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  • Sarah_Jayne
    Now with more Jayne
    • Dec 2002
    • 40077

    #1

    Guys - how many men is too many for your girlfriend to have slept with before you?

    following on from the gang bang thread....how many men , in your view, is it acceptable for a potential girlfriend to have slept with prior to hooking up with you ? Lets assume that you are more than 19 years old and dating women that had a life before you.


    On the other side...any women that have limits on the number of women their men have been with?
  • Pipecrew
    Master of Gfy.com
    • Feb 2002
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    #2
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    • Gasper

      #3
      The more, the better I just have to use 2 or 3 condoms to protect and don't lick pussy so much

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      • candyflip
        Carpe Visio
        • Jul 2002
        • 43069

        #4
        I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?

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        • Jace
          FBOP Class Of 2013
          • Jan 2004
          • 35562

          #5
          i have no problems with women fucking tons of men, as long as they were safe about it

          but on the other side, i wasn't safe and I have been with hundreds of women since I was 17YO.....and my wife has no problems with it, she even jokes about it.....i rarely used a condom in my hayday

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          • Sarah_Jayne
            Now with more Jayne
            • Dec 2002
            • 40077

            #6
            Originally posted by JaceXXX
            i have no problems with women fucking tons of men, as long as they were safe about it

            but on the other side, i wasn't safe and I have been with hundreds of women since I was 17YO.....and my wife has no problems with it, she even jokes about it.....i rarely used a condom in my hayday
            glad you made it through your hayday intact

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            • Sarah_Jayne
              Now with more Jayne
              • Dec 2002
              • 40077

              #7
              Originally posted by candyflip
              I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?
              nice attitude..quite contrary to the gangbang thread.

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              • detoxed
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                • Jan 2003
                • 17798

                #8
                Doesnt matter as long as they were all under 5 inches

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                • garett
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                  • Mar 2004
                  • 683

                  #9
                  I'm not insecure enough to care about who my wife has slept with.

                  In fact, I'm not insecure enough to care if she fucks other men while we're married, as long as she's safe and it's not someone that I don't like or get along with.

                  I don't get why men are so obsessed with their girlfriends or wives being 'pure'. And I also don't understand why people get sex and love so mixed up and want themselves to be the only person for their partner, sexually, etc. I guess it might be a nice fantasy .. but in reality it's unrealistic and kind of stupid IMO .. too many relationships end over silly things like jealousy.

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                  • SlickRick
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jan 2003
                    • 2849

                    #10
                    My xgirlfriend from back from high school got around a lot after she moved. We hooked in the mid to late 90's and got to talking as of 98 she has a count of slepping with over 200 people, about 90 were women. I don't know how much over she was on that 200, she could be over 500 for all I know, knowing her.

                    I'd have to say over 25 is to much, but thats me, im sure others would say differently

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                    • Nysus
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                      • Aug 2001
                      • 7817

                      #11
                      The response to that kind of question is based on jealousy.

                      The whole idea of a someone being with a lot of people is that they move around a lot, and could be said to not be loyal.

                      Of course, a person could not have slept with 100s and still not be loyal, but it's easier to think so if they get around.

                      Keeping my own opinion out of it though as I'm upset.

                      Cheers,
                      Matt
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                      • JSA Matt
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                        • Aug 2003
                        • 5464

                        #12
                        Originally posted by detoxed
                        Doesnt matter as long as they were all under 5 inches
                        don't want her thinking of how good she had it before you?

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                        • abyss_al
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                          • Oct 2003
                          • 15605

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Gasper
                          The more, the better I just have to use 2 or 3 condoms to protect and don't lick pussy so much

                          or wear a full condom suit like in naked gun
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                          • VeriSexy
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                            #14
                            Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust
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                            • fuzebox
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                              • Oct 2003
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                              #15
                              Virgins only.

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                              • bad_girl
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                                • Sep 2002
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                                #16
                                I don't want no manwhore for a boyfriend!

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                                • Nysus
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                                  • Aug 2001
                                  • 7817

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by garett
                                  I'm not insecure enough to care about who my wife has slept with.

                                  In fact, I'm not insecure enough to care if she fucks other men while we're married, as long as she's safe and it's not someone that I don't like or get along with.

                                  I don't get why men are so obsessed with their girlfriends or wives being 'pure'. And I also don't understand why people get sex and love so mixed up and want themselves to be the only person for their partner, sexually, etc. I guess it might be a nice fantasy .. but in reality it's unrealistic and kind of stupid IMO .. too many relationships end over silly things like jealousy.
                                  Sounds like a healthy way of thinking, though please enlighten me and let me know you are human... It would bother you if she left you for another person - no? And how do you deal with other people who she enjoys more than you? What about when you start being neglected or replaced with someone else? Honestly curious.

                                  Cheers,
                                  Matt
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                                  • NiTe-HaWk
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                                    • Jul 2003
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                                    #18
                                    Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust
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                                    • baddog
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                                      • Apr 2001
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                                      #19
                                      Do you mean in their life, or that night?

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                                      • Madd
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                                        #20
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                                        • digi
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                                          • Feb 2002
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                                          #21
                                          I rather my girlfriend don't tell me at all.

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                                          • Sosa
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                                            • Oct 2002
                                            • 40149

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by baddog
                                            Do you mean in their life, or that night?

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                                            • Pornkings
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                                              • Oct 2002
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                                              #23
                                              10 is the magic number its funny cause you will never hear a girl say more then 10
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                                              • 69pornlinks
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                                                • Mar 2003
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by baddog
                                                Do you mean in their life, or that night?
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                                                • buddyjuf

                                                  #25
                                                  if they were her ex boyfriends and such, I dont care how many it was

                                                  if they were random guys she met at a club or something, 1 is too many

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                                                  • Trixie Racer
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                                                    • Aug 2003
                                                    • 2328

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by SlickRick
                                                    she has a count of slepping with over 200 people, about 90 were women.
                                                    As I tell people, "I only have casual sex with women." I can't even guess at how many women I've had sex with. I've always been a slut with women. Men, on the other hand, have always considered me a "tease" -- since I only screwed boyfriends or third wheels (oh, and my one long term fuck buddy).

                                                    Why should it matter how many people were before you? What happened in your partner's past is their past. If she/she is good in bed, you should be thankful for all that trial & error experience they endured, which you currently benefit and get pleasured by now...
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                                                    • jscott
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                                                      • Feb 2001
                                                      • 25412

                                                      #27
                                                      i too could care less, as long as i liked the girl enough and trusted her enough.......but i doubt i'd feel that way anytime soon so i choose to stay single
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                                                      • Sarah_Jayne
                                                        Now with more Jayne
                                                        • Dec 2002
                                                        • 40077

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by fuzebox
                                                        Virgins only.
                                                        so she doesn't know how bad you are compared to other guys?

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                                                        • TheSwed
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                                                          • Feb 2004
                                                          • 3483

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by candyflip
                                                          I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?

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                                                          • sheldonjuan
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                                                            • Sep 2003
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by VeriSexy
                                                            Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust


                                                            the problem is you wont know if they're loyal or not!
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                                                            • Sarah_Jayne
                                                              Now with more Jayne
                                                              • Dec 2002
                                                              • 40077

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by sheldonjuan
                                                              the problem is you wont know if they're loyal or not!
                                                              plus..someone could be a virgin when you meet and still screw around behind your back.

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                                                              • GonZo
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                                                                • Jul 2002
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by sarah_webinc
                                                                following on from the gang bang thread....how many men , in your view, is it acceptable for a potential girlfriend to have slept with prior to hooking up with you ? Lets assume that you are more than 19 years old and dating women that had a life before you.


                                                                On the other side...any women that have limits on the number of women their men have been with?
                                                                What about after?
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                                                                • marsrepart
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                                                                  • Jan 2004
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                                                                  • TheEnforcer
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                                                                    • May 2001
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    I personally don't care how many she has slept with as long as I know that when she was in a serious relationship she was faithful.
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                                                                    • ImLost
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                                                                      • May 2004
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      depends on her age, 3 seems to be enough in most cases.

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                                                                      • StarkReality
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                                                                        • May 2004
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        A virgin would be a big no-no for me, because after some years of relationship, she'd certainly have the feeling to have missed something. Sex with just one person, all life long...I don't think this works really well.

                                                                        Any limit ? Well, I'm no saint myself, but if you don't start to think if there is more than just sex after like 100, I think it's pretty likely that you aren't really made for a lasting relationship.



                                                                        I don't want no manwhore for a boyfriend!
                                                                        How many girls does it takes before you'd call a guy a "manwhore"....would be intesresting to know if women set different "limits".

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                                                                        • TheMob?
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                                                                          • Jan 2003
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by baddog
                                                                          Do you mean in their life, or that night?

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                                                                          • Nysus
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                                                                            • Aug 2001
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by StarkReality
                                                                            A virgin would be a big no-no for me, because after some years of relationship, she'd certainly have the feeling to have missed something. Sex with just one person, all life long...I don't think this works really well.

                                                                            Any limit ? Well, I'm no saint myself, but if you don't start to think if there is more than just sex after like 100, I think it's pretty likely that you aren't really made for a lasting relationship.


                                                                            Very well put.

                                                                            Cheers,
                                                                            Matt
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                                                                            • RP Fade
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                                                                              • Sep 2003
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              I don't care. I don't really wanna hear about each each encounter they had. And as far as I'm concerned they have not had REAL sex until they met me
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                                                                              • Major (Tom)
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                                                                                • Nov 2003
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by RP Fade
                                                                                I don't care. I don't really wanna hear about each each encounter they had. And as far as I'm concerned they have not had REAL sex until they met me
                                                                                Dont you mean REEL sex?

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                                                                                • RP Fade
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by DukeSkywalker
                                                                                  Dont you mean REEL sex?

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                                                                                  • garett
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                                                                                    • Mar 2004
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by Nysus
                                                                                    Sounds like a healthy way of thinking, though please enlighten me and let me know you are human... It would bother you if she left you for another person - no? And how do you deal with other people who she enjoys more than you? What about when you start being neglected or replaced with someone else? Honestly curious.

                                                                                    Cheers,
                                                                                    Matt
                                                                                    My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

                                                                                    How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

                                                                                    It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.

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                                                                                    • Paul Waters
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                                                                                      • Mar 2003
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      I value experience in a woman. The more the better...



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                                                                                      • Halcyon
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                                                                                        • Dec 2002
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        If I love who she is, then I am grateful for whatever path got her to that place.
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                                                                                        • mahoney
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                                                                                          • Nov 2003
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by Halcyon
                                                                                          If I love who she is, then I am grateful for whatever path got her to that place.
                                                                                          I agree
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                                                                                          • cosis
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            I require a virgin

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                                                                                            • GonePhishing
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              As long as she wasn't a total sleep around whore, her past is cool with me.
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                                                                                              • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                Now with more Jayne
                                                                                                • Dec 2002
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by garett
                                                                                                My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

                                                                                                How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

                                                                                                It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.
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                                                                                                • Nysus
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by garett
                                                                                                  My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

                                                                                                  How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

                                                                                                  It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.
                                                                                                  Were you with many partners before you were married? Just trying to figure out what made you become comfortable with such thinking. If you had sex with 100s of different people than sex becomes casual, though "most" people do not have 100s of partners, and thus sex and love are tightly connected.

                                                                                                  Cheers,
                                                                                                  Matt
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                                                                                                  Someone owes me $2,000 because they didn't do any work that was paid for *pointing at pr0 / William / UntouchedMarkets*

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                                                                                                  • SlickRick
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by Trixie Racer
                                                                                                    As I tell people, "I only have casual sex with women." I can't even guess at how many women I've had sex with. I've always been a slut with women. Men, on the other hand, have always considered me a "tease" -- since I only screwed boyfriends or third wheels (oh, and my one long term fuck buddy).

                                                                                                    Why should it matter how many people were before you? What happened in your partner's past is their past. If she/she is good in bed, you should be thankful for all that trial & error experience they endured, which you currently benefit and get pleasured by now...

                                                                                                    Hey Trixie Racer you sure your not my x-girlfriend, you sound a lot like her. She was always a tease.

                                                                                                    did you grow up on Orange County CA and move to Pheniox AZ about 84?

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