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CDSmith 07-01-2004 02:24 PM

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Originally posted by MicroChick
CD, a few years ago in Santa Monica, there was a group who helped homeless people and people with drug addictions. The group therapy sessions were brutal. People said exactly what they wanted to say, and many feelings were hurt. However, those who stuck with it became healthier and stronger. I feel the same way about some of the boards. There really is an initiation period. The right to say what is on your mind without sugar coating your posts feels good.

Baddog knows that on many boards I have defended him. I have told him how much I like his photography, admire his respect for his children, and the work he does in porn. What does hurt is when people like baddog turn on you because they believe the gossip being spread by your enemies. I thought baddog was above that kind of thing.

If everyone loved me, I would be bored to death. I know who I am. Those who want to get to know the real me know how they can reach me. The others who stalk me and spread lies can GO FUCK THEMSELVES.

I love you. Am I boring you yet?


This board was made for you. My deal here is slightly different. No slight against you or anyone, but I tend not to get involved in who turned on who, who attacked who, who's the attention whore du jour, or getting upset over the drama of the week. I've conditioned myself to not let anyone or anything get to me, affect my mood, or upset my day in any way. It just isn't worth it.

More often than not if I seem angry, my post only seems that way. If I seem upset, I'm not. If I come off as arrogant or sarcastic, it's because I'm good at it, not because I have some soap-opera-like hidden agenda.

I'm usually sitting behind the screen laughing here, not punching holes in walls.

And I like just about everyone and most of the board personas. There are only a handful of people who, if I ever met face to face, would I consider maybe possibly putting the fear of god into them for their past piss-poor attitudes towards me. I've found that usually I need do nothing and eventually the misfortune they deserve catches up with them anyway, it always does.

Fact is... if most of the ones who cock off at me would clear their head and become even slightly more reasonable and mature, I would just as soon sit and have a beer with them as kick their sorry ass around the parking lot. That's a fact.

Pornopat 07-01-2004 02:30 PM

Me is thinking porncity
:glugglug

punker barbie 07-01-2004 02:34 PM

im lost, just wanted to say hi baddog! :)

adultwpc 07-01-2004 02:40 PM

OK I give up. Who is it?

Raven 07-01-2004 02:57 PM

I'm a female board moderator and I vowed I would never ban.

I shouldn't make those vows anymore. I vowed I'd never move to Georgia and I ended up there for three years.

I have banned those who wouldn't respond to the private messages or the emails. If I take the time out of my day to email or PM a poster, I expect the courtesy of a response, even if it is a go fuck yourself.

Oh yeah...and, two bots.

My board certainly isn't as large as gfy or others; but, it has its own flavour....and I run it pretty much my way, thanks to the owner trusting my judgment...

Opinions on my board won't get anyone banned....I thought that's what boards were for...

MicroChick 07-01-2004 03:36 PM

Princess & Raven, you both have excellent reputations. Do you come to GFY for a change of pace or just for business reasons...maybe both.

Not all women are as cool and fair as the two of you. Lee Noga is about as above board as you can get. Lee calls her board a *personal blog* and boy does she share her life with you. There is only one Sister Lee.

CD, most of the time I prefer to be on larger more outrageous boards where I can blend in and fight with the boys. It has never felt good fighting with the ladies. I want most of the women I meet to succeed. Women have to fight much harder to be accepted, and I find most of the women more dependable and honest. Men get caught up in the *sex* thing like Clinton, and their lose their vision and their brains.

The only time I have gotten angry on the internet is when my relatives' SS#'s, addresses, and personal information were posted on the boards. What did they do to deserve this kind of treatment? They aren't on the internet. They aren't in porn. They don't use or like computers.

The rest of the times when people *assumed* I was angry, I was having fun. When you go to boards called GFY, how can you take anything seriously!!!! Would ya hit it????? Want to make 50 bucks by posting a zillion times???? Clinton just divorced Hillary and married Monica!!!!! Yep, serious stuff!!!!

jaYMan 07-01-2004 03:41 PM

baddog, didnt you get banned from Netpond too?

Why do all these places seem to have a problem with you? Or is it just the whole world is picking on you?

It couldn't be because you're an asshole is it?

Global Dialers 07-01-2004 03:47 PM

PCBBS?

TurboTrucker 07-01-2004 03:50 PM

Get Smokey to help you out.

And yes sadly, the business portion of the board is the section that never gets any traffic.

senseidru 07-01-2004 04:09 PM

I really want to know which board this is.

Raven 07-01-2004 04:21 PM

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Originally posted by MicroChick
Princess & Raven, you both have excellent reputations. Do you come to GFY for a change of pace or just for business reasons...maybe both.

Not all women are as cool and fair as the two of you. Lee Noga is about as above board as you can get. Lee calls her board a *personal blog* and boy does she share her life with you. There is only one Sister Lee.

CD, most of the time I prefer to be on larger more outrageous boards where I can blend in and fight with the boys. It has never felt good fighting with the ladies. I want most of the women I meet to succeed. Women have to fight much harder to be accepted, and I find most of the women more dependable and honest. Men get caught up in the *sex* thing like Clinton, and their lose their vision and their brains.

The only time I have gotten angry on the internet is when my relatives' SS#'s, addresses, and personal information were posted on the boards. What did they do to deserve this kind of treatment? They aren't on the internet. They aren't in porn. They don't use or like computers.

The rest of the times when people *assumed* I was angry, I was having fun. When you go to boards called GFY, how can you take anything seriously!!!! Would ya hit it????? Want to make 50 bucks by posting a zillion times???? Clinton just divorced Hillary and married Monica!!!!! Yep, serious stuff!!!!

GFY is one of my favourite boards. Nowhere do I find things out as fast as I do here....it's like a combination National Enquirer with a dose of the Washington Post or the New York Times....

For rumours and news and sightings and just plain laughs, this is the place to start. I often send my posters over here to ask a question about sponsors and individuals......but, I also send them to other boards...

Each board has its own flavour. Some I avoid because they are like a small exclusive club and I don't have time for that. Others are just a little too fluffy for my tastes and I avoid them, too.

There are, however, resource sites and boards who are on the ball and fast to answer and don't have ego problems....Those are the ones I visit...

I might not have time to post; but, I always make time to read. I think it's important to know what's going on in our industry.

baddog 07-01-2004 04:47 PM

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Originally posted by The Other Steve
Now there is a guy over there saying that he was glad to see you go because the board was becoming too focused on AVS and another guy is apologising for asking questions about AVS.

I don't know whether to laugh or cry.

That is pretty funny . . . yeah, wouldn't want to get too focused on making money . . . .I guess the idea of going from 1:1500 to 1:20 was too frightening

baddog 07-01-2004 04:57 PM

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Originally posted by princess
I got banned from a board. well should I say I think my password was changed so that I couldn't post. And I could never get a reply from anyone there when I asked about it. So I can relate baddog hon. And I did nothing..

I've known you a while.. You're a good person with a big heart. Sure we all have our flaws. But it seems that people are more ban happy these days then they were years ago. going to the person and talking to them about a problem works soo much better.

I hope it works out for you hon.

:winkwink:

Well, all I can say is that if he thinks I am going to come crawling, asking to be allowed to post there, he obviously has me confused with someone that gives a shit. :)

baddog 07-01-2004 05:11 PM

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Originally posted by jaYMan
baddog, didnt you get banned from Netpond too?


Well, according to Meat, I was not banned, just had my account closed . . . whatever that means. . . but apparently I am welcome to register there again . . . and we have even talked about the possibility of me being a mod there . . . we shall see.

baddog 07-01-2004 05:13 PM

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Originally posted by punker barbie
im lost, just wanted to say hi baddog! :)
hi, PB :)

baddog 07-01-2004 05:14 PM

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Originally posted by Global Dialers
PCBBS?
nah, it is a board that has been around about 4 years, yet no one seems to know who they are when I give them the initials on ICQ

psyko514 07-01-2004 05:17 PM

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Originally posted by senseidru
I really want to know which board this is.
pay attention. it's been said twice.

CDSmith 07-01-2004 05:21 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
nah, it is a board that has been around about 4 years, yet no one seems to know who they are when I give them the initials on ICQ
Found it.


Apparently you were "quite confrontational" :1orglaugh

You? NOOO, not you!


And god forbid a mere lowly member disagrees with the holy sacred doubly-revered high and mighty board owner. Of COURSE he had to ban you! lol


I'm glad this happened and you posted here man. I may, in my travels, have accidentally come across that site and joined, spent a lot of time there only to find out that it was a huge waste of time because the owner and a few others have their heads up their asses.


"Baddog was focusing a little too much on AVS. He was kind of confrontational too"


.... :1orglaugh

baddog 07-01-2004 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by psyko514
pay attention. it's been said twice.
no, it was not PC or netp0nd

baddog 07-01-2004 05:31 PM

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Originally posted by CDSmith
"Baddog was focusing a little too much on AVS. He was kind of confrontational too"


.... :1orglaugh

haha . . . .now I am going to have to go to a friend's house and use their pc to read this stuff . . . sounds like I am really missing some good stuff

baddog 07-01-2004 05:32 PM

maybe I should have spammed ContentShopper.com instead


oh, 100 reasons to get banned

jayeff 07-01-2004 05:37 PM

I used to be a regular poster on that same board. By and large it did present a balanced view and certainly in terms of being bullshit-free, it was/is one of the best.

But I quit a couple of years ago simply to avoid serious confrontations with the same person. She was often misleading about her own interests and things tended to get personal whenever alternatives were offered. In my case I was making objective suggestions, not even using referal codes. I rarely so much as used a sig in those days.

I didn't think that was appropriate given the target audience for the board, but it was fairly obvious that if push came to shove, I would be made to look like the bad guy.

Dead 07-01-2004 05:39 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
Well, according to Meat, I was not banned, just had my account closed . . . whatever that means. . . but apparently I am welcome to register there again . . . and we have even talked about the possibility of me being a mod there . . . we shall see.
This is why you should be revered, he gave you the opportunity to take the low road, but you choose to go the high road instead. . . .fuck-em
:glugglug

DTK 07-01-2004 05:41 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
nah, it is a board that has been around about 4 years, yet no one seems to know who they are when I give them the initials on ICQ
not 100% true ;)

DTK 07-01-2004 05:44 PM

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Originally posted by jayeff
But I quit a couple of years ago ....
And that's too bad....I always thought your posts were excellent and that you were totally professional.

baddog 07-01-2004 05:54 PM

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Originally posted by DTK
not 100% true ;)
my bad, you are the only one that didn't say, "who?"

baddog 07-01-2004 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jayeff
I used to be a regular poster on that same board. By and large it did present a balanced view and certainly in terms of being bullshit-free, it was/is one of the best.

But I quit a couple of years ago simply to avoid serious confrontations with the same person. She was often misleading about her own interests and things tended to get personal whenever alternatives were offered. In my case I was making objective suggestions, not even using referal codes. I rarely so much as used a sig in those days.

I didn't think that was appropriate given the target audience for the board, but it was fairly obvious that if push came to shove, I would be made to look like the bad guy.

someone must have tipped you off, as you seem to know what board it is I am referring to

The Other Steve 07-01-2004 06:44 PM

It's interesting that baddog should be described as confrontational - hell he was positively polite when compared to the sacred cow.

She starts a discussion by giving her opinion and God help you if you dare disagree with her and don't dare have the facts to support your view - she'll abuse the shit out of you knowing that her posts won't be pulled.

baddog 07-01-2004 06:47 PM

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Originally posted by The Other Steve
It's interesting that baddog should be described as confrontational
moi? confrontational? never

jayeff 07-01-2004 06:58 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
someone must have tipped you off, as you seem to know what board it is I am referring to
Nope. Just that what you wrote sounded very familiar, so I went to take a look :)

baddog 07-01-2004 07:22 PM

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Originally posted by jayeff
Nope. Just that what you wrote sounded very familiar, so I went to take a look :)
must be a pattern :1orglaugh

Firehorse 07-02-2004 12:40 AM

It's their loss baddog! :thumbsup

CDSmith 07-02-2004 12:48 AM

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Originally posted by The Other Steve
It's interesting that baddog should be described as confrontational - hell he was positively polite when compared to the sacred cow.

She starts a discussion by giving her opinion and God help you if you dare disagree with her and don't dare have the facts to support your view - she'll abuse the shit out of you knowing that her posts won't be pulled.

LOL @ "the sacred cow" http://members.shaw.ca/billy1-99/pics/shithead.gif

I'm outta breath here man!


BWAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAAHAHAHAA



I love it.

HS-Trixxxia 07-02-2004 01:13 AM

Oh damn......can't anyone tell me what board! Who's this Holy Cow?

baddog 07-02-2004 02:22 AM

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Originally posted by Trixxxia
Oh damn......can't anyone tell me what board! Who's this Holy Cow?
My ICQ is full, and I would have to delete someone to add you . . .there are a few here that obviously know what board it is, just hit one of them up

baddog 07-02-2004 02:23 AM

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Originally posted by Firehorse
It's their loss baddog! :thumbsup
Thanks Dak . . . think it is time for me to open a board to compete with them . . . . ask Kitty for the suggested name

CDSmith 07-02-2004 02:25 AM

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Originally posted by baddog
Thanks Dak . . . think it is time for me to open a board to compete with them . . . . ask Kitty for the suggested name
badassdoggie.com is available

baddog 07-02-2004 03:01 AM

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Originally posted by CDSmith
badassdoggie.com is available
see ICQ

Ar3s 07-02-2004 03:02 AM

:2 cents:

graphicsbytia 07-02-2004 03:05 AM

I don't like a board where you can't have sigs :2 cents:


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