Call her. :)

Dude, I hear you on that one. I used to be a total dick and drove lots of people away. I wish I could go back and show them I have changed. But they wont have anything to do with me.

:thumbsup

and my advice to jDoG is most of the time your 1st choice is the best one...

i always go with the "dont look back" option.

Seems like guys always do this. They don't know what they have til it's gone. This just happened to me recently. An ex he treated me pretty shitty left a note under my door saying how horrible he was to me and how sorry he is and how much he misses me...blah blah blah. All this now of course when I am happy and with someone else. I say should have treated me right the first time around. No second chances. But good luck to you anyhow. You seem to be sincere. :)

Give it another shot, people change with time, learn from the past and try not to make the same mistakes again.

Big deal if you still feel something about her better tell to her

Yea I'm having the same thing happen over here.

jDoG

I think you might need to knock some since in to me darling! :) Shoot!

jDoG

I'd leave the country, and wonder how the hell she got out of that box at the bottom of the lake.

really?!?! how's he doing? ;)

why would you wait that long (1 month) if both of you still love each other, i guess a week or 2 is enough to have a rest and unwind then have a serious talk on matters affecting both of you :2 cents:

You can never go back, young grasshoppa!

my immediate X (dated for 2 years, broke up 6 months ago) is currently in my kitchen making me tortolini.

no joke!

FF

My ex just went out to buy us groceries! I love happy endings!

Depends on the ex though, one ex I would kick in the nuts, one I would ask for his number and one I would laugh at. Most of the, i would pretend I didn't recognize them, works like a charm. ;)

It's been a year for me! :) Is that way too long?

jDoG

So you live with your ex?

jDoG

I guess it's okay...i'm content and confident about my life right now so i guess a little reunion would'nt hurt!

You may not be as big of an ass anymore but is she still as much a user as she was. Remember I know the story of this one and talked to you about it daily. Now what did I tell you then because its the same I will tell you now. People break up for a reason, why would you want to put yourself back in a situation that you were not happy with in the first place.

holy shit...i'll run for my life...and fast!!!

But it was my work life that contributed to everything that made me an asshole. But nothing is going to happen, I was too big of a asshole for her to take me back.

jDoG

What do you have to loose? You already feel like shit and it will stay like that until you go something about it. Pick up your balls and try a second run at it.

Probably the best answer on here!

jDOG

too good i haven't encountered my ex this weekend...

what did you boot her for in the first place... if the reason was good enough then... its good enough now

i'd run for my life...and FAST

It was a stupid over reacted reaction I dont' recall now.. It was a overaction after I came home from 3 hrs in traffic.

jDoG

better to talk to her for a while and ask her if he still had feeling for you... beacuse if your the only one have feeling from both of you it doesn't work anymore...specially your the man!

Well, she still does have feelings for me.

jDoG

never hurts to ask

Yea it doesn't hurt, now she just wants to be friends, guess I waited too long!

jDOG

yes this will be a very good idea.. :)

TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT, IF THEY ARE INTERESTED IM SURE YOU'LL KNOW

Move on. She is happy now... why would she get rid of this guy now if she is happy?

Plus a chick who breaks up with a guy for another guy is likely to do it again...

Plus you will fuck up that guys life....

Plus once that guy is broken up with her he might want to "get back together" like you do now, and the cycle will never ever ever end!

She's not with another guy at the moment, she want's to stay single. The guy after me beat her, which I never did! And she just wants to be friends right now, and see what happens, guys know what it means when they say friends.

jDoG

I think you should go for it one hundred percent! If you saw her and still have some type of feeling, then she must have made you happy. Follow your heart, but dont act to, to eager to get her back. Just take it slow, and see how she reacts.:hitit

I split up with someone over something stupid. I too overreacted and basically kicked him out...not thinking he would actually go for good....but he left.

I realized I fucked up big time....and he holds a grudge...so I thought it was hopeles. But I kept thinking about all the good times and knew he was the one for me...and I couldn't let go.

I didn't give up and gave it that second shot. End result? We got married 6 years ago....we both couldn't be happier.

So....if you have feelings go for it...there is nothing worse in life than gonig through it thinking "What if". If it is over for good...then find it out for sure...get that closure....you might be surprised though and find out that there is a future for you both...but unless you give it that chance you will never know.

Honestly, post a pic.

you are sounding more and more needy . . . do like her, prove you can survive without having a partner

typical chick response . . . misery loves company