Do You Believe In Premarital Sex? What Kind Of Person Are You? - GoFuckYourself.com

Cyprus · 07-25-2004, 11:17 AM

What the Bible says
The Bible is absolutely clear about virginity. A person needs to maintain their virginity until they are married. There is no other choice given!

Why the tough standard in the Bible?
A spiritual union as well as a physical union occurs when two people have sex together. It is like a unique bonding between the two people that nothing else on earth can duplicate.

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. from the Bible in Mark 10:7 - Jesus speaking
In the ultimate plan of God (as revealed in the Bible) two virgins will marry and become solidly "bonded" to each other through their first sexual experience together. This bond is intended to continually be strengthened and last for the rest of the couple's lives. The long term relationship is clearly more than just satisfying each others physical, sexual, and emotional needs. An invisible and tangible bond is formed between the two people.

When you lose your virginity to someone other than your marriage partner, you create a bond with one or more other people, that robs you of the one close union which God had in mind for you to enjoy throughout your life with your marriage partner. You become "bonded" to several people (if you have multiple sex partners) all of which rob you of the bonding and closeness that you could have had with one partner.

Multiple bonds with several people does not compensate for the original plan of one close bond with one person for life. All of the relationships end up less than what was originally possible.

Illustration of the Bible principle
Most guys could drive a car from about 10 years old, so why aren't you allowed to drive on the road? Is it just a rule to stop you from enjoying the full potential of your life? Or is it a rule to protect you and other people on the road?

It is exactly the same with your sexuality. Physically you are able to have sex with another person from a quite young age. Emotionally and spiritually you aren't yet able to handle the consequences of such an act. Someone will get hurt and it will be you. Others will get hurt too.

God's rules are there to protect you and provide you with the maximum enjoyment of this gift He has given you.

Big Picture - Little Picture
For the short term gain of moments of sexual pleasure (little picture), the best possibility for a successful long term relationship is being sacrificed (big picture).

I've already lost my virginity
If you've already lost your virginity - there is hope! God is ready to forgive you provided you are willing to ask His forgiveness and repent (turn around and go God's way from now on). Begin a new start. You will never be a virgin again, but you can stop any further damage to the relationship with your future life long partner. God is a god who will restore when you turn to Him.

Other factors - Disease
The only 100% method of avoiding sexually transmitted diseases is abstinence! Condoms have a known failure rate for protection against virus transmission from person to person and so are not completely safe. Some sources claim that some viruses are actually smaller than the pore holes in the condom material. Sexually transmitted diseases are at epidemic proportions and are becoming more resistant to treatments. You are at more risk than ever before of catching a disease even with "safe sex".

In 1993, every day, 30,000 Americans became infected with a sexually transmitted disease. 200,000 die each year from a sexually transmitted disease in the USA - often the disease doesn't show up until years later. People can have a sexually transmitted disease and not know it! Some are incurable (Aids and Gonorrhea) (17)

What about oral sex?
To the letter of the law, having oral sex with another person doesn't cause you to lose your virginity since virginity technically deals with the issue of sexual intercourse (penetration) between a man and a woman. In the spirit of the law however, the definition of virginity can include "unused" and "unexplored" which rules out any oral sex as it relates to "exploring" another person's body.

Any sexual activity between two people rapidly forms those spiritual soul ties that work at making the two of you into one flesh, whether you want it or not. Technically, you might engage in oral sex and still be a virgin, but you will form those same bonds that form between people who actually have sex together. For this reason, I believe that oral sex is not a way around the Bible standard.

Character
To remain a virgin may attract some short term ridicule although things are beginning to change. A recent poll indicated over half the students at high schools are still virgins.

Saying 'yes' to premarital sex does nothing for one's character. It weakens ones resolve, unleashes adult passions in a child's body and destroys self esteem through guilt. Young people who say 'no' to premarital sex tend to feel good about themselves and are prone to become winners in life. (17)

Finally
The best lovemaking in the world is not limited to beautiful people or two with perfectly sculpted bodies. It is at its best when two healthy lovers, more interested in satisfying their partner's needs than their own, approach the marriage bed without guilt.

That is why virtue [virginity] is the best preparation for marriage... . God's plan was for one man and one woman to share the ecstasy of that experience only with each other. (8)

Nothing worthwhile in life ever comes without sacrifice. Virtue is no exception. At some time in every child's growing up years, they will be faced with the tremendous temptation to engage in premarital sex. The path of least resistance always seems appealing at such a time. For many young people, only their strong moral and religious values, their commitment to staying a virgin until their wedding night, or the fear of pregnancy or disease provides them with the courage to say 'no' when their body and mind (and people around them) are screaming 'yes'. (17)

In a recent survey, two-thirds of the people who had sex before marriage wish they had waited.

Every young man must make up his mind now, before the opportunity arises, on how he is going to handle the issue of sex before marriage.

NOW CHECK THE POLL AND FIND OUT WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE

Cyprus · 07-25-2004, 11:21 AM

get checking this poll

smack · 07-25-2004, 11:21 AM

god is dead. thank you.

Shags · 07-25-2004, 11:21 AM

spamofon · 07-25-2004, 11:22 AM

FlyingIguana · 07-25-2004, 11:23 AM

why would 'god' put down stupid rules like that? we're here to survive, in order to do that we are suppose to go fuck everything in sight to produce more humans.

its the way we evolved

Cyprus · 07-25-2004, 11:26 AM

you know it's true, thats why none of you guys are posting in the No section

Platinumpimp · 07-25-2004, 11:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by smack
god is dead. thank you.

He is dead? When did he live?

Tala · 07-25-2004, 11:30 AM

Of course I believe in premarital sex. I've had some really good premarital sex.

However, I don't believe in your invisible man living in the sky who dictates what I can and cannot do. Matter of fact, I don't believe in ANYONE'S invisible dude in the sky.

But thanks for the laugh.

Hardcore J · 07-25-2004, 11:41 AM

PLEASE LOCATE THE KEY LABELED "CAPS LOCK" ON YOUR KEYBOARD AND USE IT.

Dagwolf · 07-25-2004, 11:46 AM

That's a lot of holy shit.

beergood · 07-25-2004, 11:50 AM

reynold · 07-25-2004, 11:45 PM

it all depends on you for goodness' sake...why make a big fuss out of virginity and religion in here...this is GFY remember?

StuartD · 07-25-2004, 11:48 PM

When I was younger, I used to pray every night before bed that God would see fit to give me a brand new bike.

I prayed and I prayed until finally my father said "son, you must realize that God just doesn't work that way."

So the next day I went out and stole someone else's bike and then I went to church and asked for forgiveness.

Ironhorse · 07-25-2004, 11:53 PM

Don't let the door slam your stupid ass..

kahloz · 07-25-2004, 11:54 PM

You know, I'm a god damn noob but I coudla sworn i saw the same stupid thread yesterday!

And I replied to it, and what I said was:

God doesn't give a shit who you are or what you do, God isn't a biggot, he loves everyone equally.

So if you fucked at 15 or 50, it don't make a difference.

It's the biggots in THIS world that make it "sacred" to fuck when you're married or some other bullshit.

CAN I GET AN AMEN!?

View Poll Results: Will you in a virgin on your wedding night? Will you save yourself for that one girl?
YES-I HAVE STANDARDS, MORALS AND I WILL DO WHATS RIGHT, I HAVE STRENGTH AND SINGLE-MINDED DETERMINATION TO SAVE MYSELF FOR THAT ONE SPECIAL GIRL, AS ALL TRUE MEN DO, I'LL FALL IN LOVE, I'LL MAKE TONS OF "TRUE" FRIENDS WHO CAN ACCEPT ME FOR WHAT I AM, I DON'T HAVE TO "PRETEND" TO BE SOMETHING I'M NOT, AND I'LL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL HOUSE, BEAUTIFUL WIFE AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER, WITHOUT A CARE IN THE WORLD	2	22.22%
NO-I'LL SLEEP AROUND, AND BOAST TO MY FRIENDS ABOUT ALL THE GIRLS I'VE SLEPT WITH, JUST TO IMPRESS MY FRIENDS (IN A DESPERATE ATTEMPT TO KEEP THEM), IT GOES WELL WITH MY DRINK/DRUG/PARTYING LIFESTYLE AND SHAGGING AROUND IS WHAT I LIKE, I'LL CATCH SOME STDS/AIDS AND DIE AN EARLY DEATH, HAVE A COUPLE OF UNWANTED KIDS WHO'LL DRAIN ME OF ALL MY MONEY AND HAVE AN ABORTION OR TWO, HELL...WHY NOT??? IT'S ONLY MY LIFE I'M STUFFING UP, I'LL NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE, EVENTUALLY, ALL MY "FRIENDS" WILL GO OFF ME BECAUSE THEY'LL SEE THAT I'M JUST PRETENDING TO BE "COOL" AND THE WAY-I-SPEAK AND WAY-I-ACT IS ALL PRETEND-ALL A FAKE PERSONA, AND I'LL BE DESTINED TO HELL, FINANCIAL RUIN AND A POOR, DIRTY HOUSE, WHERE I'LL DIE A LONELY DEATH AND MY SINFILLED BODY WILL BE LAID IN AN UNMARKED GRAVE AND NO-ONE WILL CARE OR CRY FOR ME	7	77.78%
Voters: 9. You may not vote on this poll

07-25-2004, 11:17 AM	#1
Cyprus So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 6	Do You Believe In Premarital Sex? What Kind Of Person Are You? What the Bible says The Bible is absolutely clear about virginity. A person needs to maintain their virginity until they are married. There is no other choice given! Why the tough standard in the Bible? A spiritual union as well as a physical union occurs when two people have sex together. It is like a unique bonding between the two people that nothing else on earth can duplicate. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. from the Bible in Mark 10:7 - Jesus speaking In the ultimate plan of God (as revealed in the Bible) two virgins will marry and become solidly "bonded" to each other through their first sexual experience together. This bond is intended to continually be strengthened and last for the rest of the couple's lives. The long term relationship is clearly more than just satisfying each others physical, sexual, and emotional needs. An invisible and tangible bond is formed between the two people. When you lose your virginity to someone other than your marriage partner, you create a bond with one or more other people, that robs you of the one close union which God had in mind for you to enjoy throughout your life with your marriage partner. You become "bonded" to several people (if you have multiple sex partners) all of which rob you of the bonding and closeness that you could have had with one partner. Multiple bonds with several people does not compensate for the original plan of one close bond with one person for life. All of the relationships end up less than what was originally possible. Illustration of the Bible principle Most guys could drive a car from about 10 years old, so why aren't you allowed to drive on the road? Is it just a rule to stop you from enjoying the full potential of your life? Or is it a rule to protect you and other people on the road? It is exactly the same with your sexuality. Physically you are able to have sex with another person from a quite young age. Emotionally and spiritually you aren't yet able to handle the consequences of such an act. Someone will get hurt and it will be you. Others will get hurt too. God's rules are there to protect you and provide you with the maximum enjoyment of this gift He has given you. Big Picture - Little Picture For the short term gain of moments of sexual pleasure (little picture), the best possibility for a successful long term relationship is being sacrificed (big picture). I've already lost my virginity If you've already lost your virginity - there is hope! God is ready to forgive you provided you are willing to ask His forgiveness and repent (turn around and go God's way from now on). Begin a new start. You will never be a virgin again, but you can stop any further damage to the relationship with your future life long partner. God is a god who will restore when you turn to Him. Other factors - Disease The only 100% method of avoiding sexually transmitted diseases is abstinence! Condoms have a known failure rate for protection against virus transmission from person to person and so are not completely safe. Some sources claim that some viruses are actually smaller than the pore holes in the condom material. Sexually transmitted diseases are at epidemic proportions and are becoming more resistant to treatments. You are at more risk than ever before of catching a disease even with "safe sex". In 1993, every day, 30,000 Americans became infected with a sexually transmitted disease. 200,000 die each year from a sexually transmitted disease in the USA - often the disease doesn't show up until years later. People can have a sexually transmitted disease and not know it! Some are incurable (Aids and Gonorrhea) (17) What about oral sex? To the letter of the law, having oral sex with another person doesn't cause you to lose your virginity since virginity technically deals with the issue of sexual intercourse (penetration) between a man and a woman. In the spirit of the law however, the definition of virginity can include "unused" and "unexplored" which rules out any oral sex as it relates to "exploring" another person's body. Any sexual activity between two people rapidly forms those spiritual soul ties that work at making the two of you into one flesh, whether you want it or not. Technically, you might engage in oral sex and still be a virgin, but you will form those same bonds that form between people who actually have sex together. For this reason, I believe that oral sex is not a way around the Bible standard. Character To remain a virgin may attract some short term ridicule although things are beginning to change. A recent poll indicated over half the students at high schools are still virgins. Saying 'yes' to premarital sex does nothing for one's character. It weakens ones resolve, unleashes adult passions in a child's body and destroys self esteem through guilt. Young people who say 'no' to premarital sex tend to feel good about themselves and are prone to become winners in life. (17) Finally The best lovemaking in the world is not limited to beautiful people or two with perfectly sculpted bodies. It is at its best when two healthy lovers, more interested in satisfying their partner's needs than their own, approach the marriage bed without guilt. That is why virtue [virginity] is the best preparation for marriage... . God's plan was for one man and one woman to share the ecstasy of that experience only with each other. (8) Nothing worthwhile in life ever comes without sacrifice. Virtue is no exception. At some time in every child's growing up years, they will be faced with the tremendous temptation to engage in premarital sex. The path of least resistance always seems appealing at such a time. For many young people, only their strong moral and religious values, their commitment to staying a virgin until their wedding night, or the fear of pregnancy or disease provides them with the courage to say 'no' when their body and mind (and people around them) are screaming 'yes'. (17) In a recent survey, two-thirds of the people who had sex before marriage wish they had waited. Every young man must make up his mind now, before the opportunity arises, on how he is going to handle the issue of sex before marriage. NOW CHECK THE POLL AND FIND OUT WHAT KIND OF PERSON YOU ARE

07-25-2004, 11:21 AM	#3
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Tala Fucked if I know Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Do you have a flag? Posts: 23,368	Of course I believe in premarital sex. I've had some really good premarital sex. However, I don't believe in your invisible man living in the sky who dictates what I can and cannot do. Matter of fact, I don't believe in ANYONE'S invisible dude in the sky. But thanks for the laugh. __________________ ICQ: 11120676 \| Google: mindcrime \| Skype: suitemindcrime\|E-Mail: mindcrime AT gmail.com\|PR girl with great writing skills for hire!!!! Contact me to work for YOU!\|TECHIEMEDIA? 24/7 support from some of the best techs in the biz. Tell Jim that I sent you.

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FlyingIguana aspiring banker Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: toronto Posts: 10,870	why would 'god' put down stupid rules like that? we're here to survive, in order to do that we are suppose to go fuck everything in sight to produce more humans. its the way we evolved

07-25-2004, 11:26 AM	#7
Cyprus So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 6	you know it's true, thats why none of you guys are posting in the No section

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Hardcore J Hardcore 4 Life™ Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Everett, WA Posts: 2,553	PLEASE LOCATE THE KEY LABELED "CAPS LOCK" ON YOUR KEYBOARD AND USE IT.

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reynold Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Global Traveler Posts: 51,271	it all depends on you for goodness' sake...why make a big fuss out of virginity and religion in here...this is GFY remember?

07-25-2004, 11:48 PM	#14
StuartD Sofa King Band Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Outside the box Posts: 29,903	When I was younger, I used to pray every night before bed that God would see fit to give me a brand new bike. I prayed and I prayed until finally my father said "son, you must realize that God just doesn't work that way." So the next day I went out and stole someone else's bike and then I went to church and asked for forgiveness. __________________ This is me on facebook This is me on twitter

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07-25-2004, 11:54 PM	#16
kahloz Confirmed User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: new york city Posts: 230	You know, I'm a god damn noob but I coudla sworn i saw the same stupid thread yesterday! And I replied to it, and what I said was: God doesn't give a shit who you are or what you do, God isn't a biggot, he loves everyone equally. So if you fucked at 15 or 50, it don't make a difference. It's the biggots in THIS world that make it "sacred" to fuck when you're married or some other bullshit. CAN I GET AN AMEN!?