                                                              The story of life is quicker than the wink of an eye. The story of love is hello and goodbye, until we meet again.
                                                                                              --Jimi Hendrix
                                                                                              My Ex-husband SKULL-BUITRE ran off to Colombia with OUR money and screwed me after I helped him build OUR business.
                                                                                              He is hiding in Colombia and never paid the settlement $ from our divorce!

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