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Juicy D. Links · 07-17-2004, 04:52 PM

Is it better to "Have lost that love" then " Never to have loved at all" ...

Hmmmmm

What do you think?

Candice · 07-17-2004, 04:59 PM

Of course, Juicy, it's much better to have loved and lost that love and learned lessons from it, that way we don't have to learn any more lessons, we just apply what we've learned in the future. Trust me, I have a masters from the School of Hard Knocks....

Stay Sexy...

C

alexg · 07-17-2004, 05:00 PM

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Originally posted by Candice
Of course, Juicy, it's much better to have loved and lost that love and learned lessons from it, that way we don't have to learn any more lessons, we just apply what we've learned in the future. Trust me, I have a masters from the School of Hard Knocks....

Stay Sexy...

C

what she said..I guess

Juicy D. Links · 07-17-2004, 05:01 PM

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Originally posted by Candice
Of course, Juicy, it's much better to have loved and lost that love and learned lessons from it, that way we don't have to learn any more lessons, we just apply what we've learned in the future. Trust me, I have a masters from the School of Hard Knocks....

Stay Sexy...

C

SleazyDream · 07-17-2004, 05:01 PM

i'd say you're better for the experiece dispite any emotions you may feel at the time

pornstar2pac · 07-17-2004, 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
Is it better to "Have lost that love" then " Never to have loved at all" ...

Hmmmmm

What do you think?

F Jackie

Doctor Dre · 07-17-2004, 05:03 PM

Not knowing what is love is better

WiredGuy · 07-17-2004, 05:04 PM

From some one who has never really loved at all, I can say it sucks....

WG

Repetitive Monkey · 07-17-2004, 05:04 PM

Deja vu... Was not a thread about this very subject posted a couple of days ago?

arial · 07-17-2004, 05:05 PM

It's good but then when you start thinking about all the good times you had with that other person it starts to really suck.

MiSsBeHeaDReSs · 07-17-2004, 05:05 PM

Was just talking about this with BradM....wierd.
Its definitely better to have loved.

NoCarrier · 07-17-2004, 05:08 PM

Love is an illusion. It's all about survival of the species.

SleazyDream · 07-17-2004, 05:08 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy
From some one who has never really loved at all, I can say it sucks....

WG

i only experienced it in my 30's.... you got a lot of time

Jamdin · 07-17-2004, 05:09 PM

Take it from someone who has never loved, or at least never have the love returned, that it sucks

Juicy D. Links · 07-17-2004, 05:10 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy
From some one who has never really loved at all, I can say it sucks....

WG

Dont worry WG i had only one true love , many more will come no worries your still a young stallion

WiredGuy · 07-17-2004, 05:13 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
i only experienced it in my 30's.... you got a lot of time

My problem is that I'm no longer very trusting around women... Still bitter about being cheated on I guess.

WG

WiredGuy · 07-17-2004, 05:17 PM

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Originally posted by juicylinks
Dont worry WG i had only one true love , many more will come no worries your still a young stallion

Juicy D. Links · 07-17-2004, 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy

dont sweat love always appears when you least expected

SleazyDream · 07-17-2004, 05:21 PM

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Originally posted by WiredGuy
My problem is that I'm no longer very trusting around women... Still bitter about being cheated on I guess.

WG

the weirdest thing about finding someone you love is you trust them unconditionally - no matter what they do or say.

titmowse · 07-17-2004, 06:56 PM

Agent Jay- "You know what they say. It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."

Agent Kay- "Oh yeah? Try it."

WiredGuy · 07-17-2004, 07:09 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
the weirdest thing about finding someone you love is you trust them unconditionally - no matter what they do or say.

Trust is something I very rarely give out so I hope one day I'll recognize it when she's in front of me...

WG

Sly_RJ · 07-17-2004, 07:14 PM

If you have never loved at all, how can you understand what you're missing?

emthree · 07-17-2004, 07:15 PM

Well, there is different levels and types of love, some apply to that theory. [family, friendships, lovers]

Relationship wise it's probably best to not have loved at all, this way you don't have to live with a hole in your heart and mind.

I'm a bit blurry minded atm, so correct me if i'm wrong.

emthree · 07-17-2004, 07:16 PM

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Originally posted by Sly_RJ
If you have never loved at all, how can you understand what you're missing?

^there you go.

emthree · 07-17-2004, 07:21 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
the weirdest thing about finding someone you love is you trust them unconditionally - no matter what they do or say.

and then ...

There comes a time where you've heard it all, said it all, done it all. Then shit goes sour, you grow apart and you loose a person who ment the world to you at one point.

SleazyDream · 07-17-2004, 07:26 PM

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Originally posted by emthree
and then ...

There comes a time where you've heard it all, said it all, done it all. Then shit goes sour, you grow apart and you loose a person who ment the world to you at one point.

shit goes sour when it's someone that you were able to love - not that you truly loved. you don't ever loose that feeling for someone you TRULY love, even if your lives have to move apart from each other. True love is not based on what they say or do.

in a way - true love is like how most parents love a child - unconditonally - different of course, but on a similar kind of level.

Holly · 07-17-2004, 07:51 PM

I think so. I always laugh at crazy ass people who stalk each other around, break up and get back together a thousand times, scream, fight, break stuff, call the police, get restraining orders, etc., etc. Almost everyone knows couples like this. They just can't seem to leave each other alone, no matter what.

It's pitiful on the one hand... but on the other, I don't think I've ever felt that strongly about anyone. I suppose it might be nice to be that passionate about someone. When I got divorced, it took me all of about 2 weeks to be over it.

BlackCrayon · 07-17-2004, 08:01 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
i'd say you're better for the experiece dispite any emotions you may feel at the time

i'd agree, i think im losing someone and it hurts like hell but the good memories we created together will always make me smile.

quantum-x · 07-17-2004, 08:02 PM

well i'm sitting here in my GFY hoodie that smells like a girl I can't be with, so i'm saying "NO" to that.

SleazyDream · 07-17-2004, 08:03 PM

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Originally posted by Holly
I think so. I always laugh at crazy ass people who stalk each other around, break up and get back together a thousand times, scream, fight, break stuff, call the police, get restraining orders, etc., etc. Almost everyone knows couples like this. They just can't seem to leave each other alone, no matter what.

It's pitiful on the one hand... but on the other, I don't think I've ever felt that strongly about anyone. I suppose it might be nice to be that passionate about someone. When I got divorced, it took me all of about 2 weeks to be over it.

i pity you

Rankings · 07-17-2004, 08:06 PM

I'd like to believe it is

Face (o_0) · 07-17-2004, 08:12 PM

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I'd like to believe it is

EXACTLY

took the words right out of my mouth

Spunky · 07-17-2004, 08:14 PM

Love is a wasted emotion

Holly · 07-17-2004, 08:16 PM

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Originally posted by SleazyDream
i pity you

Why??? Because of my ex? I wasn't being mean. We get along great and I still speak to him all the time. We got a divorce because of something *he* did. I loved him, but it made me realize I didn't love him "like that". I guess that's why it wasn't completely heartbreaking and left me feeling like it was for the best.

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