Can a girl learn how to dance? - GoFuckYourself.com

Elli · 06-07-2004, 02:49 AM

I have absolutely no dancing skill (no empty flattery please, this is not me fishing for a compliment). I've watched the music videos, I've watched other girls on the dance floor at the club, but still my friends just snicker at me. It's not quite as bad as Elaine from Seinfeld, but... well, how would a girl who is too old to sign up for jazzercise learn how to dance whatever is hip and trendy? Any thoughts?

As the learned Juicy says, "Discuss."

baddog · 06-07-2004, 02:50 AM

start with the Horizontal Bop, and slowly work your way up.

polish_aristocrat · 06-07-2004, 02:50 AM

I am not a girl but i can't dance too :/

Elli · 06-07-2004, 02:51 AM

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Originally posted by baddog
start with the Horizontal Bop, and slowly work your way up.

I think I've mastered that particular step. I am interested in the vertical kinds of dancing now.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 02:52 AM

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Originally posted by polish_aristocrat
I am not a girl but i can't dance too :/

Yes, but a guy can (usually) just ask his girl to teach him or just flat out refuse to dance.

I love to dance, but I rather dislike being laughed at.

marko13 · 06-07-2004, 02:53 AM

i don't want to be rude but you can't learn to dance...sis

Elli · 06-07-2004, 02:54 AM

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Originally posted by marko13
i don't want to be rude but you can't learn to dance...sis

Ah, I love it when complete strangers call me little nicknames.

Thanks for the vote of confidence.

baddog · 06-07-2004, 02:58 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
I think I've mastered that particular step. I am interested in the vertical kinds of dancing now.

well, we could try against a wall, and gradually work our way away from it

Elli · 06-07-2004, 03:00 AM

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Originally posted by baddog
well, we could try against a wall, and gradually work our way away from it

Still, that's not quite what I had in mind..

TexasGuy · 06-07-2004, 03:03 AM

A girl can learn to dance if she hires someone to learn her ...

Mr. Marks · 06-07-2004, 03:05 AM

oh, elli. doesnt matter. we love you anyways. ;-)

when you go out there, just DANCE. fuck em all.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 03:06 AM

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Originally posted by papichulo
oh, elli. doesnt matter. we love you anyways. ;-)

when you go out there, just DANCE. fuck em all.

No, not FUCKING. Dancing! You men!

pimplink · 06-07-2004, 03:16 AM

Hey elli whatever you put your mind to...your body can do...or in your case your feet can do...LOL

Elli · 06-07-2004, 03:20 AM

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Originally posted by pimplink
Hey elli whatever you put your mind to...your body can do...or in your case your feet can do...LOL

That's what I'm hoping! Thanks

EviLGuY · 06-07-2004, 04:01 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
I have absolutely no dancing skill (no empty flattery please, this is not me fishing for a compliment). I've watched the music videos, I've watched other girls on the dance floor at the club, but still my friends just snicker at me. It's not quite as bad as Elaine from Seinfeld, but... well, how would a girl who is too old to sign up for jazzercise learn how to dance whatever is hip and trendy? Any thoughts?

As the learned Juicy says, "Discuss."

No thoughts but how about some commiseration? I am a terrible dancer as well.

REALLY BAD.

KraZ · 06-07-2004, 04:18 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Yes, but a guy can (usually) just ask his girl to teach him or just flat out refuse to dance.

I love to dance, but I rather dislike being laughed at.

That's right - my GF taught me 90% of the dancing "moves". I've been a good student though

TweetyBird · 06-07-2004, 04:31 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Yes, but a guy can (usually) just ask his girl to teach him or just flat out refuse to dance.

I love to dance, but I rather dislike being laughed at.

hehe

StRoGE · 06-07-2004, 04:42 AM

Theres classes for adults too. Your never too old to learn.
One of my friends is a dance instructor. Known him since grade 6. Come to Calgary and he'll teach you.

Arousal Design · 06-07-2004, 04:46 AM

Dancing is tough. Either you can do it, or you can't. Dancing isn't about steps, or particular moves that's only half of it. The other half is a natural flow with the rhythm that you either have or you don't. Either you can naturally move to a beat, or you look awkward and silly doing it and that's just something that's near impossible to teach.

I can dance but just prefer not to unless surrounded by a group of girls at a club.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 04:49 AM

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Originally posted by EviLGuY
No thoughts but how about some commiseration? I am a terrible dancer as well.

REALLY BAD.

Awww.. bad dancers of the world, unite!

Stroge, I can do ballroom dancing, just not the hiphop/stripper dance/whatever that women do these days. I have yet to see lessons for that particular style.

My dad has been taking west coast swing lessons for years (picking up hot chicks, of course). I happen to know for a fact that my man would NOT be open to taking lessons with me, though. hrm.

Illicit · 06-07-2004, 04:50 AM

its either in your blood or not

(.. and I got crazy groove

)

Elli · 06-07-2004, 04:50 AM

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Originally posted by Arousal Design
Dancing is tough. Either you can do it, or you can't. Dancing isn't about steps, or particular moves that's only half of it. The other half is a natural flow with the rhythm that you either have or you don't. Either you can naturally move to a beat, or you look awkward and silly doing it and that's just something that's near impossible to teach.

I can dance but just prefer not to unless surrounded by a group of girls at a club.

I hear ya. Either I get better or just less self-concious when I drink.. I prefer to think I loosen up enough to actually dance better.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 04:51 AM

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Originally posted by ajpiii
its either in your blood or not

(.. and I got crazy groove )

Of course you do. I have never met a guy named AJ who wasn't a wicked dancer.

monaro · 06-07-2004, 04:51 AM

I dont think a girl needs to learn, they dance okay at the clubs i goto.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 04:54 AM

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Originally posted by monaro
I dont think a girl needs to learn, they dance okay at the clubs i goto.

Yeah, we're all born knowing how to apply makeup and do hair, too. *rolls eyes*

bizmak · 06-07-2004, 04:56 AM

Yes, everyone cans. Just go to dance clubs every day

Illicit · 06-07-2004, 04:56 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Of course you do. I have never met a guy named AJ who wasn't a wicked dancer.

I always thought that dancing was a good indication of sexual performance. if your good at dancing, you should be good at sex. but maybe I should rethink that for those chicks that cant dance ...

TurboAngel · 06-07-2004, 05:06 AM

I can't dance, I have no rhythm.

emmanuelle · 06-07-2004, 05:08 AM

You mean Dirty Dancing wasn't real?

hijaker · 06-07-2004, 05:17 AM

you just have to learn.
Try a dance school
Go for Latin-american dances
You'll love it

monaro · 06-07-2004, 05:18 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Yeah, we're all born knowing how to apply makeup and do hair, too. *rolls eyes*

cute

stephthegeek · 06-07-2004, 08:34 AM

If you want to really learn how to move your body (and just various parts of it), try bellydance

While I'm a musical person, I've never been a particularly good dancer. I always dreamed of doing some kind of beautiful physical art form, like ballet, but don't have anywhere near the body for it. Then I discovered bellydancing. Aside from the art itself which I am now completely addicted to, it definitely helps with feeling the music and moving your body.

StuartD · 06-07-2004, 08:38 AM

I can play the drums... keep 3 or 4 different beats all going at the same time to a perfect tempo... but I can't dance to save my life.

It just doesn't happen. Tapping my foot is about as close to dancing as I'll ever be able to get.

zzgundamnzz · 06-07-2004, 08:39 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
Yes, but a guy can (usually) just ask his girl to teach him or just flat out refuse to dance.

I love to dance, but I rather dislike being laughed at.

Get one of those Latin Dance Instructors to teach you how to Salsa...

I think I saw that in a movie once

Tania · 06-07-2004, 08:42 AM

good luck Elli

Nysus · 06-07-2004, 08:42 AM

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Originally posted by zzgundamnzz
Get one of those Latin Dance Instructors to teach you how to Salsa...

I think I saw that in a movie once

I think that's likely a good idea. It would get you comfortable with dancing, and you'll gain confidence in at least doing a specific type of dance.. and then you could try other forms of dance lessons. I'm sure some people aren't coordinated enough, but you can always learn and try. Best of luck.

Cheers,
Matt

sinkiss · 06-07-2004, 08:52 AM

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Originally posted by Arousal Design
Dancing is tough. Either you can do it, or you can't. Dancing isn't about steps, or particular moves that's only half of it. The other half is a natural flow with the rhythm that you either have or you don't. Either you can naturally move to a beat, or you look awkward and silly doing it and that's just something that's near impossible to teach.

I can dance but just prefer not to unless surrounded by a group of girls at a club.

that is so true! dancing isnt just something you DO, its something you FEEL. try not to be self conscious, close your eyes, feel the music and move with it. but if you are wanting to dance something that looks more choreographed, might want to try taking lessons

TheLegacy · 06-07-2004, 08:54 AM

start by slow dancing with someone.. then try to move out on your own.. feel the music..

mostly in the hips and arms... just learn the beat - if there are some music shows with dancers watch them and try it alone first.

but fear not.. there are alot worse dancers out there than you

Joesho · 06-07-2004, 08:55 AM

right after our naked yoga practice, we can move into the dance section if you would like..

angeleyes · 06-07-2004, 09:17 AM

If you can unlearn, you can learn it. I used to be a great dancer about 15 years ago, now I suck. (Out of practice). Same with saking IMO, I used to be an award winning skater (locally) and I can't go one foot in skates anymore without falling on my ass.

Faith69 · 06-07-2004, 09:39 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
I have absolutely no dancing skill (no empty flattery please, this is not me fishing for a compliment). I've watched the music videos, I've watched other girls on the dance floor at the club, but still my friends just snicker at me. It's not quite as bad as Elaine from Seinfeld, but... well, how would a girl who is too old to sign up for jazzercise learn how to dance whatever is hip and trendy? Any thoughts?

As the learned Juicy says, "Discuss."

cum visit me Elli... I'll teach ya

Not saying I'm brilliant, but I've been complimented before.... club dancing or erotic dancing

Your choice hehe

xxxdesign-net · 06-07-2004, 09:56 AM

You need to watch those Beyoncé videos...

punker barbie · 06-07-2004, 09:58 AM

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Originally posted by Elli
I have absolutely no dancing skill (no empty flattery please, this is not me fishing for a compliment). I've watched the music videos, I've watched other girls on the dance floor at the club, but still my friends just snicker at me. It's not quite as bad as Elaine from Seinfeld, but... well, how would a girl who is too old to sign up for jazzercise learn how to dance whatever is hip and trendy? Any thoughts?

As the learned Juicy says, "Discuss."

Sweetie with me as ur teacher u can be a dancing machine!!!!

Trixie Racer · 06-07-2004, 09:58 AM

The bellydance workout program from Veena & Neena tought me a lot of new dance moves. I'm an exotic dancer and felt pretty confident with my dancing ability before getting this DVD, but after using it for 6 months I've noticed a dramatic improvement. It's the only way I do cardio and it's fun! YOu can buy it online or almost anywhere that sells DVDs.

Goose · 06-07-2004, 09:59 AM

why don't you just take a friend who shows you the basics???

4Pics · 06-07-2004, 10:00 AM

just take a class or 2 and you'll do fine.

beemk · 06-07-2004, 11:09 AM

you're white, welcome to the club.

Elli · 06-07-2004, 01:59 PM

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Originally posted by zzgundamnzz
Get one of those Latin Dance Instructors to teach you how to Salsa...

I think I saw that in a movie once

Hm, not sure what myman would think about that..

Thanks for the advice, everyone. I'm glad I'm not the only danceless girl out there!

I have thought of bellydancing lessons. It looks like tons of fun. Maybe I should just go for it

fuzebox · 06-07-2004, 02:17 PM

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Originally posted by Elli
Awww.. bad dancers of the world, unite!

StuartD · 06-07-2004, 02:20 PM

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Originally posted by punker barbie
Sweetie with me as ur teacher u can be a dancing machine!!!!

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