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  • xxweekxx
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    • Oct 2002
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    #1

    is it possible for a girl to love you and still be with you for..[more inside]

    Is it possible for a girl to love you and still be with you for what you got...

    I know my gf Loves me a lot cuz shes always around me and she wants to know what im doing, when im doing, etc

    but i also feel if i was poor she wouldnt even be with me at all.. so is it possible for a girl to love you deeply and care about you, but still be with you cuz u got $$
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  • Freakster
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    • Jul 2002
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    #2
    no, gold digger.
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    • digifan
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      • Oct 2002
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      #3
      Spring is in the air... lol. You can test it only one way I think, tell her you went bankrupt and see if she loves you just the way you are and not for your money
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      • Illicit
        wtf ?
        • Dec 2003
        • 11895

        #4
        does she talk alot about money ? if you dont buy her things does she treat you the same ?
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        • James White
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          • Apr 2004
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          #5
          i hate that shit. it sucks
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          • xxweekxx
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            • Oct 2002
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            #6
            Well, she isnt rich or anything, probably got like $500 in her acct, just regular 18yr old, im 18 too btw-

            - She kinda expects me to buy shit for her
            - Everywhere we go, she has no money with her so i gotta pay
            - one time i told her i lost all my $ in stocks, and its like she just saw a ghost, she kinda frooze up..
            - Shes too pretty to be with me.lol unless im really good with ladies which i kinda am
            - She never talks about money
            - She asked me in the past how much i have in my acct, i didnt tell her tho
            - She wants me to buy her shit a lot.
            - SHes like buy this for me, buy me a laptop, etc, etc
            - I know she really loves me cuz she is possesive and she spends 15hrs/day with me
            - BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

            I dont know...
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            • buddyjuf

              #7
              if you feel that way about her, then money is definately a priority for her

              I mean she could love you and care for you and everything, but without the money, these feelings would be gone

              think of your money as a reason for her to love you, and it seems to work

              its not a BAD thing necessarily, as long as she does love you. right?

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              • Illicit
                wtf ?
                • Dec 2003
                • 11895

                #8
                Originally posted by xxweekxx
                Well, she isnt rich or anything, probably got like $500 in her acct, just regular 18yr old, im 18 too btw-

                - She kinda expects me to buy shit for her
                - Everywhere we go, she has no money with her so i gotta pay
                - one time i told her i lost all my $ in stocks, and its like she just saw a ghost, she kinda frooze up..
                - Shes too pretty to be with me.lol unless im really good with ladies which i kinda am
                - She never talks about money
                - She asked me in the past how much i have in my acct, i didnt tell her tho
                - She wants me to buy her shit a lot.
                - SHes like buy this for me, buy me a laptop, etc, etc
                - I know she really loves me cuz she is possesive and she spends 15hrs/day with me
                - BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

                I dont know...

                get rid of the bitch... correction, tell her if she cares she will prove it and give up the pussy... then get rid of her
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                • xxweekxx
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                  • Oct 2002
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                  #9
                  Originally posted by bdjuf
                  if you feel that way about her, then money is definately a priority for her

                  I mean she could love you and care for you and everything, but without the money, these feelings would be gone

                  think of your money as a reason for her to love you, and it seems to work

                  its not a BAD thing necessarily, as long as she does love you. right?

                  could be poor anyday. want someone who really loves me for me..

                  by the way the girl is pretty and a big attention whore.. wants all guys to notice her and love her
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                  • SleazyDream
                    I'm here for SPORT
                    • Jul 2001
                    • 41470

                    #10
                    nope
                    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                    Now read without the word dog.

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                    • mrthumbs
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                      • Apr 2002
                      • 11702

                      #11
                      i guess youre just dating a typical female. i dont see the problem.

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                      • xxweekxx
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                        • Oct 2002
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                        #12
                        problem is ex gf never asked for shit.. This one does ask for shit and never offers to pay for anything..

                        One time we went to COMPUSA and she was like begging me to buy a $2200 laptop for her.. wtf?

                        also, she doesnt like me talking to any other girls, etc

                        i dont know its just weird
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                        • xxweekxx
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                          • Oct 2002
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                          #13
                          and oh yeah, she doesnt realize the fact that my pc pays for all the shit i got her before..

                          She hates it when im on the pc and not with her..

                          She wants me to spend 24hrs/day with her..grr
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                          • mrthumbs
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                            • Apr 2002
                            • 11702

                            #14
                            Originally posted by xxweekxx
                            and oh yeah, she doesnt realize the fact that my pc pays for all the shit i got her before..

                            She hates it when im on the pc and not with her..

                            She wants me to spend 24hrs/day with her..grr
                            hahaha.. dude.. trust me: its all very common and typical
                            : nothing new here.

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                            • xxweekxx
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                              • Oct 2002
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                              #15
                              GRRRRRRRRRRRRR she still keeps iming and calling. im fucking tired..

                              I just want one day freedom..

                              32 missed calls today..(from her)
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                              • zubr
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                                #16
                                how much do you spend on her in a month??
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                                • zubr
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                                  #17
                                  post pics
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                                  • xxweekxx
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                                    #18
                                    a month.. not sure.. ive spent about $1k on her since march
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                                    • zubr
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                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                      a month.. not sure.. ive spent about $1k on her since march
                                      dude... cant call her a gold digger over 1k...
                                      she just needs a little attention... just show her you are only willing to go as far as it is reasonable.. like paying for her lunch, not like buying her laptops ")
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                                      • buddyjuf

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by zubr
                                        dude... cant call her a gold digger over 1k...
                                        she just needs a little attention... just show her you are only willing to go as far as it is reasonable.. like paying for her lunch, not like buying her laptops ")
                                        aye

                                        maybe youre just being paranoid about this cuz you love her so much?

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                                        • newsdude
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                                          #21
                                          Try to limit your expenses on her. Tell her you're saving for something big. See if she sticks with you thru that.
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                                          • Ic3m4nZ
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                                            • Aug 2003
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                                            #22
                                            There's good chances it's for money because almost all girls in 2004 it's for that if they come see you. And now today some bitches will even only stay with you for your car.

                                            And jesus fucking christ I'd dump that immediatly if some slut would call me 32 times in a day that's just wrong!

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                                            • StRoGE
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                                              • Mar 2004
                                              • 1713

                                              #23
                                              I have to agree, it seems like theres more issues than just your money. Bitch is crazy! j/k
                                              Next time she wants to go out for dinner or lunch or whatever just tell her you cant because your broke. See if SHE will actually pay.
                                              Honestly, I've been where you are. I was able to work my way out of it (the situation AND the relationship) and ended up with a damn good friend because of it. Maybe thats something you should consider with this girl, just being friends. Go find someone else thats going to treat YOU good too. It feels great when the girl your with buys you something once in a while too, even if its just a drink or two. Trust me. Relationships wont succeed unless theres atleast a little equality.
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                                              • blonde_8420001
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                                                • Apr 2004
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                                                #24
                                                It depends on your situation.
                                                If you are living together and your money is shared, she may just be very spoilt and is so use to gettting things handed to her, she doesnt think anything of it.
                                                Since she doesnt know how much is in your bank account, I assume this isnt the case. She is 18, you are 18!! You not gonna marry the girl are you? So dump her ass. Dating was creating to learn how to interact in a relationship for when you find you future partner, and to find your future partner. If you do not see a future in it, why stay together. To have someone to talk to once in a while?!?! Get a dog :P
                                                She isnt even putting out, so its not like you are keeping her around for a purely physical relationship.
                                                As far as her possessiveness goes, that doesnt mean she loves you. It means somewhere, somehow, she hates herself! End of story, he has issues of insecurity.
                                                Sorry to be so blunt, but no point in saying it nicely, women arent nice.
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                                                • wdsguy
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                                                  • Dec 2002
                                                  • 19568

                                                  #25
                                                  nope if she really loves u she don't care bout the cash

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                                                  • sexyclicks
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                                                    • Mar 2002
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                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                    BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

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                                                    • tical
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                                                      • Feb 2002
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                                                      #27
                                                      damn you're getting played
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                                                      • AvanteGuard
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                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by tical
                                                        damn you're getting played
                                                        I just got out of that....toughest situation of my life.
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                                                        • stev0
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                                                          #29
                                                          make her buy her own shit... pay for her own meals, etc...

                                                          if she sticks around, you'll know.

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                                                          • Oracle Porn
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                                                            • 24433

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                            Well, she isnt rich or anything, probably got like $500 in her acct, just regular 18yr old, im 18 too btw-

                                                            - She kinda expects me to buy shit for her
                                                            - Everywhere we go, she has no money with her so i gotta pay
                                                            - one time i told her i lost all my $ in stocks, and its like she just saw a ghost, she kinda frooze up..
                                                            - Shes too pretty to be with me.lol unless im really good with ladies which i kinda am
                                                            - She never talks about money
                                                            - She asked me in the past how much i have in my acct, i didnt tell her tho
                                                            - She wants me to buy her shit a lot.
                                                            - SHes like buy this for me, buy me a laptop, etc, etc
                                                            - I know she really loves me cuz she is possesive and she spends 15hrs/day with me
                                                            - BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

                                                            I dont know...
                                                            you are being own3d


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                                                            • xxweekxx
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by Oracle Porn
                                                              you are being own3d

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                                                              • Oracle Porn
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                                                                #32
                                                                i broke up with my gf a few days ago... no we are friends with benefits... this shit couldn't of got any better

                                                                edit: and she, unlike your gf, wanted to give me back the $50 that I spent to buy her jeans... i didnt take it (duh)
                                                                Last edited by Oracle Porn; 05-09-2004, 09:11 PM.


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                                                                • beergood
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  Toss her out and fuck a club slut every now and then. Why the fuck do people always think they've got to have some bitch riding their back like a rabid chimp
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                                                                  • xxweekxx
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by beergood
                                                                    Toss her out and fuck a club slut every now and then. Why the fuck do people always think they've got to have some bitch riding their back like a rabid chimp
                                                                    its good to have someone to cuddle with.
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                                                                    • Oracle Porn
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                      its good to have someone to cuddle with.
                                                                      pay me ill cuddle with you.


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                                                                      • EviLGuY
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                                                                        • Apr 2003
                                                                        • 12745

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                        Is it possible for a girl to love you and still be with you for what you got...

                                                                        I know my gf Loves me a lot cuz shes always around me and she wants to know what im doing, when im doing, etc

                                                                        but i also feel if i was poor she wouldnt even be with me at all.. so is it possible for a girl to love you deeply and care about you, but still be with you cuz u got $$
                                                                        Thats a fucked up place to be relationshipwise. If this really bugs you.. why don't you play a little mindgame, throw a scare into her and make her believe you might be losing all your $$$?

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                                                                        • SykkBoy2
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                                                                          • Feb 2001
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          I guess I'm lucky that I've been with the same woman over 13 years now and she was with me when I had absolutely nothing and with me when I was making a healthy 6 figures per year and stuck with me through more down times after that, etc. She's been there for me through thick and thin, when I was going through my health problems and continues to be there for me.
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                                                                          • zubr
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                                                                            • Jan 2002
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by Oracle Porn
                                                                            pay me ill cuddle with you.
                                                                            hahah i might consider that too...just say how much you'd pay
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                                                                            • xxweekxx
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              lol
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                                                                              • StRoGE
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                                its good to have someone to cuddle with.
                                                                                Cuddling is only fun when your getting laid in between.
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                                                                                • zzgundamnzz
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                                  Well, she isnt rich or anything, probably got like $500 in her acct, just regular 18yr old, im 18 too btw-

                                                                                  - She kinda expects me to buy shit for her
                                                                                  - Everywhere we go, she has no money with her so i gotta pay
                                                                                  - one time i told her i lost all my $ in stocks, and its like she just saw a ghost, she kinda frooze up..
                                                                                  - Shes too pretty to be with me.lol unless im really good with ladies which i kinda am
                                                                                  - She never talks about money
                                                                                  - She asked me in the past how much i have in my acct, i didnt tell her tho
                                                                                  - She wants me to buy her shit a lot.
                                                                                  - SHes like buy this for me, buy me a laptop, etc, etc
                                                                                  - I know she really loves me cuz she is possesive and she spends 15hrs/day with me
                                                                                  - BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

                                                                                  I dont know...
                                                                                  She's completly owning you.

                                                                                  Its like your her sugar daddy except she doesn't even have to

                                                                                  put out... its sad.


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                                                                                  • riosluts
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                                                                                    • Sep 2003
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by digifan
                                                                                    Spring is in the air... lol. You can test it only one way I think, tell her you went bankrupt and see if she loves you just the way you are and not for your money
                                                                                    haha yeah do what he said. You really dont want to be with someone who only loves you for your $

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                                                                                    • SuckOnThis
                                                                                      So Fucking Banned
                                                                                      • Oct 2003
                                                                                      • 6844

                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      You already know the answer to your own question.

                                                                                      Anytime some bitch is begging you to buy her a $2200 laptop she doesnt give two shits about you and has zero respect for you. You think she loves you because she is possessive? Its not because she loves you, its because she can control you and she knows it. Tell her to hit the road.

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                                                                                      • strats
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                                                                                        • Feb 2004
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        dunno, I dunno .. 1k is alot if your 18 and not making alot of money I imagine.....


                                                                                        ..... I dunno if 1k is alot for you. I think it is?


                                                                                        Although, I would rather you kcik her to the curb than she leaving taking your life force with her. boot the bitch.

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                                                                                        • riosluts
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          hey xxweekxx

                                                                                          how long have you two been dating. a little or a lot

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                                                                                          • xxweekxx
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            about 3months
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                                                                                            • pure energy
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                                              Well, she isnt rich or anything, probably got like $500 in her acct, just regular 18yr old, im 18 too btw-

                                                                                              - She kinda expects me to buy shit for her
                                                                                              - Everywhere we go, she has no money with her so i gotta pay
                                                                                              - one time i told her i lost all my $ in stocks, and its like she just saw a ghost, she kinda frooze up..
                                                                                              - She never talks about money
                                                                                              - She asked me in the past how much i have in my acct, i didnt tell her tho
                                                                                              - She wants me to buy her shit a lot.
                                                                                              - SHes like buy this for me, buy me a laptop, etc, etc
                                                                                              - I know she really loves me cuz she is possesive and she spends 15hrs/day with me
                                                                                              - BTW she doesnt fuck(claims she is a virgin)

                                                                                              I dont know...

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                                                                                              • strats
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                                                                                                • Feb 2004
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                I really duno . 8)

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                                                                                                • riosluts
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                                                                                                  • Sep 2003
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Originally posted by xxweekxx
                                                                                                  about 3months
                                                                                                  hmm. I dont really know. Paying for dinner or a movie. Or buying her a cd or flowers, doesnt imply she is using you. But asking for a $2.2K laptop then that raises a few questions. Maybe she was just kidding about you getting her the laptop.

                                                                                                  If I were you, I would stop buying her anything pricey. Pay for a movie pass or dinner or even an ice cream, but thats it. See how see reacts. This is an important step because you can save yourself alot of time (and $) and find out if she really cares for you.

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                                                                                                  • graphicsbytia
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                                                                                                    • Sep 2003
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                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    you say she wants to be with you when you don't want to be with her

                                                                                                    you say she is pretty and you're not good looking

                                                                                                    you wonder if she really wants to be with you


                                                                                                    Here's my advice to you.. think about whether or not you want to be with her or not.. nevermind what she thinks

                                                                                                    you're young, there'll be lots more girls for you, don't tie yourself down to someone you find yourself not wanting to be with

                                                                                                    and as far as the money thing goes.. you set the rules about your own money.. if she doesn't like that .. tough

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