stand your ground and dont let her come back

Congrats, your back on the market now I guess!:thumbsup

u suck because u married her, u obviously knew her long enough to know she is to big of a bitch to marry and spend more than 1 hour with let alone be wiht forever. u should b desperate because u will spend the next year thinking of wat went wrong and how you could have made up for a "missunderstanding" between the 2 of u.

I FEEL YOUR PAIN.

I don't know you... but I've been there, and I know the mixed emotions - they aren't over.

I was married for 16 years. It took three after the divorce to find someone, I lived with her for 4 years, and she passed away.

That was about 4 years ago.

All I can say is it just takes time, and a few friends.

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Best response of all.

Many separations don't end in divorce, but instead, in a better understanding of what you'd be giving up and how good you had it. You get time to see what an unbending jerk you were being and she gets time to see what a pissy bitch she was being.

Hopefully this is how it'll be for you guys; you'll come back together a little more humble and far more willing to be a team rather than two individuals living in the same house fighting for control.

Best of luck to you both.

that's why i dont want to marry.

Things that happen, be strong and go ahead

Ditto :thumbsup

We r not officialy terminated.. I guess, but I don't see things progressing... it wasn't healthy to be together at least not for now.. but we'll see time will tell...

Pat I thought about it before posting... I know u know this by experince, but I couldn't resist, I wanted some kinda of advice :)

I feel you bro! My wife and I went through that but we couldn't stand being apart since she is my BEST FRIEND (and having 6 kids doesn't help, either...lol) but we came back together a couple weeks later!