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Old 07-18-2004, 07:02 PM   #1
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It's taken me a long time to realize this...

You will NEVER get rich working for someone else. You really do have to work your ass off for YOURSELF. Hard work and dedication will pay off, so long as you have the skills and half a brain to pull it off.

Rags to riches stories can happen and do come true all of the time in this industry.

If you're thinking you can make it big... just work hard at it even when the times are tough. Keep PUSHING and working and you will do it. Just don't let yourself get lazy and don't let yourself get down. Just push out another gallery, make another sale, do whatever it takes to get your confidence back.

You CAN do it.
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:17 PM   #2
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You will NEVER get rich working for someone else. You really do have to work your ass off for YOURSELF. Hard work and dedication will pay off, so long as you have the skills and half a brain to pull it off.

Rags to riches stories can happen and do come true all of the time in this industry.

If you're thinking you can make it big... just work hard at it even when the times are tough. Keep PUSHING and working and you will do it. Just don't let yourself get lazy and don't let yourself get down. Just push out another gallery, make another sale, do whatever it takes to get your confidence back.

You CAN do it.
seems someone has been doing some inner self evaluations
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:19 PM   #3
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:19 PM   #4
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seems someone has been doing some inner self evaluations
I have been.. a lot man
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:21 PM   #5
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I have been.. a lot man
so we are going to see a new BradM shortly?
or no BradM at all?

think of all the shit we all would get done if this fuckin website wasent here. dont get me wrong, i would lose my fucking mind, but think about the wasted time that goes on daily right here.
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:22 PM   #6
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:23 PM   #7
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You will NEVER get rich working for someone else. You really do have to work your ass off for YOURSELF. Hard work and dedication will pay off, so long as you have the skills and half a brain to pull it off.

Rags to riches stories can happen and do come true all of the time in this industry.

If you're thinking you can make it big... just work hard at it even when the times are tough. Keep PUSHING and working and you will do it. Just don't let yourself get lazy and don't let yourself get down. Just push out another gallery, make another sale, do whatever it takes to get your confidence back.

You CAN do it.
Good post. Best of luck to you.
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:23 PM   #8
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BradM get back to work no useless posting for you!


and dont forget to pick up my grocery list
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:24 PM   #9
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:26 PM   #10
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:26 PM   #11
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:26 PM   #12
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:26 PM   #13
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Brandon: I completely agree on how much we could get done. But in all honesty without this place I wouldn't know anyone.

Not a new me... just a more motivated one. I've been discouraged that with everything I know, the people I know and my obvious skill set I am not making 10 times what some of these fucktards are making.

I figured it out... it's just desire and down right hard work.

It's time to grind... I'll have time to play later.
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:52 PM   #14
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4 of Bill Gates' employees are worth over $400 mil... well, that's what I found out a few years ago. Might be worth more now.

Anyway, it's not always a "must work for yourself" thing, but it's certainly recommended.
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Old 07-18-2004, 07:52 PM   #15
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:20 PM   #16
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thank you BRadM...such a nice thought to start my day...
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:21 PM   #17
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No problemo man.
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:25 PM   #18
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I'm always saying that exact thing.
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:41 PM   #19
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Everyone is not cut out to work for themselves. That's how McDonalds has been able to serve over 8 billion hamburgers.
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:52 PM   #20
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Old 07-18-2004, 08:55 PM   #21
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Not everyone. But I think if you're at least on GFY you have the brain power to TRY it.
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Old 07-18-2004, 10:54 PM   #22
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Thanks for the motivation.
Like you need it. ;)
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Old 07-18-2004, 11:03 PM   #23
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This doesn't sound like the BradM I know...
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Old 07-18-2004, 11:05 PM   #24
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Old 07-18-2004, 11:11 PM   #25
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Brad... there is no question you will do well... regardless of what you do. Many nobody works it as hard as you do from as many different angles as you do. Something will stick. The law of avarages are way in your favor.

If things dont work out with the first plan then regroup and go a different direction or just retool.

Giving up is never an option.



You go Brad!
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:20 AM   #26
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Old 07-19-2004, 03:48 AM   #27
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Old 07-19-2004, 03:59 AM   #28
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sorry dude but i have to disagree

one of the richest and most influential men in our state is a guy who started off as a 14 year old kid washign windows for a supermarket

he stuck at that job and got promoted, promoted, promoted and kept sticking at that same workplace
now he is the general manager for woolworths and is so influential he even got Sunday shopping leglistation overturned.

he owns one of the biggest houses in the state, and has a garage full of kick ass cars

and all form starting at washign windows


but i MUST add that it's a rare case and in 90% of cases you are right but to say it NEVER happens - well, sometimes it does
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:41 PM   #29
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:46 PM   #30
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you are very likely to fail by yourself though

its simply about risk taking
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:48 PM   #32
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:48 PM   #33
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:49 PM   #35
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I have been.. a lot man
You are not the only one Brad, i am in the same boat you are in.

Good advice also, that confidence one is absolutely true.
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:50 PM   #36
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Don't give in try different things one will work. Try and master a particular area and keep at it. Bollocks to working for someone they just drive ya nuts and promotion well it will be like winning the lottery and you'de have to work ya ass off.

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Old 07-19-2004, 12:55 PM   #38
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Don't give in try different things one will work. Try and master a particular area and keep at it. Bollocks to working for someone they just drive ya nuts and promotion well it will be like winning the lottery and you'de have to work ya ass off.

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SOOOOOOOOOO true man, I agree 100% on that one. Very good addition to the thread.
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Old 07-19-2004, 12:56 PM   #39
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Is that you brad if so you have lost alot of weight
Yeah that's be John. Thanks
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Working for someone sucks. I can't wait to go fulltime on my own. I'm sure it will be worth it in many ways.
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Not everyone. But I think if you're at least on GFY you have the brain power to TRY it.
90% of GFY aren't even webmasters. You're talking about the webmasters, right?
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Yeah yeah sorry I mean't to narrow it down to at least that much.
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Old 07-19-2004, 01:39 PM   #46
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Time will tell. AND I know that it's possible.
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it's a contraction of you and are.

learn it. use it. love it.
I didn't make it. a NY guido did. I know the difference.
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Well we would have to think about that now wouldn't we?
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