Sigh. Anybody who's trained in any sort of fighting style at all, knows that it's about 10% phsyical and 90% mental.

Boxxing isn't being dominated by 18 year olds. There's a reason for that.

you guys definetly care about him so it makes it even harder.

It would be hard and also incorrect to just boot him out if he isn't financially stable.

It would be correct to provide financial security (car, cash for rent, gas, phone, etc ) While kicking him out of the house. Say invest 20,000$ into him upfront.


and maybe hahahahaha out something with phone numbers on them (i.e. good insurance company for car insurance, state office for food stamps) stuff like that.

First tho, I'de hahahahaha out my plan and give it to him saying exactly my plan (i.e. blablabla, bla) then go look at places (alone, not with the wife) that could be for rent and that he might like. Also take a look at some semi out of town places with nice atmosphere. Take pictures of the places, hahahahaha their phone numbers under them and their adresses. give him 10,000$ cash, a 6,000$ mercedes the pics of the 25 or so places you looked at, a map, and tell him to get the fuck out.

Because older boxers have been boxing longer than 18 year old fighters, this does not apply to average people

Phsychial and Mental are definately key, but how about SPEED? Yeah buddy, who's faster a middle aged man or an 18 year old kid born in the 80's and raised surrounded by violence and cold heartedness

From reading this thread its easy to point out the guys under 30 that havent grown a brain yet.

how do you figure? im 18... i didnt suggest anything wrong...

Actually seems your the "tough guy" tough guy, posting here was a way to NOT go down and knock him the fuck out...which is what my instincts were saying.

21 is far from prime when your talkin about fighting, but to sum up your answer.

posting here makes you think IM a tough guy
you think hed kick my ass for some reason unknown
you think you can take a grown man
you say he needs a baseball bat to the knees

So..whose the keyboard warrior here?

I handled the situation and i know it wont ever happen again in my house or to my wife. And no-one got puched out

Im no fighter but im a 6' 235 pounds of workin man, who loves his wife and in the best shape of my life. He was smart and left without pipin off anymore, maybe he isnt so dumb

reread my post man... i said the guys that havent grown a brain yet. Some obviously mature sooner than others.

My impression is that the kid does not live there. So they would not be "booting him out" on the street.

But, even if he did live there, I'll be damed if I would set that little fucker up with ANY of the shit you suggested.

His mom is the problem. If my kids EVER talked to me like that, *I* would throw them out, no husband needed for that.

in all my years i've only known white kids to cuss out their moms, you betta show that punk some respect, his moms would like that..any male that cuss out his moms needs an ass wupping..punk ass bitch

50 pissed off dads :)


well glad you handled it well, no need to go into detail for us all man... your work was done and im guessing it ended good being you are here posting and not being locked up... tell your wife all at GFY says to have a wonderful rest of mothers day... go pick her up some more flowers bro.

goin for dinner then tossing the kids to bed early!

I'll try to turn the day golden somehow!..lol

Don't go and cause shit on mothers day because you don;t like something. If anything.. have a little chat with him and keep it civil. :2 cents:

Tell him you job is make sure your wife is respected.

lol... O U C H :1orglaugh :1orglaugh

Slap the little fuck around a few times.

ouch is right holy shiet!

You need to sit his ass down and talk to him....

Man to Man...


Something like this:
"You are not a young boy anymore.
You are now a man.

Show your mother some respect.
Never call a woman a hahahaha - ever.
By having this conversation instead of beating your ass, I am showing you respect and treating you like a man.

If I ever hear you disrespect my wife again, I will treat you like a man and beat your ass.

Think about it.
"

kick the little shit out, let him live on his own for awhile

beat the shit out of him

great advice! You must be a salesman or a lawyer!

I think you handled it spot on. If you had raised your hand to him it would be you responsible for fucking up mothers day. Taking the wife out for dinner was a good move too.

I hope your wife appreciates what you're doing. :thumbsup

I'm 25 and although my father never even yelled at me, I KNOW that if I ever (not even talking about mothersday) spoke to my mother like that I'm going to get my ass kicked. And if it wasn't that way, well, I'd probably hate my father for it.

Lets face it nothing good to come from a 21 year old that can't even respect the woman that put him on this earth.