Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner...... - GoFuckYourself.com

AaronM · 05-29-2004, 04:32 PM

Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner and forced to make a decision. How do you handle these times?

Most people crumble.......I am NOT most people.

Only the strong survive.

This game is far from over....The future is clear.

Come at me.

I know what to do...But again I ask....How do you handle these times?

Oracle Porn · 05-29-2004, 04:33 PM

I'll tell you how not to hadle "these items"

DON'T SMOKE CRACK!

AndrewKanuck · 05-29-2004, 04:33 PM

Take a step back, weigh the options and go full force.

Aquarius · 05-29-2004, 04:35 PM

Whatever your choice is try to achieve it no matter what.

corvette · 05-29-2004, 04:35 PM

decide what to do and firmly stand behind it

Jman · 05-29-2004, 04:36 PM

Happened to me more then once. Think of number 1 and just do it.

Like you said only the strong survive.

lilj · 05-29-2004, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Oracle Porn
I'll tell you how not to hadle "these items"

DON'T SMOKE CRACK!

merlin77 · 05-29-2004, 04:37 PM

Make your decision and face it head on!

kak_azn · 05-29-2004, 04:37 PM

Game over I already won!

MrIzzz · 05-29-2004, 04:39 PM

dont put yourself in that situation

Joesho · 05-29-2004, 04:40 PM

You have a strong will, young grasshopper, the chi is in you very powerful!

AaronM · 05-29-2004, 04:42 PM

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Originally posted by kak_azn
Game over I already won!

You don't even know how to play yet.

Jill_J · 05-29-2004, 05:00 PM

every day of life is a fight for survive and only optimistic point of view makes us stronger.
I believe my ituition and make the decision...

Illicit · 05-29-2004, 05:01 PM

gotta figure everything will work out no matter which way you go, so make the decision your most comfortable making and go for it

AaronM · 05-29-2004, 05:05 PM

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Originally posted by ajpiii
gotta figure everything will work out no matter which way you go, so make the decision your most comfortable making and go for it

Comfortable decisions are what keep people held back.

Sometime you need to accept the risks and stack them up against the rewards of the uncomfortable decisions then proceed with cautious aggression.

HeadPimp · 05-29-2004, 05:06 PM

I take a day or three off then come back and start thumping people up along side the head either figuratively or factually.

Illicit · 05-29-2004, 05:07 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
Comfortable decisions are what keep people held back.

Sometime you need to accept the risks and stack them up against the rewards of the uncomfortable decisions then proceed with cautious aggression.

cautious aggression is a good way to put it ...

If you are a naturally agressive person, then you will feel comfortable making the aggressive decisions. I think you have to be that type of person, if your not, and try to become an aggressive person, you will end up making bad decisions just for the fact that you are trying to be aggressive.

AaronM · 05-29-2004, 05:08 PM

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Originally posted by ajpiii
cautious aggression is a good way to put it ...

If you are a naturally agressive person, then you will feel comfortable making the aggressive decisions. I think you have to be that type of person, if your not, and try to become an aggressive person, you will end up making bad decisions just for the fact that you are trying to be aggressive.

Like I said....

Only the strong survive.

PattyeCake* · 05-29-2004, 05:10 PM

Take deep breaths, and one minute at a time if necessary.....

FlyingIguana · 05-29-2004, 05:13 PM

i open a can of woopass

Sly_RJ · 05-29-2004, 05:15 PM

I've been in similar situations many times. Yet, I'm still here.

If you can't roll with the punches then you were never really rolling.

Rictor · 05-29-2004, 05:19 PM

I cry for my mommy and she takes care of it.

baddog · 05-29-2004, 08:53 PM

I don't take kindly to being backed into corners, I usually strike out if put in the position . . . although it has been quite a while since this has happened to me

brand0n · 05-29-2004, 08:57 PM

order another drink

Peter Romero · 05-29-2004, 09:04 PM

When life gives you lemons... make lemonade.

If that doesn't work... go work at El Pollo Loco.

I'm actually talking about my own behavior.

AaronM · 05-29-2004, 09:06 PM

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Originally posted by POV Porn guy
When life gives you lemons... make lemonade.

If that doesn't work... go work at El Pollo Loco.

I'm actually talking about my own behavior.

Cool.

While you are working there...Tell those fuckers to bring back their fajitas.

Joesho · 05-29-2004, 09:07 PM

Let me know if you need any help.... or want a hand

I especially like it if it is an underdog backed into a corner....
I am right there to help ya if need be.

PrivateEye · 05-29-2004, 09:08 PM

Maybe you could get some Xanax

StRoGE · 05-29-2004, 09:08 PM

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Originally posted by Rictor
I cry for my mommy and she takes care of it.

Creative? Is that you?

Peter Romero · 05-29-2004, 09:09 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
Cool.

While you are working there...Tell those fuckers to bring back their fajitas.

I'm not a victem, and way too ambitious & smart to roll over & get a real job.

wyldblyss · 05-29-2004, 09:10 PM

There is always a way out of a corner even though at times it seems like you have no choices. Somehow things always work out if you remain strong. Good times are usually just the momentary lull you experience between each crisis in life

OzMan · 05-29-2004, 09:13 PM

This is a no brainer.

Do the brunette first and make the blonde wait.

sweetums · 05-29-2004, 09:14 PM

I can deal with conflict as long as there's room for compromise. Someone backs me into a corner though and my gut reaction is to push my way out of it -- and when that happens there's no room for compromise on my end anymore.

What you're gut tells you is always right. Follow that.

*hugs*

torrey · 05-29-2004, 09:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner and forced to make a decision. How do you handle these times?

Most people crumble.......I am NOT most people.

Only the strong survive.

This game is far from over....The future is clear.

Come at me.

I know what to do...But again I ask....How do you handle these times?

I went through a divorce, probably the hardest time in my life to date.
I called my mom on one of my worst nights and she told me....

God will not give you more than you can handle in one day.

I hold that saying close, when times are tough.

AMADude · 05-29-2004, 09:16 PM

You handle these times by making a decision and sticking with it. I was recently faced with something similar. Made my decision to give up my former company.
I am now better off for it and my former company is fucked without me.

brand0n · 05-29-2004, 09:19 PM

ask someone for there autograph

Newton - XXXAmigoz · 05-29-2004, 09:28 PM

The only thing you can do, remain focussed, positive and think laterally. There is always a solution, you just have faith in yourself to resolve it. Never, ever give up.

aaron · 05-29-2004, 09:29 PM

buck up and keep living things always get better

stevo · 05-29-2004, 09:30 PM

When you know what's right, don't bother asking for opinions. For those who give opinion will either confuse you by distorting the facts or they'll provoke you to view the story from an obstructed point of you. Whom do you trust? Trust no one but thyself. Why look through another man's eyes when yours are in focus?

You are AaronM. You are never wrong. But give comfort to yourself in knowing that when a door shuts, it gives oppourity for another door to open.

AaronM · 05-30-2004, 05:27 PM

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Originally posted by stevo
When you know what's right, don't bother asking for opinions. For those who give opinion will either confuse you by distorting the facts or they'll provoke you to view the story from an obstructed point of you. Whom do you trust? Trust no one but thyself. Why look through another man's eyes when yours are in focus?

You are AaronM. You are never wrong. But give comfort to yourself in knowing that when a door shuts, it gives oppourity for another door to open.

Who's asking for opinions?

I am simply asking how people react when put in this situation.

PatrickKing · 05-30-2004, 05:36 PM

step1 : Extend the right hand to make peace,
step2 : once your hands meet grab him
step3 : and stick the knife in his neck with the left hand

Repeat step 3 as needed

silent moan · 05-30-2004, 05:42 PM

for me, prayer is the firt step I can do, then God will make a way I know

Tempest · 05-30-2004, 05:46 PM

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Originally posted by AaronM
Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner and forced to make a decision. How do you handle these times?

Personally, I curl up in a ball in the corner for awhile and hide my tears. I might suck my thumb for awhile as well just for good effect. Then I might get up and post some messages on some boards about how everyone should pity me... send me money... or whatever to invoke some sympathy. Once I'm done all the self pity crap I take a deep breath and do what needs to be done full tilt no holds barred.

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Originally posted by AaronM
Only the strong survive.

Actually, as each day passes it's the "smart" people that survive. Oh. And those that are really good liars and cheats.. OH! And those with the really big guns.

hottshot · 05-30-2004, 05:47 PM

1. Think with you head and not your heart.
2. Run every senario through.
3. Be prepared for the worst case senario
4. take responsibility for your actions

Then crush the bastards

Mr. Marks · 05-30-2004, 05:51 PM

Try to look at the situation in other people's perspectives. That way, you will be able to weigh the pros and cons and hopefully come up with what you think is right.

Face (o_0) · 05-30-2004, 05:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Oracle Porn
I'll tell you how not to hadle "these items"

DON'T SMOKE CRACK!

stev0 · 05-30-2004, 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
You don't even know how to play yet.

StuartD · 05-30-2004, 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
How do you handle these times?

Va2k · 05-30-2004, 06:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AaronM
Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner and forced to make a decision. How do you handle these times?

Most people crumble.......I am NOT most people.

Only the strong survive.

This game is far from over....The future is clear.

Come at me.

I know what to do...But again I ask....How do you handle these times?

Hahah so true I know I use to hide in a pill bottle when ever shit like this happens IT DONT WORK lol

TOM

SlickRick · 05-30-2004, 06:19 PM

One of my sayings "if life was easy it would be boaring."

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AaronM Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: ┌∩┐ ◣_◢ ┌∩┐ Posts: 46,909	Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner...... Sometimes in life you are backed into a corner and forced to make a decision. How do you handle these times? Most people crumble.......I am NOT most people. Only the strong survive. This game is far from over....The future is clear. Come at me. I know what to do...But again I ask....How do you handle these times?

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Oracle Porn Affiliate Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Icq: 94-399-723 Posts: 24,433	I'll tell you how not to hadle "these items" DON'T SMOKE CRACK! __________________

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