glad to hear its finally over red! GL with everything you do. :thumbsup

Congrats and i would suggest you take a few days off and take it easy and soak in the relief that it's finally over...

I know your pain. Its the absolute worst thing you will go through in life when kids are involved.

Been through it twice and that's why I'm so reluctant to ever consider getting married again.

In my 2nd one, I got so frustrated with the process during the early stages before we got civil with each other and started to work things out amicably, I finally said you can take anything you want, I really don't care anymore, but over my dead fucking body will you get custody and control of my son. And I stood my ground on that with every fibre of my soul and got custody.

good to hear its done!
congrats :)

good stuff RRRRed

hope to see you in miami

whoa 3 years waiting & fighting to have your freedom back is way too long, now im thinking if i should get married hahaha

Congrats RRRed, I've been trying to reach you, but I don't think hotmail likes any email with adult in it. Check your icq.

Good for you hon! Enjoy every minute!

good for you!

now go enjoy your life like you were meant to.

CONGRATS MATE!!!!
:thumbsup :thumbsup :thumbsup

congrats dude, probably a better desicion than marriage :winkwink:

Congrats man,
So now it's all about finding someone to love like you once did her. :) Best of luck.

congrats:thumbsup

wish you that your life becomes a lot better

btw to all the fucking morons: she's not a dude

at least read the post you're replying to

hahahah RRReds a girl :)


good on you rrred I am so happy for you, and cant wait to party all night long in florida with ya again !

RRRED, you know you should have called me. I'll take out your trash anytime. :D :Graucho

Congrats!! Now get on your knees and open your mouth so I can teebag you.

Glad I go to amuse you! :)
Well I guess I'd say the same did I know she was a girl. :)
Finding a new partner is never easy, wheter it's a man or a woman.

Congrats ... just thinking about a seperation would make me sick ... too much problems

:thumbsup

See, if you had married me way back in the day, you wouldn't have had to bother with any of this nonsense ;-)))

Congrats, I know how tough it can be.

Come on out to Las Vegas and we'll go do some binge drinking to celebrate...hell, you can even bring Ken if you want.....

Now, just DON'T "rebound" into another marriage --at least not until you've had some time to enjoy the "freedom" of no drama, strings, hassles, etc:-)))

Dave

Court battles, attorneys, lies, threats, vicious inlaws........who needs them!

Get on with your life and be happy.:thumbsup

I seem to remember you going through this not too long ago... I basicallly had the choice to go ahead and go to trial, or negotiate. I agreed to shared custody where I'd get like 60% of the time. I still am not ok with this because I don't feel it's best for her.

There's a difference between a dad being a dad and a dad soley trying to hurt the mom by trying to take as much time away from her as possible. Unfortunately that was the case so we went from him hardly changing a diaper, doing bathtimes, meals, or anything to suddenly being father of the year wanting every moment possible... I notice already that since this has been final he doesnt even care about having so much time with her now. I would hate to see her affected from that.

Trial would have been thousands more and the industy thing would have been thrown all over the place. I want her to see him as much as she wants dont get me wrong. But jeez do it for her not the courts.

I am just relieved that I will never every go through something like this again. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

:thumbsup Congratulations on it being fianlly done.

I was out of town, so forgive me for this being belated but:

Many Congratufuckinglations! :GFYBand

I know this has been tough on you because I know the marriage was tough on you :mad:

Glad it's finally over!!! :)