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Expo · 05-05-2001, 06:57 PM

I am just a little curious about something.

My girlfriend does nothing but constantly bitch about me working on my sites all fucking day. How I don't spend every waking minute with her ect...

Anyone else out there experiencing the same issues?

Just curious,

- Expo

Tam · 05-05-2001, 07:06 PM

Yup as a mastter of fact I have that happen sometimes and personally I don't blame my hubby........ I had been really good about working from 8-4 for a few weeks but last week I was so damn busy that I am here more than not........

Just find a happy medium that both of you are cool with. I spend a little more time going out and just watching tv with them now.... but for a long time all I did was work.. which didn't do me or my family very much good..........

Talk to her and see what the two of you can come up with where you and her are happy with it.

Just my 2 cents worth

Tam

Andy S · 05-05-2001, 07:26 PM

expo,

I had the same thing. GF was crying and bitching non stop because I was puttin in 20 hour days. So we broke up. I figure it this way, you have a gf so that you could be happy. Your gf should support you and understand that you're trying to make somethin'. As if work is not stressful enough, you have a gf to even give u more stress. I thought it was best to just split up. Now i have a gf who supports me

TFCash · 05-05-2001, 07:39 PM

Expo -

My wife works the biz with me. Maybe you should talk to your GF about doing the same. We each work around 10 hours a day, which leaves us plenty of time for other stuff

And when she finds a really hot site, and gets all hot and horny that doesn't seem to bother me much at all

Tim

misterwalrus · 05-05-2001, 07:41 PM

Which just goes to show you that there just any pat answers to your question. You have to decide if you are the problem or she is or perhaps it's a little of both.

I on the other hand have the oppisite problem. I spend at least 8 hours a day at the day job and then 5 hours a day working with sites and my girlfriend thinks I'm smothering her. Go figure

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FUCK ALL Y'ALL

Expo · 05-05-2001, 07:45 PM

I agree there should be a medium met. The only thing is that, say today for instance, I took her son to the park and out to lunch ect. I had spent all day with them. We came back home and I had to get on to make my check on things and she fires up....

"WTF? You have a 1 track mind....." "all you do is sit on that fucking computer. I honestly think maybe she needs to compromise with me in this situation. I mean it's not like I am on here for 20 hrs a day. Just enough to do the essentials and maybe sometimes fuck arround.

For some reason she feels like she is my whole life. The simple fact is the we are not fucking married and nor do I plan on it anytime soon. This is a constant thing though. No matter what it is I do she is bitchin about it!!! Anything that takes away time from her. I think that is a show of how self centered a person really is...

Do you guys think maybe it is time to kick her to the curb??? I'm giving that some serious consideration....

Thanks

- Expo

TFCash · 05-05-2001, 07:59 PM

I tell you, get her a site of her own and see what happens

Andy S · 05-05-2001, 08:12 PM

expo i'm about to say something but the women here will hate me hehe. If you give a woman your finger, she'll take your arm. You give her your arm, she'll take more. Women are tricky creates and use that whining and bitching to get what they want. Its a way of getting you to feel sorry for them. I went thru it. In my opinion, a man has to be a man and set a woman straight. After all, they love that.

Expo · 05-05-2001, 08:26 PM

"If you give a woman your finger, she'll take your arm. You give her your arm, she'll take more. Women are tricky creates and use that whining and bitching to get what they want. Its a way of getting you to feel sorry for them"

Andy I couldn't agree more!!!

Well HCH - She hasn't shown any interest in the internet at all. Even when she may be sitting next to me watching me work or something. Maybe I should give a try and see what happens. Who knows.

That is what happened to me. An old roommate of mine runs a few emulation sites. One day I was watching him work and figured I'd give it a try. At the time I knew '0' about computers and the net. 6 months later...I have 2 websites. Not too bad I guess.

Maybe I'll give it a try but then again maybe it is time to find another GF....

- Expo

salo18 · 12-13-2003, 05:29 AM

05-05-2001, 06:57 PM	#1
Expo Registered User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Detroit MI Posts: 80	Just Curious I am just a little curious about something. My girlfriend does nothing but constantly bitch about me working on my sites all fucking day. How I don't spend every waking minute with her ect... Anyone else out there experiencing the same issues? Just curious, - Expo

12-13-2003, 05:29 AM	#10
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05-05-2001, 07:06 PM	#2
Tam Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: In your face Posts: 8,488	Yup as a mastter of fact I have that happen sometimes and personally I don't blame my hubby........ I had been really good about working from 8-4 for a few weeks but last week I was so damn busy that I am here more than not........ Just find a happy medium that both of you are cool with. I spend a little more time going out and just watching tv with them now.... but for a long time all I did was work.. which didn't do me or my family very much good.......... Talk to her and see what the two of you can come up with where you and her are happy with it. Just my 2 cents worth Tam

05-05-2001, 07:26 PM	#3
Andy S Registered User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Staten Island, NY, USA Posts: 33	expo, I had the same thing. GF was crying and bitching non stop because I was puttin in 20 hour days. So we broke up. I figure it this way, you have a gf so that you could be happy. Your gf should support you and understand that you're trying to make somethin'. As if work is not stressful enough, you have a gf to even give u more stress. I thought it was best to just split up. Now i have a gf who supports me

05-05-2001, 07:39 PM	#4
TFCash Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 1,738	Expo - My wife works the biz with me. Maybe you should talk to your GF about doing the same. We each work around 10 hours a day, which leaves us plenty of time for other stuff And when she finds a really hot site, and gets all hot and horny that doesn't seem to bother me much at all Tim

05-05-2001, 07:41 PM	#5
misterwalrus Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Burbank, Ca Posts: 270	Which just goes to show you that there just any pat answers to your question. You have to decide if you are the problem or she is or perhaps it's a little of both. I on the other hand have the oppisite problem. I spend at least 8 hours a day at the day job and then 5 hours a day working with sites and my girlfriend thinks I'm smothering her. Go figure ------------------ FUCK ALL Y'ALL

05-05-2001, 07:45 PM	#6
Expo Registered User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Detroit MI Posts: 80	I agree there should be a medium met. The only thing is that, say today for instance, I took her son to the park and out to lunch ect. I had spent all day with them. We came back home and I had to get on to make my check on things and she fires up.... "WTF? You have a 1 track mind....." "all you do is sit on that fucking computer. I honestly think maybe she needs to compromise with me in this situation. I mean it's not like I am on here for 20 hrs a day. Just enough to do the essentials and maybe sometimes fuck arround. For some reason she feels like she is my whole life. The simple fact is the we are not fucking married and nor do I plan on it anytime soon. This is a constant thing though. No matter what it is I do she is bitchin about it!!! Anything that takes away time from her. I think that is a show of how self centered a person really is... Do you guys think maybe it is time to kick her to the curb??? I'm giving that some serious consideration.... Thanks - Expo

05-05-2001, 07:59 PM	#7
TFCash Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 1,738	I tell you, get her a site of her own and see what happens

05-05-2001, 08:12 PM	#8
Andy S Registered User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Staten Island, NY, USA Posts: 33	expo i'm about to say something but the women here will hate me hehe. If you give a woman your finger, she'll take your arm. You give her your arm, she'll take more. Women are tricky creates and use that whining and bitching to get what they want. Its a way of getting you to feel sorry for them. I went thru it. In my opinion, a man has to be a man and set a woman straight. After all, they love that.

05-05-2001, 08:26 PM	#9
Expo Registered User Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: Detroit MI Posts: 80	"If you give a woman your finger, she'll take your arm. You give her your arm, she'll take more. Women are tricky creates and use that whining and bitching to get what they want. Its a way of getting you to feel sorry for them" Andy I couldn't agree more!!! Well HCH - She hasn't shown any interest in the internet at all. Even when she may be sitting next to me watching me work or something. Maybe I should give a try and see what happens. Who knows. That is what happened to me. An old roommate of mine runs a few emulation sites. One day I was watching him work and figured I'd give it a try. At the time I knew '0' about computers and the net. 6 months later...I have 2 websites. Not too bad I guess. Maybe I'll give it a try but then again maybe it is time to find another GF.... - Expo