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  • BradM
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2003
    • 3397

    #1

    Ok gotta ask a question about women (help?)

    Yeah yeah I am a fresh little boy. Shush.

    I need to know something that has been bothering me for like 2 weeks.

    I met my parents up at a market and I did some shopping with them because it was the last day I was going to be around for a little while and wanted to spend time with them.

    When I got there I saw a girl at the till that was REALLY familliar but I couldn't place her. All I knew was she was absolutely stunning gorgous and I couldn't stop looking back while shopping. I noticed she kept doing the same thing.

    Anyways I got up to the till and when I was about to leave I said:
    "I know you... you went to ABC Highschool?"
    Her: "Yeah! And so did you!"
    Me: "Lauren?"
    Her: "Brad?"

    Then after that she said "yeah I thought that was you but I was too shy to ask" and I just replied "Ahhh it was driving me crazy I had to know. Well have a good one."

    And I left.

    The problem is that she has been on my mind 24/7 since then (2 weeks ago) because I had the worlds biggest crush on her in highschool. I used to skip math and go to her sewing class. She was in the popular crowd but for some reason we really got along and were good friends. But this was the first time I saw her in 3-4 years.


    My question. Should I go back up to the market when I am back in town and ask her to coffee or something to catch up?
    Or do you think I would be too forward.

    I am sure she is not single.. I mean shes gorgous. But I just want to find out I guess.


    What do you think? Go back up? Or just forget about it?
  • twistyneck
    So Fucking Banned
    • Jan 2002
    • 4660

    #2
    Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.

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    • BradM
      Confirmed User
      • Dec 2003
      • 3397

      #3
      Originally posted by twistyneck
      Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.
      Already tried that, she's still on my mind and I am now less probably 2 pints of cum.

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      • zzgundamnzz
        Confirmed User
        • Apr 2002
        • 6102

        #4
        Go back that is if you can find her again...

        Ask her to some coffee to catch up on old times


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        • Doctor Dre
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          • Jan 2001
          • 51692

          #5
          I dunno about chicks from highschool seriously ... maybe but most of them would have the reaction of "it was in high school" ... :P
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          I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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          • BradM
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            • Dec 2003
            • 3397

            #6
            Originally posted by Doctor Dre
            I dunno about chicks from highschool seriously ... maybe but most of them would have the reaction of "it was in high school" ... :P
            Granted and I agree normally. But I mean there is always after highschool, which to some people is just a "new beggining with old ties".

            I'm not looking for first date sex... I just really liked her and wouldn't mind having her somewhere in my life again. She was a kind person.

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            • C_U_Next_Tuesday
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              • Oct 2002
              • 10581

              #7
              duh, ask her out !

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              • mindoza
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                • Jan 2004
                • 1625

                #8
                if you want to keep thinking what could of been then do nothing..other wise take a chance see what happens.
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                • Doctor Dre
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                  • Jan 2001
                  • 51692

                  #9
                  Originally posted by BradM
                  Granted and I agree normally. But I mean there is always after highschool, which to some people is just a "new beggining with old ties".

                  I'm not looking for first date sex... I just really liked her and wouldn't mind having her somewhere in my life again. She was a kind person.
                  look ... what the fuck you got to loose ???

                  If you see her again, go hit it ... if it doesn't work then move on . People care too much or are too shy ... I mean you aiin't got NOTHING to loose, you don'T even talk to her anymore. It's not like she was your best friend
                  Originally posted by rayadp05
                  I rebooted, deleted temp files, history, cookies and everything...still cannot view the news clip. All I see is that fucking gay ass music video from "Rick Roll". Anyone else have a different link to the news clip?

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                  • =^..^=
                    Confirmed User
                    • Jan 2002
                    • 6935

                    #10
                    GO and ask!!!!!!!!

                    maybe she liked you in highschool too you never know - she did say she was "too shy to ask" even now - perhaps she was shy then too.
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                    • BradM
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                      • Dec 2003
                      • 3397

                      #11
                      Heh, thanks folks... all I needed was a couple people to say it. And shit, if Dre can talk to chicks so can I.

                      Kitty: Good point buddy...

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                      • TheLegacy
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                        • Apr 2003
                        • 18078

                        #12
                        dude.. start treating women like friends first. whether shes single or not.. if she likes you enough, maybe she will drop her boyfriend and start up with you.

                        dont take it too seriously... crush or not.. treat her like a human being..

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                        • Lauren
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                          • Mar 2004
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                          #13
                          seize the moment, ask her out. you said it yourself, you got along during your HS days. so why not reminisce?? that's a good way to start. goodluck

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                          • BradM
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                            • Dec 2003
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                            #14
                            Originally posted by TheLegacy
                            dont take it too seriously... crush or not.. treat her like a human being..
                            Absolutely, I always do. I mean why would I treat her any differently?

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                            • HeatherF
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                              • Dec 2003
                              • 100

                              #15
                              You should go back and see if she would like to go for coffee... nothing wrong with having a friend to hang out with.... you don't have to date her to be around her... and if you both enjoyed each others company once before without problems, why can't you do it again....
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                              • Jer
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                                • Feb 2001
                                • 10601

                                #16
                                Ask her out for a coffee or anything if you can find her again.

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                                • Tam
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                                  • Jan 2001
                                  • 8533

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by zzgundamnzz
                                  Go back that is if you can find her again...

                                  Ask her to some coffee to catch up on old times

                                  Yup, I would completely agree with this. No harm in having a cup of coffee and if she is married or taken, then you are old friends from High School and meeting for coffee in a public place, no harm done.
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                                  • bdld
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                                    • Dec 2001
                                    • 11452

                                    #18
                                    get some balls and ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no.

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                                    • BradM
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                                      • Dec 2003
                                      • 3397

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by bdld
                                      get some balls and ask her out, the worst thing that can happen is she'll say no.
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                                      • Marie
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                                        • May 2003
                                        • 3024

                                        #20
                                        Yes! Yes!! Go back!! You should have done that even earlier! Kitty is right. Oh and you haven't seen her for all that time so if she says no, it's not a big deal.

                                        Good luck Brad!! And keep us posted.
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                                        • BradM
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                                          • Dec 2003
                                          • 3397

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Maria M.
                                          Yes! Yes!! Go back!! You should have done that even earlier! Kitty is right. Oh and you haven't seen her for all that time so if she says no, it's not a big deal.

                                          Good luck Brad!! And keep us posted.

                                          Thanks Marie

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                                          • Lucy
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                                            • Mar 2004
                                            • 3969

                                            #22
                                            go back and ask her out, after her reaction on the first meeting in the shop, I guarantee you that she is thinking about you like you do about her right now. Remember, if you don't try you won't ever know, so I wish you good luck and let us know....
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                                            • B Sandwich
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                                              • Mar 2003
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                                              #23
                                              put a sock or two in your pants and wear tight pants when u go back in. She's sure to say yes!
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                                              • PBucksLauren
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                                                • May 2004
                                                • 386

                                                #24
                                                If you're starting an entire thread about this lady... she must be pretty special. Get your ass back there and ask her out! The worst thing she can say is no.

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                                                • Holly
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                                                  • Jun 2003
                                                  • 10017

                                                  #25
                                                  Right. Worst case is no and/or she has a boyfriend. If you're too embarrassed to go back, do some social engineering, get her phone number, and call her instead.

                                                  But remember this- even if she has a boyfriend, she will probably still be flattered and it could set you up for the future. I have 3 or 4 friends who are with someone now that they ran into after not seeing him for awhile, but had a boyfriend at the time and had to turn him down. Just as soon as their relationships ended, they were immediately thinking about him and tracked him down.
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                                                  • Elli
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                                                    • Apr 2003
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Holly
                                                    Right. Worst case is no and/or she has a boyfriend. If you're too embarrassed to go back, do some social engineering, get her phone number, and call her instead.

                                                    But remember this- even if she has a boyfriend, she will probably still be flattered and it could set you up for the future. I have 3 or 4 friends who are with someone now that they ran into after not seeing him for awhile, but had a boyfriend at the time and had to turn him down. Just as soon as their relationships ended, they were immediately thinking about him and tracked him down.
                                                    Yup. Go for it, Brad. No fear, as they say.
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                                                    • silent moan
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                                                      • Nov 2003
                                                      • 1908

                                                      #27
                                                      there's no bad in tring, so go back and look for her

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                                                      • The Heron
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                                                        • Apr 2001
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                                                        #28
                                                        This one time at band camp....

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                                                        • Jill_J
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                                                          • May 2004
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                                                          #29
                                                          if she`s still in your mind, go ahead - find her

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                                                          • Mr. Marks
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                                                            • Jun 2001
                                                            • 7517

                                                            #30
                                                            what the mind dwells upon, the body acts upon.

                                                            two pints of cum, huh? youre totally crazy about her.

                                                            give it a shot.

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                                                            • Jman
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                                                              • Sep 2003
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                                                              #31
                                                              You do what you have to do to make number 1 happy.

                                                              If you really want to see her again go for hit.
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                                                              • 530riders
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                                                                • Jun 2004
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                                                                #32
                                                                u are a idiot for not getting her info when u talked to her.

                                                                yes definitly go back.

                                                                don't live life with regrets bro

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                                                                • CBytch
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                                                                  • Apr 2004
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Nothing wrong with taking her out for a coffee Catch up on what you've each been doing and see where it goes from there.
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                                                                  • Screaming
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                                                                    • Feb 2004
                                                                    • 18972

                                                                    #34
                                                                    why not go ask her, all she can do is say no, and then you will rest easy knowing you tried, and maybe you could leave her with something like well if you ever wanna go out give me a call or something like that i dunno

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                                                                    • PiTaAnGeL
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      "Carpe Diem"- sieze the day

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                                                                      • reynold
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                                                                        • Oct 2002
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        I was once told that you better act now and see the results, rather than not doing anything and missing what could've been the best thing in your life. Goodluck!

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                                                                        • tranza
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                                                                          • Jun 2003
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by twistyneck
                                                                          Go beat off and get her out of your system. Chicks are bad news.
                                                                          Lol... Typical GFY answer...
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