why would you wait that long (1 month) if both of you still love each other, i guess a week or 2 is enough to have a rest and unwind then have a serious talk on matters affecting both of you :2 cents:

You can never go back, young grasshoppa!

my immediate X (dated for 2 years, broke up 6 months ago) is currently in my kitchen making me tortolini.

no joke!

FF

My ex just went out to buy us groceries! I love happy endings!

Depends on the ex though, one ex I would kick in the nuts, one I would ask for his number and one I would laugh at. Most of the, i would pretend I didn't recognize them, works like a charm. ;)

It's been a year for me! :) Is that way too long?

jDoG

So you live with your ex?

jDoG

I guess it's okay...i'm content and confident about my life right now so i guess a little reunion would'nt hurt!

You may not be as big of an ass anymore but is she still as much a user as she was. Remember I know the story of this one and talked to you about it daily. Now what did I tell you then because its the same I will tell you now. People break up for a reason, why would you want to put yourself back in a situation that you were not happy with in the first place.

holy shit...i'll run for my life...and fast!!!

But it was my work life that contributed to everything that made me an asshole. But nothing is going to happen, I was too big of a asshole for her to take me back.

jDoG

What do you have to loose? You already feel like shit and it will stay like that until you go something about it. Pick up your balls and try a second run at it.

Probably the best answer on here!

jDOG

too good i haven't encountered my ex this weekend...

what did you boot her for in the first place... if the reason was good enough then... its good enough now

i'd run for my life...and FAST

It was a stupid over reacted reaction I dont' recall now.. It was a overaction after I came home from 3 hrs in traffic.

jDoG

better to talk to her for a while and ask her if he still had feeling for you... beacuse if your the only one have feeling from both of you it doesn't work anymore...specially your the man!

Well, she still does have feelings for me.

jDoG

never hurts to ask

Yea it doesn't hurt, now she just wants to be friends, guess I waited too long!

jDOG

yes this will be a very good idea.. :)

TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT, IF THEY ARE INTERESTED IM SURE YOU'LL KNOW

Move on. She is happy now... why would she get rid of this guy now if she is happy?

Plus a chick who breaks up with a guy for another guy is likely to do it again...

Plus you will fuck up that guys life....

Plus once that guy is broken up with her he might want to "get back together" like you do now, and the cycle will never ever ever end!

She's not with another guy at the moment, she want's to stay single. The guy after me beat her, which I never did! And she just wants to be friends right now, and see what happens, guys know what it means when they say friends.

jDoG

I think you should go for it one hundred percent! If you saw her and still have some type of feeling, then she must have made you happy. Follow your heart, but dont act to, to eager to get her back. Just take it slow, and see how she reacts.:hitit

I split up with someone over something stupid. I too overreacted and basically kicked him out...not thinking he would actually go for good....but he left.

I realized I fucked up big time....and he holds a grudge...so I thought it was hopeles. But I kept thinking about all the good times and knew he was the one for me...and I couldn't let go.

I didn't give up and gave it that second shot. End result? We got married 6 years ago....we both couldn't be happier.

So....if you have feelings go for it...there is nothing worse in life than gonig through it thinking "What if". If it is over for good...then find it out for sure...get that closure....you might be surprised though and find out that there is a future for you both...but unless you give it that chance you will never know.

Honestly, post a pic.

you are sounding more and more needy . . . do like her, prove you can survive without having a partner

typical chick response . . . misery loves company

Yea same thing here, but I don't know if it'll go past that.

jDoG

I can survive with out a partner, I have for a long while!

jDoG

Well, I've just said fuck that bitch! Not going back! Just an update!

jDoG

:1orglaugh

If I saw my ex, I'd smack him

dont be a pathetic bitch! The best thing to do is walk away real far far away, you must have left the bitch for a good reason. Cuz if you tap it and try to be a playa about it most likely she will own you ass all over again but this time you will be her bitch!
Give it some thought.

congrats . . . . she return your balls? :winkwink:

She never had my balls! I had her lips for the longest time tho! :Graucho

jDoG

never go back and i mean never!

if you kicked her out then it freaken serves her right. you shouldnt start feeling sorry and all lovely dovey again.
you made a decion to kick her out stick to it.
soon enough another girlie will come by and you will forget she even exsisted:2 cents: