You have a good point, and I see what you mean, but I don't think it is meant to have that type of effect. The women who have taken care of themselves on this board will continue to do so, without crying to Lensman at every comment (I know this doesn't change how I will post). However, it should protect the new girls that are here for Miss GFY, or are not used to this type of board interaction, and were getting attacked just for being a new female or "not enough of a webmistress". I'm not saying they should get their asses kissed, and if a girl starts shit, she better be able to finish it herself. However, no one should get bashed just for walking in the door. If we scare them all away now, the amount of women posters does not grow. If they all get to post like everyone else, then the board topics and overall vibe will weed out most of the girls who may not fit, and we end up with a few new businesswomen posters. :2 cents: :)


Edit: 100 good girls and boys.

Gee no one would hassle a girl posting nude pics of herself on an adult webmaster board...right? :)

Lens....I love it when you lay the SMACKDOWN!!!:winkwink:

Big kisses to Eric and Loryn too...you all rock!

Woah! now the ladies got what they really
deserve! Respect!:thumbsup

he is a good guy......
























sometimes:winkwink:

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dude plz :1orglaugh

I must say I agree with graphicsbytia on this one. If the woman can't "handle" GFY, then she certainly should BE Miss GFY. While I do agree that some of these guys are really rude assholes, it IS a messageboard.

Just my :2 cents:

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Glad fucking is still allowed though. :Graucho

I meant SHOULDN'T be Miss GFY.:winkwink:

Nice :thumbsup

That sentence right there needs to be underlined.... twice. I've been saying this for years now.

Poking fun at someone or even some light arguing isn't anything out of line, but it's the "shut up you stupid c**t" or "she's fucking ugly" (complete with puke smiley) comments that make me want to bitchslap a few of the ignorant dipshits here.


This is a contest, there is a lot riding on it for everyone, so no one needs to hear your ignorant dumbass comments or opinion. If you have to slam someone at least have some tact about it. If you don't know what tact is look it up in the dictionary. If you don't know what a dictionary is then go to your parents and slap them both for not using birth control.


Thank you.

what about the men CD? What's wrong with just saying that hate posts will get you banned? Why single out the women?

and God talks.. I like God

Sure, when the men go up on display for a contest then absolutely this same rule should apply.


And I've been an advocate of general board tactfulness since day one. I can piss with anyone and I do tend to give what I get..... and have no problem with a good pissing match.... but this is a contest, for the ladies. I think in this case a little warning about having some tact is in order, because some of the out of control grown up children here need to hear it. I'm sure some of them won't be able to resist their own big mouths and they will end up getting banned.

I have no problem with that.

Thank Lensman... in the name of all girls posting here.
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Hey crazy naked chick, I am working on some prtfolio shoots nbow, and am waiting on other pics. I will also have pics from a catfight I am doing in May. I am fighting some chick who is about my size but has no idea what is coming to her.

I love it.


I agree that if you can't handle the banter, and the rudeness of some members without sobbing to the mods you shouldn't be in the contest. Its kinda lame to even hear someone is bitching.

The only time I would say it was ok to bitch would be if you really feel threatened by them, like they know where you sleep and stalk you in the night.

ok, the contest being a separate issue.. I totally agree with you on that. But I have to wonder what happens to these people when the contest is over and they stop getting special treatment.. assuming they stay as regular posters.. do things go back to normal..

good points though, I do agree with you

Time to do some spring cleaning :BangBang:

This rule might not be so funny if GFY wasn't a board where racism, gay bashing, jew hating, and just about everything else has been allowed in the past.

Why are women assumed to not be able to take care of themselves so a man has to protect them, but almost every other group can be attacked without fear?

I just hope we don't ever have to hear complaints about "political correctness" anymore from anyone supporting this rule. :1orglaugh

bitchin'! good luck with the move, i live in BFE Michigan so i know where you are coming from.

heheh, if we ever run into each other at one of the conventions etc i might just be forced to grapple with you, you're just about my size and it sounds like you're just as tough. :winkwink:

I was gonna say, I don't think you, Elli, or a few other of the girls that are regulars have to worry too much about crying to Lens, you GET that it's just a forum, and water off a duck's back kind of thing. The girls kind of have to be rugged like that to survive here with any amount of respect. The girls who do, generally don't have much trouble anymore after a while. Mostly, it's the newer girls that get a rough time, but if they can't take it, they probably never will be able to.

Cheers :glugglug to all the gfy women, much respect!

I don't see how girls who post naked pics of themselves everywhere could be offended by anything, I mean really your pussy is on the internet for all to see, and you expect guys to be reserved and polite?

HA!!!!!!!!

Does this mean that I have to offer the ladies my $8 whoring services for free???

How about stunt cocks? People always bashing the stunt cocks... I'm a stand-up pussy hammer. Everyone is always calling me unethical for picking up a camera & becoming a producer. That hurts my feelings... I'm a sensitive manwhore - you bitches!!!

I'm sure it will go back to normal soon after, but you must remember..... I'm talking about the extreme cases of pure gutter ignorance that goes on sometimes. I personally don't see where it's a problem if a legitimate argument breaks out on any thread, but I do have a problem when say, one of the contestants post a pic and then some lameass shithead comes on and completely trashes her. It's juvenile, it's hurtful, and if he did that at a party in person someone like me would put him through the fucking wall in about 3 seconds. Why should they get away with it just because they think they're "safe" behind their little keyboard and anon nick?


People just need to focus on what they DO like, and forget about feeding their need to run down the ones they don't find attractive. There's a huge difference between saying "she's not my cup of tea" as opposed to saying something like "What an ugly tw*t!" and the like.

There is a lot more riding on a contest like this than what most people realize. I'm sure Lensman is expecting a good turnout of new faces, industry people who haven't yet checked out GFY but will come for the contest etc. It would be nice to not have all those people completely alienated but rather the contest be fun and well-run and enjoyed by all. That would actually attract more quality posters who are actual adult industry types.

I'm quite sure that publicity is definitely part of the goal for holding such a contest.

good move

oh, I will be thanking you all night long Lens:Graucho

Good on ya Lensman. Ladies should be treated with nothing but respect.

Good luck to every woman competing in the Miss GFY contest!

You can't be serious.

I agree also. :)

good shit :thumbsup

you are of course right.. it would be nice.. but would it be profitable.. I find myself coming back to gfy and posting more readily that on any other board, posting on the others is a chore.. posting here is fun..

I've asked myself why it's fun.. it's not because I learn anything, or even that there are more posters here than almost anywhere else on the net.. If I'm honest about the reason, it's got to be because of the constant drama, and let's face it, there wouldn't be as much if it weren't for the idiot posts that fodder the drama. Without them, it would be just like any other board where there are informative and intelligent posts by "quality posters".

Gfy is unique, it's like sitting ringside at a demolition derby. Take that away, and it's just another board

no comment, good luck everyone

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Agree! It's GFY, if you can't take critism now never will.

He's just a newb and when lens will see this he'll probably ban anyawys

That's a woman who said that, Dre. That's why I'm biting my tongue.

aww.. she's probably just jealous Elli, don't pay any attention to her

i'm trying to figure her out too, hahaha. it was all good up until she said that. :winkwink:

1st off i respect all chicks, but to say 'you can't do this or that' you need to change the board name....most of the things the alleged 'kids' do to the chicks is sometimes off the wall, but this is GFY. I dunno where this is headed.

I'm going to hold myself back and not go off on a tirade, but I think this needs to be said. I run into this attitude primarily from Americans in the southern states. Not sure why, that's just where they tend to come from.

Whether my site is a hobby or a job, it has no bearing on the respect I deserve. It's not illegal. I don't degrade myself on it (quite the opposite, actually). I do it because I enjoy it. If I didn't want to do it, I simply wouldn't. End of story. I demand just as respect knowing I run my site as I would if I didn't.

Does a garbage man deserve any less respect than an accountant? No, at least not in my mind.

The day someone comes up to me and tells me I don't deserve respect because I've decided to pose nude is the day I get offended. That's just the way it is.

And it's NOT easy to offend me.

Originally posted by jennym:

I must say I agree with graphicsbytia on this one. If the woman can't "handle" GFY, then she certainly should BE Miss GFY. While I do agree that some of these guys are really rude assholes, it IS a messageboard.

Just my :2 cents:


I'm with you 100%, what about the guy's who are mean to us girl's that didn't enter the Ms. GFY, can you ban them also?

:)

Cant we all just get along ?.....

Some people just dont get what it means to be cool

That's realy nice Lens we support your efforts :winkwink:

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my comedian buddy joe said something once i'll never forget: People doing what they like isn't humiliating, no matter what it is as long as they truly enjoy doing it. Donald Trump working the drive through at McDonald's......now that would be humiliating.

this new rule will be abused by the likes of heather scamtons:2 cents:

Elli -
I think you probably misunderstood Wrestlingdiva. She said she can't believe you would be OFFENDED. Not that you don't deserve respect. If my puss was posted on the web, I would expect crude comments from some people (children). I think her point was just that you shouldn't take offense. :)

Yeah I don't blame you Elli. That's like people saying that you don't deserve respect because you're born naked. Well sure, when you're born you don't have a choice, but it's no less normal and natural. It's only dumb society that has made it taboo or unacceptable to be in our natural states. In Europe they tend to be more open, but it's like a primitive backwater in the west sometimes.

What about the guy's who are mean to us girl's that didn't enter the Ms. GFY, can you ban them also?