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Honeyslut · 07-30-2004, 02:52 PM

my family and animals are my only friends.

I have learned the hard way several times

Holly · 07-30-2004, 02:55 PM

I just wanted to say that I love all of you. You're like family to me.

Ironhorse · 07-30-2004, 02:56 PM

Is Amp not putting out again?

TheWildcard · 07-30-2004, 03:02 PM

Fuck friends. I just got scammed by a "friend".

Paul · 07-30-2004, 03:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Tam
1)A friend to me is someone who stands BESIDE me, not behind me.
2)Someone who stands strong more so in bad times than in good, THAT is when you know the level of their true friendship. Being there in good times is easy, but when things get tough, that's the true test.
3)Someone you can confide in without thought or hesitation.

That's to name a few... I have a SHITLOAD of people I talk to and genuinely LIKE, but the ones I call friends ALWAYS always know where they stand with me, and are those I am loyal to to the very bitter end, and then a few more steps past that.

Nice post ! I got 2 friends I know I can trust

I tell ya one thing though, I would rather have 2 - 3 friends in the entire world that I knew I could trust with my life over a bunch of so called friends that are only there during the good times. Fuck that ! Fuck the popularity bullshit !

Its all about the trust and loyalty

Sony · 07-30-2004, 03:29 PM

Why can't we be friends?

Hank_Heartland · 07-30-2004, 03:32 PM

"A friend is a person who knows who you are but likes you anyway"

With a friend you take the good and the bad and things are not always good

I don't discard friends when they do something wrong or make a fuck up...In time any fuck up can be overcome if people are true friends

KRL · 07-30-2004, 04:00 PM

The only 2 friends I'd bank on 110% loyalty are my son and my dog. I trust a handful of other friends but only to the 99% level.

JFK · 07-30-2004, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Hank_MrSkin
"A friend is a person who knows who you are but likes you anyway"

With a friend you take the good and the bad and things are not always good

I don't discard friends when they do something wrong or make a fuck up...In time any fuck up can be overcome if people are true friends

Well Thanks Hank

Nylz · 07-30-2004, 04:03 PM

I wanna be your friend

Peter Romero · 07-30-2004, 04:12 PM

This is the porno biz... if you want a friend, buy a dog.

For a very select few of my friends I:
1. Refer talent to them for free
2. Let them stay at my house & rent it out for shooting for free
3. Buy them lunch on "thier" sets & deliver it.
4. Give them the benefit of the doubt even when I'm FUMMING MAD and listen anyways.
5. Forgive them when they apologize for fucking up.
6. Tell them what they NEED to hear not what they WANT to hear.
7. Do anything for, not for expectation of anything in return.

JFK · 07-30-2004, 04:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by POV Porn guy
This is the porno biz... if you want a friend, buy a dog.

For a very select few of my friends I:
1. Refer talent to them for free
2. Let them stay at my house & rent it out for shooting for free
3. Buy them lunch on "thier" sets & deliver it.
4. Give them the benefit of the doubt even when I'm FUMMING MAD and listen anyways.
5. Forgive them when they apologize for fucking up.
6. Tell them what they NEED to hear not what they WANT to hear.
7. Do anything for, not for expectation of anything in return.

P1mpdogg did

Sly_RJ · 07-30-2004, 04:18 PM

What a fucked up thread. What a fucked up day.

Assumptions only make one look like an ass.

adultwebware · 07-30-2004, 05:09 PM

that wouldn't be new to say "do friendship with or do business with". the "AND" instead the "OR" might produce critical misunderstanding and lead to some unwanted circumstances. I guess the same term applies to mixing pleasure with business. there always should be a clear boundary.

being alone is a win-win situation

Shoehorn! · 07-30-2004, 05:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

So true.

baddog · 07-30-2004, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by =^..^=
you must be my long lost brother..
my dad always says that too

it is in the pamphlet you get when you take your new baby home from the hospital, under "Things to tell your kids as they grow up."

Things like don't run with scissors, or it's always funny until someone ends up pregnant.

Furious_Female · 07-30-2004, 05:23 PM

"What are friends?
Friends are people that you think are your friends
But they really your enemies, with secret indentities
And disguises, to hide they true colors
So just when you think you close enough to be brothers
They wanna come back and cut your throat when you ain't lookin'
What is money?
Money is what makes a man act funny
Money is the root of all evil
Money'll make them same friends come back around
Swearing that they was always down"

Rankings · 07-30-2004, 05:30 PM

"friends" is a very sketchy word to begin with. Throw in a little business and things always get ugly.

huey · 07-30-2004, 05:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

This bizz is made up off highschool losers what did you expect.

MicroChick · 07-30-2004, 05:39 PM

So Aaron, who screwed you over to make you start this thread?

It isn't just the porn business where you find fair-weather friends. It's everywhere!

EZRhino · 07-30-2004, 05:39 PM

In life I know one thing for sure business and friends never mix well.
I'll never do it again.

Kevin2 · 07-30-2004, 05:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

I hear you bud. I think we use the term friend too loosely. Acquaintance may be a better word for 99% of the people you would have called friends. I only have 3 people I would call a friend and they have been there for me and I for them for well over 20 years.

boobmaster · 07-30-2004, 06:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fletch XXX

see you all in hell.

You are not going to hell, fletch. I am praying for you.

boobmaster · 07-30-2004, 07:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
To me, a friend is somebody you trust. Somebody who will not stab you in the back or create some sort of negative vibe around your name. Somebody who will always be there for you and you for them.

It seems that occasionally some of the people in this business, who I usually greatly respect and value my friendships with, decide to do the very things that represent anything but friendship.

In this industry, we tend to mix business with pleasure. Perhaps that contributes to this problem.

quiet may very well have the right idea.

I like you, AaronM. You can be friends with me.

AaronM · 07-30-2004, 07:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by boobmaster
I like you, AaronM. You can be friends with me.

See thread title.

Spunky · 07-30-2004, 07:43 PM

Ice · 07-30-2004, 07:48 PM

I can count my "true friends" on one hand.... only 2 of which are in the industry. Everyone else I am nice to on different levels but still not a " I would die for friend"

It takes alot for me to consider someone a "true friend" and isn't something i give out lightly.

Those who know... know......

Those who don't... wonder........

Bottom line... I know who will go to bat for me because I'll go to bat for them............ I know who won't and thats cool............ I don't expect the world to love me.........

Peace all

quiet · 07-31-2004, 05:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
quiet may very well have the right idea.

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Ice Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sunny California Posts: 26,053	I can count my "true friends" on one hand.... only 2 of which are in the industry. Everyone else I am nice to on different levels but still not a " I would die for friend" It takes alot for me to consider someone a "true friend" and isn't something i give out lightly. Those who know... know...... Those who don't... wonder........ Bottom line... I know who will go to bat for me because I'll go to bat for them............ I know who won't and thats cool............ I don't expect the world to love me......... Peace all __________________ icq 1904905