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baddog · 07-27-2004, 10:18 PM

50 lousy relations

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 10:20 PM

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Originally posted by DrinkingHard
Tough situation... Have you talked to him about this yet?

That would be my advice to you, if he doesn't want to talk about it. Let your lawyer talk to him....

He will probably listen then.

DH

yea i have pulled him aside atleast 3 times now over the past 6 months.. and it doesnt help, its good for a few days then slowly it goes back to normal

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 10:22 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
you can't just split, because as long as there is money owed on it, your credit is at risk . . .if it is foreclosed on, you will suffer for several years as a result

yea i know, thats why im having such a hard time with it. I dont trust anyone that has the ability to fuck with my credit.. its a tuyff cookie to swallow

baddog · 07-27-2004, 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by p1mpdogg
yea i know, thats why im having such a hard time with it. I dont trust anyone that has the ability to fuck with my credit.. its a tuyff cookie to swallow

don't lend money to friends or family

pornstar2pac · 07-27-2004, 10:28 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
don't lend money to friends or family

cool, hey..can I borrow some money?

chase · 07-27-2004, 10:34 PM

I wish there was an easy answer to that...but I do have a similar story to tell..
Last year, my husband and I were a few signatures away from being divorced. he was irresponsible, lazy, dishonest, and basically made my life hell. To make matters worse, I was pregnant with our second daughter, and working full time and taking care of the house, the bills, the kids, and everything else all alone while he was rolling and doing things like missing our first daughter's first birthday party. One day I just had enough, and I told him to have a good long visit with our daughter, because after that day, he wasn't welcome at our house..he would have to visit her at her daycare. (because he kept not showing up) I worked my preggo ass off, and spent my time with my kids, and improving our home. I basically shut him out, and after a month or two...things started changing. He would call me to have me let the daycare people know he'd be coming...and they'd tell me he actually showed up. He started buying diapers and asking if he could come to my OB appts with me. By the time the baby was born, he had moved back in. The baby just turned a year old, and we've been happier than ever before.
I know it's a different situation, but I just wanted to share some hope that he will grow up...sometimes people do change...they just have to hit rock bottom. Tough love works sometimes, when all else fails, what do you have to lose?

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 10:38 PM

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Originally posted by chase
I wish there was an easy answer to that...but I do have a similar story to tell..
Last year, my husband and I were a few signatures away from being divorced. he was irresponsible, lazy, dishonest, and basically made my life hell. To make matters worse, I was pregnant with our second daughter, and working full time and taking care of the house, the bills, the kids, and everything else all alone while he was rolling and doing things like missing our first daughter's first birthday party. One day I just had enough, and I told him to have a good long visit with our daughter, because after that day, he wasn't welcome at our house..he would have to visit her at her daycare. (because he kept not showing up) I worked my preggo ass off, and spent my time with my kids, and improving our home. I basically shut him out, and after a month or two...things started changing. He would call me to have me let the daycare people know he'd be coming...and they'd tell me he actually showed up. He started buying diapers and asking if he could come to my OB appts with me. By the time the baby was born, he had moved back in. The baby just turned a year old, and we've been happier than ever before.
I know it's a different situation, but I just wanted to share some hope that he will grow up...sometimes people do change...they just have to hit rock bottom. Tough love works sometimes, when all else fails, what do you have to lose?

you are exactly right.. so damn true

chase · 07-27-2004, 10:41 PM

You come stay with my crazy family for a few days and your brother probably won't seem so bad, lol...
A 10yo who thinks he's 18, a 9yo with bi-polar disorder, an almost 3yo who thinks she's the long lost Princess of Florida, lol, and a one year old with only one top tooth....a dog in heat, and two abandoned kittens we took in. Oh, and a fish.

p1mpdogg · 07-27-2004, 10:44 PM

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Originally posted by chase
You come stay with my crazy family for a few days and your brother probably won't seem so bad, lol...
A 10yo who thinks he's 18, a 9yo with bi-polar disorder, an almost 3yo who thinks she's the long lost Princess of Florida, lol, and a one year old with only one top tooth....a dog in heat, and two abandoned kittens we took in. Oh, and a fish.

holy shit lol

you got your hands full.. nice job on keeping your sanity...

chase · 07-27-2004, 10:48 PM

who said i was sane <insert evil cackle here> lol

07-27-2004, 10:18 PM	#51
baddog So Fucking Banned Industry Role: Join Date: Apr 2001 Location: the beach, SoCal Posts: 107,089	50 lousy relations

07-27-2004, 10:34 PM	#56
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	I wish there was an easy answer to that...but I do have a similar story to tell.. Last year, my husband and I were a few signatures away from being divorced. he was irresponsible, lazy, dishonest, and basically made my life hell. To make matters worse, I was pregnant with our second daughter, and working full time and taking care of the house, the bills, the kids, and everything else all alone while he was rolling and doing things like missing our first daughter's first birthday party. One day I just had enough, and I told him to have a good long visit with our daughter, because after that day, he wasn't welcome at our house..he would have to visit her at her daycare. (because he kept not showing up) I worked my preggo ass off, and spent my time with my kids, and improving our home. I basically shut him out, and after a month or two...things started changing. He would call me to have me let the daycare people know he'd be coming...and they'd tell me he actually showed up. He started buying diapers and asking if he could come to my OB appts with me. By the time the baby was born, he had moved back in. The baby just turned a year old, and we've been happier than ever before. I know it's a different situation, but I just wanted to share some hope that he will grow up...sometimes people do change...they just have to hit rock bottom. Tough love works sometimes, when all else fails, what do you have to lose?

07-27-2004, 10:41 PM	#58
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	You come stay with my crazy family for a few days and your brother probably won't seem so bad, lol... A 10yo who thinks he's 18, a 9yo with bi-polar disorder, an almost 3yo who thinks she's the long lost Princess of Florida, lol, and a one year old with only one top tooth....a dog in heat, and two abandoned kittens we took in. Oh, and a fish.

07-27-2004, 10:48 PM	#60
chase Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Tampa Bay Posts: 6,019	who said i was sane <insert evil cackle here> lol