Guys - how many men is too many for your girlfriend to have slept with before you? - GoFuckYourself.com

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 10:25 AM

following on from the gang bang thread....how many men , in your view, is it acceptable for a potential girlfriend to have slept with prior to hooking up with you ? Lets assume that you are more than 19 years old and dating women that had a life before you.

On the other side...any women that have limits on the number of women their men have been with?

Pipecrew · 06-14-2004, 10:26 AM

06-14-2004, 10:27 AM

The more, the better

I just have to use 2 or 3 condoms to protect and don't lick pussy so much

candyflip · 06-14-2004, 10:27 AM

I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?

Jace · 06-14-2004, 10:27 AM

i have no problems with women fucking tons of men, as long as they were safe about it

but on the other side, i wasn't safe and I have been with hundreds of women since I was 17YO.....and my wife has no problems with it, she even jokes about it.....i rarely used a condom in my hayday

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 10:30 AM

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Originally posted by JaceXXX
i have no problems with women fucking tons of men, as long as they were safe about it

but on the other side, i wasn't safe and I have been with hundreds of women since I was 17YO.....and my wife has no problems with it, she even jokes about it.....i rarely used a condom in my hayday

glad you made it through your hayday intact

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 03:47 PM

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Originally posted by candyflip
I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?

nice attitude..quite contrary to the gangbang thread.

detoxed · 06-14-2004, 03:50 PM

Doesnt matter as long as they were all under 5 inches

garett · 06-14-2004, 03:54 PM

I'm not insecure enough to care about who my wife has slept with.

In fact, I'm not insecure enough to care if she fucks other men while we're married, as long as she's safe and it's not someone that I don't like or get along with.

I don't get why men are so obsessed with their girlfriends or wives being 'pure'. And I also don't understand why people get sex and love so mixed up and want themselves to be the only person for their partner, sexually, etc. I guess it might be a nice fantasy .. but in reality it's unrealistic and kind of stupid IMO .. too many relationships end over silly things like jealousy.

SlickRick · 06-14-2004, 03:55 PM

My xgirlfriend from back from high school got around a lot after she moved. We hooked in the mid to late 90's and got to talking as of 98 she has a count of slepping with over 200 people, about 90 were women. I don't know how much over she was on that 200, she could be over 500 for all I know, knowing her.

I'd have to say over 25 is to much, but thats me, im sure others would say differently

Nysus · 06-14-2004, 03:55 PM

The response to that kind of question is based on jealousy.

The whole idea of a someone being with a lot of people is that they move around a lot, and could be said to not be loyal.

Of course, a person could not have slept with 100s and still not be loyal, but it's easier to think so if they get around.

Keeping my own opinion out of it though as I'm upset.

Cheers,
Matt

JSA Matt · 06-14-2004, 03:56 PM

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Originally posted by detoxed
Doesnt matter as long as they were all under 5 inches

don't want her thinking of how good she had it before you?

abyss_al · 06-14-2004, 03:57 PM

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Originally posted by Gasper
The more, the better I just have to use 2 or 3 condoms to protect and don't lick pussy so much

or wear a full condom suit like in naked gun

VeriSexy · 06-14-2004, 04:11 PM

Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust

fuzebox · 06-14-2004, 04:21 PM

Virgins only.

bad_girl · 06-14-2004, 04:23 PM

I don't want no manwhore for a boyfriend!

However, if he is a manwhore he can give me cunnilingus, but dating is definately out of the question.

BG

Nysus · 06-14-2004, 04:26 PM

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Originally posted by garett
I'm not insecure enough to care about who my wife has slept with.

In fact, I'm not insecure enough to care if she fucks other men while we're married, as long as she's safe and it's not someone that I don't like or get along with.

I don't get why men are so obsessed with their girlfriends or wives being 'pure'. And I also don't understand why people get sex and love so mixed up and want themselves to be the only person for their partner, sexually, etc. I guess it might be a nice fantasy .. but in reality it's unrealistic and kind of stupid IMO .. too many relationships end over silly things like jealousy.

Sounds like a healthy way of thinking, though please enlighten me and let me know you are human... It would bother you if she left you for another person - no? And how do you deal with other people who she enjoys more than you? What about when you start being neglected or replaced with someone else? Honestly curious.

Cheers,
Matt

NiTe-HaWk · 06-14-2004, 04:27 PM

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Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust

Yeap same way I think.

baddog · 06-14-2004, 04:29 PM

Do you mean in their life, or that night?

Madd · 06-14-2004, 04:31 PM

13-15

digi · 06-14-2004, 04:31 PM

I rather my girlfriend don't tell me at all.

Sosa · 06-14-2004, 04:31 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
Do you mean in their life, or that night?

Pornkings · 06-14-2004, 04:33 PM

10 is the magic number its funny cause you will never hear a girl say more then 10

69pornlinks · 06-14-2004, 04:33 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
Do you mean in their life, or that night?

LOL, to be real i don't wanna know...

06-14-2004, 04:34 PM

if they were her ex boyfriends and such, I dont care how many it was

if they were random guys she met at a club or something, 1 is too many

Trixie Racer · 06-14-2004, 04:39 PM

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Originally posted by SlickRick
she has a count of slepping with over 200 people, about 90 were women.

As I tell people, "I only have casual sex with women." I can't even guess at how many women I've had sex with. I've always been a slut with women. Men, on the other hand, have always considered me a "tease" -- since I only screwed boyfriends or third wheels (oh, and my one long term fuck buddy).

Why should it matter how many people were before you? What happened in your partner's past is their past. If she/she is good in bed, you should be thankful for all that trial & error experience they endured, which you currently benefit and get pleasured by now...

jscott · 06-14-2004, 04:39 PM

i too could care less, as long as i liked the girl enough and trusted her enough.......but i doubt i'd feel that way anytime soon so i choose to stay single

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 04:40 PM

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Originally posted by fuzebox
Virgins only.

so she doesn't know how bad you are compared to other guys?

TheSwed · 06-14-2004, 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by candyflip
I could care less. I've whored it up for years. Why should a girl feel bad for doing the same thing?

sheldonjuan · 06-14-2004, 04:53 PM

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Originally posted by VeriSexy
Doesn't matter but I will never marry anyone that won't be loyal and can't trust

the problem is you wont know if they're loyal or not!

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 04:55 PM

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Originally posted by sheldonjuan
the problem is you wont know if they're loyal or not!

plus..someone could be a virgin when you meet and still screw around behind your back.

GonZo · 06-14-2004, 04:59 PM

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Originally posted by sarah_webinc
following on from the gang bang thread....how many men , in your view, is it acceptable for a potential girlfriend to have slept with prior to hooking up with you ? Lets assume that you are more than 19 years old and dating women that had a life before you.

On the other side...any women that have limits on the number of women their men have been with?

What about after?

marsrepart · 06-14-2004, 05:00 PM

TheEnforcer · 06-14-2004, 05:01 PM

I personally don't care how many she has slept with as long as I know that when she was in a serious relationship she was faithful.

ImLost · 06-14-2004, 05:03 PM

depends on her age, 3 seems to be enough in most cases.

StarkReality · 06-14-2004, 05:09 PM

A virgin would be a big no-no for me, because after some years of relationship, she'd certainly have the feeling to have missed something. Sex with just one person, all life long...I don't think this works really well.

Any limit ? Well, I'm no saint myself, but if you don't start to think if there is more than just sex after like 100, I think it's pretty likely that you aren't really made for a lasting relationship.

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I don't want no manwhore for a boyfriend!

How many girls does it takes before you'd call a guy a "manwhore"....would be intesresting to know if women set different "limits".

TheMob · 06-14-2004, 05:11 PM

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Originally posted by baddog
Do you mean in their life, or that night?

Nysus · 06-14-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally posted by StarkReality
A virgin would be a big no-no for me, because after some years of relationship, she'd certainly have the feeling to have missed something. Sex with just one person, all life long...I don't think this works really well.

Any limit ? Well, I'm no saint myself, but if you don't start to think if there is more than just sex after like 100, I think it's pretty likely that you aren't really made for a lasting relationship.

Very well put.

Cheers,
Matt

RP Fade · 06-14-2004, 05:13 PM

I don't care. I don't really wanna hear about each each encounter they had. And as far as I'm concerned they have not had REAL sex until they met me

Major (Tom) · 06-14-2004, 05:18 PM

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Originally posted by RP Fade
I don't care. I don't really wanna hear about each each encounter they had. And as far as I'm concerned they have not had REAL sex until they met me

Dont you mean REEL sex?

DUke

RP Fade · 06-14-2004, 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by DukeSkywalker
Dont you mean REEL sex?

DUke

hehe..good one

garett · 06-14-2004, 05:26 PM

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Originally posted by Nysus
Sounds like a healthy way of thinking, though please enlighten me and let me know you are human... It would bother you if she left you for another person - no? And how do you deal with other people who she enjoys more than you? What about when you start being neglected or replaced with someone else? Honestly curious.

Cheers,
Matt

My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.

Paul Waters · 06-14-2004, 05:32 PM

I value experience in a woman. The more the better...

Halcyon · 06-14-2004, 05:32 PM

If I love who she is, then I am grateful for whatever path got her to that place.

mahoney · 06-14-2004, 05:34 PM

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Originally posted by Halcyon
If I love who she is, then I am grateful for whatever path got her to that place.

I agree

cosis · 06-14-2004, 05:34 PM

I require a virgin

GonePhishing · 06-14-2004, 05:36 PM

As long as she wasn't a total sleep around whore, her past is cool with me.

Sarah_Jayne · 06-14-2004, 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by garett
My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.

i'm in an open marriage and all i can do is nod along with you.

Nysus · 06-14-2004, 05:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by garett
My wife and I feel that sex is not love. And that's all I'm talking about.. sex and only sex. If she and a guy started hanging out regularly, going on dates, having dinner together on a regular basis etc. then yes I would get insecure. But sex is just sex. It's fun.

How do I deal with other guys being better than me ? I might be weird but I don't have big dick syndrome like most men. Every guy is different and will be better in some ways and worse in others. In fact, I get off on the idea of my wife being with a guy that can pleasure her in ways that I can't. I want her to enjoy herself and be happy. If the guy is worse than me in every way, then why bother ? Why not just fuck me?

It takes a mutual understanding and belief in the separation of sex and love for this to work, of course.

Were you with many partners before you were married? Just trying to figure out what made you become comfortable with such thinking. If you had sex with 100s of different people than sex becomes casual, though "most" people do not have 100s of partners, and thus sex and love are tightly connected.

Cheers,
Matt

SlickRick · 06-14-2004, 05:43 PM

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Originally posted by Trixie Racer
As I tell people, "I only have casual sex with women." I can't even guess at how many women I've had sex with. I've always been a slut with women. Men, on the other hand, have always considered me a "tease" -- since I only screwed boyfriends or third wheels (oh, and my one long term fuck buddy).

Why should it matter how many people were before you? What happened in your partner's past is their past. If she/she is good in bed, you should be thankful for all that trial & error experience they endured, which you currently benefit and get pleasured by now...

Hey Trixie Racer you sure your not my x-girlfriend, you sound a lot like her. She was always a tease.

did you grow up on Orange County CA and move to Pheniox AZ about 84?

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Sarah_Jayne Now with more Jayne Industry Role: Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 40,077	Guys - how many men is too many for your girlfriend to have slept with before you? following on from the gang bang thread....how many men , in your view, is it acceptable for a potential girlfriend to have slept with prior to hooking up with you ? Lets assume that you are more than 19 years old and dating women that had a life before you. On the other side...any women that have limits on the number of women their men have been with?

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Nysus Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 7,817	The response to that kind of question is based on jealousy. The whole idea of a someone being with a lot of people is that they move around a lot, and could be said to not be loyal. Of course, a person could not have slept with 100s and still not be loyal, but it's easier to think so if they get around. Keeping my own opinion out of it though as I'm upset. Cheers, Matt __________________ What name is pr0 / Untouched Markets using these days? Untouched Markets - pr0 - Refund My Money Now Someone owes me $2,000 because they didn't do any work that was paid for pointing at pr0 / William / UntouchedMarkets See https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/948258-untouchedmarkets-pr0-refund-money-post16744521.html and for more detailed see https://gfy.com/fucking-around-and-business-discussion/948645-re-recent-bullshit-drama-explained-detail-pr0-untouched-markets.html

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buddyjuf Guest Posts: n/a	if they were her ex boyfriends and such, I dont care how many it was if they were random guys she met at a club or something, 1 is too many

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