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I don't think I want any more "friends" in this business.

07-30-2004, 11:40 AM

To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.
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07-30-2004, 11:41 AM

I will be your friend Aaron. We both have bald heads. Hell we're practically brothers. High five bro...
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07-30-2004, 11:41 AM

I'm 95% confident that friends suck 95% of the time.

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07-30-2004, 11:42 AM

ok then - im taking you off my birthday party list

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07-30-2004, 11:42 AM

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I'm 95% confident that friends suck 95% of the time.

what he said !!!!

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07-30-2004, 11:43 AM

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

i know first hand, let a fucker sweet talk you into some deals and you WILL GET WALKED over around here. these people wait for you to turn your back,...

as i said 2 years ago.

if i wanted friends id do the work for free.

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07-30-2004, 11:44 AM

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i know first hand, let a fucker sweet talk you into some deals and you WILL GET WALKED over around here. these people wait for you to turn your back,...

as i said 2 years ago.

if i wanted friends id do the work for free.

see you all in hell.

luckily I guess for me I learned my lesson in this biz early. I got screwed a couple times by "friends" and now I know better.
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07-30-2004, 11:44 AM

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ok then - im taking you off my birthday party list

I've known you for about 3 years and I can honestly say....I have never found you to be anything but a friend.
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07-30-2004, 11:44 AM

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

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07-30-2004, 11:45 AM

WHAT IF?
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Friends tell you their secrets
Friends are meant to share
Friends are meant to cheer you up,
What happens when theyÂ?re not there?

Is it hard when you donÂ?t have
Someone to lean upon?
When you need a friend to care,
but they, your friends, have gone?

What if you were split
Up from your best friend?
Do you think youÂ?d care
If your friendship ends?

Would you slowly drift apart,
Go in separate ways?
Or would you both grow closer
Grow closer day by day?

What if your friends started
Saying things behind your back?
Would you stand and face them,
Or would your courage lack?

Perhaps it would be safer
To let your friendships mend,
Push these thoughts behind you,
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07-30-2004, 11:45 AM

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

I dont want to be your friend
Time you borrow is time I lend
I wanna take this to the end
I DONT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND

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07-30-2004, 11:45 AM

Im sorry you feel that way about your friends. I hate being betrayed by the few people I trust too.
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07-30-2004, 11:46 AM

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I'm 95% confident that friends suck 95% of the time.

maybe the definition of friend just needs to be redefined or reinforced...

I find a lot of people confuse the term acquiantence with friend...

someone you share a few drinks with, a common interest or two, a few biz ventures, does by NO MEANS make them a 'friend' imo...

takes some loyalty, time, etc to earn that friend badge...people throw the word around all too cheaply these days...

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07-30-2004, 11:47 AM

i've just recently learned the lesson of having only a *very* select few "friends" online from this biz.

usually the people who create bullshit are the ones that dont have a life offline or know what a life offline is.

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07-30-2004, 11:47 AM

i really dont know if i have any friends

my life is a lonely one

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07-30-2004, 11:49 AM

Originally posted by ytcracker
i really dont know if i have any friends

my life is a lonely one

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07-30-2004, 11:50 AM

I hate people so friends are few and far between.

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07-30-2004, 11:50 AM

Originally posted by TheJimmy
maybe the definition of friend just needs to be redefined or reinforced...

I find a lot of people confuse the term acquiantence with friend...

someone you share a few drinks with, a common interest or two, a few biz ventures, does by NO MEANS make them a 'friend' imo...

takes some loyalty, time, etc to earn that friend badge...people throw the word around all too cheaply these days...

Women have that problem. Have you ever heard a woman talk about her "friends"? It's funny as shit. They consider a "friend" to be anybody they get along with, at that minute second in time.

I don't do that. I'm very picky about who I consider "friends" because frankly I'm not about crazy about a lot of people, haha. I'll get along with anyone and talk with anyone, but the list of people that I think about often is pretty slim. However, the people on that list really make me shake my head sometimes and ask myself "why".

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07-30-2004, 11:51 AM

Originally posted by ytcracker
i really dont know if i have any friends

my life is a lonely one

there should only be 4-5 people that you can really trust, outside your family

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07-30-2004, 11:51 AM

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as i said 2 years ago.

if i wanted friends id do the work for free.

see you all in hell.

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07-30-2004, 11:52 AM

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
I don't do that. I'm very picky about who I consider "friends" because frankly I'm not about crazy about a lot of people, haha. I'll get along with anyone and talk with anyone, but the list of people that I think about often is pretty slim. However, the people on that list really make me shake my head sometimes and ask myself "why".

Exactly.
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07-30-2004, 11:52 AM

thats why I only consider people associates unless I know you in some other way then online.

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07-30-2004, 11:57 AM

So no one told you life was gonna be this way
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It's like you're always stuck in second gear
When it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year, but...

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07-30-2004, 12:01 PM

Originally posted by AaronM
I've known you for about 3 years and I can honestly say....I have never found you to be anything but a friend.

ok you're back on the list !

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07-30-2004, 12:02 PM

Aaron

Don't trust anyone. Nobody really cares about you, everyone is out for themselves.

When shit hits the fan its funny how everyone disappears or kicks you when you?re down.

The only people you can really trust are your Parents and maybe siblings.

Keep your enemies close but your friends closer.
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07-30-2004, 12:08 PM

Originally posted by Sly_RJ
Women have that problem. Have you ever heard a woman talk about her "friends"? It's funny as shit. They consider a "friend" to be anybody they get along with, at that minute second in time.

I don't do that. I'm very picky about who I consider "friends" because frankly I'm not about crazy about a lot of people, haha. I'll get along with anyone and talk with anyone, but the list of people that I think about often is pretty slim. However, the people on that list really make me shake my head sometimes and ask myself "why".

oh man that is soooo true...

honestly, due to work, moving too often, etc I think I can count my friends on one hand....

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07-30-2004, 12:13 PM

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

Just because I wouldn't kiss you for a dollar, let's not get all salty.

But really.

You're one of the few people out there I consider a friend, though we don't talk or hang often enough since you live in the sticks. And you're the only guest that can show up at my door unannounced, as you do from time to time. Anyway, the people who don't hit you up for anything are using the real friends.

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07-30-2004, 12:28 PM

"Its not you... I only have 3 friends, I cant handle anymore"

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07-30-2004, 12:43 PM

do I need to take you off my cell phonebook?
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07-30-2004, 12:47 PM

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do I need to take you off my cell phonebook?

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07-30-2004, 12:49 PM

I don't believe in friends.

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07-30-2004, 12:50 PM

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Don't you mean your hone book?

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07-30-2004, 12:54 PM

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Aaron

Don't trust anyone. Nobody really cares about you, everyone is out for themselves.

When shit hits the fan its funny how everyone disappears or kicks you when you?re down.

The only people you can really trust are your Parents and maybe siblings.

Keep your enemies close but your friends closer.
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07-30-2004, 12:55 PM

I don't have any friends in "the business"

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07-30-2004, 12:55 PM

Originally posted by DrGuile
"Its not you... I only have 3 friends, I cant handle anymore"

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my dad told me this long long ago. people throw the word 'friend' around way too liberally. you are lucky to have at most 3 true friends outside of your family if u have a close family. the rest are associates, buddies, the guys/girls - their world would stop for about 30 seconds if you got run over by a bus, seen it many times.

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07-30-2004, 12:55 PM

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I'll get back to you on this, I'm honing one of my (female) friends right now.

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07-30-2004, 01:06 PM

Sorry, I didn't mean any harm writing to the Penthouse Forum about our wicked sodomy adventures Aaron....

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07-30-2004, 01:08 PM

some of my most painful moments in life have been caused by friends, the closet of whom have gotten to know me.

and they are now enemies.

i am strictly speaking offline-offboard shit.

the knife in the back has always been driven into me by those the closest to me.

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07-30-2004, 01:08 PM

I have a hard time trusting people in this industry.
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07-30-2004, 01:10 PM

It is true. if you have 2 true friends you should consider yourself lucky...Atleast this is what my mom tells me everytime a "friend" betrays me..it is a horible thing! However, there are a lot of great people out there and as i aged i find I have a much better judge of caracter so it happens less and less.

I think there are just too many me me me selffish selfcentered peeps out there!

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07-30-2004, 01:14 PM

It's ALWAYS business, never personal ...

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07-30-2004, 01:15 PM

aaron

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07-30-2004, 01:23 PM

So when are you coming back to GA so we can hang out. I promise we will never do business together. lol
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07-30-2004, 01:30 PM

Originally posted by D-Money
Just because I wouldn't kiss you for a dollar, let's not get all salty.

But really.

You're one of the few people out there I consider a friend, though we don't talk or hang often enough since you live in the sticks. And you're the only guest that can show up at my door unannounced, as you do from time to time. Anyway, the people who don't hit you up for anything are using the real friends.

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07-30-2004, 01:30 PM

1)A friend to me is someone who stands BESIDE me, not behind me.
2)Someone who stands strong more so in bad times than in good, THAT is when you know the level of their true friendship. Being there in good times is easy, but when things get tough, that's the true test.
3)Someone you can confide in without thought or hesitation.

That's to name a few... I have a SHITLOAD of people I talk to and genuinely LIKE, but the ones I call friends ALWAYS always know where they stand with me, and are those I am loyal to to the very bitter end, and then a few more steps past that.

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07-30-2004, 01:32 PM

Originally posted by Fletch XXX
some of my most painful moments in life have been caused by friends, the closet of whom have gotten to know me.

and they are now enemies.

i am strictly speaking offline-offboard shit.

the knife in the back has always been driven into me by those the closest to me.

oddly enough, I've been fucked more by family than "friends"

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07-30-2004, 01:40 PM

I got two people who i can call real friends, one of them in this industry

It gets tricky when you borrow money to friends
sometimes they can't pay it back and then try to avoid you etc etc

eventhough you don't care (alot) about that money but in the meanwhile you lost a friend

if you don't borrow them money you're not a good friend
when you brorrow them money chances are likely you'll lose them anway

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07-30-2004, 01:40 PM

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07-30-2004, 01:42 PM

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

I used to have the same belief. Now, I trust very very few people. I only consider a small handful of maybe 3-5 people as friends, the rest are business associates.

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07-30-2004, 01:52 PM

Originally posted by Mutt
my dad told me this long long ago. people throw the word 'friend' around way too liberally. you are lucky to have at most 3 true friends outside of your family if u have a close family. the rest are associates, buddies, the guys/girls - their world would stop for about 30 seconds if you got run over by a bus, seen it many times.

you must be my long lost brother..
my dad always says that too

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