He used to work before, and he always rents DVD's and records them to tape... He never had a lot of money, but at least some... He only dropped out of school around March or April, but the porn is a massive collection he amassed probably from when he was a teen until now, so that's like many years worth of tapes.

I don't think he should sell porn because his mind is so disillusioned, it would be unhealthy for him. He told me if he could get it to work again he would even shoot his own porn, and his mind is so whacked right now I don't think he can deal with it.

The point is not that he can get it up, the point is that he is very very disillusional and thinks he is going to die. The whole family is so used to him being "weird" and "off" I wonder if they seriously realize that he has serious issues? Mental people can act real normal, and still be cool. To them it's probably normal, but it's not...

I don't think I have anxiety problems at all... I probably have issues of my own, but I certainly don't imagine things like he does... He's really out there..

what're you doin fuckin w/ weirdos like this anyway?

No, he tells me it's still very difficult for him to cum watching porn, he has to try real hard and it doesn't completely get hard... He told me it doesn't get hard like before...

Have you actually asked him? He hears voices in his head or does he just worry about dieing all the time?

No, I never asked him if he hears voices but i will next time i talk to him... He doesn't worry about dying, in his mind he IS going to die.. I always sweet talk him and tell him he'll be fine.

He broke up with his ex because he thinks its not fair to put her through the pain when he dies. He tells me he tries to start fights with people in the hope that they shoot him since he's going to die anyways. He said he tried to start a fight with this guy by looking at his girlfriend and checking her out, but the guy got scared and walked away...

Also, Mutt, if you're there... about the thing you said with intimacy.... He told me that his ex was someone he met at a grocery store. I told his sister that and she told me that her instinct was that it was probably a hooker who ended up falling for him... she says her brother is not capable of being intimate or having a relationship with a "real girl"... That's her viewpoint anyways...

Does he get panic attacks?

tell the moron to visit dr. google

:thumbsup

http://www.mental-health-matters.com...list_alpha.php

http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_index.php?idx=26

I don't know if he does.. I'll ask him..

Simple answer: the guy needs a psychiatrist, and stick with the treatment he gets. Nothing you can do to help, and nothing GFY can do either.

As for the whole chinese medicine thing... many people with psychological problems look for ways of escape, and alternative medicine is especially popular for this. Most alternative medicine, however, is total bullshit, and this actionlove site definitely falls within that category.

Weight lifting wont kill your cock unless you drop a heavy dumbell on it

but Steroids will

so my guess is he did steroids and then did no Post Cycle Treatment

Tell him to talk to a doc about getting HCG and Clomid

Agreed the problem is between his ears not his legs

Update on this... It's been almost 6 months since I posted this, and the thing is that I am going out with him now, and he is my bf. The thing is that he is a GREAT guy, and his penis works FINE. He can have sex and ejaculate and all of that good stuff. So he is NOT impotent. The thing is that he STILL thinks that he is going to die and so obsessed with the http://www.actionlove.com website that he reads it EVERY single day and spends a lot of money ordering the pills there and it's to the point where he even asks to borrow money from me to order all of those pills. He thinks that eventually he will die from a brain aneurism.

The thing is that he is very stubborn and I cannot argue against him against Dr Lin and his beliefs or my bf will think that I am questioning his intelligence and get very upset. He claims that Dr Lin is the future and that the American medical community is in a conspiracy to keep "alternative medicine" out of the mainstream and that medical schools are controlled by the FDA and other such bullshit. I told him to maybe go see a psychiatrist because I think he might be a bit schizophrenic, but he got very upset because he claims that he doesn't want to argue about things that he "knows" to be factual.

I think Mutt hit it right on the head. I think he is a hypochondriac. He bought a vacuum pump thing exactly like this one http://www.actionlove.com/msg.htm and pumps his body everywhere, his back, his legs, his thighs, his arms, chest, because the thinks his blood is "stagnated" and that this will help his body heal by diffusing his blood. The thing is leaving huge bruises all over his body, it is disgusting! And he is always feelin his head or certain parts of his body and when he feels "bumps" or something like that, he will get freaked out and try to see if I have them too. I think he is obsessed with his body to the point where it is not normal.
And he is always writing crazy stuff in his notebook about crazy things like
morphology, blood diffusion, prostagladin, GABa and other things like that...
He tells me that the things he writes about are so "complex" that normal people don't understand him, that they don't even teach it in college, but that you have to be on a different level to grasp it.

He never took steroids so that is not a problem. He also has conflicts with religion becase he was raised Catholic, and claims that why he never had sex till he was 24 because his dad used to hit him for being interested in girls. That's why he hates his father today.

Our relationship is very serious and we've been seeing each other everyday. I am also going to teach him how to promote sponsors so he will start working again soon. He is a very smart guy and knows a lot more about pc's than I do, even how to build them, do programming and everything. So I find it odd that someone so smart can be so insane. I can't help him though, because when I suggest that he go so a psych he gets very offended and thinks that I don't trust him, even when I'm suggesting it very tactfully. How do you help someone like this?

Dump this headcase and come move in with me, I'am rich and fine in that department..

Correction on this, he is not schizophrenic, just a hypochondriac... He doesn't hear voices or anything, he is just always thinking he is sick. I do believe he really "feels" sick, but I just don't think he is going to die.

He is also really obsessive in other ways I don't find normal. For example thinking tap water is not good to shower in because it has fluoride and toxins. He claims if he had money he would get his water filtered when he showers, and he is looking for soap with vitamins so it can "penetrate" his body. I'm pretty sure soap is just for "External" use and the "vitamins" don't exaclty penetrate into your blood or anything like that.

i wouldnt even wanna think of not getting it up no more... would be a nightmare

Jesus, you're a sucker for headcases. :1orglaugh

Yes he will die. Let him know

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lol .......is it?

Why do women think that they can change us?

Good or bad we are what we are.

If a guy treats you like shit he will always treat you like shit. If he ignores you he will always ignore you. Ect...

No matter how good looking, how big your boobs are, how good you are in bed you will not change him into what you want him to be.

Because they always change the guys that never get pussy, those are the guys that get pussy whipped after 3 days and the girl officially owns you. They cant change real men, and those are the ones they want.

He probably has a pituitary tumor which is treatable..

he is going to die.