At What Age do Women Find Men 'None-Threatening'?

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  • Head
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    • Nov 2003
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    #1

    At What Age do Women Find Men 'None-Threatening'?

    I'm 37 in a couple of days so if i Start talking to a 18 year girl on the street: will she think i'm trying to 'pick her up'?
    Or do i need to be 50 or 60 so this doesn't enter into the girls mind. I like to think i would have a chance at any girl no matter the age. I f i was unattached of course.
    Thoughts?
  • crockett
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    #2
    if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.
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    • Head
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      #3
      I just think women always think we guys are always trying to pick them up.
      Last edited by Head; 06-04-2004, 06:54 AM.

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      • ifny
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        • Jun 2004
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        #4
        Originally posted by crockett
        if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.
        that was great, LOL

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        • Head
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          #5
          Originally posted by crockett
          if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.
          It would be nice if someone with half a brain could reply to this thread.
          Firstly: don't call me ugly you troll. You don't know me from a hole in the ground.
          Second: Learn grammer ie: 'you're' instead of 'your' and 'an' instead of 'a' before a vowel.

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          • sherie
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            #6
            With me, since birth lol Unless, you're some crackhead confronting me then I may get a tad bit worried.
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            • Phoenix
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              • Nov 2002
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              #7
              im 30 and have no trouble dating 19 yr old girls

              it is all in the approach, and possibly what you look like
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              • emmanuelle
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                • Mar 2003
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                #8
                I dont think they ever stop being threatening, only in different ways. I'm not sure if the changes are due to the men's needs changing as they age, or my perception of them as I age.

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                • crockett
                  in a van by the river
                  • May 2003
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                  #9
                  who said you were ugly? and I'm a troll huh? funny, I came very close to buying Adult Traffic sale when Pete listed it on GFY about 8 months ago for sale, when it was un-launched.

                  I talked to him about ATS and Adult Monger at the time as well, but he decided to keep them. But who cares I'll Troll away...

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                  Last edited by crockett; 06-04-2004, 07:25 AM.
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                  • xxxbruce
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                    • Jun 2004
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                    #10
                    go for it if they dont wona no go for a nother
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                    • emmanuelle
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                      • Mar 2003
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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Head
                      It would be nice if someone with half a brain could reply to this thread.
                      Firstly: don't call me ugly you troll. You don't know me from a hole in the ground.
                      Second: Learn grammer ie: 'you're' instead of 'your' and 'an' instead of 'a' before a vowel.

                      Head- I dont think he was calling you ugly at all, he said 'if you are ugly, then...'

                      Personally I found you rather cute

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                      • crockett
                        in a van by the river
                        • May 2003
                        • 76818

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Head
                        I f i was unattached of course.
                        Thoughts?
                        oh yea and sense you're so up on grammar it's

                        If I were unattached of course.
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                        • Phoenix
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                          #13
                          haha i love this thread
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                          • m00d
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                            #14
                            there is no age

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                            • Kamilla36D
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                              #15
                              Just had sum 50+ yo trying to pick me up at a puter store the other day
                              So men as non-threatning doesn't exist lol
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                              • Head
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by crockett
                                if you are ugly, you
                                That looks like a shot to me. No biggy.
                                Anyway gfy hasn't had a good pissing match in a couple o days.
                                It's good to piss every now and again.

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                                • Head
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                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by emmanuelle
                                  Head- I dont think he was calling you ugly at all, he said 'if you are ugly, then...'

                                  Personally I found you rather cute
                                  Thanx Emmanuelle!

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                                  • Head
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by crockett
                                    who said you were ugly? and I'm a troll huh? funny, I came very close to buying Adult Traffic sale when Pete listed it on GFY about 8 months ago for sale, when it was un-launched.

                                    I talked to him about ATS and Adult Monger at the time as well, but he decided to keep them. But who cares I'll Troll away...

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                                    Women don't like bad attitudes
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                                    • crockett
                                      in a van by the river
                                      • May 2003
                                      • 76818

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Head
                                      That looks like a shot to me. No biggy.
                                      Anyway gfy hasn't had a good pissing match in a couple o days.
                                      It's good to piss every now and again.
                                      na man, wasn't taking a shot at you just making a funny.. I try to stay away from pissing matches on these boards, not good for future business.

                                      BTW I bought traffic a few times from Pete through ATS at that time he could send around 4-5k a day. Can you guys do 10k a day yet?
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                                      • sinkiss
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                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by emmanuelle
                                        I dont think they ever stop being threatening, only in different ways. I'm not sure if the changes are due to the men's needs changing as they age, or my perception of them as I age.

                                        nicely put, i agree
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                                        • bdld
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                                          #21
                                          about 6 months after theyre dead.

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                                          • Doctor Dre
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by crockett
                                            if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.
                                            rofl so fucking true ... :P
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                                            • Trixie
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                                              • Oct 2002
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                                              #23
                                              I forget what the exact stats are, but women have thoughts/concerns about securing their personal safety with the same frequency that men have thoughts about sex. What women find threatening is the constant possibility that they could be raped, murdered, stalked, etc. and the truth is, if a woman ISN'T at least a little worried about that when a stranger approaches her, she has her fucking head up her ass. About half of the rapes in the US never even lead to an ARREST, let alone locking the guy up. I don't think there's an age where men ever come across as nonthreatening - it's totally a matter of context. Frankly, if a guy approaches a girl 25 years younger than him, it would immediately worry me that he's got poor judgement and is totally out of touch with reality. Sad, but true.
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                                              • Head
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                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by crockett
                                                na man, wasn't taking a shot at you just making a funny.. I try to stay away from pissing matches on these boards, not good for future business.

                                                BTW I bought traffic a few times from Pete through ATS at that time he could send around 4-5k a day. Can you guys do 10k a day yet?
                                                Ya I realize that now. Ya we can 10k easy.

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                                                • susanna
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                                                  • Mar 2002
                                                  • 81

                                                  #25
                                                  when you are old enough to spell

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                                                  Women will always think of you as threatening. Our first 2 second glance at anyone is to assess danger. If you have a demeaner that seems to put women off check if you make agressive moves. Determine if you stand too close or say agressive things to get their attention. If you are a non-threatening person they would feel that eminating from you in the first few minutes.

                                                  If your post was really to ask "if you would have a chance at any girl no matter what age you are" that is a different story. If you are an old geeser (over 40 if a gal is in her 20's) you have no chance. If you are clean and cute and over 40 and look like you might have money, you will find girls after your money who will adore you.

                                                  So the answer is, NO you dont have a chance at any girl. What ever "chance" means.
                                                  Susanna

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                                                  • susanna
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                                                    • Mar 2002
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by Trixie
                                                    I forget what the exact stats are, but women have thoughts/concerns about securing their personal safety with the same frequency that men have thoughts about sex. What women find threatening is the constant possibility that they could be raped, murdered, stalked, etc. and the truth is, if a woman ISN'T at least a little worried about that when a stranger approaches her, she has her fucking head up her ass. About half of the rapes in the US never even lead to an ARREST, let alone locking the guy up. I don't think there's an age where men ever come across as nonthreatening - it's totally a matter of context. Frankly, if a guy approaches a girl 25 years younger than him, it would immediately worry me that he's got poor judgement and is totally out of touch with reality. Sad, but true.
                                                    Too funny....the reason women think of their safety every two minutes is because men think of their cock every two minutes.
                                                    Last edited by susanna; 06-04-2004, 01:33 PM.
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                                                    • Elli
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                                                      #27
                                                      Trixie, you think too much for GFY. You and I should go start a board somewhere together and invite KCat and some other smart people.

                                                      As for the question, I don't think it's an age thing. It's more of an attitude or "feeling" the guy gives off. Like Trixie said, it's a mixture of body language, mannerisms, type of humour, eye contact, and things like that.

                                                      For instance, if a woman is sitting on an otherwise empty bus stop bench, she will most likely sit on an end, not in the middle. A guy coming up SHOULD sit on the other end, but if he's pushy, he'll sit in the middle, next to her. That's just creepy and very threatening. So it's things like that.
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                                                      • Arousal Design
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by crockett
                                                        if you are ugly, you = Threatening.. if your some hot stud or if you look like brad pitt, you could be carrying a axe and they would just ask you what's that for.
                                                        this made me laugh out loud and brought me minutes and minutes of enjoyment. thank you.

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                                                        • emmanuelle
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                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by Elli
                                                          Trixie, you think too much for GFY. You and I should go start a board somewhere together and invite KCat and some other smart people.

                                                          I dont mean to hijack the thread, but Ellie- I recently came across your sister's site- wow- she's a hottie!

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                                                          • Mr. Marks
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                                                            • Jun 2001
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                                                            #30
                                                            men take on a threatening pose because its patterned in our genes. the more threatening, the better, to be able to protect the family and the offsprings.

                                                            ever notice that an old, male dog constantly piss everywhere? matter of fact is, hes marking his territory coz hes gettin old.

                                                            we do that, too. subconsciously and figuratively or otherwise.

                                                            so no, unless were carrying three children who are hanging on to us, women will always find us threatening.

                                                            in so many ways, women are, too. even worst than men, coz they are more subtle than we could ever hope to be.

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                                                            • emmanuelle
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                                                              • Mar 2003
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                                                              #31
                                                              I find men threatening in a different way lately. As I value my independence more & more, men in my dating pool are at an age where they're often looking to settle down. I find them needy and smothering, thus threatening the lifestyle that I enjoy very much.
                                                              Funny how as men age, they want commitment; while at the same time that women start to value their space and independence.

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                                                              • the Shemp
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                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by Kamilla36D
                                                                Just had sum 50+ yo trying to pick me up at a puter store the other day
                                                                So men as non-threatning doesn't exist lol
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                                                                • pimplink
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  I think women almost always find men threatening...it's not always true that if you look like Brat Pitt they won't think you're threatening anymore. I mean, sometimes it works the other way around, like they would think you are threatening because you are hot..kinda make them feel that you are using your good looks to take advantage of them.

                                                                  Now if you are ugly, they would think you are assuming and be threatened and annoyed.

                                                                  Don't you just feel that with women, it's almost always a no-win situation?

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