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Exxxotica · 03-31-2001, 07:08 PM

Working in this business...has anybody else found themselves desensitized to naked women?

Porn used to be such a thing of great mystery and wonder! As a kid, we would do just about anything to get our hands on some playboy or penthouse pics. Porn was like Gold!

I remember at the age of 13, me and my porn mentor (BoneProne) would ride our skateboards or city bus, all over town in hopes of finding a bookstore or market that would sell us dirty magazines. It was a perilous, daylong quest!

It took such nerve to take a penthouse magazine to the counter, only to be rejected by the sales clerk, and laughed at by the people behind you in line.

After hours and hours of trying, we would finaly succeed! Racing home we could hardly wait to explore our new treasure. The glossy photos were magical! Ahh inspiring! Such beautiful women! I remember feeling such overwhelming excitement.

As the times have passed, I now make a living in the adult industry. I see porn all day long. Hardcore, softcore, all fetishes, you name it. Im scared that the magic of adolescent youth is gone. Though I still enjoy beautiful women, It's on a different level. I somtimes feel that I see women as commodity. Yes..her gallery will bring in money...no her's wont. Yeah, she is hot...but not hot enough to be on the site. This picture is too hard...that one too soft.

It's a sacrifice I have choosen. Was it worth it? Im really not quite sure.

webspider · 03-31-2001, 07:27 PM

Hmmmm, I agree.
I have many non-adult websites to work on and so the effects are less pronounced.
I think moderation is key.

MattressKing · 03-31-2001, 07:32 PM

hi

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boneprone · 03-31-2001, 07:33 PM

Its not the porn.. Its that you are getting older.. you are no longer a little boy, and have already expierenced what there is to expierence.. You'll notice a lot of things dont get ya goin like they used to as a younger man.. Like the Zoo, or the Circus..
Women are a lot like the Circus.. They just arent as exciting when you get older.

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AzteK · 03-31-2001, 08:31 PM

It's because you see so much of it...

it's the same as drinking...If you don't drink for a while and drink you'll get even more drunk than you usually did when you drank all the time..and if you stay away from porn for a while you'll get excited more...

AZTEK

aprilkorova · 03-31-2001, 08:33 PM

Exxxotica,

I feel you, I know what you are talking about. As a female I don't understand you as well as I wish I did, but, I empathize. (porn never got me off

).

As a sociological major at one point, I know, that according to research, you are correct. Think about it, a man that has never been exposed to pornography is going to see a naked woman in front of him and get rock hard....a man OVERLYexposed to porn will need her stuffing herself with a dildo, bent over some sort of contraption with a shaved pussy and peirced tits with one man fucking her mouth, one man fucking her tits, one man fucking her ass and one fucking her pussy to, find it stimulating.

I know, and I don't care how many people try you to tell me different, that de-sensitization is a real part of the human psyche experience. That is what you are experiencing.

Think about it...if you worked in a morgue and saw dead bodies everyday, after awhile, they are just part of the job. They are not "dead bodies".

The human mind is amazing and the same mechanism that de-sensitizes us to porn and sexual deviances (meaning aside from missionary normality to most

) is the same mechanism that keeps us from going crazy as the more atrocities we see.

Having said that, I still don't see porn as bad...you as an American or whatever nationality, and you are free to see and experience whatever you want. BUT...That is my main argument against letting minors or those who I deem inappropriated to seeing porn. If you don't find it sick or what have you....why rob them of that time in their lives when they find even the mere sight of pussy exciting? Without having it stuffed with 6 cocks, 12 dildos while she eating 3 girls out and having 3 girls eating her out , while she's taking on a snow plow in whatever hole she can find. Right?

Let the underage be innocent, let the just barely of age be innocent...let them explore the female, brain, pussy, scent, look, etc. without having it be pornagraphic.

I hope that what I am doing is for those that have already experienced that and want something more. My heart would break if I thought that I was warping some young guys view on sex. That would be tragic.

X-Web · 03-31-2001, 08:34 PM

i agree the theory from aztek

Wizzo · 03-31-2001, 08:54 PM

"Women are a lot like the Circus.. They just arent as exciting when you get older"-lol boneprone

I thought that was true, However, I recently met one that made feel like I was 17 again??? I haven't felt that way in MANY years..

Warphead · 03-31-2001, 09:04 PM

I've found my tastes for porn have changed. Years back I loved it all, but mostly looked for the weird stuff. Now I've seen the weird stuff and not interested.

Every day at least a couple WM's will submit a gallery of a babe where I'm actually taken aback and have to just look at her. I'm talking natural beauty. I'm the poet of porn!

Exxxotica · 03-31-2001, 09:24 PM

Aprilkrova...

I feel like I just got out of a therepy session...how much do I owe ya? Can't I just get my Prozac prescription and go?

Every once and a while I still come across a hottie that does it for me. Latley I catch myself staring at Aria Giovanni a bit too much...but then again, she helps me make a living.

NightLizard · 03-31-2001, 09:52 PM

I feel totally desenitized to internet and picture porn, also movies, the only thing that revs me up is my sweetie, cause she is the one for me

Killerelf · 03-31-2001, 10:53 PM

I actually kinda like being desencitized. It just take me longer to jerk off now!

Dom · 03-31-2001, 11:37 PM

I can't jerk off to pictures since a long time . But the feel of touching , smelling a women is always the same . Porn on a computer only satisfy the eyes .

boneprone · 04-01-2001, 01:47 AM

I fucking met Aria at the Hard Rock last week.. I shit you not!! She is doing Andrew Blake movies now.. In fact I just got one at Dukes the day I got back.. Damn...

After seeing it, I think that the theory of being desenstized is false.. I was very sensitive after seeing her in action.

Exxxotica · 04-01-2001, 02:41 AM

You lucky bastard! Damn! That must have been nice! I saw her last Jan at Internext, but didnt have a chance to meet her. Mybee this June

tha_timinator · 04-01-2001, 04:31 PM

when i was just starting in the biz updating my sites costed a hell of a time because 50% of the time i was busy with 'enjoying the women'

but now i'm pretty de-sensitized and now my working speed has increased hugely! so that's the positive thing about de-sensitization in my opinion...

dank · 04-02-2001, 01:11 PM

While desensitization is a real problem among many people, there are exercises you can do to help reduce it. Get into a regular habit of flexing your pc muscle multiple times a day and hold the last one for 10 seconds on every set that you do. This can also strengthen erections, increase stamina, and make ejaculation even more intense.

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Kat - Fast · 04-02-2001, 01:35 PM

dank, it's not the erection that is the problem, its the fact i need to see a cutie..

Quote:

Originally posted by aprilkorova:

stuffing herself with a dildo, bent over some sort of contraption with a shaved pussy and peirced tits with one man fucking her mouth, one man fucking her tits, one man fucking her ass and one fucking her pussy to, find it stimulating.

no show, no, errr, show!

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After 5 months, i should have taken my PS2 out of it's box - damn internet porn

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boneprone · 04-02-2001, 03:49 PM

what the fuck is dank talkin about?

Lord Assmore · 04-02-2001, 03:54 PM

desensitization as an impotence problem?

aprilkorova · 04-02-2001, 05:48 PM

Exxotica,

Me giving you some bullshit quasi-psyche session is the least of my ensuing embarassment....my language, after a gin-n-tonic or 2, is what's really embarassing.

Could I have fit the word pussy more in a sentence...ouch. I'm a tad red faced at this point LOL.

sweetjimmy · 04-02-2001, 06:40 PM

Did you mean your dick's been desensitized? Tell the bitch not to suck so hard.

dank · 04-02-2001, 11:23 PM

ok, let me ask you this..... does porn make you enjoy sex more or less? Does it encourage you to enjoy sex or just appreciate it? The reason porn is a turn on is because it's sexual.....it's a sexual display of things you enjoy doing or fantasize about doing. But if your porn job, for example, makes you put sex and money together, or sex and work, or sex and a shot of tequila or beer, or sex and a keyboard all together, then it becomes less of a turn on. I guess that what I'm trying to say is that it's not that the porn itself doesn't turn you on anymore, it's the other things that go along with the business and the work that make you not enjoy it as much.

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ElvisTG · 04-03-2001, 01:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by sweetjimmy:
Did you mean your dick's been desensitized? Tell the bitch not to suck so hard.

Rough edges on the vacuum attachment.

03-31-2001, 07:08 PM	#1
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	Desensitized to Porn? Working in this business...has anybody else found themselves desensitized to naked women? Porn used to be such a thing of great mystery and wonder! As a kid, we would do just about anything to get our hands on some playboy or penthouse pics. Porn was like Gold! I remember at the age of 13, me and my porn mentor (BoneProne) would ride our skateboards or city bus, all over town in hopes of finding a bookstore or market that would sell us dirty magazines. It was a perilous, daylong quest! It took such nerve to take a penthouse magazine to the counter, only to be rejected by the sales clerk, and laughed at by the people behind you in line. After hours and hours of trying, we would finaly succeed! Racing home we could hardly wait to explore our new treasure. The glossy photos were magical! Ahh inspiring! Such beautiful women! I remember feeling such overwhelming excitement. As the times have passed, I now make a living in the adult industry. I see porn all day long. Hardcore, softcore, all fetishes, you name it. Im scared that the magic of adolescent youth is gone. Though I still enjoy beautiful women, It's on a different level. I somtimes feel that I see women as commodity. Yes..her gallery will bring in money...no her's wont. Yeah, she is hot...but not hot enough to be on the site. This picture is too hard...that one too soft. It's a sacrifice I have choosen. Was it worth it? Im really not quite sure.

03-31-2001, 07:27 PM	#2
webspider Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Canada Posts: 340	Hmmmm, I agree. I have many non-adult websites to work on and so the effects are less pronounced. I think moderation is key.

03-31-2001, 07:32 PM	#3
MattressKing Banned Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 204	hi [This message has been edited by MattressKing (edited 03-31-2001).]

03-31-2001, 07:33 PM	#4
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	Its not the porn.. Its that you are getting older.. you are no longer a little boy, and have already expierenced what there is to expierence.. You'll notice a lot of things dont get ya goin like they used to as a younger man.. Like the Zoo, or the Circus.. Women are a lot like the Circus.. They just arent as exciting when you get older. ------------------ Webmaster/Owner www.boneprone.com icq: 66883099

03-31-2001, 08:31 PM	#5
AzteK Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Northern Cali, USA Posts: 3,447	It's because you see so much of it... it's the same as drinking...If you don't drink for a while and drink you'll get even more drunk than you usually did when you drank all the time..and if you stay away from porn for a while you'll get excited more... AZTEK

03-31-2001, 08:33 PM	#6
aprilkorova Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: SoCal Posts: 649	Exxxotica, I feel you, I know what you are talking about. As a female I don't understand you as well as I wish I did, but, I empathize. (porn never got me off ). As a sociological major at one point, I know, that according to research, you are correct. Think about it, a man that has never been exposed to pornography is going to see a naked woman in front of him and get rock hard....a man OVERLYexposed to porn will need her stuffing herself with a dildo, bent over some sort of contraption with a shaved pussy and peirced tits with one man fucking her mouth, one man fucking her tits, one man fucking her ass and one fucking her pussy to, find it stimulating. I know, and I don't care how many people try you to tell me different, that de-sensitization is a real part of the human psyche experience. That is what you are experiencing. Think about it...if you worked in a morgue and saw dead bodies everyday, after awhile, they are just part of the job. They are not "dead bodies". The human mind is amazing and the same mechanism that de-sensitizes us to porn and sexual deviances (meaning aside from missionary normality to most ) is the same mechanism that keeps us from going crazy as the more atrocities we see. Having said that, I still don't see porn as bad...you as an American or whatever nationality, and you are free to see and experience whatever you want. BUT...That is my main argument against letting minors or those who I deem inappropriated to seeing porn. If you don't find it sick or what have you....why rob them of that time in their lives when they find even the mere sight of pussy exciting? Without having it stuffed with 6 cocks, 12 dildos while she eating 3 girls out and having 3 girls eating her out , while she's taking on a snow plow in whatever hole she can find. Right? Let the underage be innocent, let the just barely of age be innocent...let them explore the female, brain, pussy, scent, look, etc. without having it be pornagraphic. I hope that what I am doing is for those that have already experienced that and want something more. My heart would break if I thought that I was warping some young guys view on sex. That would be tragic.

03-31-2001, 08:34 PM	#7
X-Web Banned Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Langley, BC, Canada Posts: 357	i agree the theory from aztek

03-31-2001, 08:54 PM	#8
Wizzo 2011 GFY Hall of Fame! Industry Role: Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Back in Texas! Posts: 15,224	"Women are a lot like the Circus.. They just arent as exciting when you get older"-lol boneprone I thought that was true, However, I recently met one that made feel like I was 17 again??? I haven't felt that way in MANY years..

03-31-2001, 09:04 PM	#9
Warphead Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Kiss my yankee dick. Posts: 994	I've found my tastes for porn have changed. Years back I loved it all, but mostly looked for the weird stuff. Now I've seen the weird stuff and not interested. Every day at least a couple WM's will submit a gallery of a babe where I'm actually taken aback and have to just look at her. I'm talking natural beauty. I'm the poet of porn!

03-31-2001, 09:24 PM	#10
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	Aprilkrova... I feel like I just got out of a therepy session...how much do I owe ya? Can't I just get my Prozac prescription and go? Every once and a while I still come across a hottie that does it for me. Latley I catch myself staring at Aria Giovanni a bit too much...but then again, she helps me make a living.

03-31-2001, 09:52 PM	#11
NightLizard Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: next to my bunny Posts: 300	I feel totally desenitized to internet and picture porn, also movies, the only thing that revs me up is my sweetie, cause she is the one for me

03-31-2001, 10:53 PM	#12
Killerelf Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 367	I actually kinda like being desencitized. It just take me longer to jerk off now!

03-31-2001, 11:37 PM	#13
Dom Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: planet motherfucker Posts: 102	I can't jerk off to pictures since a long time . But the feel of touching , smelling a women is always the same . Porn on a computer only satisfy the eyes .

04-01-2001, 01:47 AM	#14
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	I fucking met Aria at the Hard Rock last week.. I shit you not!! She is doing Andrew Blake movies now.. In fact I just got one at Dukes the day I got back.. Damn... After seeing it, I think that the theory of being desenstized is false.. I was very sensitive after seeing her in action.

04-01-2001, 02:41 AM	#15
Exxxotica Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Oregun Posts: 4,396	You lucky bastard! Damn! That must have been nice! I saw her last Jan at Internext, but didnt have a chance to meet her. Mybee this June

04-01-2001, 04:31 PM	#16
tha_timinator Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Amsterdam, the Netherlands Posts: 590	when i was just starting in the biz updating my sites costed a hell of a time because 50% of the time i was busy with 'enjoying the women' but now i'm pretty de-sensitized and now my working speed has increased hugely! so that's the positive thing about de-sensitization in my opinion...

04-02-2001, 01:11 PM	#17
dank Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 1,674	While desensitization is a real problem among many people, there are exercises you can do to help reduce it. Get into a regular habit of flexing your pc muscle multiple times a day and hold the last one for 10 seconds on every set that you do. This can also strengthen erections, increase stamina, and make ejaculation even more intense. ------------------

04-02-2001, 03:49 PM	#19
boneprone Hall Of Fame Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Portland Oregon USA Posts: 34,415	what the fuck is dank talkin about?

04-02-2001, 03:54 PM	#20
Lord Assmore Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: The Periphery Posts: 588	desensitization as an impotence problem?

04-02-2001, 05:48 PM	#21
aprilkorova Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: SoCal Posts: 649	Exxotica, Me giving you some bullshit quasi-psyche session is the least of my ensuing embarassment....my language, after a gin-n-tonic or 2, is what's really embarassing. Could I have fit the word pussy more in a sentence...ouch. I'm a tad red faced at this point LOL.

04-02-2001, 06:40 PM	#22
sweetjimmy Banned Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Harlem, NY, U.S.A Posts: 777	Did you mean your dick's been desensitized? Tell the bitch not to suck so hard.

04-02-2001, 11:23 PM	#23
dank Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Mar 2001 Posts: 1,674	ok, let me ask you this..... does porn make you enjoy sex more or less? Does it encourage you to enjoy sex or just appreciate it? The reason porn is a turn on is because it's sexual.....it's a sexual display of things you enjoy doing or fantasize about doing. But if your porn job, for example, makes you put sex and money together, or sex and work, or sex and a shot of tequila or beer, or sex and a keyboard all together, then it becomes less of a turn on. I guess that what I'm trying to say is that it's not that the porn itself doesn't turn you on anymore, it's the other things that go along with the business and the work that make you not enjoy it as much. ------------------